What’s a red flag for you?
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This is pretty insightful.joelo_1119 wrote: »TwitchyMagee wrote: »people who describe themselves as “driven” or “disciplined.” They see those traits as virtues but what I hear is “uptight” and “inflexible” which are not appealing to me.
I think I catch the intent, but I wouldn’t necessarily draw a direct distinction between the two terms. Drive and discipline in the absence of self awareness is probably what you’re getting at, aka, “my way or the highway”.
I am, and have many driven/disciplined individuals in my network and, at least personally, pride myself in the ability to adapt, course-correct, and be proven wrong. Don’t count us out that easily!
To clarify, it’s not a dealbreaker but it is a red flag that would put me on alert to watch for selfishness and an inability to compromise.
I like people who work hard. In fact a couple of my favorite people possess that quality. But they would not describe themselves that way. In fact they probably wouldn’t describe themselves at all. They just do what they do and let other people do the describing.
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People who write LMBO1
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TwitchyMagee wrote: »People who write LMBO
What about LMAO?0 -
TwitchyMagee wrote: »People who write LMBO
What about LMAO?
Cliché but not weirdly pollyannaish. It passes
ETA: LMKittenO would be excellent0 -
TwitchyMagee wrote: »People who write LMBO
What about LMAO?TwitchyMagee wrote: »TwitchyMagee wrote: »People who write LMBO
What about LMAO?
Cliché but not weirdly pollyannaish. It passes
ETA: LMKittenO would be excellent
I honestly love that stupid censored word replacement
And the day it became avocado(?). 0 -
TwitchyMagee wrote: »People who write LMBO
What about LMAO?TwitchyMagee wrote: »TwitchyMagee wrote: »People who write LMBO
What about LMAO?
Cliché but not weirdly pollyannaish. It passes
ETA: LMKittenO would be excellent
I honestly love that stupid censored word replacement And the day it became avocado(?).
Am I misremembering it as asparagus or was that another time?0 -
TwitchyMagee wrote: »TwitchyMagee wrote: »People who write LMBO
What about LMAO?TwitchyMagee wrote: »TwitchyMagee wrote: »People who write LMBO
What about LMAO?
Cliché but not weirdly pollyannaish. It passes
ETA: LMKittenO would be excellent
I honestly love that stupid censored word replacement And the day it became avocado(?).
Am I misremembering it as asparagus or was that another time?
No. I wasn't sure but I think it *was* asparagus! Got the "A" part right, at least 0 -
That would still be LMAO 😁TwitchyMagee wrote: »TwitchyMagee wrote: »People who write LMBO
What about LMAO?TwitchyMagee wrote: »TwitchyMagee wrote: »People who write LMBO
What about LMAO?
Cliché but not weirdly pollyannaish. It passes
ETA: LMKittenO would be excellent
I honestly love that stupid censored word replacement And the day it became avocado(?).
Am I misremembering it as asparagus or was that another time?
No. I wasn't sure but I think it *was* asparagus! Got the "A" part right, at least
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Lack of follow through0
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Someone who dislikes tacos, kittens, and/or rainy days1
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When her morning message to you is happy Fri-yay - don’t be that girl0
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When they don’t take anything seriously, especially themselves and especially especially me1
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R3d_butt3rfly_ wrote: »
Hawt 🔥0 -
There are certain patterns in user name choice that are an instant red flag for me. I’m not naming names so don’t ask1
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*changes name..2
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Like....pinkykinycuffs?TwitchyMagee wrote: »There are certain patterns in user name choice that are an instant red flag for me. I’m not naming names so don’t ask1 -
Peachesnstuff wrote: »
Like....pinkykinycuffs?TwitchyMagee wrote: »There are certain patterns in user name choice that are an instant red flag for me. I’m not naming names so don’t ask
You can’t trick me1 -
If I have to ask if he’s married.1
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They don’t know what a blueberry, cut strawberry, beets, avocado, grocery store discount cards are. Thought cooking rice would be like popcorn and didn’t add any water.0
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This is a person who has never seen the inside of a kitchen. I hope they’re OK😂OpheliaCooter wrote: »They don’t know what a blueberry, cut strawberry, beets, avocado, grocery store discount cards are. Thought cooking rice would be like popcorn and didn’t add any water.
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TwitchyMagee wrote: »
This is a person who has never seen the inside of a kitchen. I hope they’re OK😂OpheliaCooter wrote: »They don’t know what a blueberry, cut strawberry, beets, avocado, grocery store discount cards are. Thought cooking rice would be like popcorn and didn’t add any water.
I called him out a while back for not knowing how to make box pancakes. I said, you’re a momma’s
boy aren’t you. He said yes, how did I know. 🤦🏻♀️ He says he shops at dollar general and eats gummy bears and monster energy for breakfast and steals his coworker’s food out of the work fridge….. I honestly don’t know why I’m talking to him other than I find it fascinating and am trying to teach him how to fend for himself. He says he can’t do it but I told him he can and he’s gonna learn. I’m like, there’s YouTube that can show you how to do anything and he said he doesn’t usually follow any directions. 🤦🏻♀️ Keep trying to pop that rice then!1 -
😂😂😂OpheliaCooter wrote: »TwitchyMagee wrote: »
This is a person who has never seen the inside of a kitchen. I hope they’re OK😂OpheliaCooter wrote: »They don’t know what a blueberry, cut strawberry, beets, avocado, grocery store discount cards are. Thought cooking rice would be like popcorn and didn’t add any water.
I called him out a while back for not knowing how to make box pancakes. I said, you’re a momma’s
boy aren’t you. He said yes, how did I know. 🤦🏻♀️ He says he shops at dollar general and eats gummy bears and monster energy for breakfast and steals his coworker’s food out of the work fridge….. I honestly don’t know why I’m talking to him other than I find it fascinating and am trying to teach him how to fend for himself. He says he can’t do it but I told him he can and he’s gonna learn. I’m like, there’s YouTube that can show you how to do anything and he said he doesn’t usually follow any directions. 🤦🏻♀️ Keep trying to pop that rice then!
Oh my goodness you got yourself a project
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If he reaches over and takes food off my plate.
First off, it’s rude.
Second, Melissa doesn’t share food. 🤨1 -
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He won’t post pics of you together on his social media. He a playa! My sista run…run as fast as you can!1
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