I am mean, and I don't make any friend requests
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I too fear rejection
I don't get the fear of rejection. Also, I don't get when someone FRs me and then I accept, and they are responding with "Whew. You accepted me. I wanted to send this a long time ago, but you intimidated me."
I really don't get that. I am far from initimidating in my eyes. I like all kinds of people, and as long as I get some kind of message, or I know you from a friend's wall, or the forums, you're gonna get accepted. I even say as much on my profile.
I get told that I am intimidating a lot as well. Which I don't get because I am very easy going.0 -
I prefer to stalk until they send me the request. It's more effort, but it makes them think it was their idea.0
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I too fear rejection
I don't get the fear of rejection. Also, I don't get when someone FRs me and then I accept, and they are responding with "Whew. You accepted me. I wanted to send this a long time ago, but you intimidated me."
I really don't get that. I am far from initimidating in my eyes. I like all kinds of people, and as long as I get some kind of message, or I know you from a friend's wall, or the forums, you're gonna get accepted. I even say as much on my profile.
did you tell stories about younger days? i would've been intimidated by that if i hadnt been there done that as well.
Most claim it was my non-smiling profile pics. I apparently look like an axe murderer or something.0 -
I too fear rejection
I don't get the fear of rejection. Also, I don't get when someone FRs me and then I accept, and they are responding with "Whew. You accepted me. I wanted to send this a long time ago, but you intimidated me."
I really don't get that. I am far from initimidating in my eyes. I like all kinds of people, and as long as I get some kind of message, or I know you from a friend's wall, or the forums, you're gonna get accepted. I even say as much on my profile.
But...the title of this post begins, "I am mean..."
Shhh. It's my public persona that's mean. I fail there a lot too though.0 -
I too fear rejection
would not reject/10
what about me?
nah brah, would not reject
nohomo
I never reject any friend requests, because it's funny seeing the reactions of people that view my food logs
Why do some people feel the need to write nohomo?
I don't get it.
Me either. nohetero0 -
:flowerforyou:0
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I fear the reaper.
I don't
Nor do the wind nor the sun or the rain. We can be like they are.0 -
I too fear rejection
I don't get the fear of rejection. Also, I don't get when someone FRs me and then I accept, and they are responding with "Whew. You accepted me. I wanted to send this a long time ago, but you intimidated me."
I really don't get that. I am far from initimidating in my eyes. I like all kinds of people, and as long as I get some kind of message, or I know you from a friend's wall, or the forums, you're gonna get accepted. I even say as much on my profile.
I get told that I am intimidating a lot as well. Which I don't get because I am very easy going.
You're one of the cool kids. Maybe, that's why.0 -
I too fear rejection
I don't get the fear of rejection. Also, I don't get when someone FRs me and then I accept, and they are responding with "Whew. You accepted me. I wanted to send this a long time ago, but you intimidated me."
I really don't get that. I am far from initimidating in my eyes. I like all kinds of people, and as long as I get some kind of message, or I know you from a friend's wall, or the forums, you're gonna get accepted. I even say as much on my profile.
I get told that I am intimidating a lot as well. Which I don't get because I am very easy going.
You're one of the cool kids. Maybe, that's why.
Which I don't understand either. I have my funny moments, but sometimes I even annoy myself.0 -
I too fear rejection
would not reject/10
what about me?
nah brah, would not reject
nohomo
I never reject any friend requests, because it's funny seeing the reactions of people that view my food logs
Why do some people feel the need to write nohomo?
I don't get it.
Yeah, why not no skim? Or no 2%?0 -
I too fear rejection
would not reject/10
what about me?
nah brah, would not reject
nohomo
I never reject any friend requests, because it's funny seeing the reactions of people that view my food logs
Why do some people feel the need to write nohomo?
I don't get it.
Yeah, why not no skim? Or no 2%?
I'm with all of the above. UGH. Milk makes me wanna puke.0 -
What kind of principle does not sending out friend requests follow
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Nevermind, I get it. Very funny, OP. ;]0 -
must thank the op for this thread, as it did provide new stalking material. :flowerforyou:0
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I'm pretty mean because I never ever send out friend requests dawgs. It's not that I don't like people. I love everyone on my FL. I just don't do it as a matter of principle.
I will accept most FRs I receive. If it comes from a topless cat, or a bottomless dawg, it doesn't matter to me. Just don't expect me to jump out there and make the first move. That doesn't motivate me.
Now I have to FR you, I just saw the alter-ego to this post that seems to have come first and totally get it LOL! You Sir, ROCK - Please stay the mean self that you are.0 -
It is a bit mean.
I hate sending FRs and will only do it if I think the person is truly awesome. Happily most of the time my instincts have been right about that. :flowerforyou:
Oddly, the only people who have rejected my FRs so far have been other women. I find that surprising.0 -
I don't get friend requests because nobody likes me.
Could have something to do with that scary profile pic...just sayin' :-D0 -
I have been here about two months and de-friended only one person because he had lost his weight and really just wanted to drive traffic to his site.
Ugh, no thanks - I feel SOOOOO special.0 -
What kind of principle does not sending out friend requests follow
t's a principle. Just accept it. No questioning.0 -
I neither send them or accept them. Does that make me double-mean?0
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It is a bit mean.
I hate sending FRs and will only do it if I think the person is truly awesome. Happily most of the time my instincts have been right about that. :flowerforyou:
Oddly, the only people who have rejected my FRs so far have been other women. I find that surprising.
I accepted you in pretty short order if i remember correctly. One of the best decisions I ever made too.0
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