Women 200lb+, Let's Be Adaptable This April!!!
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Hello everyone! I hope you all had a nice Easter, if you celebrate. I've just caught up on my reading, and want to give a shout out to @aliciap0116 for those amazing and inspiring before and after pictures! Incredible.
@rpbarkernc welcome to you as well, and that is seriously a great quarantine rule about the snacking. I think that might help me- I've kind of been snacking all day everyday and telecommuting puts me right close to my kitchen.
@pamiede fabulous dress and fabulous price! I think you should wear it this weekend, anyway.
@CupcakeCrusoe I know what you mean about being home being busier. I'm not sure why that is, but I'm feeling the same. For me it's probably because I'm trying to work and do the homeschooling thing. It feels like I can't get ahead of everything.
@Terytha I am struggling with depression, too. It is encouraging how you are finding positive outlets right now, with contributing the masks and donating blood. I think those are great ways to feel connected to your community.
As for me, I'm having difficulty sticking with my health goals, and Easter weekend set off a crazy eating fiasco for me. I baked challah bread and made my classic challah bread french toast. I also baked a lemon meringue pie. Cooked a smoked ham for dinner. Polished off a ton of jelly beans and chocolate as I was filling eggs for the kids. And, the whole experience culminated in me drinking an entire bottle of sparkling rose over the course of Sunday.
I won't lie, it was all pretty enjoyable. But clearly, I was out of control and not behaving like somebody who even remotely is interested in losing weight and getting out of the "obese" weight category.
to be honest, I've been fairly depressed about this COVID thing and experiencing a lot of stress with regards to possibly losing my job. I know that my eating choices are affected by stress as sadly I've always used to to cope. The bright spot is that I continue to bust my butt on my treadmill at least 4 days a week, and I've been doing yoga 3-4 times a week too.
I haven't been up for logging my weight, since I feel pathetic reporting that I have gained back the same 4 lbs I spent months trying to lose!
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Yesterday was a different day for me. It didn’t feel like a Monday. I had 1 objective which was to apply for unemployment. I also made Manicotti for dinner using my spaghetti sauce I made earlier. I didn’t exercise. I think I might have felt a bit depressed about being on furlough even if I didn’t feel sad just unmotivated.
Today seems more like my start to the ‘work’ week. Today I plan to get some exercise and make sure I exercise on Saturday to make up for yesterday. I plan to make shepards pie with ground lamb. I put cauliflower and carrots into the mashed potatoes in the pie so they aren’t quite so much of a carb load. I may make a strawberry rhubarb pie I didn’t make this weekend as planned.
My focus now is upping water and exercise. I am continuing to log and check in here and keeping under my calorie goal although it was close on Easter.
@vtkayakgirl Yes that sounds like a great day.
@mmdeveau I like split pea soup too. I haven’t been able to find it since all dried beans are gone from the shelf here. But this weekend my husband found some for me. I have other things planned plus I ended up making yellow lentil soup when I couldn’t find split peas. I love that you got some time with family safely on Easter. I usually have lamb for Easter.
@cesse47 and @jm216 I like your goals
@cesse47 Thanks for sharing what your Dr advised. I can only do 15 minutes on my Gazelle but if I chunk it that means more. As to food choice variety that is something I am doing well at right now. It was because I am doing more food planning, so we can avoid going to the grocery store. I set up a shopping list in table form so when we do go we make sure we get everything we need. I made a list of 28 meal ideas and when I make one I grey it out. I highlight the ones that I will be making for the next few weeks. I found I really only need a week’s worth since most dishes involve leftovers. I use cauliflower to mix with pasta or potatoes to lower the carbs in dishes I make. Macaroni & cheese is really macaroni cauliflower and cheese and I add veggies in like spinach to make it more healthy and less calories. The thing about cauliflower is that although when its cooking it smells like cauliflower when you mix it with other foods it doesn’t taste like anything. It basically blends into whatever you are mixing it with. So if you make half cauliflower and half pasta your mind just reads it as all pasta. However other than that I just make regular meals. Home cooking is healthier than eating out and I tend to lose better eating at home. We like vegetables so we either have them in the dish or on the side. I often mention my meals I am making since I am furlough and my daughter and husband aren’t I am doing most of the cooking. When I am working fulltime I don’t do as well at home cooking.
@AlexandraFindsHerself glad you were able to avoid the binge.
@CupcakeCrusoe I can relate to the comment on the chocolate being gone. This year it was nerd jelly beans. My daughter and I finished them last night. I have some chocolates left but not enough to put me back going forward.
@orangequilt just keep making small steps and you will get there. When you start to make progress then the motivation increases to make each small step a bit bigger.
@Terytha thanks for making it on and sharing. I know it was only one day but yesterday was like that for me. I have days when all this hits me and I just make sure I do something and don’t push for more. Other days I am able to do more. Take care and treat yourself kindly.
@pamiede You look beautiful. Nice dress. Great deal.
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@cesse47 - when I get into a cooking rut I browse through the New York Times Cooking Website and find something new to make. Right now I think you can access some of the recipes without a subscription. But of course there are countless other sites you can go to. Here's a link to the NYT site:
https://cooking.nytimes.com/?action=click&module=nav®ion=logo&pgType=recipe-page5 -
Weigh-In Wednesday!
Height: 5'7”
Starting weight: 296 (1/1/20)
Current weight 271
4/1:272
4/8:271
4/15:271
Apparently I am going to plateau for three weeks every now and again and then lose in a big way. Okay, whatever. I'm at the point now where the scale sticking just annoys me a little but I feel so confident and good with the overall process that I'm just going to keep on keeping on, and I know it will unstick someday.
I did a lot of physical work yesterday and the day before too, setting the house for photography. I am taking today to sit and play video games because that will be kinder to my feet and ankles.
Although later today I do need to make a carrot cake for Girlfriend's birthday tomorrow.
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@cesse47 Thanks for sharing what your Dr advised. I can only do 15 minutes on my Gazelle but if I chunk it that means more. As to food choice variety that is something I am doing well at right now. It was because I am doing more food planning, so we can avoid going to the grocery store. I set up a shopping list in table form so when we do go we make sure we get everything we need. I made a list of 28 meal ideas and when I make one I grey it out. I highlight the ones that I will be making for the next few weeks. I found I really only need a week’s worth since most dishes involve leftovers. I use cauliflower to mix with pasta or potatoes to lower the carbs in dishes I make. Macaroni & cheese is really macaroni cauliflower and cheese and I add veggies in like spinach to make it more healthy and less calories. The thing about cauliflower is that although when its cooking it smells like cauliflower when you mix it with other foods it doesn’t taste like anything. It basically blends into whatever you are mixing it with. So if you make half cauliflower and half pasta your mind just reads it as all pasta. However other than that I just make regular meals. Home cooking is healthier than eating out and I tend to lose better eating at home. We like vegetables so we either have them in the dish or on the side. I often mention my meals I am making since I am furlough and my daughter and husband aren’t I am doing most of the cooking. When I am working fulltime I don’t do as well at home cooking.
Thanks for the suggestions. I'll keep an eye out for your meals to see if there's something I can add to my own. I found a site yesterday --- skinnytaste.com --- and scanned their meal planning categories. Found 5-6 new recipes that I'm interesting in trying. Today I'm building my grocery delivery list and will include items so I can make the new recipes in the coming days.
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Hi Everyone,
I hope you are all doing well today!😍
SW April 13, 2020: 229.8
GW 199
April 13: 229.8
April 15: 228.4 ... down 1.4 pounds 🐕
Feeling good today. I thank Roxie my dog for always being ready to go for a walk.
Yesterday I was furloughed from my job selling new homes. My manager says it’s for 60 days... but it still sucks. I applied for unemployment immediately.
As the eternal optimist, I tried not to let it get me down for too long. My new focus is on my health and fitness...and overall well-being.
Today’s inspirational quote of the day:
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Good morning checking in
SW January 4th 249
CW April 15th 228.6
CGW 220
This month so far has been rough, very hard to get the scale to move at all. I will persevere as trying this not for just losing weight but for a new lifestyle. Gets hard at 63 and fighting to exercise through the pain of Fibromyalgia and and degenerative disk disease. I did look up Richard Simmons on youtube as others had mentioned...did about 20 minutes yesterday with him and the Silver Foxes, lol....walked a mile and cut my front yard. Glad to be moving more then I have in a very long time, just wish the scale would be kinder (smile). Love reading all your posts, it keeps me motivated to keep going every day.7 -
Feeling good today. I thank Roxie my dog for always being ready to go for a walk. Yesterday I was furloughed from my job selling new homes. My new focus is on my health and fitness...and overall well-being.
I'm so sorry you were furloughed from your job. Glad you filed so quickly. I'm sure Roxie will love having you home every day!! By targeting your health & fitness, you'll be able to better achieve your goals here on MFP. Good Luck!!4 -
I will persevere as trying this not for just losing weight but for a new lifestyle. Gets hard at 63 and fighting to exercise through the pain of Fibromyalgia and and degenerative disk disease. I did look up Richard Simmons on youtube as others had mentioned...did about 20 minutes yesterday with him and the Silver Foxes, lol....walked a mile and cut my front yard. Glad to be moving more then I have in a very long time, just wish the scale would be kinder (smile). Love reading all your posts, it keeps me motivated to keep going every day.
Yes! persevere ... really critical at this stage in our lives. I'm 72 and morbidly obese with compromised lungs. I wake up pretty creaky ... so Richard Simmons' Stretchin' to the Classics is something I do almost every morning as early as I can. Helps get the creakiness out!! LOL Staying focused on your goals and persevering thru any difficulties will help you to ultimately reach your goal. Stay Safe; Stay Strong!!
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@cesse47 - when I get into a cooking rut I browse through the New York Times Cooking Website and find something new to make. Right now I think you can access some of the recipes without a subscription. But of course there are countless other sites you can go to. Here's a link to the NYT site:
https://cooking.nytimes.com/?action=click&module=nav®ion=logo&pgType=recipe-page
Thanks! I did check out the link and found a couple of interesting dishes ... just have to see if I can scale them down for 1-2 people. I did find a link -- skinnytaste.com -- and found a few other recipe ideas. Most seem to be for 4 servings so I can easily cut them in half. Thanks again!!3 -
OH!! one thing I forgot to mention. I tried the MFP feature of importing a recipe and storing it in my recipe box. Works like a charm!! It calculates calories per item. Had to finagle a couple of food items to make it come out correctly so be sure to keep an eye on values. So the 5-6 recipes I'm interested in trying are stored in my recipe box in my Food tab. YEA!!5
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Weigh-in Wednesday for me:
Height: 5'6"
4/1: 186.5
4/8: 186.0
4/15: 186.3
4/22:
4/29:
April goal: 181
Non-scale goals:- Some type of movement activity/exercise in the morning and evening
- Water at 128 oz
- Continue eating healthy foods
- Prioritize sleep and manage anxiety
Grumble, grumble. My low this week was 184.6. I did indulge in some treats this past week but maintained a net average calorie intake of 1313/day for the week and got in some really good exercise. Looking back at my MFP stats, I can see that I am low on protein and higher in carbs than I should be, so I need to work on what I am eating and be a bit more careful about when I am eating it too. Hope everyone has a good week!8 -
I gathered all my courage and asked my boss not to order lunch for me today.
I hate calling attention to myself and my diet, and I hate seeming ungrateful or high maintenance. But there's just no way I can eat 1500 calories worth of fast food for lunch. That's my entire DAY.
Anyways I was being cowardly for no reason cuz she just said sure, gave me the company card and told me to go get something else lol. Got some chicken wraps. Normally wouldn't eat so much, but I've been told I need a substantial lunch today.
I've also had 1.5 liters of water... and 16 bathroom visits.11 -
My Weekly Goals are:
1. Get enough sleep and improve water intake I realized I wasn't counting all the water I drink accurately. I was actually drinking more water than I was recording. I was actually drinking close to 8 glasses 8 oz glasses a day. I thought the glasses I used held 8 oz. when they actually held 12 oz. I definitely drank 8 8oz glasses yesterday. If I do not get at least 7-8 hours of sleep a night I try to take a nap.
2. Log weight, food and exercise and stay under calorie goal
3. Get some exercise 5 days a week and up NEAT cleanI have been just starting to do 5 days of exercise a week. Yesterday I did 40 minutes of weight training, cardio, exercises and stretching. I want to slowly up it from a minimum of 15 minutes to a minimum of 30 minutes. I want to get it up to 6 days a week for 30 minutes minimum by the end of the month. Next month it will be 6 days a week at 45 minutes.
4. Get close to lower 250s this means my highs and lows get and stay below 255I put this near the bottom but I am really motivated on making progress on this now.
5. Make healthy foods at home. I guess most of us are doing well at this since we have little choice. But I am doing well at this. My family loved the Shepards Pie last night. We will have spaghetti tonight since our overflow refrigerator died we do not have as much storage so we need to eat up leftovers.
So I am pleased that I got good exercise yesterday and that I achieved my water intake goal and realized I wasn't doing as bad at this as I thought. I definitely think that exercise is important not just for its health benefit but it helps my daily routine. Corinne Crabtree (Phit_n_Phat blog) talks about how routine is something we/our brain needs. So I am trying to establish a good weekday routine and follow it. It doesn't have to be as rigorous as a workday for me now but it needs to have a minimum to provide a framework for my days.
I decided to post 1st today and read post after.
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Hi Everyone, I hope its OK to join this community!
I'm always 'starting over' and 'trying again' and very easily get fed up and discouraged! I've got a loooong way to go but I'm trying to break my long term goal into smaller segments. I'm one of the few who is happy to have a reason to have to stay inside and not venture out. But obviously it is not helping and I've basically just seen it as an excuse to eat everything. I am addicted to sugar (don't care if people say that isn't possible!), I very much live to eat and I always struggle with diet when trying to lose weight because I am incredibly fussy and don't like a lot of foods so I find it hard to alternate. I really want to lose weight to help me feel better about myself as a person, not just how I look but also to feel like I can control my eating. I want to get healthier and be able to do simple things like climb the stairs without feeling my heart racing!!
SW - 222lbs
1st GW - 185lbs
Ultimate goal - 140lbs (eeek!)
Hoping to be able to be part of a group and get some motivation!!!
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@sqwoo Welcome! Behavioral addiction to sugar is absolutely a thing, and it can be just as miserable to deal with as any chemical addiction.
I'm a pretty picky eater myself. I suggest not trying to make too many changes to what you eat for now and just try to limit how much of it you eat. It tends to be easier to manage.4 -
@AlexanderFinds Herself enjoy your rest day.
@jm216 Sorry you are in the same boat as I. I too am focusing on my health and fitness but I think Monday when I applied for unemployment was evidence that it bothered me. I was in a bit of a funk. I think I had more notice than you. Yesterday I was checking my work e-mail and there was a notice that they extended the furlough to the end of May. Of course since we aren’t doing a good job at for the virus testing in this country we know we must continue physical distancing until we do better or get a vaccine. So I am not really optimistic about this. However with focusing on my goals I am feeling optimistic about that. I do not have a dog and our 2 kittens are still too shy to go too far when we are leash training them. The term scaredy cat comes to mind so they are not as much as Roxie is for you.
@cesse47 I have put in recipes before but not sure I imported it. I will have to try this.
@aliciap0116 I think the scale will be down soon. You are doing so well with all your other goals!
Stay safe all!5 -
@speyerj I am a huge fan of NYT cooking too! It totally helps me get out of my rut. If there is a 5 star recipe on there that looks good- it is pretty much a guarantee that it is going to be amazing. They have had some cool features lately on cooking without a recipe, or cooking with random stuff in your pantry, that are targeted toward this "interesting" time.
@aliciap0116 I hate when my weight is lower on other days besides "weigh in" day. I guess I've kind of decided to stop having a specific weigh in day because of that reason, since it seems like it's not fair! You're doing amazing.
@cesse47 good for you for knowing what works with regards to working out. I know exercising first thing is the best for me, too, but somehow I can't seem to get myself motivated.
Today my goal is to log everything, avoid alcohol and bingeing. Easier said than done, but I gotta keep trying. I am so grateful for my treadmill. It was a whim of a purchase last summer- a good friend was moving to a small apartment and couldn't take it and I offered to buy it. I prefer to run outside, but all of my favorite parks are closed right now and I live on a country road that is OK for running but it gets old. Also, I'm the main parent on duty right now so it's rare to be able to escape on an outdoor run. With my tread I can just hop on whenever and still keep an eye on my kids. My seven year old likes to join me on my runs sometimes, but my younger daughter is too young.
Without my treadmill it's safe to say that exercise would be harder to come by right now. In the "olden days" (pre-covid) I swam at the rec center, ran outside in some local parks, and took spin classes at a spin studio place. All of those options are now closed.
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Weigh-in Wednesday
Highest weight: 435 (11/1/18)--lost 50 lbs. by the end of 2018 but got off track and gained back almost 31 lbs.
SW: 415.8 (4/17/19)
4/1: 262.0
4/8: 260.8
4/15: 258.0
4/22:
4/30:
April GW: 254.2
GW: 160 (then reevaluate)
Weekly exercise goals:
- exercise bike 5 times per week - 5/5
- short walking videos twice a day 5 times per week - 5/5
- strength training 2 times per week - 2/2; increased the weight for one of the arm exercises; finally was able to add lower body/leg weight exercises since getting that weird pain in my right leg
- chair yoga 3 times per week - 3/3; added another exercise
The pain in my right leg seems to be almost gone. It's usually worse at the end of the day. Not sure why. The past couple of days the majority of the day has been pain-free so that's definite improvement.
My daughter asked me store her treadmill when she made her most recent move. It's been in my condo for a few weeks now. I finally tried it this week a few times instead of doing the walking videos. I can't do it for very long but it was fun to try something different.
Today marks 52 weeks since I started eating at a deficit and 9 months since I started to add a bit of exercise to my day. It's also around 9 months since I started logging food here on MFP. For the first 3 months, I logged my food in the spreadsheet where I currently log my exercise and track calories for projected weight loss vs. actual weight loss and fun numbers like that. In the next few days, I plan to reflect on the past year and set some goals for the next year. I want to thank you all for the support and inspiration I find here. It has been such a help.
Hope you all are well.11
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