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  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    edited August 2020
    if guys cant say stuff like “i like skinny girls” without being offensive then is it okay for girls to say things like “i only like tall guys”

    Well... How tall are we talking here? 🤔😂

    Eta... I actually read it as this...
    if guys can say stuff like “i like skinny girls” without being offensive then it's okay for girls to say things like “i only like tall guys”

  • Vikka_V
    Vikka_V Posts: 9,563 Member
    if guys cant say stuff like “i like skinny girls” without being offensive then is it okay for girls to say things like “i only like tall guys”

    I wonder too, does it make a difference if its something you can change or not?

    Like you can change your weight and body (to some extent anyway) but not your height
  • ermengarde22
    ermengarde22 Posts: 2,116 Member
    Vikka_V wrote: »
    if guys cant say stuff like “i like skinny girls” without being offensive then is it okay for girls to say things like “i only like tall guys”

    I wonder too, does it make a difference if its something you can change or not?

    Like you can change your weight and body (to some extent anyway) but not your height

    oh youre right so better analogy is if girls can say “i like tall guys” then guys can say they like girls with certain features they were just born with and cant change
  • 4legsRbetterthan2
    4legsRbetterthan2 Posts: 19,588 Member
    edited August 2020
    if guys cant say stuff like “i like skinny girls” without being offensive then is it okay for girls to say things like “i only like tall guys”

    nope, not ok the way you put it

    However, I don't agree with the statement. I think its fair for people to admit they have a type, most of us do. But, if you are unwilling to even consider others you may miss out on something awesome. But hey, its your own damn fault so what's it to me....
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    Vikka_V wrote: »
    if guys cant say stuff like “i like skinny girls” without being offensive then is it okay for girls to say things like “i only like tall guys”

    I wonder too, does it make a difference if its something you can change or not?

    Like you can change your weight and body (to some extent anyway) but not your height

    oh youre right so better analogy is if girls can say “i like tall guys” then guys can say they like girls with certain features they were just born with and cant change

    You know... I feel it's somehow less offensive to insist you only like, say blondes... Then to say you only like skinny girls... Jme I suppose 🤷🏽‍♂️
  • iMago
    iMago Posts: 8,714 Member
    ladies:

    adores you completely, dotes on you, and *very* well off, but he's danny devito height
    vs
    ignores you often, may/may not have regular employment, & needs to borrow $20 real quick, but he's 6'5

    go
  • Yoshiboobs
    Yoshiboobs Posts: 1,090 Member
    iMago wrote: »
    ladies:

    adores you completely, dotes on you, and *very* well off, but he's danny devito height
    vs
    ignores you often, may/may not have regular employment, & needs to borrow $20 real quick, but he's 6'5

    go

    Danny has his charms
  • iMago
    iMago Posts: 8,714 Member
    iMago wrote: »
    ladies:

    adores you completely, dotes on you, and *very* well off, but he's danny devito height
    vs
    ignores you often, may/may not have regular employment, & needs to borrow $20 real quick, but he's 6'5

    go

    Switching teams.

    RKoZQ5p.gif

    are those choices so bad??
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,510 Member
    Yoshiboobs wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    ladies:

    adores you completely, dotes on you, and *very* well off, but he's danny devito height
    vs
    ignores you often, may/may not have regular employment, & needs to borrow $20 real quick, but he's 6'5

    go

    Danny has his charms

    source.gif
  • 4legsRbetterthan2
    4legsRbetterthan2 Posts: 19,588 Member
    edited August 2020
    For me, there is a "too tall", and 6'5" is in it. It takes me a while to feel comfortable around people that tall, they just feel very imposing initially. And since this fictitious dude doesn't seem to have anything else appealing to make me want to stick around.....
  • iMago
    iMago Posts: 8,714 Member
    For me, there is a "too tall", and 6'5" is in it. It takes me a while to feel comfortable around people that tall, they just feel very imposing initially. And since this fictitious dude doesn't seem to have anything else appealing to make me want to stick around.....

    okay lets raise the stakes:

    he's only 6'2, but he's built like henry cavill when he played superman.
    but now he also doesn't have his own car and really needs to borrow yours for a minute.

    short man is also now built like danny devito, but he's really great with kids and animals.
  • ermengarde22
    ermengarde22 Posts: 2,116 Member
    iMago wrote: »
    For me, there is a "too tall", and 6'5" is in it. It takes me a while to feel comfortable around people that tall, they just feel very imposing initially. And since this fictitious dude doesn't seem to have anything else appealing to make me want to stick around.....

    okay lets raise the stakes:

    he's only 6'2, but he's built like henry cavill when he played superman.
    but now he also doesn't have his own car and really needs to borrow yours for a minute.

    short man is also now built like danny devito, but he's really great with kids and animals.

    i’d go for the short guy in either one of those storylines in a heartbeat if he had confidence and wasnt insecure about it, which i know isnt fair qualifier bc maybe he made to feel insecure idk
  • _sw33tp3a_11
    _sw33tp3a_11 Posts: 4,692 Member
    iMago wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    ladies:

    adores you completely, dotes on you, and *very* well off, but he's danny devito height
    vs
    ignores you often, may/may not have regular employment, & needs to borrow $20 real quick, but he's 6'5

    go

    Switching teams.

    RKoZQ5p.gif

    are those choices so bad??

    Well the former not so much. I mean, I have this mentality of everything is temporary. His adoration will more than likely be temporary just like his doteness. Money comes and goes the only thing that will always remain the same is his shortness. I guess what I'm trying to say is, I just like what I like and those things aren't it 🤷‍♀️
  • MaltedTea
    MaltedTea Posts: 6,285 Member
    edited August 2020
    iMago wrote: »
    For me, there is a "too tall", and 6'5" is in it. It takes me a while to feel comfortable around people that tall, they just feel very imposing initially. And since this fictitious dude doesn't seem to have anything else appealing to make me want to stick around.....

    okay lets raise the stakes:

    he's only 6'2, but he's built like henry cavill when he played superman.
    but now he also doesn't have his own car and really needs to borrow yours for a minute.

    short man is also now built like danny devito, but he's really great with kids and animals.

    With all three HILARIOUS scenarios, you omitted whether they were "hawt or not." Like in the face, not just in the body.

    (Edited to accommodate the silliness of not just two but THREE all-the-way out there scenarios.)
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    Vikka_V wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    ladies:

    adores you completely, dotes on you, and *very* well off, but he's danny devito height
    vs
    ignores you often, may/may not have regular employment, & needs to borrow $20 real quick, but he's 6'5

    go

    I'd take the tall guy "because he'd change for me"

    There just isn't a gif nor words that can describe how impressed I am by you 🤯
  • iMago
    iMago Posts: 8,714 Member
    MaltedTea wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    For me, there is a "too tall", and 6'5" is in it. It takes me a while to feel comfortable around people that tall, they just feel very imposing initially. And since this fictitious dude doesn't seem to have anything else appealing to make me want to stick around.....

    okay lets raise the stakes:

    he's only 6'2, but he's built like henry cavill when he played superman.
    but now he also doesn't have his own car and really needs to borrow yours for a minute.

    short man is also now built like danny devito, but he's really great with kids and animals.

    With both scenarios, you omitted whether they were "hawt or not." Like in the face, not just in the body.

    say they're both equally attractive in the face just to call it even
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    iMago wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    For me, there is a "too tall", and 6'5" is in it. It takes me a while to feel comfortable around people that tall, they just feel very imposing initially. And since this fictitious dude doesn't seem to have anything else appealing to make me want to stick around.....

    okay lets raise the stakes:

    he's only 6'2, but he's built like henry cavill when he played superman.
    but now he also doesn't have his own car and really needs to borrow yours for a minute.

    short man is also now built like danny devito, but he's really great with kids and animals.

    i’d go for the short guy in either one of those storylines in a heartbeat if he had confidence and wasnt insecure about it, which i know isnt fair qualifier bc maybe he made to feel insecure idk

    okay:

    short man now has short man syndrome, but he recognizes its a flaw and is working on it (he's 40)

    tall guy doesn't know how to spell syndrome.

    OMG 😂😂😂...

    This close 🤏🏼 to hearing the "Whats so funny in there!?" remark from the other room 😂...
  • MaltedTea
    MaltedTea Posts: 6,285 Member
    So, if I'm understanding thus far, the escalating scenarios are...

    1.
    iMago wrote: »
    ladies:

    adores you completely, dotes on you, and *very* well off, but he's danny devito height
    vs
    ignores you often, may/may not have regular employment, & needs to borrow $20 real quick, but he's 6'5

    go

    2.
    iMago wrote: »
    okay lets raise the stakes:

    he's only 6'2, but he's built like henry cavill when he played superman.
    but now he also doesn't have his own car and really needs to borrow yours for a minute.

    short man is also now built like danny devito, but he's really great with kids and animals.

    3.
    iMago wrote: »
    short man now has short man syndrome, but he recognizes its a flaw and is working on it (he's 40)

    tall guy doesn't know how to spell syndrome.

    And they are equally handsome/hideous in the face, yes?

    I whip out a faux-engagement ring and walk away slowly... 🤷🏿‍♀️




  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,510 Member
    Vikka_V wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    ladies:

    adores you completely, dotes on you, and *very* well off, but he's danny devito height
    vs
    ignores you often, may/may not have regular employment, & needs to borrow $20 real quick, but he's 6'5

    go

    I'd take the tall guy "because he'd change for me"

    awesome.
  • ermengarde22
    ermengarde22 Posts: 2,116 Member
    iMago wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    For me, there is a "too tall", and 6'5" is in it. It takes me a while to feel comfortable around people that tall, they just feel very imposing initially. And since this fictitious dude doesn't seem to have anything else appealing to make me want to stick around.....

    okay lets raise the stakes:

    he's only 6'2, but he's built like henry cavill when he played superman.
    but now he also doesn't have his own car and really needs to borrow yours for a minute.

    short man is also now built like danny devito, but he's really great with kids and animals.

    i’d go for the short guy in either one of those storylines in a heartbeat if he had confidence and wasnt insecure about it, which i know isnt fair qualifier bc maybe he made to feel insecure idk

    okay:

    short man now has short man syndrome, but he recognizes its a flaw and is working on it (he's 40)

    tall guy doesn't know how to spell syndrome.

    idk it seems like he’d spend the entire time accusing me of crushing on tall guys and if he was serious about getting over it he’d work on it on his own *kitten* before getting into someone’s life like that
  • iMago
    iMago Posts: 8,714 Member
    iMago wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    For me, there is a "too tall", and 6'5" is in it. It takes me a while to feel comfortable around people that tall, they just feel very imposing initially. And since this fictitious dude doesn't seem to have anything else appealing to make me want to stick around.....

    okay lets raise the stakes:

    he's only 6'2, but he's built like henry cavill when he played superman.
    but now he also doesn't have his own car and really needs to borrow yours for a minute.

    short man is also now built like danny devito, but he's really great with kids and animals.

    i’d go for the short guy in either one of those storylines in a heartbeat if he had confidence and wasnt insecure about it, which i know isnt fair qualifier bc maybe he made to feel insecure idk

    okay:

    short man now has short man syndrome, but he recognizes its a flaw and is working on it (he's 40)

    tall guy doesn't know how to spell syndrome.

    idk it seems like he’d spend the entire time accusing me of crushing on tall guys and if he was serious about getting over it he’d work on it on his own *kitten* before getting into someone’s life like that

    final level unlocked, all previous modifiers still apply:

    short guy would throw hands for you if someone disrespected you

    tall guy keeps his phone muted at all times
  • ermengarde22
    ermengarde22 Posts: 2,116 Member
    iMago wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    For me, there is a "too tall", and 6'5" is in it. It takes me a while to feel comfortable around people that tall, they just feel very imposing initially. And since this fictitious dude doesn't seem to have anything else appealing to make me want to stick around.....

    okay lets raise the stakes:

    he's only 6'2, but he's built like henry cavill when he played superman.
    but now he also doesn't have his own car and really needs to borrow yours for a minute.

    short man is also now built like danny devito, but he's really great with kids and animals.

    i’d go for the short guy in either one of those storylines in a heartbeat if he had confidence and wasnt insecure about it, which i know isnt fair qualifier bc maybe he made to feel insecure idk

    okay:

    short man now has short man syndrome, but he recognizes its a flaw and is working on it (he's 40)

    tall guy doesn't know how to spell syndrome.

    idk it seems like he’d spend the entire time accusing me of crushing on tall guys and if he was serious about getting over it he’d work on it on his own *kitten* before getting into someone’s life like that

    final level unlocked, all previous modifiers still apply:

    short guy would throw hands for you if someone disrespected you

    tall guy keeps his phone muted at all times

    *kitten*
  • MaltedTea
    MaltedTea Posts: 6,285 Member
    iMago wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    For me, there is a "too tall", and 6'5" is in it. It takes me a while to feel comfortable around people that tall, they just feel very imposing initially. And since this fictitious dude doesn't seem to have anything else appealing to make me want to stick around.....

    okay lets raise the stakes:

    he's only 6'2, but he's built like henry cavill when he played superman.
    but now he also doesn't have his own car and really needs to borrow yours for a minute.

    short man is also now built like danny devito, but he's really great with kids and animals.

    i’d go for the short guy in either one of those storylines in a heartbeat if he had confidence and wasnt insecure about it, which i know isnt fair qualifier bc maybe he made to feel insecure idk

    okay:

    short man now has short man syndrome, but he recognizes its a flaw and is working on it (he's 40)

    tall guy doesn't know how to spell syndrome.

    idk it seems like he’d spend the entire time accusing me of crushing on tall guys and if he was serious about getting over it he’d work on it on his own *kitten* before getting into someone’s life like that

    final level unlocked, all previous modifiers still apply:

    short guy would throw hands for you if someone disrespected you

    tall guy keeps his phone muted at all times

    (Legit starts shopping for "faux engagement rings...")

    If this is all there is then I don't want any part of it 🙅🏿‍♀️
  • iMago
    iMago Posts: 8,714 Member
    MaltedTea wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    For me, there is a "too tall", and 6'5" is in it. It takes me a while to feel comfortable around people that tall, they just feel very imposing initially. And since this fictitious dude doesn't seem to have anything else appealing to make me want to stick around.....

    okay lets raise the stakes:

    he's only 6'2, but he's built like henry cavill when he played superman.
    but now he also doesn't have his own car and really needs to borrow yours for a minute.

    short man is also now built like danny devito, but he's really great with kids and animals.

    i’d go for the short guy in either one of those storylines in a heartbeat if he had confidence and wasnt insecure about it, which i know isnt fair qualifier bc maybe he made to feel insecure idk

    okay:

    short man now has short man syndrome, but he recognizes its a flaw and is working on it (he's 40)

    tall guy doesn't know how to spell syndrome.

    idk it seems like he’d spend the entire time accusing me of crushing on tall guys and if he was serious about getting over it he’d work on it on his own *kitten* before getting into someone’s life like that

    final level unlocked, all previous modifiers still apply:

    short guy would throw hands for you if someone disrespected you

    tall guy keeps his phone muted at all times

    (Legit starts shopping for "faux engagement rings...")

    If this is all there is then I don't want any part of it 🙅🏿‍♀️

    well its either those two, or waiting for a knight in shining armor.
    not a whole lot of those left though, if there ever were any to begin with.
  • 4legsRbetterthan2
    4legsRbetterthan2 Posts: 19,588 Member
    iMago wrote: »
    For me, there is a "too tall", and 6'5" is in it. It takes me a while to feel comfortable around people that tall, they just feel very imposing initially. And since this fictitious dude doesn't seem to have anything else appealing to make me want to stick around.....

    okay lets raise the stakes:

    he's only 6'2, but he's built like henry cavill when he played superman.
    but now he also doesn't have his own car and really needs to borrow yours for a minute.

    short man is also now built like danny devito, but he's really great with kids and animals.

    haha now I am feeling like such a wierdo, but yeah, super muscly dudes are in a similar territory to overly tall dudes :D

    not sure what my "dream guy" looks like. I seem to go for just average looking people.
  • 4legsRbetterthan2
    4legsRbetterthan2 Posts: 19,588 Member
    Vikka_V wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    ladies:

    adores you completely, dotes on you, and *very* well off, but he's danny devito height
    vs
    ignores you often, may/may not have regular employment, & needs to borrow $20 real quick, but he's 6'5

    go

    I'd take the tall guy "because he'd change for me"

    you win the day!