Guys/Girls: What is your real opinion on..
Replies
-
Thetwitchisback wrote: »sweet_ermengarde wrote: »Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »Ladies...
Well then what do you say if the compliments are appreciated and from someone you admire?
Still Aww thank you in some cases?
Ug-h-h-h! If you keep omitting context and specific scenarios how do you expect us to confuse you regarding the feminine mystique, thereby keeping you subjugated by our wiles? Get with the program, man.
like say u send a pic of you *kitten* and they are like “you look good” what do u do because my first instinct would be “no haha its okay, bad hair day, the lighting sucks” or just a heart emoji
“thank you 😊”
this is terrible advice! from all of you! its not even the bad advice thread!!4 -
sweet_ermengarde wrote: »sweet_ermengarde wrote: »Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »Ladies...
Well then what do you say if the compliments are appreciated and from someone you admire?
Still Aww thank you in some cases?
Ug-h-h-h! If you keep omitting context and specific scenarios how do you expect us to confuse you regarding the feminine mystique, thereby keeping you subjugated by our wiles? Get with the program, man.
like say u send a pic of you *kitten* and they are like “you look good” what do u do because my first instinct would be “no haha its okay, bad hair day, the lighting sucks” or just a heart emoji
maybe just like respond with a hilarious nonsensical gif or something idk
1 -
sweet_ermengarde wrote: »Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »Ladies...
Well then what do you say if the compliments are appreciated and from someone you admire?
Still Aww thank you in some cases?
Ug-h-h-h! If you keep omitting context and specific scenarios how do you expect us to confuse you regarding the feminine mystique, thereby keeping you subjugated by our wiles? Get with the program, man.
like say u send a pic of you *kitten* and they are like “you look good” what do u do because my first instinct would be “no haha its okay, bad hair day, the lighting sucks” or just a heart emoji
To paraphrase @Mr_Healthy_Habits (who is apparently paraphrasing @TwitchyMacGee ): But is he hot, though?
hypothetically he’s super hot3 -
Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »Ladies...
Well then what do you say if the compliments are appreciated and from someone you admire?
Still Aww thank you in some cases?
Seriously though it depends. If it’s a man I LIKE or a woman I admire, I get very nervous and I don’t know wtf I’ll say/type
If it’s just a nice person i like in the normal way i usually say thank you. Or maybe a “that means a lot”
If it’s someone i want to let down easy I put in the awww.
Communication is difficult4 -
sweet_ermengarde wrote: »Thetwitchisback wrote: »sweet_ermengarde wrote: »Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »Ladies...
Well then what do you say if the compliments are appreciated and from someone you admire?
Still Aww thank you in some cases?
Ug-h-h-h! If you keep omitting context and specific scenarios how do you expect us to confuse you regarding the feminine mystique, thereby keeping you subjugated by our wiles? Get with the program, man.
like say u send a pic of you *kitten* and they are like “you look good” what do u do because my first instinct would be “no haha its okay, bad hair day, the lighting sucks” or just a heart emoji
“thank you 😊”
this is terrible advice! from all of you! its not even the bad advice thread!!
I SUCK AT THIS!4 -
sweet_ermengarde wrote: »sweet_ermengarde wrote: »Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »Ladies...
Well then what do you say if the compliments are appreciated and from someone you admire?
Still Aww thank you in some cases?
Ug-h-h-h! If you keep omitting context and specific scenarios how do you expect us to confuse you regarding the feminine mystique, thereby keeping you subjugated by our wiles? Get with the program, man.
like say u send a pic of you *kitten* and they are like “you look good” what do u do because my first instinct would be “no haha its okay, bad hair day, the lighting sucks” or just a heart emoji
To paraphrase @Mr_Healthy_Habits (who is apparently paraphrasing @TwitchyMacGee ): But is he hot, though?
hypothetically he’s super hot
Hypothetically then, a request for equivalent *kitten* will be made to which I will reciprocate with an equally underwhelming response in lowercase and lacking punctuation. Should intimacy escalation on his part not be forthcoming within 45 minutes (give or take 32 seconds), he will be downgraded until further notice.
Simple.5 -
kindalikevelma wrote: »Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »sweet_ermengarde wrote: »if u dont say “aw, thanks” how tf do u y’all respond to a compliment?? like what is the non socially awkward thing to say
I kr... That's exactly what I was thinking...kindalikevelma wrote: »sweet_ermengarde wrote: »if u dont say “aw, thanks” how tf do u y’all respond to a compliment?? like what is the non socially awkward thing to say
“thats sweet of you to say”
Now this one however seems more get awayish, and would crush me 😂
im just not the best at accepting compliments whether or not they are well intentioned.
me either, i say just do heart emoji4 -
sweet_ermengarde wrote: »if u dont say “aw, thanks” how tf do u y’all respond to a compliment?? like what is the non socially awkward thing to say
"that's nice of you to say" or "thank you ma'am"
or just go with ol' reliable and hit em with that "lol"
“thank you sir”3 -
😂I couldn’t pull that off. It’s great thoughsweet_ermengarde wrote: »sweet_ermengarde wrote: »Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »Ladies...
Well then what do you say if the compliments are appreciated and from someone you admire?
Still Aww thank you in some cases?
Ug-h-h-h! If you keep omitting context and specific scenarios how do you expect us to confuse you regarding the feminine mystique, thereby keeping you subjugated by our wiles? Get with the program, man.
like say u send a pic of you *kitten* and they are like “you look good” what do u do because my first instinct would be “no haha its okay, bad hair day, the lighting sucks” or just a heart emoji
To paraphrase @Mr_Healthy_Habits (who is apparently paraphrasing @TwitchyMacGee ): But is he hot, though?
hypothetically he’s super hot
Hypothetically then, a request for equivalent *kitten* will be made to which I will reciprocate with an equally underwhelming response in lowercase and lacking punctuation. Should intimacy escalation on his part not be forthcoming within 45 minutes (give or take 32 seconds), he will be downgraded until further notice.
Simple.
3 -
okay, just so we're all clear- when in doubt as to what to say, say nothing.
because you can always say more later, but you can't take back something once its said.
now if they get mad because you didn't say something then its okay to go vague post on social media with like sunset pics and inspirational quotes, but otherwise keep your dignity and just go cry in the closet like the rest of us.8 -
Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »Ladies...
Well then what do you say if the compliments are appreciated and from someone you admire?
Still Aww thank you in some cases?
Ug-h-h-h! If you keep omitting context and specific scenarios how do you expect us to confuse you regarding the feminine mystique, thereby keeping you subjugated by our wiles? Get with the program, man.
Don't worry, you're doing a mighty fine job confusing me 😂...kindalikevelma wrote: »Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »sweet_ermengarde wrote: »if u dont say “aw, thanks” how tf do u y’all respond to a compliment?? like what is the non socially awkward thing to say
I kr... That's exactly what I was thinking...kindalikevelma wrote: »sweet_ermengarde wrote: »if u dont say “aw, thanks” how tf do u y’all respond to a compliment?? like what is the non socially awkward thing to say
“thats sweet of you to say”
Now this one however seems more get awayish, and would crush me 😂
im just not the best at accepting compliments whether or not they are well intentioned.
Oohhh look at you with that 1-2 combo 😂1 -
sweet_ermengarde wrote: »sweet_ermengarde wrote: »Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »Ladies...
Well then what do you say if the compliments are appreciated and from someone you admire?
Still Aww thank you in some cases?
Ug-h-h-h! If you keep omitting context and specific scenarios how do you expect us to confuse you regarding the feminine mystique, thereby keeping you subjugated by our wiles? Get with the program, man.
like say u send a pic of you *kitten* and they are like “you look good” what do u do because my first instinct would be “no haha its okay, bad hair day, the lighting sucks” or just a heart emoji
To paraphrase @Mr_Healthy_Habits (who is apparently paraphrasing @TwitchyMacGee ): But is he hot, though?
hypothetically he’s super hot
Hypothetically then, a request for equivalent *kitten* will be made to which I will reciprocate with an equally underwhelming response in lowercase and lacking punctuation. Should intimacy escalation on his part not be forthcoming within 45 minutes (give or take 32 seconds), he will be downgraded until further notice.
Simple.
i’m going to need to borrow some self confidence5 -
okay, just so we're all clear- when in doubt as to what to say, say nothing.
because you can always say more later, but you can't take back something once its said.
now if they get mad because you didn't say something then its okay to go vague post on social media with like sunset pics and inspirational quotes, but otherwise keep your dignity and just go cry in the closet like the rest of us.
4 -
okay, just so we're all clear- when in doubt as to what to say, say nothing.
because you can always say more later, but you can't take back something once its said.
now if they get mad because you didn't say something then its okay to go vague post on social media with like sunset pics and inspirational quotes, but otherwise keep your dignity and just go cry in the closet like the rest of us.
yes2 -
I always thought awww thanks was OK. 😕 Maybe us women also need a hive mind???
3 -
Y'all are makin my head hurt. What ever happened to just pulling a girls hair and waiting for a cheek kiss under the swing set? Darn internet age.3
-
It’s complicatedwill_it_go_round_in_circles wrote: »Y'all are makin my head hurt. What ever happened to just pulling a girls hair and waiting for a cheek kiss under the swing set? Darn internet age.
2 -
will_it_go_round_in_circles wrote: »Y'all are makin my head hurt. What ever happened to just pulling a girls hair and waiting for a cheek kiss under the swing set? Darn internet age.
7 -
Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »will_it_go_round_in_circles wrote: »Y'all are makin my head hurt. What ever happened to just pulling a girls hair and waiting for a cheek kiss under the swing set? Darn internet age.
Really laughed out loud. *snort*3 -
Miss_Chiev0us wrote: »Why do women wear uncomfortable things and complain? I know supposed to be my opinion but honestly want to know. Some I guess would be for "attention" from men, but I doubt very many does it for that reason. (Less than 5% or?) Most I would say to compete with other women. But, hmmm?
Why do people always think women want attention from men when they wear certain things? I personally don't really wear things that are uncomfortable besides this *kitten* mask we gotta wear everywhere. Sometimes I'll wear my 4 inch heels with a dress because I want to look good for my man if we go on a date night but I rather wear chucks 😊
Like I said in my post, I doubt very many women wear uncomfortable things for men (<=5%) so I don't think women do it for attention from men.
0 -
Thetwitchisback wrote: »Why do women wear uncomfortable things and complain? I know supposed to be my opinion but honestly want to know. Some I guess would be for "attention" from men, but I doubt very many does it for that reason. (Less than 5% or?) Most I would say to compete with other women. But, hmmm?
Because granny panties are not a big hit with the menfolk
Really? I could care less what type of panties a woman is wearing. (Granny panties, no panties, thong, plain panties, colorful panties, boy cut panties, whatever) only time a man would see you are wearing granny panties is if you two were intimate with each other, and im sorry, those things are coming off so could care less. Lol Guess within realm of possibility, but I can not ever imagine a man turning a woman down for sex because she was wearing "granny panties". Maybe I'm just crazy I don't know.2 -
Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »Ladies...
Well then what do you say if the compliments are appreciated and from someone you admire?
Still Aww thank you in some cases?
"Why thank you!"2 -
Thetwitchisback wrote: »Why do women wear uncomfortable things and complain? I know supposed to be my opinion but honestly want to know. Some I guess would be for "attention" from men, but I doubt very many does it for that reason. (Less than 5% or?) Most I would say to compete with other women. But, hmmm?
Because granny panties are not a big hit with the menfolk
Really? I could care less what type of panties a woman is wearing. (Granny panties, no panties, thong, plain panties, colorful panties, boy cut panties, whatever) only time a man would see you are wearing granny panties is if you two were intimate with each other, and im sorry, those things are coming off so could care less. Lol Guess within realm of possibility, but I can not ever imagine a man turning a woman down for sex because she was wearing "granny panties". Maybe I'm just crazy I don't know.
Many years ago I did actually meet a man who seemed disappointed in my choice of undergarment. I thought they were cute. He disagreed. He wasn’t that great anyway.4 -
What was the undergarment? Intrigued ha0
-
-
Thetwitchisback wrote: »
Doesn't disapoint in my opinion 😁3 -
Thetwitchisback wrote: »
Oh cool....twinsies!3 -
Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »Ladies...
Well then what do you say if the compliments are appreciated and from someone you admire?
Still Aww thank you in some cases?
I'm probably the last person who should answer this since I suck at receiving compliments but the response would be the same whether or not the compliment was delivered by someone I admire.
If it's someone I really really admire, as in I'd had a mad crush on him for ages, there's a good chance I wouldn't say anything remotely appropriate since I'm awkward like that.
Him: "You're cute"
Me: "Ah... ummm... damn, is this rain ever going to stop?"4 -
Ladies,
He suggests you head to a strip club and he'll treat you to a lap dance from the headliner: Bella Blü. You game?
Gentlemen,
She suggests you head to a strip club and she'll treat you to a lap dance from the headliner: Mystic Miguel. You game?
🤷🏿♀️3 -
Categories
- All Categories
- 1.4M Health, Wellness and Goals
- 393.4K Introduce Yourself
- 43.8K Getting Started
- 260.2K Health and Weight Loss
- 175.9K Food and Nutrition
- 47.4K Recipes
- 232.5K Fitness and Exercise
- 427 Sleep, Mindfulness and Overall Wellness
- 6.5K Goal: Maintaining Weight
- 8.5K Goal: Gaining Weight and Body Building
- 153K Motivation and Support
- 8K Challenges
- 1.3K Debate Club
- 96.3K Chit-Chat
- 2.5K Fun and Games
- 3.7K MyFitnessPal Information
- 24 News and Announcements
- 1.1K Feature Suggestions and Ideas
- 2.6K MyFitnessPal Tech Support Questions