What’s a red flag for you?

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  • break_down
    break_down Posts: 42 Member
    Falling in love in group therapy.
  • PlentyofProtein00
    PlentyofProtein00 Posts: 3,669 Member
    Falling in love in individual therapy
  • honey_honey_12
    honey_honey_12 Posts: 14,859 Member
    Heavy drinker, no thanks
  • TwitchyMagee
    TwitchyMagee Posts: 4,579 Member
    People who high five themselves in the mirror
  • lx1x
    lx1x Posts: 38,330 Member
    TwitchyMagee wrote: »
    People who high five themselves in the mirror

    Cool.. I typically fist bump..

    (Goes back under a rock)
  • TwitchyMagee
    TwitchyMagee Posts: 4,579 Member
    lx1x wrote: »
    TwitchyMagee wrote: »
    People who high five themselves in the mirror

    Cool.. I typically fist bump..

    (Goes back under a rock)
    I seeee yooooouuuu❤️
  • gcibsthom
    gcibsthom Posts: 30,145 Member
    arrogance....in all it's forms
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    TwitchyMagee wrote: »
    Men who think their opinion matters

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  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    honey_honey_12 wrote: »
    Heavy drinker, no thanks


    @honey_honey_12

    Not Even Yoo-Hoo ??



    It's chocolatly delicious.
  • honey_honey_12
    honey_honey_12 Posts: 14,859 Member
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    honey_honey_12 wrote: »
    Heavy drinker, no thanks


    @honey_honey_12

    Not Even Yoo-Hoo ??



    It's chocolatly delicious.

    Drink as much as you want…….
    Would you believe I’ve never tasted Yoo-Hoo?
    Well I haven’t.
    I always thought it looked like chocolate water.
  • TwitchyMagee
    TwitchyMagee Posts: 4,579 Member
    People who think I’m in a bad mood when I don’t laugh at their jokes. My mood is good, ebullient even, you’re just not funny & this is not a joking kind of environment
  • honey_honey_12
    honey_honey_12 Posts: 14,859 Member
    If I go out with a stranger,
    if after 5min he doesn’t trust me enough to be himself and loosen up, the spark isn’t there.
    I’m open and honest, I expect the same and don’t have time to waste on b.s.
  • joelo_1119
    joelo_1119 Posts: 120 Member
    Apathy. Narcissism. Toxic insecurity. In no particular order.
  • Peachesnstuff
    Peachesnstuff Posts: 1,261 Member
    joelo_1119 wrote: »
    Apathy. Narcissism. Toxic insecurity. In no particular order.

    They are in alphabetical order 🤜🤛
  • glassyo
    glassyo Posts: 7,757 Member
    Peachesnstuff wrote: »
    joelo_1119 wrote: »
    Apathy. Narcissism. Toxic insecurity. In no particular order.

    They are in alphabetical order 🤜🤛

    ROFLMAO
  • honey_honey_12
    honey_honey_12 Posts: 14,859 Member
    Uncontrolled nose and ear hair,
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    Peachesnstuff wrote: »
    joelo_1119 wrote: »
    Apathy. Narcissism. Toxic insecurity. In no particular order.

    They are in alphabetical order 🤜🤛

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  • TwitchyMagee
    TwitchyMagee Posts: 4,579 Member
    Peachesnstuff wrote: »
    joelo_1119 wrote: »
    Apathy. Narcissism. Toxic insecurity. In no particular order.

    They are in alphabetical order 🤜🤛

    You are gifted
  • honey_honey_12
    honey_honey_12 Posts: 14,859 Member
    When he lurks and never says hi.
  • Tigg_er
    Tigg_er Posts: 22,001 Member
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  • joelo_1119
    joelo_1119 Posts: 120 Member
    TwitchyMagee wrote: »
    Peachesnstuff wrote: »
    joelo_1119 wrote: »
    Apathy. Narcissism. Toxic insecurity. In no particular order.

    They are in alphabetical order 🤜🤛

    You are gifted

    Not even on purpose 😅
  • Peachesnstuff
    Peachesnstuff Posts: 1,261 Member
    glassyo wrote: »
    Peachesnstuff wrote: »
    joelo_1119 wrote: »
    Apathy. Narcissism. Toxic insecurity. In no particular order.

    They are in alphabetical order 🤜🤛

    ROFLMAO
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Peachesnstuff wrote: »
    joelo_1119 wrote: »
    Apathy. Narcissism. Toxic insecurity. In no particular order.

    They are in alphabetical order 🤜🤛

    its-true-all-of-it.gif

    TwitchyMagee wrote: »
    Peachesnstuff wrote: »
    joelo_1119 wrote: »
    Apathy. Narcissism. Toxic insecurity. In no particular order.

    They are in alphabetical order 🤜🤛

    You are gifted

    😏😁
  • TwitchyMagee
    TwitchyMagee Posts: 4,579 Member
    people who describe themselves as “driven” or “disciplined.” They see those traits as virtues but what I hear is “uptight” and “inflexible” which are not appealing to me.
  • Revolu7
    Revolu7 Posts: 1,035 Member
    TwitchyMagee wrote: »
    people who describe themselves as “driven” or “disciplined.” They see those traits as virtues but what I hear is “uptight” and “inflexible” which are not appealing to me.

    Maybe so.....but every bit of advanced technology, amazing art, awe inspiring architecture, incredible athletic feats etc were all performed and created by those with these traits you find unappealing.

    Not to mention the many i have witnessed bettering themselves from the situation that which many would call underprivileged by being exactly that.....driven and disciplined. I would hope those that pursue a better life from behind the starting line do not waiver because some are off put by their efforts.

    I get how it may turn some people off, but i for one am very pleased with those types. Even thankful as i type on my phone that was created by such a type 👍
  • TwitchyMagee
    TwitchyMagee Posts: 4,579 Member
    edited January 2023
    Revolu7 wrote: »
    TwitchyMagee wrote: »
    people who describe themselves as “driven” or “disciplined.” They see those traits as virtues but what I hear is “uptight” and “inflexible” which are not appealing to me.

    Maybe so.....but every bit of advanced technology, amazing art, awe inspiring architecture, incredible athletic feats etc were all performed and created by those with these traits you find unappealing.

    Not to mention the many i have witnessed bettering themselves from the situation that which many would call underprivileged by being exactly that.....driven and disciplined. I would hope those that pursue a better life from behind the starting line do not waiver because some are off put by their efforts.

    I get how it may turn some people off, but i for one am very pleased with those types. Even thankful as i type on my phone that was created by such a type 👍

    Oh yeah it takes different strokes.

    Also notice that I wasn’t talking about being driven and disciplined. I was talking about people who describe themselves that way

    Eta: also, Steve Jobs? His contributions to technology might be interesting But, judging by the accounts of his life and personality, I would not want to be his dinner companion or in a relationship with him in any way- I certainly wouldn’t want to be his daughter
  • Revolu7
    Revolu7 Posts: 1,035 Member
    TwitchyMagee wrote: »
    Revolu7 wrote: »
    TwitchyMagee wrote: »
    people who describe themselves as “driven” or “disciplined.” They see those traits as virtues but what I hear is “uptight” and “inflexible” which are not appealing to me.

    Maybe so.....but every bit of advanced technology, amazing art, awe inspiring architecture, incredible athletic feats etc were all performed and created by those with these traits you find unappealing.

    Not to mention the many i have witnessed bettering themselves from the situation that which many would call underprivileged by being exactly that.....driven and disciplined. I would hope those that pursue a better life from behind the starting line do not waiver because some are off put by their efforts.

    I get how it may turn some people off, but i for one am very pleased with those types. Even thankful as i type on my phone that was created by such a type 👍

    Oh yeah it takes different strokes.

    Also notice that I wasn’t talking about being driven and disciplined. I was talking about people who describe themselves that way

    Eta: also, Steve Jobs? His contributions to technology might be interesting But, judging by the accounts of his life and personality, I would not want to be his dinner companion or in a relationship with him in any way- I certainly wouldn’t want to be his daughter

    Fair enough
  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,456 Member
    Quick to anger..
  • LaurenG1219
    LaurenG1219 Posts: 23 Member
    When they stop being intimate or show affection.. that’s not just “getting comfortable” in the relationship… 👎🏻
  • joelo_1119
    joelo_1119 Posts: 120 Member
    TwitchyMagee wrote: »
    people who describe themselves as “driven” or “disciplined.” They see those traits as virtues but what I hear is “uptight” and “inflexible” which are not appealing to me.

    I think I catch the intent, but I wouldn’t necessarily draw a direct distinction between the two terms. Drive and discipline in the absence of self awareness is probably what you’re getting at, aka, “my way or the highway”.

    I am, and have many driven/disciplined individuals in my network and, at least personally, pride myself in the ability to adapt, course-correct, and be proven wrong. Don’t count us out that easily!

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