cant seem to build strenght...help
fitpal02020
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took pre workout for the firs time, C4 brand and found it had little to no effect on me except made my skin tingly.
30,M. afraid I will never learn how to develop strength and be able to do bench press
only progress I was able to do with pre workout was I was able to lift 40 lbs dumbbell for the first time ( max weight i can lift in my daily workout is 35 lbs ). I did 2 set of 10 reps of shoulder press with 40 lb dumbbell. That too with a lot of struggle.
I dont know whats wrong with me. I've tried everything. Even started drinking protein shakes as of late. By the way, how quickly are supposed to be drink protein shake after a workout? by the time i get home from gym and prepare to make a protein shake, its already 20 minutes.
Right now, I still struggle with bench press. I see other people easily doing bench press of up to 45 lbs and I cant even lift the bar. Why do my arms feel so weak? Are my genes to blame?
WHAT.AM.I.DOING.WRONG? Is there any hope that I can build strength?
Not that it matters that much but I had a whole bag of doritos dynamite and an iced cappcuino and a chicke breast with 2 pieces of white bread as my lunch 4 hours before my workout.
Please , someone put me in the right direction.
30,M. afraid I will never learn how to develop strength and be able to do bench press
only progress I was able to do with pre workout was I was able to lift 40 lbs dumbbell for the first time ( max weight i can lift in my daily workout is 35 lbs ). I did 2 set of 10 reps of shoulder press with 40 lb dumbbell. That too with a lot of struggle.
I dont know whats wrong with me. I've tried everything. Even started drinking protein shakes as of late. By the way, how quickly are supposed to be drink protein shake after a workout? by the time i get home from gym and prepare to make a protein shake, its already 20 minutes.
Right now, I still struggle with bench press. I see other people easily doing bench press of up to 45 lbs and I cant even lift the bar. Why do my arms feel so weak? Are my genes to blame?
WHAT.AM.I.DOING.WRONG? Is there any hope that I can build strength?
Not that it matters that much but I had a whole bag of doritos dynamite and an iced cappcuino and a chicke breast with 2 pieces of white bread as my lunch 4 hours before my workout.
Please , someone put me in the right direction.
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How long have you been lifting? Are you following a good weightlifting program? Or just winging it?5
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L1zardQueen wrote: »How long have you been lifting? Are you following a good weightlifting program? Or just winging it?
This^
Plus, there is no specific time frame to take in protein right after workout. Get enough protein over the course of the day. Shakes aren't necessary but can help to hit your protein goal.
Also, preworkouts aren't necessary either and they don't build muscle. They help some with the energy to workout. The primary ingredient is usually caffeine.
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Your post is mostly about what you are putting in your mouth - but you gain strength by training not by ingesting!
Tell us about your training, not your diet.17 -
Your post is mostly about what you are putting in your mouth - but you gain strength by training not by ingesting!
Tell us about your training, not your diet.
Hi, Thanks for your response. My current gym routine:
5 times a week.
1. 4 sets of 15 reps of triceps kickback of 55 lbs. 2 on each side.
2. 2 sets of 15 reps of shoulder press of 35 lbs.
3. 2 sets of 15 reps of dumbbell curves of 35 lbs.
4. 2 sets of 15 reps of triceps extension of 35 lbs.
5. 1 set of 15 reps of barbell curl of 50 lbs
6. 1 set of 15 reps of curved barbell front raise 40 lbs.
7. 2 sets of 15 reps of lat pull down of 90 - 110 lbs
8. 2 sets of 15 reps of cable triceps push down 40 - 55 lbs.
9. 2 sets of 15 reps of leg extension 70 - 80 lbs
10. 2 sets of 15 reps of sitting leg curl of 120 lbs
11. 2 sets of 15 reps of leg press of 135 lbs
12. 15-25 min cardio
Total time at the gym: 1 hr
Please advise what I should be doing better to really build strength so I can finally bench press at least 45 lbs? I feel like I have weak wrists for a guy.
Why is it that some days at gym I do not have as difficulty lifting as I have on some other days?
Hope you can guide!1 -
L1zardQueen wrote: »How long have you been lifting? Are you following a good weightlifting program? Or just winging it?
just winging, not following any studied routine.
please see my previous post on my current routine.0 -
Your numbers really don't add up - your push exercises and the weights you are doing them at should equal a hell of a lot more than a 45lb bench press. That's an empty bar, that's a really small amount for an adult male.
Can you confirm you are using a barbell and not a machine?
For comparison as a 59 year old starting rehab on a displaced clavicle/AC joint I was disappointed I could only do 40kg (88lbs) and a couple of weeks on I'm back to 60kg. I expect to be comfortably over bodyweight very soon as long as the shoulder holds together.4 -
I would recommend going with a proven starter program, your list of movements is top heavy on iso movements for the upper body. I so no rowing exercises just the lat pulldowns, don't forget about your back. Also, you're negating your legs, no lunges, no DLs, no squats, no compound movements for your legs/body.
If you're trying to gain strength and muscle size while limiting fat gain, you need to recomp or slowly gain fat and muscle by eating properly in a slight calorie surplus.
Doing all of this is time consuming and can be rather tedious but that is the price you must pay to get the results you want.7 -
You are training too frequently if you are doing the same routine 5x a week so probably aren’t progressing as well as you could.
Your programme is not optimal.
I don’t see a bench press in your list of exercises that you do. You can do it with a lighter bar, or, if not available, dumbbells.
If you want to press 45bs+ and can’t, start lighter. I started at 27lbs and worked up.
Try following a proven programme-
https://community.myfitnesspal.com/en/discussion/10332083/which-lifting-program-is-the-best-for-you/p1
Cheers, h.12 -
If you want to be better at bench press, practice bench press. I like stronglifts 5x5, starting really light and slowly progressing. It will have you benching 2x weekly. Or pick another program. But pick a program...and make sure it incorporates bench press.11
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Your numbers really don't add up - your push exercises and the weights you are doing them at should equal a hell of a lot more than a 45lb bench press. That's an empty bar, that's a really small amount for an adult male.
Can you confirm you are using a barbell and not a machine?
I am sorry, I did not understand.
Are you saying that based on my workout routine that I have outlined I should be comfortably able to bench press 45 lbs? Well I am not able to.
And whoa, you're 60 and in good shape, good for you!
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DancingMoosie wrote: »If you want to be better at bench press, practice bench press. I like stronglifts 5x5, starting really light and slowly progressing. It will have you benching 2x weekly. Or pick another program. But pick a program...and make sure it incorporates bench press.
thank you, where do i find these programs?1 -
DancingMoosie wrote: »If you want to be better at bench press, practice bench press. I like stronglifts 5x5, starting really light and slowly progressing. It will have you benching 2x weekly. Or pick another program. But pick a program...and make sure it incorporates bench press.
thank you, where do i find these programs?
See my post above @DancingMoosie’s with the link to proven effective weight lifting programmes.
Cheers, h.3 -
Your post is mostly about what you are putting in your mouth - but you gain strength by training not by ingesting!
Tell us about your training, not your diet.
Hi, Thanks for your response. My current gym routine:
5 times a week.
1. 4 sets of 15 reps of triceps kickback of 55 lbs. 2 on each side.
2. 2 sets of 15 reps of shoulder press of 35 lbs.
3. 2 sets of 15 reps of dumbbell curves of 35 lbs.
4. 2 sets of 15 reps of triceps extension of 35 lbs.
5. 1 set of 15 reps of barbell curl of 50 lbs
6. 1 set of 15 reps of curved barbell front raise 40 lbs.
7. 2 sets of 15 reps of lat pull down of 90 - 110 lbs
8. 2 sets of 15 reps of cable triceps push down 40 - 55 lbs.
9. 2 sets of 15 reps of leg extension 70 - 80 lbs
10. 2 sets of 15 reps of sitting leg curl of 120 lbs
11. 2 sets of 15 reps of leg press of 135 lbs
12. 15-25 min cardio
Total time at the gym: 1 hr
Please advise what I should be doing better to really build strength so I can finally bench press at least 45 lbs? I feel like I have weak wrists for a guy.
Why is it that some days at gym I do not have as difficulty lifting as I have on some other days?
Hope you can guide!
Your program looks really weird. Too many exercises, too few core exercises, too few sets, too many reps. Where is the bench press in there?
Try with something that has been already tried by others? There are several if you just google, or ask at the gym, they usually offer some basic ones that more or less are ok for anyone with generic goals.
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Your numbers really don't add up - your push exercises and the weights you are doing them at should equal a hell of a lot more than a 45lb bench press. That's an empty bar, that's a really small amount for an adult male.
Can you confirm you are using a barbell and not a machine?
I am sorry, I did not understand.
Are you saying that based on my workout routine that I have outlined I should be comfortably able to bench press 45 lbs? Well I am not able to.
And whoa, you're 60 and in good shape, good for you!
I'm saying based on the weights stated doing other pressing and push movements it doesn't seem credible that you can't bench press much more than that.
e.g. shoulder press 35lbs but can't chest press 45lbs when it recruits far bigger/stronger muscles seems odd.
Tricep isolation exercises of 35lbs and 40 - 55lbs but can't do a compound lift including triceps (and pec & shoulders) doesn't make sense.
You didn't answer the question regarding barbell BTW.
Are you just pressing an empty 45lb barbell? That would be extraordinarily low for an adult male.3 -
I'm wondering if he means he can't bench 45lb dumbbells???4
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If you want to get stronger you must add weight to the bar. - use a lower rep range - 5-8 reps
Some one suggested Starting Strength - That's a good program to start with - follow it as written for 3-4-5 -6 months. When your increases stall -decrease the weight 10-20 % take a easy week (call it a deload) then carry on.
When your increases stop , look at a 531 variation , or Grey Sull - pick one and follow it.
Forget about the tricep kick backs, leg curls & all those other exercises for now
- Keep the overhead press & barbell curl
- You will get stronger3 -
Your numbers really don't add up - your push exercises and the weights you are doing them at should equal a hell of a lot more than a 45lb bench press. That's an empty bar, that's a really small amount for an adult male.
Can you confirm you are using a barbell and not a machine?
I am sorry, I did not understand.
Are you saying that based on my workout routine that I have outlined I should be comfortably able to bench press 45 lbs? Well I am not able to.
And whoa, you're 60 and in good shape, good for you!
I'm saying based on the weights stated doing other pressing and push movements it doesn't seem credible that you can't bench press much more than that.
e.g. shoulder press 35lbs but can't chest press 45lbs when it recruits far bigger/stronger muscles seems odd.
Tricep isolation exercises of 35lbs and 40 - 55lbs but can't do a compound lift including triceps (and pec & shoulders) doesn't make sense.
You didn't answer the question regarding barbell BTW.
Are you just pressing an empty 45lb barbell? That would be extraordinarily low for an adult male.Your numbers really don't add up - your push exercises and the weights you are doing them at should equal a hell of a lot more than a 45lb bench press. That's an empty bar, that's a really small amount for an adult male.
Can you confirm you are using a barbell and not a machine?
I am sorry, I did not understand.
Are you saying that based on my workout routine that I have outlined I should be comfortably able to bench press 45 lbs? Well I am not able to.
And whoa, you're 60 and in good shape, good for you!
I'm saying based on the weights stated doing other pressing and push movements it doesn't seem credible that you can't bench press much more than that.
e.g. shoulder press 35lbs but can't chest press 45lbs when it recruits far bigger/stronger muscles seems odd.
Tricep isolation exercises of 35lbs and 40 - 55lbs but can't do a compound lift including triceps (and pec & shoulders) doesn't make sense.
You didn't answer the question regarding barbell BTW.
Are you just pressing an empty 45lb barbell? That would be extraordinarily low for an adult male.
I see, yeah thats why I came here. I can do all these exercises but cant bench press.
I am talking about an empty barbell.
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If you want to get stronger you must add weight to the bar. - use a lower rep range - 5-8 reps
Some one suggested Starting Strength - That's a good program to start with - follow it as written for 3-4-5 -6 months. When your increases stall -decrease the weight 10-20 % take a easy week (call it a deload) then carry on.
When your increases stop , look at a 531 variation , or Grey Sull - pick one and follow it.
Forget about the tricep kick backs, leg curls & all those other exercises for now
- Keep the overhead press & barbell curl
- You will get stronger
can you summarize the program and exactly what exercise I am supposed to be doing and for how many times a week? also, is there a video version of this program? what is 531 and grey skull?1 -
middlehaitch wrote: »You are training too frequently if you are doing the same routine 5x a week so probably aren’t progressing as well as you could.
Your programme is not optimal.
I don’t see a bench press in your list of exercises that you do. You can do it with a lighter bar, or, if not available, dumbbells.
If you want to press 45bs+ and can’t, start lighter. I started at 27lbs and worked up.
Try following a proven programme-
https://community.myfitnesspal.com/en/discussion/10332083/which-lifting-program-is-the-best-for-you/p1
Cheers, h.
Read this earlier linked thread. Then decide on on which programme suits you now, then revisit when you need to move along.
Cheers, h.6 -
Your numbers really don't add up - your push exercises and the weights you are doing them at should equal a hell of a lot more than a 45lb bench press. That's an empty bar, that's a really small amount for an adult male.
Can you confirm you are using a barbell and not a machine?
I am sorry, I did not understand.
Are you saying that based on my workout routine that I have outlined I should be comfortably able to bench press 45 lbs? Well I am not able to.
And whoa, you're 60 and in good shape, good for you!
I'm saying based on the weights stated doing other pressing and push movements it doesn't seem credible that you can't bench press much more than that.
e.g. shoulder press 35lbs but can't chest press 45lbs when it recruits far bigger/stronger muscles seems odd.
Tricep isolation exercises of 35lbs and 40 - 55lbs but can't do a compound lift including triceps (and pec & shoulders) doesn't make sense.
You didn't answer the question regarding barbell BTW.
Are you just pressing an empty 45lb barbell? That would be extraordinarily low for an adult male.Your numbers really don't add up - your push exercises and the weights you are doing them at should equal a hell of a lot more than a 45lb bench press. That's an empty bar, that's a really small amount for an adult male.
Can you confirm you are using a barbell and not a machine?
I am sorry, I did not understand.
Are you saying that based on my workout routine that I have outlined I should be comfortably able to bench press 45 lbs? Well I am not able to.
And whoa, you're 60 and in good shape, good for you!
I'm saying based on the weights stated doing other pressing and push movements it doesn't seem credible that you can't bench press much more than that.
e.g. shoulder press 35lbs but can't chest press 45lbs when it recruits far bigger/stronger muscles seems odd.
Tricep isolation exercises of 35lbs and 40 - 55lbs but can't do a compound lift including triceps (and pec & shoulders) doesn't make sense.
You didn't answer the question regarding barbell BTW.
Are you just pressing an empty 45lb barbell? That would be extraordinarily low for an adult male.
I see, yeah thats why I came here. I can do all these exercises but cant bench press.
I am talking about an empty barbell.
That makes zero sense.
You're able to use just your triceps, a small single muscle, to lift 55lbs but all of a sudden you can't use your triceps AND Pecs AND delts AND traps to lift 45lbs.
That's like saying I can tow a caravan with my motorcycle but as soon as I use my motorcycle and my car and my truck the wheels start spinning and the caravan won't move.8 -
How much can you dumbbell bench press? Is your incline bench better or worse?
I’m wondering if there’s something up with your shoulders - an old injury you weren’t aware of or something similar. Can you get a spotter to help you attempt to bench the bar and assist just enough so that your muscles feel what the correct firing pattern is? Is there any pain anywhere?5 -
Your numbers really don't add up - your push exercises and the weights you are doing them at should equal a hell of a lot more than a 45lb bench press. That's an empty bar, that's a really small amount for an adult male.
Can you confirm you are using a barbell and not a machine?
I am sorry, I did not understand.
Are you saying that based on my workout routine that I have outlined I should be comfortably able to bench press 45 lbs? Well I am not able to.
And whoa, you're 60 and in good shape, good for you!
I'm saying based on the weights stated doing other pressing and push movements it doesn't seem credible that you can't bench press much more than that.
e.g. shoulder press 35lbs but can't chest press 45lbs when it recruits far bigger/stronger muscles seems odd.
Tricep isolation exercises of 35lbs and 40 - 55lbs but can't do a compound lift including triceps (and pec & shoulders) doesn't make sense.
You didn't answer the question regarding barbell BTW.
Are you just pressing an empty 45lb barbell? That would be extraordinarily low for an adult male.Your numbers really don't add up - your push exercises and the weights you are doing them at should equal a hell of a lot more than a 45lb bench press. That's an empty bar, that's a really small amount for an adult male.
Can you confirm you are using a barbell and not a machine?
I am sorry, I did not understand.
Are you saying that based on my workout routine that I have outlined I should be comfortably able to bench press 45 lbs? Well I am not able to.
And whoa, you're 60 and in good shape, good for you!
I'm saying based on the weights stated doing other pressing and push movements it doesn't seem credible that you can't bench press much more than that.
e.g. shoulder press 35lbs but can't chest press 45lbs when it recruits far bigger/stronger muscles seems odd.
Tricep isolation exercises of 35lbs and 40 - 55lbs but can't do a compound lift including triceps (and pec & shoulders) doesn't make sense.
You didn't answer the question regarding barbell BTW.
Are you just pressing an empty 45lb barbell? That would be extraordinarily low for an adult male.
I see, yeah thats why I came here. I can do all these exercises but cant bench press.
I am talking about an empty barbell.
It's obvious you do actually have the strength to bench more than that so you are probably down to a few possibilities.
1/ injury that only reveals itself in one particular plane. Shoulder njuries can be like that.
2/ shockingly poor technique - but doubt it as bench (in its basic form anyway) is a simple lift.
3/ lack of confidence / fear of failing - not unusual as bench isn't fun to fail. You can address this with using safety bars, dumbells or using the Smith machine with catches set so you don't end up with the bar on your chest.4 -
DO NOT BENCH PRESS IN THE SMITH MACHINE4
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Your post is mostly about what you are putting in your mouth - but you gain strength by training not by ingesting!
Tell us about your training, not your diet.
Hi, Thanks for your response. My current gym routine:
5 times a week.
1. 4 sets of 15 reps of triceps kickback of 55 lbs. 2 on each side.
2. 2 sets of 15 reps of shoulder press of 35 lbs.
3. 2 sets of 15 reps of dumbbell curves of 35 lbs.
4. 2 sets of 15 reps of triceps extension of 35 lbs.
5. 1 set of 15 reps of barbell curl of 50 lbs
6. 1 set of 15 reps of curved barbell front raise 40 lbs.
7. 2 sets of 15 reps of lat pull down of 90 - 110 lbs
8. 2 sets of 15 reps of cable triceps push down 40 - 55 lbs.
9. 2 sets of 15 reps of leg extension 70 - 80 lbs
10. 2 sets of 15 reps of sitting leg curl of 120 lbs
11. 2 sets of 15 reps of leg press of 135 lbs
12. 15-25 min cardio
Total time at the gym: 1 hr
Please advise what I should be doing better to really build strength so I can finally bench press at least 45 lbs? I feel like I have weak wrists for a guy.
Why is it that some days at gym I do not have as difficulty lifting as I have on some other days?
Hope you can guide!
this is so confusing - are you sure you have your exercises named correctly? it makes absolutely no sense whatsoever that you could do tricep kickback of 55lbs and not bench 45lbs. here is a pic of arnold doing tricep kickbacks and it doesn't look like he is doing anywhere near 55lbs - the tricep kickback is not normally an exercise you would be going super heavy on (not saying arnold couldn't do 55lbs - but based on what you wrote you are no arnold). Something is just not adding up here!
(and to build on what everyone else said - yes, you should be on a structured lifting program and if you want to be able to bench press you need to practice bench pressing - if you can't do an empty bar start with light dumbbells)4 -
oops, here is the pic.3 -
OP can you post a picture of what you think is a bench press. I haven’t read every post but I suspect some terminology confusion. Plus, as others suggested it’s better to run an established programme.7
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That is the weirdest set of exercises ever! Life everyone says - how on earth are you doing heavy weights on triceps, then not even a teeny bar on bench press? (even I bench press over 30kilos and I am a shrimp!)2
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DO NOT BENCH PRESS IN THE SMITH MACHINE
That doesn't actually make sense - in bench press the bar follows a linear path so it's not a problem at all.
For other lifts I would agree Smith machine isn't a good choice.
But for someone who might need to gain confidence the safety aspect of being able to fail without getting pinned by the bar might (just might) mean they can push harder without fear.12 -
I'll be honest with you, I think you need to look at a few good videos on bench press form. I have a feeling you are relying too much on your arm strength for the lift. Do some research on which muscles to engage for the lift. The bench press is a chest exercise, not an arm exercise. While arms and shoulders help with the lift they are not meant to take the bulk of the weight. You should also be engaging your lats, have your feet flat on the ground, etc. Many have suggested Stronglifts 5x5 which is what I used when I first started lifting. Here is a link to the program
https://stronglifts.com/5x5/#gref
There are videos right on the page.1
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