Messages from creepers :-/
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Gaygirl2120
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Share the most cringey messages you have gotten from people on here. I’m not sure if screen shots are allowed. (They're not- edit by MFP moderator) But to sum up my latest experience.
Some dude send me a fr, I add everyone so I add him. He sends me a message “Thanks for the add, how are you?” I politiey reply tell him “I'm good and no problem.” He asks what I’m doing. I tell him “I’m hanging out at home with my wife.” He then proceeds to tell me how hot he thinks I am and my wife must be hot too so can he be our 3rd partner. Gross, just gross 🤮 #unfriend
Some dude send me a fr, I add everyone so I add him. He sends me a message “Thanks for the add, how are you?” I politiey reply tell him “I'm good and no problem.” He asks what I’m doing. I tell him “I’m hanging out at home with my wife.” He then proceeds to tell me how hot he thinks I am and my wife must be hot too so can he be our 3rd partner. Gross, just gross 🤮 #unfriend
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I don't add folks here anymore. I've gotten the gamut of messages. From wanting to exchange pics to dirty messages. Sometimes I play along sometimes not. It's all good fun to me. 🤷🏼♀️7
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just gotta hit em with that "aww thanks! always nice to hear from the fans" or maybe just like a cold, soul-shivving "lol" and nothing else
but tbh some girls are just as bad about it. only they *typically* try to be a bit sneakier and less blatant, which is silly cause most guys will go for it if she was just honest about what she wanted from the beginning.6 -
just gotta hit em with that "aww thanks! always nice to hear from the fans" or maybe just like a cold, soul-shivving "lol" and nothing else
but tbh some girls are just as bad about it. only they *typically* try to be a bit sneakier and less blatant, which is silly cause most guys will go for it if she was just honest about what she wanted from the beginning.
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I don’t get the messages - time to change the pp to the headless torso - that’ll getm - im sure of it - cause nothing the ladies love more than a headless torso - Amirite ladies ????19
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i barely answer DMs. Mostly because I’m lazy.
The only times they’ve gotten dirty was when I actively cultivated that. Exactly twice in the several years Ive been here. And those were fun.
So as not to give even the appearance of creepy I give all my sincere compliments publicly, either in the forums or on their wall.6 -
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To everyone who finds my messages "creepy", I'm sorry...and I prefer the term "socially awkward".
It was never my intention to get to see your *kitten*17 -
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Generally, I don't DM on any social media unless I know you in real life. There's zero need. All convos are out in the open, please and thank you.
It's also the reason I don't accept MFP FRs. So no offense to anyone who fleetingly wondered why I didn't respond. 🤷🏿♀️
The only person I know using MFP is a co-worker. We chat during work breaks about our health progress.4 -
I get FR and I have always accepted them and then I always get a message from that person. Maybe I'm naive, but I didn't think MFP was a dating site. I usually just mention my husband and kids and that does the trick.2
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It helps if you replace your pretty photos with photos of things people find abstract or unappealing.
Or... consequently, if you are a cat. I don't get creepy messages because I don't put myself out there to get them. I hide behind the anonymity of random cat pictures.
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Share the most cringey messages you have gotten from people on here. I’m not sure if screen shots are allowed. (They're not- edit by MFP moderator) But to sum up my latest experience.
Some dude send me a fr, I add everyone so I add him. He sends me a message “Thanks for the add, how are you?” I politiey reply tell him “I'm good and no problem.” He asks what I’m doing. I tell him “I’m hanging out at home with my wife.” He then proceeds to tell me how hot he thinks I am and my wife must be hot too so can he be our 3rd partner. Gross, just gross 🤮 #unfriend
Ew WTF? Why is it that some some guys see two women together and automatically think that they are a swinging lesbian couple looking for a wild threesome and that he is the man they’ve been looking for? Like dude.....your 13 year old fantasies are not reality!
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Truth. I get more random friend requests when my pictures are a certain style. Overly made up or boobs showing suddenly everyone cares about my fitness journey.KosmosKitten wrote: »It helps if you replace your pretty photos with photos of things people find abstract or unappealing.
Or... consequently, if you are a cat. I don't get creepy messages because I don't put myself out there to get them. I hide behind the anonymity of random cat pictures.
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TwitchyMacGee wrote: »
Truth. I get more random friend requests when my pictures are a certain style. Overly made up or boobs showing suddenly everyone cares about my fitness journey.KosmosKitten wrote: »It helps if you replace your pretty photos with photos of things people find abstract or unappealing.
Or... consequently, if you are a cat. I don't get creepy messages because I don't put myself out there to get them. I hide behind the anonymity of random cat pictures.
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I hope some of y’all are reporting the disagree abuse.4
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TwitchyMacGee wrote: »
Truth. I get more random friend requests when my pictures are a certain style. Overly made up or boobs showing suddenly everyone cares about my fitness journey.KosmosKitten wrote: »It helps if you replace your pretty photos with photos of things people find abstract or unappealing.
Or... consequently, if you are a cat. I don't get creepy messages because I don't put myself out there to get them. I hide behind the anonymity of random cat pictures.
Nah, I used to get more messages even when I would just have a profile photo of myself, no makeup, no cleavage/boobs showing. And if anyone bothered to look at my profile, it states quite plainly that I have a family, so...
I just found it easier to hide behind the cat photos.
I mean, y'all can disagree with my assessment all you want, but I'm just telling you what worked for me. I don't get DMs or FR requests at all anymore since taking down photos of myself. I'm also not here to attract a mate, show off or get an ego boost from random DMs and male attention, so maybe that makes a difference.2 -
Is it petty or precise that I assume the people vehemently clicking the "Disagree" button in this thread are the same ones who send inappropriate FRs?10
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