What’s a red flag for you?

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  • slessofme
    slessofme Posts: 7,744 Member
    vanityy99 wrote: »
    Married and divorced more than once
    One time- **** happens..

    After that 🚩
    Why do people keep leaving.
    Or why can’t they hold a marriage/ stay committed.

    I used to think this too, but now I see it can be a sign of someone that "gets back on the horse". Resilience and vulnerability in some, honestly more than I am capable of. Saying there is no way I want to invest enough in someone that I'm willing to live together or get married again is equally a red flag and has run a few men off for me.
  • PlentyofProtein00
    PlentyofProtein00 Posts: 3,669 Member
    slessofme wrote: »
    vanityy99 wrote: »
    Married and divorced more than once
    One time- **** happens..

    After that 🚩
    Why do people keep leaving.
    Or why can’t they hold a marriage/ stay committed.

    I used to think this too, but now I see it can be a sign of someone that "gets back on the horse". Resilience and vulnerability in some, honestly more than I am capable of. Saying there is no way I want to invest enough in someone that I'm willing to live together or get married again is equally a red flag and has run a few men off for me.

    Yeah...this is me...I don't want to live with someone or marry again...is that a red flag?
  • vanityy99
    vanityy99 Posts: 2,583 Member
    slessofme wrote: »
    vanityy99 wrote: »
    Married and divorced more than once
    One time- **** happens..

    After that 🚩
    Why do people keep leaving.
    Or why can’t they hold a marriage/ stay committed.

    I used to think this too, but now I see it can be a sign of someone that "gets back on the horse". Resilience and vulnerability in some, honestly more than I am capable of. Saying there is no way I want to invest enough in someone that I'm willing to live together or get married again is equally a red flag and has run a few men off for me.

    I like that. You’re honest and you’re not wasting anyone’s time from the jump.
  • slessofme
    slessofme Posts: 7,744 Member
    PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »
    slessofme wrote: »
    vanityy99 wrote: »
    Married and divorced more than once
    One time- **** happens..

    After that 🚩
    Why do people keep leaving.
    Or why can’t they hold a marriage/ stay committed.

    I used to think this too, but now I see it can be a sign of someone that "gets back on the horse". Resilience and vulnerability in some, honestly more than I am capable of. Saying there is no way I want to invest enough in someone that I'm willing to live together or get married again is equally a red flag and has run a few men off for me.

    Yeah...this is me...I don't want to live with someone or marry again...is that a red flag?

    Apparently it is for men that want to eventually be enmeshed. I met someone that told me on the first date that his next wife needs to know that divorce is not an option. Me: "You want to get married again?!?! That's crazy. Why tf would you want to do that?!" There was not a second date.
    vanityy99 wrote: »
    slessofme wrote: »
    vanityy99 wrote: »
    Married and divorced more than once
    One time- **** happens..

    After that 🚩
    Why do people keep leaving.
    Or why can’t they hold a marriage/ stay committed.

    I used to think this too, but now I see it can be a sign of someone that "gets back on the horse". Resilience and vulnerability in some, honestly more than I am capable of. Saying there is no way I want to invest enough in someone that I'm willing to live together or get married again is equally a red flag and has run a few men off for me.

    I like that. You’re honest and you’re not wasting anyone’s time from the jump.

    Thanks, that's the goal.
  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,456 Member
    honeybee__12 wrote: »
    When a man goes out of his way to avoid/talk to me on the MFP community threads.

    I guess I can be a little scary, sorry. ☺️😏

    😂 ya big scary girl you 🤗
  • Tigg_er
    Tigg_er Posts: 22,001 Member
    honeybee__12 wrote: »
    When a man goes out of his way to avoid/talk to me on the MFP community threads.

    I guess I can be a little scary, sorry. ☺️😏

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  • honeybee__12
    honeybee__12 Posts: 15,688 Member
    @Tigg_er
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  • Tigg_er
    Tigg_er Posts: 22,001 Member
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  • Sophisticatted_Gentlemanz
    Sophisticatted_Gentlemanz Posts: 513 Member
    Enormous assets
  • allyeliza86
    allyeliza86 Posts: 36 Member
    Their IG follow list👀
  • Tigg_er
    Tigg_er Posts: 22,001 Member
    Xanax :D
  • Thoin
    Thoin Posts: 961 Member
    allyeliza86 wrote: »
    Their IG follow list👀

    I'm confused, yours is all muscle men? Is that better or worse?
  • Thoin
    Thoin Posts: 961 Member
    Tigg_er wrote: »
    Xanax :D

    I'm also confused by this, are you saying if the person takes xanax it's a red flag or if you have to take xanax to be with that person it's a red flag?
  • _sw33tp3a_11
    _sw33tp3a_11 Posts: 4,692 Member
    edited March 2021
    Nvm 😁
  • honeybee__12
    honeybee__12 Posts: 15,688 Member
    wifey
  • Thoin
    Thoin Posts: 961 Member
    edited March 2021
    _sw33tp3a_11 wrote: »
    Nvm 😁

    Thanks for editing that response. I don't feel like what I said was a double standard though.
  • PaperDoll_
    PaperDoll_ Posts: 32,857 Member
    slimgirljo15 wrote: »
    Snarky aggressiveness.. I like my man chilled and laidback.

    Also.. when he needs to constantly borrow money. Im not your mum and I'm not supporting you mate 😁
    Its a red flag when he can't handle his finances

    I’m seeing a lot of “he’s” here. So these don’t count for “she’s”?

    Can I have $50? 😘
  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,456 Member
    PaperDoll_ wrote: »
    slimgirljo15 wrote: »
    Snarky aggressiveness.. I like my man chilled and laidback.

    Also.. when he needs to constantly borrow money. Im not your mum and I'm not supporting you mate 😁
    Its a red flag when he can't handle his finances

    I’m seeing a lot of “he’s” here. So these don’t count for “she’s”?

    Can I have $50? 😘

    Of course, but what will you give me in return ? 😏 is it worth $50 ? 😁

    PS.. is dad jipping you on the allowance again 😂
  • Thoin
    Thoin Posts: 961 Member
    When she doesn't want to work for 5 years.
  • chuckle_bunny
    chuckle_bunny Posts: 496 Member
    Speaking in tongues during sex

    Extra red flag if this is in a Motel 6
  • honeybee__12
    honeybee__12 Posts: 15,688 Member
    Younger than my son, that’s a no go.
  • JACKRABBITnotsoSLIMS
    JACKRABBITnotsoSLIMS Posts: 93 Member
    When cash is demanded before the job is done!
  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,456 Member
    Hungrycatapilar21 wrote: »
    Flirting with other women I front of me... pfft if I’m not enough for you, then you don’t deserve me 😜

    Yep 😏
  • Hungrycatapilar21
    Hungrycatapilar21 Posts: 87 Member
    slimgirljo15 wrote: »
    Hungrycatapilar21 wrote: »
    Flirting with other women I front of me... pfft if I’m not enough for you, then you don’t deserve me 😜

    Yep 😏

    How could you!! 😭 you know how much I love you jo!! 💔
  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,456 Member
    Hungrycatapilar21 wrote: »
    slimgirljo15 wrote: »
    Hungrycatapilar21 wrote: »
    Flirting with other women I front of me... pfft if I’m not enough for you, then you don’t deserve me 😜

    Yep 😏

    How could you!! 😭 you know how much I love you jo!! 💔

    My bad snooklepuss 😔 I'll do better 🤗😘
  • PlentyofProtein00
    PlentyofProtein00 Posts: 3,669 Member
    Thoin wrote: »
    allyeliza86 wrote: »
    Their IG follow list👀

    I'm confused, yours is all muscle men? Is that better or worse?

    Obviously better

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