What’s a red flag for you?

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  • honey_honey_12
    honey_honey_12 Posts: 16,252 Member
    if he doesn’t like dogs
  • 4legsRbetterthan2
    4legsRbetterthan2 Posts: 19,588 Member
    I mean it's not like you're a hippogriff

    This did not get nearly enough likes, I demand you all brush up on you harry potter references
  • 4legsRbetterthan2
    4legsRbetterthan2 Posts: 19,588 Member
    can't differentiate inclusivity and exclusivity
  • honey_honey_12
    honey_honey_12 Posts: 16,252 Member
    When he goes left,
    I almost always go right.
  • Vikka_V wrote: »
    Being a dick, when you don't need to be (or do you?) If so, speak child - let the wisdom of the chit chat clan help heal you

    ...can I offer you a creepy internet hug?

    yes please
  • ReenieHJ
    ReenieHJ Posts: 9,723 Member
    Uh oh.
  • lx1x
    lx1x Posts: 38,334 Member
    • A person who thinks talking to members of the opposite sex constitutes cheating.
    • Someone whose annual reading is thinner than a copy of Maxim.
    • A persons who is more possessive of food than a hungry dog.
    • If you can out drink me, you're probably an alcoholic.
    • A person who believes that they are not human; that they have divine right.. or that they can see and hunt vampires with a sword that's somehow locked in their mind.

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  • KosmosKitten
    KosmosKitten Posts: 10,476 Member
    lx1x wrote: »
    • A person who thinks talking to members of the opposite sex constitutes cheating.
    • Someone whose annual reading is thinner than a copy of Maxim.
    • A persons who is more possessive of food than a hungry dog.
    • If you can out drink me, you're probably an alcoholic.
    • A person who believes that they are not human; that they have divine right.. or that they can see and hunt vampires with a sword that's somehow locked in their mind.

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    Let's just say... I have met some people in my lifetime (as short as it is, so far). :joy:
  • OpheliaCooter
    OpheliaCooter Posts: 1,635 Member
    edited August 2021
    • A person who thinks talking to members of the opposite sex constitutes cheating.
    • Someone whose annual reading is thinner than a copy of Maxim.
    • A persons who is more possessive of food than a hungry dog.
    • If you can out drink me, you're probably an alcoholic.
      A person who believes that they are not human; that they have divine right.. or that they can see and hunt vampires with a sword that's somehow locked in their mind.


    Do we know the same people?
  • KosmosKitten
    KosmosKitten Posts: 10,476 Member
    • A person who thinks talking to members of the opposite sex constitutes cheating.
    • Someone whose annual reading is thinner than a copy of Maxim.
    • A persons who is more possessive of food than a hungry dog.
    • If you can out drink me, you're probably an alcoholic.
      A person who believes that they are not human; that they have divine right.. or that they can see and hunt vampires with a sword that's somehow locked in their mind.


    Do we know the same people?

    It is a possibility. One thing I have learned in my short time on this planet is that "it's a small world" is an apt saying. People I don't think I'd ever run into (or run into again) cross my paths at odd intervals and places.
  • honey_honey_12
    honey_honey_12 Posts: 16,252 Member
    Overestimating their ability to impress
  • OpheliaCooter
    OpheliaCooter Posts: 1,635 Member
    • A person who thinks talking to members of the opposite sex constitutes cheating.
    • Someone whose annual reading is thinner than a copy of Maxim.
    • A persons who is more possessive of food than a hungry dog.
    • If you can out drink me, you're probably an alcoholic.
      A person who believes that they are not human; that they have divine right.. or that they can see and hunt vampires with a sword that's somehow locked in their mind.


    Do we know the same people?

    It is a possibility. One thing I have learned in my short time on this planet is that "it's a small world" is an apt saying. People I don't think I'd ever run into (or run into again) cross my paths at odd intervals and places.

    Well I suppose your friend would be hunting my friend. Hunting vampires is a wee bit different from thinking you are a vampire.

    I have crossed his path twice since I stopped being friends with him but it’s because he lives in that area. 😓
    Although I never run unto people I wanna see hmmmm 🤔🤔🤔🤔
  • PAWGliacci wrote: »
    • A person who thinks talking to members of the opposite sex constitutes cheating.
    • Someone whose annual reading is thinner than a copy of Maxim.
    • A persons who is more possessive of food than a hungry dog.
    • If you can out drink me, you're probably an alcoholic.
    • A person who believes that they are not human; that they have divine right.. or that they can see and hunt vampires with a sword that's somehow locked in their mind.

    that's just crazy. its the werewolves that are the real problem and you need silver for them.

    Wait, define “problem”

    I feel targeted
  • PAWGliacci
    PAWGliacci Posts: 346 Member
    PAWGliacci wrote: »
    • A person who thinks talking to members of the opposite sex constitutes cheating.
    • Someone whose annual reading is thinner than a copy of Maxim.
    • A persons who is more possessive of food than a hungry dog.
    • If you can out drink me, you're probably an alcoholic.
    • A person who believes that they are not human; that they have divine right.. or that they can see and hunt vampires with a sword that's somehow locked in their mind.

    that's just crazy. its the werewolves that are the real problem and you need silver for them.

    Wait, define “problem”

    I feel targeted

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  • Chieflrg
    Chieflrg Posts: 9,097 Member
    If every ex was the crazy one in the relationship. Also love bombing or other narcissistic traits.
  • KosmosKitten
    KosmosKitten Posts: 10,476 Member
    Chieflrg wrote: »
    If every ex was the crazy one in the relationship. Also love bombing or other narcissistic traits.

    Yeah, learned this the hard way. Run, don't walk away from these people. :grimace:
  • ReenieHJ
    ReenieHJ Posts: 9,723 Member
    Control freaks who never can admit to being possibly just maybe a little bit wrong.
  • MaltedTea
    MaltedTea Posts: 6,285 Member
    edited August 2021
    Chieflrg wrote: »
    If every ex was the crazy one in the relationship. Also love bombing or other narcissistic traits.

    👀
    I looked this up...

    But let's say you really, REALLY (...like really...) love them and wanna be together til, say, 2092?
  • MaltedTea
    MaltedTea Posts: 6,285 Member
    edited August 2021
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    MaltedTea wrote: »
    Chieflrg wrote: »
    If every ex was the crazy one in the relationship. Also love bombing or other narcissistic traits.

    👀
    I looked this up...

    But let's say you really, REALLY (...like really...) love them and wanna be together til, say, 2092?

    It feels AMAZING while it’s happening. But then when they go on to their other narcissistic traits…pulling away, cutting off contact, gaslighting, triangulating…it’s awful. But don’t worry, they almost ALWAYS come back (gotta get that narcissistic feed you know!) and Hoover and love bombing begins all over again! (Spoiler alert….it’s not worth dealing with that for 71 years. But they come back and love bomb just long enough to make you feel like it might be.)

    😭 You did the calculation lol

    In this scenario, I was wondering whether I was the love bomber though. While I don't do any of the stuff mentioned in the article I found...

    https://www.healthline.com/health/love-bombing

    ... it's unfortunate that a phrase as cute as love bombing can be a descriptor for something so detrimental.

    If you went through that, @MelG7777, that sucks and I'm sorry 😔
  • PAWGliacci
    PAWGliacci Posts: 346 Member
    MaltedTea wrote: »
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    MaltedTea wrote: »
    Chieflrg wrote: »
    If every ex was the crazy one in the relationship. Also love bombing or other narcissistic traits.

    👀
    I looked this up...

    But let's say you really, REALLY (...like really...) love them and wanna be together til, say, 2092?

    It feels AMAZING while it’s happening. But then when they go on to their other narcissistic traits…pulling away, cutting off contact, gaslighting, triangulating…it’s awful. But don’t worry, they almost ALWAYS come back (gotta get that narcissistic feed you know!) and Hoover and love bombing begins all over again! (Spoiler alert….it’s not worth dealing with that for 71 years. But they come back and love bomb just long enough to make you feel like it might be.)

    😭 You did the calculation lol

    In this scenario, I was wondering whether I was the love bomber though. While I don't do any of the stuff mentioned in the article I found...

    https://www.healthline.com/health/love-bombing

    ... it's unfortunate that a phrase as cute as love bombing can be a descriptor for something so detrimental.

    If you went through that, @MelG7777, that sucks and I'm sorry 😔

    i been hearing this phrase often lately, like a baader–meinhof kind of deal, but just now sat down to read about it cause of the link and tbh im conflicted because i do consider myself a narcissist, but i also strive to do the opposite of stuff on that list too.
  • PAWGliacci
    PAWGliacci Posts: 346 Member
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    PAWGliacci wrote: »
    MaltedTea wrote: »
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    MaltedTea wrote: »
    Chieflrg wrote: »
    If every ex was the crazy one in the relationship. Also love bombing or other narcissistic traits.

    👀
    I looked this up...

    But let's say you really, REALLY (...like really...) love them and wanna be together til, say, 2092?

    It feels AMAZING while it’s happening. But then when they go on to their other narcissistic traits…pulling away, cutting off contact, gaslighting, triangulating…it’s awful. But don’t worry, they almost ALWAYS come back (gotta get that narcissistic feed you know!) and Hoover and love bombing begins all over again! (Spoiler alert….it’s not worth dealing with that for 71 years. But they come back and love bomb just long enough to make you feel like it might be.)

    😭 You did the calculation lol

    In this scenario, I was wondering whether I was the love bomber though. While I don't do any of the stuff mentioned in the article I found...

    https://www.healthline.com/health/love-bombing

    ... it's unfortunate that a phrase as cute as love bombing can be a descriptor for something so detrimental.

    If you went through that, @MelG7777, that sucks and I'm sorry 😔

    i been hearing this phrase often lately, like a baader–meinhof kind of deal, but just now sat down to read about it cause of the link and tbh im conflicted because i do consider myself a narcissist, but i also strive to do the opposite of stuff on that list too.

    That would be more of a grandiose narcissistic trait. Maybe you’re more of a covert? There are several kinds….Do not fret, I’m sure if we work we could find you a good spot in the narcissist spectrum!

    "grandiose" now see that sounds awesome, put me down for that one
  • OpheliaCooter
    OpheliaCooter Posts: 1,635 Member
    Not a narcissist. What are we doing here? Being healthy!? Ew!
  • PAWGliacci
    PAWGliacci Posts: 346 Member
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    PAWGliacci wrote: »
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    PAWGliacci wrote: »
    MaltedTea wrote: »
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    MaltedTea wrote: »
    Chieflrg wrote: »
    If every ex was the crazy one in the relationship. Also love bombing or other narcissistic traits.

    👀
    I looked this up...

    But let's say you really, REALLY (...like really...) love them and wanna be together til, say, 2092?

    It feels AMAZING while it’s happening. But then when they go on to their other narcissistic traits…pulling away, cutting off contact, gaslighting, triangulating…it’s awful. But don’t worry, they almost ALWAYS come back (gotta get that narcissistic feed you know!) and Hoover and love bombing begins all over again! (Spoiler alert….it’s not worth dealing with that for 71 years. But they come back and love bomb just long enough to make you feel like it might be.)

    😭 You did the calculation lol

    In this scenario, I was wondering whether I was the love bomber though. While I don't do any of the stuff mentioned in the article I found...

    https://www.healthline.com/health/love-bombing

    ... it's unfortunate that a phrase as cute as love bombing can be a descriptor for something so detrimental.

    If you went through that, @MelG7777, that sucks and I'm sorry 😔

    i been hearing this phrase often lately, like a baader–meinhof kind of deal, but just now sat down to read about it cause of the link and tbh im conflicted because i do consider myself a narcissist, but i also strive to do the opposite of stuff on that list too.

    That would be more of a grandiose narcissistic trait. Maybe you’re more of a covert? There are several kinds….Do not fret, I’m sure if we work we could find you a good spot in the narcissist spectrum!

    "grandiose" now see that sounds awesome, put me down for that one

    Gotcha down! I’ll add you to my “Grandiose List”. It’s getting pretty long though.

    as long as im the first on the list
  • MaltedTea
    MaltedTea Posts: 6,285 Member
    PAWGliacci wrote: »

    "grandiose" now see that sounds awesome, put me down for that one
    PAWGliacci wrote: »

    as long as im the first on the list

    🤣🤣🤣

    @MelG7777 I'm rethinking my whole life right now 😂 But narcissists aren't supposed to recognize/admit that they are one, right?! So am I one? Aren't I one? Can't I just love the dude 😭 (...dives into the deepest wells of despair...)
  • GymGoddessGoals
    GymGoddessGoals Posts: 2,146 Member
    PAWGliacci wrote: »

    "grandiose" now see that sounds awesome, put me down for that one

    @PAWGliacci the Grandiose God of Geese