What’s a red flag for you?

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  • PAWGliacci
    PAWGliacci Posts: 346 Member
    MelG7777 wrote: »
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    was a Saturday. we were about to go out and do some shopping and maybe eat somewhere we'd just sat in the car when one of her married male coworkers called her cell. she took the call.

    problem was- she got back out out of the car, shut the door, and stepped a few feet away outside before she started talking.
  • ReenieHJ
    ReenieHJ Posts: 9,724 Member
    Too many to talk about. :(
  • KosmosKitten
    KosmosKitten Posts: 10,476 Member
    MelG7777 wrote: »
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    • Ignored the fact that he didn't believe he was human; he believed he was a being from another plane of existence, which automatically made him "better" than most humans, although somehow, I was exempt. Yeah, right.
  • OpheliaCooter
    OpheliaCooter Posts: 1,635 Member
    MelG7777 wrote: »
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    Blamed me for tempting him and asked me to stop doing things that he was doing to me.

    *To clarify because that sounds worse than it was, we were both adults but he was religious.
  • Vikka_V
    Vikka_V Posts: 9,563 Member
    Not exactly a reg flag, more like a "hmmm"
    ...when they reach into their purse and whip out a zip lock bag full of $20s
  • _sw33tp3a_11
    _sw33tp3a_11 Posts: 4,692 Member
    MelG7777 wrote: »
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    Dismissing people warning me about a person. I try to give everyone a chance and my mentality is, if they are good with me why should I take those warnings seriously? Everyone has been a bad guy to someone right?! But in the end, most of them have been solid warnings that I found out later with my own experience and interactions with them.
  • Dragonfly3821
    Dragonfly3821 Posts: 98 Member
    When he flirts with every female in public
  • lx1x
    lx1x Posts: 38,330 Member
    Dragonfly3821 wrote: »
    When he flirts with every female in public

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  • _sw33tp3a_11
    _sw33tp3a_11 Posts: 4,692 Member
    lx1x wrote: »
    Dragonfly3821 wrote: »
    When he flirts with every female in public

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    🤣

    Hey, better than behind everyone's back 😛
  • lx1x
    lx1x Posts: 38,330 Member
    edited August 2021
    _sw33tp3a_11 wrote: »
    lx1x wrote: »
    Dragonfly3821 wrote: »
    When he flirts with every female in public

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    🤣

    Hey, better than behind everyone's back 😛

    True.. so true..

    Fwiw... Only flirt with known friends to make them smile... so...🤷‍♂️

  • _sw33tp3a_11
    _sw33tp3a_11 Posts: 4,692 Member
    lx1x wrote: »
    _sw33tp3a_11 wrote: »
    lx1x wrote: »
    Dragonfly3821 wrote: »
    When he flirts with every female in public

    oigrvu45pp4q.gif

    🤣

    Hey, better than behind everyone's back 😛

    True.. so true..

    Fwiw... Only flirt with known friends to make them smile... so...🤷‍♂️

    And you make me smile that's for sure. I'm just teasing you 🤗💋
  • lx1x
    lx1x Posts: 38,330 Member
    edited August 2021
    _sw33tp3a_11 wrote: »
    lx1x wrote: »
    _sw33tp3a_11 wrote: »
    lx1x wrote: »
    Dragonfly3821 wrote: »
    When he flirts with every female in public

    oigrvu45pp4q.gif

    🤣

    Hey, better than behind everyone's back 😛

    True.. so true..

    Fwiw... Only flirt with known friends to make them smile... so...🤷‍♂️

    And you make me smile that's for sure. I'm just teasing you 🤗💋

    I know.. 😆🤗
  • Sophisticatted_Gentlemanz
    Sophisticatted_Gentlemanz Posts: 513 Member
    This thread is a red flag for me cause low I think I need to call my therapist
  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,456 Member
    edited August 2021
    Trying to shove unsolicited advice down my throat.
  • Vikka_V
    Vikka_V Posts: 9,563 Member
    eatpolerepeat wrote: »
    When everyone tells me he's one big red flag

    you listen to people and are literal!
    ...or maybe are being sassy and clever!

    ...I appreciate it both ways!

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  • amorfati601070
    amorfati601070 Posts: 2,890 Member
    Vikka_V wrote: »
    Not exactly a reg flag, more like a "hmmm"
    ...when they reach into their purse and whip out a zip lock bag full of $20s

    Just needs the extra money to pay for his mobile phone addiction. Wow, two phones..you say??? This is one man on a mission.
  • Vikka_V
    Vikka_V Posts: 9,563 Member
    amorfati601070 wrote: »
    Vikka_V wrote: »
    Not exactly a reg flag, more like a "hmmm"
    ...when they reach into their purse and whip out a zip lock bag full of $20s

    Just needs the extra money to pay for his mobile phone addiction. Wow, two phones..you say??? This is one man on a mission.

    XXL red flag
    ...cash for (burner phones)...plural‽‽
    ...hmm...intrigued!

    Ok, now someone has to start a mfp chit chat "story" thread as to why someone needs 2 burner phones
    ...the 5 W's people!
  • Onerom1
    Onerom1 Posts: 355 Member
    slimgirljo15 wrote: »
    PAWGliacci wrote: »
    when her bed is an air mattress. and its got a leak.

    Its worse when that escaping air noise is not the air mattress 😁

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  • Motherfitter30
    Motherfitter30 Posts: 3 Member
    Violence towards women or animals 🤬
  • honey_honey_12
    honey_honey_12 Posts: 14,681 Member
    When your date says he has to take the call,
    20min later you overhear him say,
    “I love you too”.
  • Ladyofthelakes1
    Ladyofthelakes1 Posts: 30 Member
    eatpolerepeat wrote: »
    _sw33tp3a_11 wrote: »
    MelG7777 wrote: »
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    Dismissing people warning me about a person. I try to give everyone a chance and my mentality is, if they are good with me why should I take those warnings seriously? Everyone has been a bad guy to someone right?! But in the end, most of them have been solid warnings that I found out later with my own experience and interactions with them.

    💯
    eatpolerepeat wrote: »
    When everyone tells me he's one big red flag

    This is me, I always wanna find out for myself 🙄🤦🏻‍♀️
  • honey_honey_12
    honey_honey_12 Posts: 14,681 Member
    A lack of insight in age appropriate flirting.
  • theeldestberry
    theeldestberry Posts: 815 Member
    It's almost like we're biologically driven. :neutral:
  • honey_honey_12
    honey_honey_12 Posts: 14,681 Member
    Lack of self control
  • honey_honey_12
    honey_honey_12 Posts: 14,681 Member
    When they pout 😏

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