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  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
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    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »
    Ladies and Dudes too...

    Dudes flexing in front of the gym mirrors...
    Bad form or OK?


    only competitive body builders should do this

    on a different, yet similar issue.....

    From time to time, I do video a friend of mine at the gym (on her phone, not mine), so she can send the video to her coach in San Diego to critique her form. ( really. )

    And she probably pays that Dude hella money to "check" out her form too 😂...

    I'm in the wrong business
  • mynameisnobody1990
    mynameisnobody1990 Posts: 71 Member
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    SoHowLongIsThisGonnaTake wrote: »
    Even for a man who is a software engineer and makes a six figure salary, his dating attempts may be entirely unsuccessful because of how society is changing. Meeting people online is becoming the norm, and a lot of stress is placed on physical beauty on sites like Tinder, even for men.


    Now that we've shown that a smile makes a huge difference, let's look at fashion. As you can see by the example below, you don't have to make a big fashion statement to be appealing. Being comfortable and confident in what you're wearing makes a huge difference. See how we barely notice his clothes?

    That confidence really shines through. See how huge his confidence is? I'm sure if he made six figures, there are plenty of women who would give this guy a chance:


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    Something doesn't seem quite right with his body. I can't pinpoint it but it doesn't appear..... proportionate? I mean, he's fit AF, yet still .....
  • mynameisnobody1990
    mynameisnobody1990 Posts: 71 Member
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    nooshi713 wrote: »
    KosmosKitten wrote: »
    Guys and gals: Your opinion on acne and those that have visible issues with it? Do you judge people who have acne or acne scarring? What about other visible skin issues?

    I don’t judge them for something that’s not their fault. As someone who suffered from severe cystic acne when I was younger, I really sympathize. For many, it is hormonal. The only thing that worked for me was Accutane which I was on 5 times and the pill which both messed me up in other ways.

    No topicals worked and it was incredibly annoying for others to give suggestions for stuff that never worked like drinking water, using lemon on your face, giving up dairy, or just washing your face. None of that worked.

    I knew people that slept in their makeup, ate tons of junk food, and used bar soap and had clear skin. For many it is genetic. No judgement here.

    I hope you managed Accutane with no major issues. Your skin looks fantastic! <3
    However, it's such a hard drug on the body. :o
  • TwitchyMacGee
    TwitchyMacGee Posts: 3,120 Member
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    Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »
    Ladies and Dudes too...

    Dudes flexing in front of the gym mirrors...
    Bad form or OK?

    Depends. How hot is he?

    I can’t even take a gym selfie without cringing. I did some form videos a couple years ago and my gym was supportive and on board with that but still made me so self-conscious.
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
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    TwitchyMacGee wrote: »
    Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »
    Ladies and Dudes too...

    Dudes flexing in front of the gym mirrors...
    Bad form or OK?

    Depends. How hot is he?

    I can’t even take a gym selfie without cringing. I did some form videos a couple years ago and my gym was supportive and on board with that but still made me so self-conscious.

    Well... He's probably more a Robert Downey Jr than a Brad Pitt... Or so he's been told 🤷🏽‍♂️...

    And if you need someone to help check out your *uhm form, he may have a friend 😏
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
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    Ladies...

    Which would you rather date...
    Batman, Superman or the Joker?

  • TwitchyMacGee
    TwitchyMacGee Posts: 3,120 Member
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    Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »
    Ladies...

    Which would you rather date...
    Batman, Superman or the Joker?
    Batman > Superman

    Idk much about Joker
  • MaltedTea
    MaltedTea Posts: 6,286 Member
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    Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »
    Ladies...

    Which would you rather date...
    Batman, Superman or the Joker?

    This is so complicated. Are we talking about the essence of these characters from the comic books or the movie versions played by varyingly accomplished actors over the years?

    Comic book/Pure cannon: Batman for scandalous reasons that would make hentai artists blush
    Movies: Tie between Batman (Keaton's version) or Joker (Leto's version from Suicide Squad)

    Superman just doesn't do it for me lol
  • Tiffanylynn1024
    Tiffanylynn1024 Posts: 167 Member
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    Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »
    Ladies...

    Which would you rather date...
    Batman, Superman or the Joker?

    Batman 💯
  • MaltedTea
    MaltedTea Posts: 6,286 Member
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    Switcheroo!

    Who would you rather date...
    Wonder Woman, Storm or Captain Marvel?
  • amorfati601070
    amorfati601070 Posts: 2,862 Member
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    Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »
    Ladies...

    Which would you rather date...
    Batman, Superman or the Joker?

    Not a lady but w/e

    ONS = Joker
    Date = Superman
    Marry = Batman
  • tinak33
    tinak33 Posts: 9,883 Member
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    amorfati601070 wrote: »
    Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »
    Ladies...

    Which would you rather date...
    Batman, Superman or the Joker?

    Not a lady but w/e

    ONS = Joker
    Date = Superman
    Marry = Batman

    ☝️ what he said.
  • TwitchyMacGee
    TwitchyMacGee Posts: 3,120 Member
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    Y’all come up with things i didn’t know were possible
  • iMago
    iMago Posts: 8,714 Member
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    MaltedTea wrote: »
    Switcheroo!

    Who would you rather date...
    Wonder Woman, Storm or Captain Marvel?

    storm 💯
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,492 Member
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    MaltedTea wrote: »
    Switcheroo!

    Who would you rather date...
    Wonder Woman, Storm or Captain Marvel?

    Wonder Woman

    (Gal Gadot edition)
  • KosmosKitten
    KosmosKitten Posts: 10,476 Member
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    TwitchyMacGee wrote: »
    PaperDoll_ wrote: »
    racergurltn wrote: »
    Men seem so much more confident in their skin than women. We as women have been told to be tanned, makeuped, tone, flawless skin, nails perfect, hair colored and styled, and men just wake up, run their hands through their hair and own their *kitten* and we really think they are beautiful, grey hairs, wrinkles and all.

    There are plenty of days I just run my hands through my hair and call it a day.

    I’m girling all wrong. 🤔😂

    Same. And nobody but nobody appreciates how damn low maintenance I am.

    I appreciate it because I, too, am the same. Which is evident by the selfies floating around this place.

    All that routine is just too much work. I got better things to do.
  • KosmosKitten
    KosmosKitten Posts: 10,476 Member
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    nooshi713 wrote: »
    KosmosKitten wrote: »
    Guys and gals: Your opinion on acne and those that have visible issues with it? Do you judge people who have acne or acne scarring? What about other visible skin issues?

    I don’t judge them for something that’s not their fault. As someone who suffered from severe cystic acne when I was younger, I really sympathize. For many, it is hormonal. The only thing that worked for me was Accutane which I was on 5 times and the pill which both messed me up in other ways.

    No topicals worked and it was incredibly annoying for others to give suggestions for stuff that never worked like drinking water, using lemon on your face, giving up dairy, or just washing your face. None of that worked.

    I knew people that slept in their makeup, ate tons of junk food, and used bar soap and had clear skin. For many it is genetic. No judgement here.

    Dis me. I'm in my 30s now and not even Retin-A diminishes my acne. True, it's not as severe as it could be, but it's still cystic acne, it's still visible, it still leaves scars and it's still incredibly annoying.

    And you're right, none of that crap people say to do helped diminish it at all.

    I always felt that I was being summarily judged for my skin condition(s) in the same way I get judged for being overweight. That somehow, I am lazy and lack willpower because I have it.

    Which, of course, is simply not true as you have stated. Thanks for weighing in!

  • KosmosKitten
    KosmosKitten Posts: 10,476 Member
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    PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »
    Girls... or I guess guys can respond to?

    Workout clothes? Do you judge ladies who wear fitted gym clothes if they have a gut or pounds to still lose. Do you prefer to be covered?

    Nah. Wear whatever you want that's comfortable to workout in.

    Then again, I probably shouldn't be asked because I'm all for demystifying female boobies and letting them hang out in public (assuming the woman wants to exercise that right). :lol:
  • KosmosKitten
    KosmosKitten Posts: 10,476 Member
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    Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »
    Ladies and Dudes too...

    Dudes flexing in front of the gym mirrors...
    Bad form or OK?

    Entertaining.

    It's only bad form if they're hogging the mirrors when someone else is trying to utilize them for some other purpose.. but usually, there's like a wall of them in the gyms I've been to, so I don't see it as a problem.

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