What’s a red flag for you?
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Men who think their opinion matters5
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Falling in love in group therapy.2
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Falling in love in individual therapy2
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Heavy drinker, no thanks1
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People who high five themselves in the mirror0
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TwitchyMagee wrote: »People who high five themselves in the mirror
Cool.. I typically fist bump..
(Goes back under a rock)2 -
TwitchyMagee wrote: »People who high five themselves in the mirror
Cool.. I typically fist bump..
(Goes back under a rock)
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arrogance....in all it's forms0
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honey_honey_12 wrote: »Heavy drinker, no thanks
@honey_honey_12
Not Even Yoo-Hoo ??
It's chocolatly delicious.1 -
Motorsheen wrote: »honey_honey_12 wrote: »Heavy drinker, no thanks
@honey_honey_12
Not Even Yoo-Hoo ??
It's chocolatly delicious.
Drink as much as you want…….
Would you believe I’ve never tasted Yoo-Hoo?
Well I haven’t.
I always thought it looked like chocolate water.2 -
People who think I’m in a bad mood when I don’t laugh at their jokes. My mood is good, ebullient even, you’re just not funny & this is not a joking kind of environment2
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If I go out with a stranger,
if after 5min he doesn’t trust me enough to be himself and loosen up, the spark isn’t there.
I’m open and honest, I expect the same and don’t have time to waste on b.s.
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Apathy. Narcissism. Toxic insecurity. In no particular order.1
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joelo_1119 wrote: »Apathy. Narcissism. Toxic insecurity. In no particular order.
They are in alphabetical order 🤜🤛3 -
Peachesnstuff wrote: »joelo_1119 wrote: »Apathy. Narcissism. Toxic insecurity. In no particular order.
They are in alphabetical order 🤜🤛
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Uncontrolled nose and ear hair,
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Peachesnstuff wrote: »joelo_1119 wrote: »Apathy. Narcissism. Toxic insecurity. In no particular order.
They are in alphabetical order 🤜🤛
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Peachesnstuff wrote: »joelo_1119 wrote: »Apathy. Narcissism. Toxic insecurity. In no particular order.
They are in alphabetical order 🤜🤛
You are gifted0 -
When he lurks and never says hi.
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TwitchyMagee wrote: »Peachesnstuff wrote: »joelo_1119 wrote: »Apathy. Narcissism. Toxic insecurity. In no particular order.
They are in alphabetical order 🤜🤛
You are gifted
Not even on purpose 😅
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Peachesnstuff wrote: »joelo_1119 wrote: »Apathy. Narcissism. Toxic insecurity. In no particular order.
They are in alphabetical order 🤜🤛
ROFLMAOMotorsheen wrote: »Peachesnstuff wrote: »joelo_1119 wrote: »Apathy. Narcissism. Toxic insecurity. In no particular order.
They are in alphabetical order 🤜🤛TwitchyMagee wrote: »Peachesnstuff wrote: »joelo_1119 wrote: »Apathy. Narcissism. Toxic insecurity. In no particular order.
They are in alphabetical order 🤜🤛
You are gifted
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people who describe themselves as “driven” or “disciplined.” They see those traits as virtues but what I hear is “uptight” and “inflexible” which are not appealing to me.2
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TwitchyMagee wrote: »people who describe themselves as “driven” or “disciplined.” They see those traits as virtues but what I hear is “uptight” and “inflexible” which are not appealing to me.
Maybe so.....but every bit of advanced technology, amazing art, awe inspiring architecture, incredible athletic feats etc were all performed and created by those with these traits you find unappealing.
Not to mention the many i have witnessed bettering themselves from the situation that which many would call underprivileged by being exactly that.....driven and disciplined. I would hope those that pursue a better life from behind the starting line do not waiver because some are off put by their efforts.
I get how it may turn some people off, but i for one am very pleased with those types. Even thankful as i type on my phone that was created by such a type 👍3 -
TwitchyMagee wrote: »people who describe themselves as “driven” or “disciplined.” They see those traits as virtues but what I hear is “uptight” and “inflexible” which are not appealing to me.
Maybe so.....but every bit of advanced technology, amazing art, awe inspiring architecture, incredible athletic feats etc were all performed and created by those with these traits you find unappealing.
Not to mention the many i have witnessed bettering themselves from the situation that which many would call underprivileged by being exactly that.....driven and disciplined. I would hope those that pursue a better life from behind the starting line do not waiver because some are off put by their efforts.
I get how it may turn some people off, but i for one am very pleased with those types. Even thankful as i type on my phone that was created by such a type 👍
Oh yeah it takes different strokes.
Also notice that I wasn’t talking about being driven and disciplined. I was talking about people who describe themselves that way
Eta: also, Steve Jobs? His contributions to technology might be interesting But, judging by the accounts of his life and personality, I would not want to be his dinner companion or in a relationship with him in any way- I certainly wouldn’t want to be his daughter1 -
TwitchyMagee wrote: »TwitchyMagee wrote: »people who describe themselves as “driven” or “disciplined.” They see those traits as virtues but what I hear is “uptight” and “inflexible” which are not appealing to me.
Maybe so.....but every bit of advanced technology, amazing art, awe inspiring architecture, incredible athletic feats etc were all performed and created by those with these traits you find unappealing.
Not to mention the many i have witnessed bettering themselves from the situation that which many would call underprivileged by being exactly that.....driven and disciplined. I would hope those that pursue a better life from behind the starting line do not waiver because some are off put by their efforts.
I get how it may turn some people off, but i for one am very pleased with those types. Even thankful as i type on my phone that was created by such a type 👍
Oh yeah it takes different strokes.
Also notice that I wasn’t talking about being driven and disciplined. I was talking about people who describe themselves that way
Eta: also, Steve Jobs? His contributions to technology might be interesting But, judging by the accounts of his life and personality, I would not want to be his dinner companion or in a relationship with him in any way- I certainly wouldn’t want to be his daughter
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Quick to anger..1
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When they stop being intimate or show affection.. that’s not just “getting comfortable” in the relationship… 👎🏻0
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TwitchyMagee wrote: »people who describe themselves as “driven” or “disciplined.” They see those traits as virtues but what I hear is “uptight” and “inflexible” which are not appealing to me.
I think I catch the intent, but I wouldn’t necessarily draw a direct distinction between the two terms. Drive and discipline in the absence of self awareness is probably what you’re getting at, aka, “my way or the highway”.
I am, and have many driven/disciplined individuals in my network and, at least personally, pride myself in the ability to adapt, course-correct, and be proven wrong. Don’t count us out that easily!
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