“Skinny Fat” problem: pls help !!

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demimarie18
demimarie18 Posts: 1 Member
edited December 2024 in Health and Weight Loss
I’m a 20 year old girl. I’m currently 54 kg (119 lbs) and 172 cm (5,8). According to my BMI I am classified as ‘underweight’. Recently, I have been in a calorie deficit to lose body fat because even tho I am at an “unhealthy” weight I still have excess fat on my body e.g. stomach and thighs. How could this be ? It makes me worry that I am going to have to be in a calorie deficit to the point where I am even more underweight to achieve the body I want.

It makes me look at other girls my age and wonder if they are severely underweight (even more than I am) to achieve such lean figures ?

Has anyone had a similar experience or can give any advice/guidance ?
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  • liftingbro
    liftingbro Posts: 2,029 Member
    If you are skinny the best way to fix it is slow bulk and lift. Eat about 500-700 calories over maintenance, high protein, diet. The fix for skinny fat is to add muscle and once you've done that you go into a deficit again to bring the body fat down again.
  • candylilacs
    candylilacs Posts: 614 Member
    I’m a 20 year old girl. I’m currently 54 kg (119 lbs) and 172 cm (5,8). According to my BMI I am classified as ‘underweight’. Recently, I have been in a calorie deficit to lose body fat because even tho I am at an “unhealthy” weight I still have excess fat on my body e.g. stomach and thighs. How could this be ?

    You should not going under 2,000 a day. Walk a whole mile daily. That's should put thighs in great shape.

  • psuLemon
    psuLemon Posts: 38,459 MFP Moderator
    Theoldguy1 wrote: »
    MikePTY wrote: »
    Theoldguy1 wrote: »
    Azdak wrote: »
    First I want to compliment the OP for such a reasoned question. She obviously thinks she has a fat problem, but is insightful enough to understand that her current approach might not be the best pathway.

    I also want to compliment the comments in he thread for not instantly telling her she had body image issues and needed counseling. I cringed when I first read the OP because that is usually what happens and I find it often inappropriate.

    However, I do think the rush to push “bulk/cut” cycles is very premature and ill-considered in a case like this. Especially since no one really knows what the specific situation is. For someone who doesn’t even understand the basic approach yet, getting into any kind of basic lifting program would be an important first step. Telling someone who is already concerned with excess body fat to add 500-700 calories a day to their diet does not strike me as the best starting point.

    Maybe that’s just my innate caution.



    Your innate caution is well placed. IMO, there is a pretty small % of the population where bulk/cut may be appropriate, As you say, someone who is not lifting and is concerned with BF sure isn't one of them.

    A bulk is certainly not the best course of action for everyone. It's not usually the first thing I would recommend. But for someone who is already underweight and has what is likely low muscle mass, bulking first is likely the most appropriate strategy. They should not try to lose more or even "recomp", as their current weight is still not a healthy one.

    The OP is clinically underweight and may possibly have some physical/mental issues going on. Telling her blindly eat 5-700 calories over maintenance as some have suggested, without medical direction/advice on diet is not appropriate IMO.

    If the OP has some psychology issues, then that should be a discussion she should have with her doctor. But just because the OP is worried doesn't mean she has one. Its possible she just needs some education. Given the fact that i have worked with several women in the situation and others in this thread also have direct experience, i would suggest its not uncommon for underweight women or even men to deal with this situation. Low muscle mass makes it difficult to get a shapely body.

    So while you are quick to criticize others without adding more context to her OP, I will provide a recommendation based on my experience.
  • candylilacs
    candylilacs Posts: 614 Member
    edited January 2020
    Lillymoo01 wrote: »
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    How will walking a mile a day help build up muscle mass?

    Where does the OP say "help build up muscle mass"?

  • candylilacs
    candylilacs Posts: 614 Member
    Lillymoo01 wrote: »
    You said walking a mile a day would put your thighs in great shape. The only way to 'put thighs in great shape' is to build muscle mass in that area. Walking a mile a day won't do that.

    If OP is 'skinny-fat' the only way to rectify it is through resistance training. Progressive weight training would be beneficial to reach this goal, walking wouldn't.

    Where does the OP say "help build up muscle mass"? You're quoting out of context.

  • OP I have only skimmed the comments. Do you want to look more muscular? If so, you could just start a resistance training programme and see what happens. Leave your weight as it is. You may be surprised at the results. I have been strength training for 3 years now. More or less at same weight. 135-140, 5 ft 8.5. I still have fat but I look much better, subjectively. I’m not ripped or anything I just look firmer all over and my arms and back are a bit muscular.
  • I should add - losing weight is definitely not the answer. You are 20 pounds lighter than me and only half an inch shorter. Your right in the edge of being underweight.
  • adoucet15
    adoucet15 Posts: 25 Member
    I have these problems. I look “normal” in clothes but other times theres more fat than I’d like. Like others said, gaining muscle is what you need to get your weight up!
  • Jthanmyfitnesspal
    Jthanmyfitnesspal Posts: 3,674 Member
    We are all our own worst critics. At your age it's difficult not to be obsessed with your appearance. But do your best to think about more important matters:

    What do you want in life? What skills to you need to do what you want? How are you going to get those skills?

    The more you focus on things other than your appearance, the happier you will be.
  • rheddmobile
    rheddmobile Posts: 6,839 Member
    It seems to me there’s a lot of distance between “has body images so bad they require professional help” and “has kind of a messed up idea of what normal levels of body fat on a 20 year old woman’s body looks like due to a lifetime of viewing photoshopped ads.”

    OP, you need some fat on your body in order to function normally, have periods, and so on. If your friends all have zero visible fat on their bodies then yes, they are underweight in a way that isn’t healthy.

    The advice to gain some muscle mass in order to look better at a higher weight is good advice, but it would be helpful if we all knew where you were coming from and if your expectations are realistic. Would you be comfortable sharing a photo?
  • PAV8888
    PAV8888 Posts: 15,460 Member
    edited January 2020
    @Azdak being aware that you've had potentially real life contact with clients in similar circumstances vs my being primarily guided by tangent reading of papers and blogs and MFP interactions, and definitely no professional expertise (i.e. nothing beyond my own reading for self education and understanding), how do you square the following circles:

    --currently underweight or near underweight with a
    --recent history of dieting to lose weight often leading to increased
    --ideation that may or may not amount to an ED but may carry some hints that it could amount to one if not modified in the very near future
    --weight restoration to ~bmi 20 often associated with significant reduction in such ideation independently of other intervention (and even more so in conjunction with professional intervention, of course)
    --the forum not suggesting increased net calories to stabilize weight above underweight and weight restore by preference as a primary step/ integral part of a plan of action?

    The second circle that needs squaring for myself: what profiles qualify as having excess fat available at a sub 20 BMI?

    I can think of very few. Vertically challenged, female, Asian, plus low muscle mass due to infirmity, injury, disease, or lack of training with or without associated nutritional misadventure?

    Note that I am talking excess fat beyond a relatively lean, at most approaching normal, level. In other words something that WOULD primarily benefit from a caloric reduction to improve, which I think is seldom the case in the type of posts we are currently discussing.
  • psuLemon
    psuLemon Posts: 38,459 MFP Moderator
    sardelsa wrote: »
    I disagree in that someone who is underweight should just lift and be able to gain muscle. Their first course of action should be getting to a healthy weight, and if there is history of ED (which we do not know) then seeing a doctor is recommended. OP doesn't have to "bulk" but can gain weight (with or without lifting) then recomp. Is it just terminology here or do you really think OP should stay underweight provided they lift? Would you tell someone who was obese to just lift and don't overcomplicate it by attempting to lose weight (or "cut")?

    If OP has body image issues and prefers not to gain weight and stay underweight then seeing a doctor is highly recommended IMO.

    I agree with this. And to add one of my biggest issues is that we are automatically assuming body image issues or ED even though we haven't directly said it. If we want to stay away from lifting jargon, then, i can get on board with that. But just because someone is concerned about their look doesn't mean ED or body issues.
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