What’s a red flag for you?

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  • NorthStar77
    NorthStar77 Posts: 1,022 Member
    Sweetpea_61_28 wrote: »
    -Whole life revolves around alcohol consumption.

    -Not being financially responsible.

    -Running to their parents for every little thing.

    -Constant putdowns but claim it's just "telling you like it is".

    Contents list for 2nd autobiography looking good already! :D
  • ClimbingWolf
    ClimbingWolf Posts: 298 Member
    SabAteNine wrote: »
    No ownership. Desire of authority without leadership. Life just... happens to them. Recipe for washed up sore disappointments who never became anything because X Y or Z didn't „let them”. Turns out, that's the perfect breeding ground for conspiracy theories, because those can be used to explain how the odds are always somehow stacked against them (and magically not against others).

    Mistaking relationships for trades instead of partnerships.

    Intact umbilical chords in adult males.

    The desire to bring an audience to their way of dealing with personal relationships, and thus breaching trust in the most gross way.

    Adversity to the idea of compromise (also a big part of the black and white mentality mentioned by @amorfati601070 and @ReenieHJ).

    Any and all signs of a lack of empathy, including being butthurt after someone treats them like they treat others. The best thing that these people can ever be is a cognitive dissonance festival.

    Not open to the idea of a debate duel to the death and not understanding my humour. This is literally the worst one.

    A lot of these.. only adding to this list (for me personally);
    - expectations of receiving immediate attention and get angry/distant/whiny when not receiving attention right away while you clearly are busy, i.e. having a conversation with someone else...
    - emotionally blackmailing, knowing you feel guilty quite fast and deliberately using that to make you do stuff or make you feel bad for your actions..
    - "Any and all signs of a lack of empathy, including being butthurt after someone treats them like they treat others."
    This should be listed twice, it's so baffling seeing the reaction of such people. I tried to treat someone like they treat others and for real I couldn't keep up with it, ended feeling sad for them and how they ever became this way.
  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,397 Member
    Wow.. you all have thought hard on this.

    Constant crotch scratching.. you can keep your crotch crickets man :D
  • tmanfive
    tmanfive Posts: 1,365 Member
    slimgirljo15 wrote: »
    Wow.. you all have thought hard on this.

    Constant crotch scratching.. you can keep your crotch crickets man :D

    But what if he just likes playing with himself?

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  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,397 Member
    edited June 2021
    tmanfive wrote: »
    slimgirljo15 wrote: »
    Wow.. you all have thought hard on this.

    Constant crotch scratching.. you can keep your crotch crickets man :D

    But what if he just likes playing with himself?

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    Im ok if its hot and he wants to move the boys around for comfort in private.. but Im talking constant scratching thats not normal..its a red flag, he's probably got crotch crickets 😆

    Oops 😬 better not
  • ReenieHJ
    ReenieHJ Posts: 9,724 Member
    Crotch Crickets??
    That's a new one I've never heard.
    *sneaking away to file it in my noteworthy notes book*

    Yeh, that bugs the heck outta me too, especially when there's company in the house. :/ Some things just need that closed door in front.
  • ReenieHJ
    ReenieHJ Posts: 9,724 Member
    _sw33tp3a_11 wrote: »
    When they don't make me laugh

    A sense of humor is a definite must as we go through life. Carries us through down times and pandemics. But if they mock others, thinking it's funny.......no thank you. They're arseholes.
  • BipolarNutcase
    BipolarNutcase Posts: 12 Member
    Adams apple lol
  • Ironwoman1111
    Ironwoman1111 Posts: 3,913 Member
    @slimgirljo15 wrote: »

    Constant crotch scratching.. you can keep your crotch crickets man :D


    I once went to a corn festival and the guy collecting the cash kept scratching the whole time!😂 I’m not sure if he had crickets, ants or crabs?😝🤷🏽‍♀️
    @philipfurino0895 wrote: »
    Adams apple lol

    I don’t know why but this is too funny! 🤣🍎
  • tmanfive
    tmanfive Posts: 1,365 Member
    edited June 2021
    Red right return…

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  • Danw586
    Danw586 Posts: 237 Member
    Shows up 20 minutes late with an iced coffee.
  • KosmosKitten
    KosmosKitten Posts: 10,476 Member
    Constantly sending me d*** pics when you're bored. There's a reason you're permanently on "read" with no responses.
  • Ironwoman1111
    Ironwoman1111 Posts: 3,913 Member
    @KosmosKitten wrote: »
    Constantly sending me d*** pics when you're bored. There's a reason you're permanently on "read" with no responses.


    Ewww!🤣🤣🤣
  • tmanfive
    tmanfive Posts: 1,365 Member
    KosmosKitten wrote: »
    Constantly sending me d*** pics when you're bored. There's a reason you're permanently on "read" with no responses.

    Wow. Just…. Wow.

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