What’s a red flag for you?

happimess01

when she makes it a habit of checking out her reflection in my glasses

Ironwoman1111

4legsRbetterthan2 wrote: »

I'm a terrible nose picker , guess it's not a very common habit amongst the ladies

Pretty sure that’s a myth. I see them all the time when they’re DWI *driving while invisible* then act shocked when they see you looking at them.

5ofseven

happimess01 wrote: »

when she makes it a habit of checking out her reflection in my glasses

I'm just trying to make sure I look good, what's the big deal?

stevehenderson776

IronwomanUno wrote: »

When he picks his nose and lies about it 🤣

I never lie about it. Some boogers are too stubborn for tissues. Better to pick those little *kitten* out, flick them into a potted plant and be done with it.

happimess01

5ofseven wrote: »

happimess01 wrote: »

when she makes it a habit of checking out her reflection in my glasses

I'm just trying to make sure I look good, what's the big deal?

the big deal is that you did this on the way to ER as I writhed in chest pain

happimess01

if she describes my steak as "industrial strength"

KosmosKitten

Gross generalizations of entire swaths of a population, particularly if that generalization comes with some sort of negative or condescending tone to it.

Motorsheen

KosmosKitten wrote: »

Gross generalizations of entire swaths of a population, particularly if that generalization comes with some sort of negative or condescending tone to it.

weeeelll......

KosmosKitten

Motorsheen wrote: »

KosmosKitten wrote: »

Gross generalizations of entire swaths of a population, particularly if that generalization comes with some sort of negative or condescending tone to it.

weeeelll......

Fine. I can make an exception. But in general, generalizations only hurt people. Smartass.

happimess01

when she tells me I have her undivided attention but is also doing Kegels at the same time

mariamsmb1

If he doesn’t celebrate Valentine’s Day.

twitchandshout

When they can spell kegels

_sw33tp3a_11

If he only shows me love on Valentines Day

twitchandshout

When he’s not available during snow storms, bank holidays, or weekends.

PlentyofProtein00

When he's not available after 5pm

Tigg_er

twitchandshout wrote: »

When he’s not available during snow storms, bank holidays, or weekends.

What about the 4th of July ?

twitchandshout

When she wants to keep me a secret

lx1x

When she.. oh nvm

slimgirljo15

PlentyofProtein00

When their car is always in the shop

MaltedTea

When they're always shopping for cars

tariqari

If they literally bring a red flag to the date, I take that as a red flag.

I’ve tried to move away from predetermined indicators because I find them quite toxic. Some people run with it and become incredibly judgmental, almost forgetting we are ALL human beings.

PlentyofProtein00

Speaking

twitchandshout

Khakis

lx1x

Red shirt

twitchandshout

PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »

Speaking

I’ll shush soon. Just lemme get it out of my system

slimgirljo15

Always borrowing money.

Deadman_Diggingup

Never lending me money.

lx1x

Cheep cheep . Lob ya lung tiime

Sophisticatted_Gentlemanz

When she asks to speak to me and I'm the manager