If you had to be unhappy
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Tankiscool wrote: »r3d_butt3rfly_ wrote: »Nerdswrkout2_1978 wrote: »If your unhappy both ways...pick married! Then you can at least split the bills and you get tax breaks! Who knows? Maybe you’ll grow tolerate each other.
Unhappy and single is not fun...even if it is for the best.
You are so smart!
I choose married and unhappy. Dat tax return...
Yeah but at that point it be an agreed arrangement, so you'd be happy and that's not the point
Dammit! Good point!2 -
Married only because I hate cleaning toilets.3
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RomaineCalm wrote: »Married only because I hate cleaning toilets.
2nded that and laundry sucks too2 -
RomaineCalm wrote: »Married only because I hate cleaning toilets.
No one likes cleaning toilets mannnn1 -
Tankiscool wrote: »Keep_on_cardio wrote: »Tankiscool wrote: »JustPassingTime wrote: »JustPassingTime wrote: »Lol @newmeadow I know what you're doing. You're trying to see who are the unhappy married people for ammo on a debate or something 🤣🤣🤣
You're ever so jaded my dear.
Lmaooo! But being unhappy either married or single it's the same feeling I would think.
Married and unhappy = not getting any
Single and unhappy = you are doing something wrong
🤷🏻♀️ you can be unhappy/married and still do the THANG.. dang.. lol.. not a freaking monastery.
You can still do the THANG but at the end you can't be like " I'll call you an uber" so disappointed afterwards anyways if you're married 😂
🤣🤣🤣 well there’s always a couch, to pretend it’s an Uber. You’re halfway away 😆2 -
Tankiscool wrote: »r3d_butt3rfly_ wrote: »Nerdswrkout2_1978 wrote: »If your unhappy both ways...pick married! Then you can at least split the bills and you get tax breaks! Who knows? Maybe you’ll grow tolerate each other.
Unhappy and single is not fun...even if it is for the best.
You are so smart!
I choose married and unhappy. Dat tax return...
Yeah but at that point it be an agreed arrangement, so you'd be happy and that's not the point
And if one isn’t in agreement, can be hell of a divorce 🤷🏻♀️1 -
Experience both vicariously, be neither0
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FeelinFooFoo wrote: »I think if I was gona be unhappy anyway then I would do it with somebody.
A problem shared is a problem halved after all. We could be unhappy together. Or we might end up making each other happy....
Id take the chance on that.
Great perspective! Misery loves company!1 -
FeelinFooFoo wrote: »Nerdswrkout2_1978 wrote: »FeelinFooFoo wrote: »I think if I was gona be unhappy anyway then I would do it with somebody.
A problem shared is a problem halved after all. We could be unhappy together. Or we might end up making each other happy....
Id take the chance on that.
Great perspective! Misery loves company!
The only way it wouldn't work this way, id imagine, was if the other person actually compounded your unhappiness.
Like they were a total douch bag.
In which case I may venture out alone.
or if you were so unhappy you infected your partner with your misery. and then there were two.0 -
FeelinFooFoo wrote: »your_future_ex_wife wrote: »FeelinFooFoo wrote: »Nerdswrkout2_1978 wrote: »FeelinFooFoo wrote: »I think if I was gona be unhappy anyway then I would do it with somebody.
A problem shared is a problem halved after all. We could be unhappy together. Or we might end up making each other happy....
Id take the chance on that.
Great perspective! Misery loves company!
The only way it wouldn't work this way, id imagine, was if the other person actually compounded your unhappiness.
Like they were a total douch bag.
In which case I may venture out alone.
or if you were so unhappy you infected your partner with your misery. and then there were two.
Double trouble 😱
The gruesome twosome, as we would be known to other couples. The couple who, if they smiled, thier whole face would crack.
quit making me laugh 😂❤️1 -
caco_ethes wrote: »So all y’all can dish your own ice cream? That’s bullshrimp
“Scoop” seems to fit so much better here. 😘2 -
FeelinFooFoo wrote: »Nerdswrkout2_1978 wrote: »FeelinFooFoo wrote: »I think if I was gona be unhappy anyway then I would do it with somebody.
A problem shared is a problem halved after all. We could be unhappy together. Or we might end up making each other happy....
Id take the chance on that.
Great perspective! Misery loves company!
The only way it wouldn't work this way, id imagine, was if the other person actually compounded your unhappiness.
Like they were a total douch bag.
In which case I may venture out alone.
Single. Bc I had this and if I had it again I'd be unhappy and in jail. LOL.2 -
Single. I wouldn't want to drag someone I care about down.2
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If the source of my unhappiness was the other person, i would say single. But, if it was just unhappiness unrelated to my spouse? I would say married. Unhappiness is never permanent.0
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no man will determine my happiness.
sorry im a misery
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kinetixtrainer2 wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »So all y’all can dish your own ice cream? That’s bullshrimp
“Scoop” seems to fit so much better here. 😘
Don’t foist synonyms at me1 -
caco_ethes wrote: »kinetixtrainer2 wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »So all y’all can dish your own ice cream? That’s bullshrimp
“Scoop” seems to fit so much better here. 😘
Don’t foist synonyms at me
But could he thrust them?
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RomaineCalm wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »kinetixtrainer2 wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »So all y’all can dish your own ice cream? That’s bullshrimp
“Scoop” seems to fit so much better here. 😘
Don’t foist synonyms at me
But could he thrust them?
What inducement necessitates you to importune by and by the most wantingWhy do you insist on being the worst?1 -
caco_ethes wrote: »RomaineCalm wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »kinetixtrainer2 wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »So all y’all can dish your own ice cream? That’s bullshrimp
“Scoop” seems to fit so much better here. 😘
Don’t foist synonyms at me
But could he thrust them?
What inducement necessitates you to importune by and by the most wantingWhy do you insist on being the worst?
For the reason that yours truly is superb at doing such.Because I'm so great at it.1 -
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I don’t think it’s that simple of an answer, especially if you have children. I truly believe if children are involved their happiness should be taken into consideration. I don’t believe parents should stay merely for the children, but if both parents are willing to work on things it’s best for the children involved unless abuse or infidelity is an issue. With that being said, ultimately unhappiness may come from within. If so, changing something externally is only a bandage to the actual problem. This unhealthy coping mechanism will be passed on from generation to generation if not attended to properly. Changing your relationship statues won’t fix the problem in this instance, rather more than likely will add to it.1
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Single, If I were married and unhappy I think I'd be resentful and blame spouse at least in part for unhappiness - even if the unhappiness would be there either way
...wow @newmeadow...it this a psychological experiment? If answered truthfully, it may be kinda telling of some core personality traits0 -
JustPassingTime wrote: »Single, If I were married and unhappy I think I'd be resentful and blame spouse at least in part for unhappiness - even if the unhappiness would be there either way
...wow @newmeadow...it this a psychological experiment? If answered truthfully, it may be kinda telling of some core personality traits
You know it is. One of the best thing in this place is trying to figure out people's personalities, traits and behavior kinda like people watching.
Except do people truly say things genuinely?! My experience in life is that people tend to say things that they think people want to hear.0 -
JustPassingTime wrote: »laprimaJenny wrote: »JustPassingTime wrote: »Single, If I were married and unhappy I think I'd be resentful and blame spouse at least in part for unhappiness - even if the unhappiness would be there either way
...wow @newmeadow...it this a psychological experiment? If answered truthfully, it may be kinda telling of some core personality traits
You know it is. One of the best thing in this place is trying to figure out people's personalities, traits and behavior kinda like people watching.
Except do people truly say things genuinely?! My experience in life is that people tend to say things that they think people want to hear.
Behavioral pattern is kinda hard to turn off. I wonder if anybody has figured me out except for the stuff I show.
Yes agreed, except most people don’t pay enough attention to really notice the patterns.1 -
laprimaJenny wrote: »JustPassingTime wrote: »Single, If I were married and unhappy I think I'd be resentful and blame spouse at least in part for unhappiness - even if the unhappiness would be there either way
...wow @newmeadow...it this a psychological experiment? If answered truthfully, it may be kinda telling of some core personality traits
You know it is. One of the best thing in this place is trying to figure out people's personalities, traits and behavior kinda like people watching.
Except do people truly say things genuinely?! My experience in life is that people tend to say things that they think people want to hear.
Unless Im being paid, I most often say things genuinely, or say nothing at all. I'm a blurter too. On here I'm even less inhibited, I feel I can express myself better written than verbally (I sometimes just ramble and forget what I say in person).
At work I'll bite my tongue, or say nothing and just smile and maybe shrug, or say something vague if I disagree with someone like "ya, maybe" or "I don't know", sometimes I just stare at them and say nothing (awkward silence has become one of my happy places).
Come to think of it, I often do this outside of work too, unless I feel like engaging in conversation...then I let loose what I think (even if it doesn't make sense) just to get it out or get feedback to consider why I think what I do.2 -
Single. More opportunities to try and find happy.0
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