What’s a red flag for you?

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  • OpheliaCooter
    OpheliaCooter Posts: 1,635 Member
    DFW_Tom wrote: »
    When they admit to watching reality TV shows that feature elimination voting.

    When they can't stop looking at their phones.

    If they are estranged from a close blood relative.

    The biggest Red Flag is if I get a sense that they care more about themselves than about anyone else.

    My gawd, that’s me
  • TwitchyMagee
    TwitchyMagee Posts: 4,579 Member
    People who get so pressed about *kitten* that doesn’t concern them
  • TxDesertFox
    TxDesertFox Posts: 53 Member
    The usual problematic stuff like sexism, racism, homophobic, etc. Vagueness about personal life is a big one.
  • honey_honey_12
    honey_honey_12 Posts: 14,859 Member
    If he ever hit me.
    Seriously bad news for that poor sucker.
  • TwitchyMagee
    TwitchyMagee Posts: 4,579 Member
    If he ever hit me.
    Seriously bad news for that poor sucker.

    😂 It would be all over for that *kitten*
  • Notmyachillesheelg
    Notmyachillesheelg Posts: 59 Member
    If they don’t like pasta
  • TwitchyMagee
    TwitchyMagee Posts: 4,579 Member
    Men with microphones

    Blonde hair

    In a a bio or username, anyone who identifies first as a parent, spouse, or member of a religion. If that’s their niche then they’re not for me.




  • kinetixtrainer2
    kinetixtrainer2 Posts: 9,286 Member
    litha_ wrote: »
    Pinpoint pupils

    Haha very true
  • honey_honey_12
    honey_honey_12 Posts: 14,859 Member
    If they feel the need to explain why I should feel differently about my core beliefs.
    👋
  • honey_honey_12
    honey_honey_12 Posts: 14,859 Member
    If he chews with his mouth open
  • honey_honey_12
    honey_honey_12 Posts: 14,859 Member
    If he gets put out with me for asking a lot of questions.
    I’d only ask if I thought he knew the answers.
    I like to know how stuff works. 🤷🏼‍♀️
  • crazyhorse8
    crazyhorse8 Posts: 724 Member
    If he gets put out with me for asking a lot of questions.
    I’d only ask if I thought he knew the answers.
    I like to know how stuff works. 🤷🏼‍♀️

    I thought I was the only one that did this! 🤣
  • Peachesnstuff
    Peachesnstuff Posts: 1,261 Member
    When all his social media posts are of himself, and you've been exclusive for two years
  • Peachesnstuff
    Peachesnstuff Posts: 1,261 Member
    When he has an IG account for his cat
  • Peachesnstuff
    Peachesnstuff Posts: 1,261 Member
    Tells me all his exes were "crazy."

    Mmmhmmm, we know who's riding the crazy train
  • Diddly_Squats
    Diddly_Squats Posts: 177 Member
    When he asks you to send him those high heeled boots you’re wearing in your last post. He’ll even pay for shipping and handling.
  • TwitchyMagee
    TwitchyMagee Posts: 4,579 Member
    He only sees there’s a problem when I’m ready to be done
  • ericatoday1
    ericatoday1 Posts: 53 Member
    Everything. I trust no one. Haha
  • benftbllcoach
    benftbllcoach Posts: 10 Member
    When her best friends are men, but I can't have a close female friend...
  • honey_honey_12
    honey_honey_12 Posts: 14,859 Member
    Peter Pan Syndrome
  • Rotavele_
    Rotavele_ Posts: 260 Member
    Peter Pan Syndrome

    What's that? Peter Pan was cool!
  • honey_honey_12
    honey_honey_12 Posts: 14,859 Member
    Rotavele_ wrote: »
    Peter Pan Syndrome

    What's that? Peter Pan was cool!

    Yes, I think Peter Pan was cool too. 😀

    Unfortunately, we are all forced to grow up eventually.
  • Rotavele_
    Rotavele_ Posts: 260 Member
    Rotavele_ wrote: »
    Peter Pan Syndrome

    What's that? Peter Pan was cool!

    Yes, I think Peter Pan was cool too. 😀

    Unfortunately, we are all forced to grow up eventually.

    That way of thinking is highly unacceptable! When I'm 84 I plan on beebopping with my homies to a fly track
  • honey_honey_12
    honey_honey_12 Posts: 14,859 Member
    Rotavele_ wrote: »
    Rotavele_ wrote: »
    Peter Pan Syndrome

    What's that? Peter Pan was cool!

    Yes, I think Peter Pan was cool too. 😀

    Unfortunately, we are all forced to grow up eventually.

    That way of thinking is highly unacceptable! When I'm 84 I plan on beebopping with my homies to a fly track

    I wish that for you, truly. 😊
  • TwitchyMagee
    TwitchyMagee Posts: 4,579 Member
    If they ever thought David Letterman was funny
  • TwitchyMagee
    TwitchyMagee Posts: 4,579 Member
    People who are able to poop whenever, wherever
  • kill_with_kindmess
    kill_with_kindmess Posts: 4 Member
    If they ever thought David Letterman was funny

    *standing ovation* (too lazy to insert gif)
  • Rotavele_
    Rotavele_ Posts: 260 Member
    edited April 2023
    People who are able to poop whenever, wherever

    People who have loose an.us's 🤔 anuses🤔 anusi 🤔 what's the proper term? Need love also
  • TwitchyMagee
    TwitchyMagee Posts: 4,579 Member
    Rotavele_ wrote: »
    People who are able to poop whenever, wherever

    People who have loose an.us's 🤔 anuses🤔 anusi 🤔 what's the proper term? Need love also
    😂 I don’t even know what to say
  • Diddly_Squats
    Diddly_Squats Posts: 177 Member
    If he brags about his family heirlooms like his recently inherited grandpa’s and dad’s old prison number.