Women 200lb+, Let's Shoot for the Moon this June!!!

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  • FoolishJoy
    FoolishJoy Posts: 139 Member
    edited June 2020

    What do you mean, woman?!!!! Your figure is my goal! Keep up the awesome work.

    Bwahahahahahahaha! Thank you! I just mean that the scale has been stuck on the same 2 numbers for 3 weeks! I have a feeling that it's because I'm gaining muscle: I have this wonderful new set poking out of my thighs!
  • FoolishJoy
    FoolishJoy Posts: 139 Member
    speyerj wrote: »
    @Mithridites - you are awesome. I love how you are taking a difficult chapter in your life, one where you might feel like things are beyond your control and figuring out what you can control and how to make something positive and beautiful out of it. Welcome to Onederland!

    And @FoolishJoy - holy cow! I can't believe that's just 14 days! Yeah, you don't need a scale to tell you that you are killing it. But don't worry the scale will show your progress soon.

    And while we are on the topic of the scale and the whole question of whether building muscle hides weight loss on the scale - this is something I learned recently. When we are eating at a deficit and doing strength training it's possible to gain muscle, but it happens really, really slowly - takes months to put on a pound of muscle. So the sudden weight gain that you see when you've been burning fat through your calorie deficit but also doing strength training isn't muscle mass. It's water. Because when you put your body under stress - mental or physical - you produce the stress hormone cortisol, and that makes you retain water. Strength training and eating at a deficit puts your body under physical stress. The good news is that it's completely temporary. The bad news is that this cycle repeats itself. Long time losers have been through that cycle so many times we just expect it. We will drop 3 or 4 pounds one week and then nothing for 3 weeks. It's just the way it goes. But even when the scale isn't showing our progress, we know we are on track. Don't let the scale get you down. It's just one data point of many.

    Thank you so much! That was seriously helpful!

    The new thigh muscle I'm seeing is from doing leg workout videos for about 2 months, so it seems to be on track, but absolutely, the water retention thing makes sense too!
  • cory17
    cory17 Posts: 1,503 Member
    Hello all:
    Jumping back in, need to be accountable.
  • FoolishJoy
    FoolishJoy Posts: 139 Member
    speyerj wrote: »
    And speaking of dropping weight:

    Name: Jane
    Age: 55
    SW: 286.5 (6/3/19)
    GW: 175
    5/31 weight: 179.3

    Weekly tracking
    6/6: 180.1
    6/13: 179.1
    6/20: 176.9
    6/27:
    6/30:

    Goals for June:
    Run 11 miles on June 22nd - heading out for my first run in since 6/3 as soon as the rain dies down. I don't know how many miles I'll be able to do, but I'm just going to go out and see what happens.
    Walk for 45 minutes a day - rocked this goal. I really got a chance to explore my neighborhood, heading out with my camelback and finding the highest hills I could climb for 2 to 3 hour weekend urban hikes. I normally avoid running in my neighborhood because its ridiculously hilly. But walking isn't a problem. It was a nice change of pace to walk instead of run.
    Get 10,000 steps a day - no problem. Only day this month I didn't make that goal was when I spent 6 hours in the ER.
    Maintain a 500/calorie deficit/day - I'm enjoying losing at a slower pace. I have to watch my nighttime snacking. Back when I was more disciplined it was easier to forgo the carb laden nighttime treat. I had to remind myself that having a high protein snack kills the carb munchies.
    Maintain below 180 - excited to have two weekly weigh ins below 180. While I know I can stand to lose more weight, all my clothes fit me right now - these are clothes from 5 years ago when I lost 100 pounds previously. They are lovely and in great shape and I don't want to get too small to wear them. Right now they are loose, but not so loose that someone would say they don't fit well. So I'm contemplating maintaining through the summer between 173-177. I'll set the goal weight at 175 and just try to stay there for 3 months. This avoids unnecessary trips to clothing stores.
    Stay well heal my injuries/Stay safe/Not sick - Bruising on my face has healed. Still have a tender spot on my cheek and some facial pain. But headaches are better and my brain is working better. Concussions are no joke!


    You're so close to your GW!!! Git it, girl!
  • planktonbye
    planktonbye Posts: 65 Member
    Hey, everyone! This seems like a great community. I'm 42, 5'8", currently at 209, goal weight 164. I put an actual picture in my profile because, like, it's a normal picture of me, I look like myself, but you can tell from the picture I could stand to lose some weight.

    I've never been thin, I've always had a BMI of 25, so I've never thought of myself as someone who "can eat anything she wants and not gain weight." But looking back I realize that when I was, say, 30 I could eat a couple of pints of ice cream a WEEK and stay at a size 12. If I needed to fit into some of my smaller clothes, like an interview suit or one of my mother's college dresses or something, I just laid off the sweets for a month or so. Well, I'm 43 in July and let me tell you, those days are gone. :D So younger people on this thread--monitor your food intake but ENJOY the occasional treat while you still can!

    Special treat: I am on Zyprexa/olanzapine and gained 40 lbs. in less than 6 months a couple of years ago. If you're on a psych Rx or any other annoying medication, feel free to friend or message me.

  • xenapoland
    xenapoland Posts: 15 Member
    Hey, everyone! This seems like a great community. I'm 42, 5'8", currently at 209, goal weight 164. I put an actual picture in my profile because, like, it's a normal picture of me, I look like myself, but you can tell from the picture I could stand to lose some weight.

    I've never been thin, I've always had a BMI of 25, so I've never thought of myself as someone who "can eat anything she wants and not gain weight." But looking back I realize that when I was, say, 30 I could eat a couple of pints of ice cream a WEEK and stay at a size 12. If I needed to fit into some of my smaller clothes, like an interview suit or one of my mother's college dresses or something, I just laid off the sweets for a month or so. Well, I'm 43 in July and let me tell you, those days are gone. :D So younger people on this thread--monitor your food intake but ENJOY the occasional treat while you still can!

    Special treat: I am on Zyprexa/olanzapine and gained 40 lbs. in less than 6 months a couple of years ago. If you're on a psych Rx or any other annoying medication, feel free to friend or message me.

    I'm 30 and seriously I WISH I could eat couple of pints of ice cream a week and not be affected :p
    I'm endo/mezo type (leaning more towards endomorph unfortunately), so although with right regiment I can build up that muscle easier than some women, the fat stores are unforgiving when it comes to straying :p unless I sweat it off- treats will find my fat stores 😆
  • micwrites
    micwrites Posts: 123 Member
    Tazaria87 wrote: »
    Age: 33
    Height: 5'9"
    Starting Weight on 4/16: 270

    Here's what my weigh-ins look like this month so far (I weigh in on Saturdays)
    -6/6 245.0
    -6/13 243.4
    -6/20 239.8

    My goals for June
    -Log food every day and stay under 1650 calories Check here! I was really snacky a couple of days this week but I managed to fit everything into my plan and stayed under calorie goal
    -Drink 128oz of water per day Check!
    -Stick to workout schedule
    -Day 1 Chest/Shoulder, 30min treadmill check
    -Day 2 Legs/Abs, 30mins treadmill check
    -Day 3 Arms/Back, 30mins treadmill check
    -Day 4 Rest day check

    I know working out on a 4 day schedule may seem a bit odd because I'm doing different workouts on different days every week but it's been working really well for me so far so I'm gonna stick with it.
    Last week I posted about having problems with motivation. I went out into this community and found people to add as friends on here and it's definitely been helping! I made my diary visible to friends and just the thought of everyone being able to see my food and workout choices every day has been ramping up my motivation again!

    I'm super excited about losing almost 4 pounds this week! I wasn't expecting to see a new set of "10's" for a week or 2. I have a feeling though it means I won't see much for weight loss the next week so we shall see! I want to take my measurements again next week so I will post those results too.

    Have a great day everyone!

    P.S. Anyone feel free to add me as a friend on here!

    Wow! You are doing so incredibly well! Inspired!! Rock in!!
  • KeriA
    KeriA Posts: 3,338 Member
    @wholebygrace I missed that you completed C25K. Congratulations.
    @FoolishJoy great job turning down food you didn’t need. Check out the links between long term use of Benadryl and Alzheimer’s disease or dementia. http://www.center4research.org/benadryl-common-medications-linked-dementia-men-women/ If you are taking it with a Drs care their knowledge trumps mine though. It is worse for us older people to use it to sleep long term.
    @finngirl61 I have really struggled with exercise but this week is going better.
    @Mithridites Congratulations reaching Onderland! Sorry about going through a divorce especially now during a Pandemic. Sorry about your foot.
    @AlexandraFindsHerself That is great the Y is so close. Our County just got okayed for Phase 2 in our States reopening plan but the Y is not opened yet. Since cases are going up a bit maybe that is just as well. Our State is doing better than most now after being the worst at the start. A lot of the increase in cases has to do with a big increase in testing here. I do not mean that they wouldn’t have been there but we wouldn’t have known about them without the testing.
    @planktonbye I can relate to your comment to FoolishJoy’s post.
    @speyerj Thanks for the explanation that I think you have posted before about this but I needed it now that I am upping exercise and strength training and keeping a deficit. I haven’t lost any new pounds this month yet but keep getting close.. I am trying to keep up the water. Yay! It is nice to see your progress on the scale and getting back to running. I think it is a wise idea to maintain for a while whether you decide to go lower or not of course the clothes are a good reason but also when you decide to lose more it will help too. Glad you are feeling better. Take care.
    @Tarzaria87 so you are doing usually 6 days of exercise a week and once in a while 5 right? Not that it matters. It is what works for you. I am trying to establish a good schedule for myself and am just interested in what others are doing. Great progress!
    @changeforeverlj love the walk! I walked with friends yesterday too for the 1st time since the start of the Pandemic!

    I had a great time last night having a physical distancing dinner at a park with old friends. We will do this again in a few weeks. We also took a walk after sitting and talking a long time. I expected a short walk but this was quite long for me. I had already done some strength training with warm up cardio so it was nice to add it all together. I will do some cleaning today but not planning exercise. I have nailed that goal for the last 2 weeks. I am looking forward to next week and finding some walks to do now that I have confidence if I stick to flat trails/sidewalks. I would love to get a bike but don't want to spend money until I get called back to work and know I am not going to be laid off. I am finding ways to exercise so even if it might be nice it isn't necessary. I ordered my husbands father's day dinner and will go get what I need for brunch tomorrow today. So really I will be shopping and cleaning today.
  • Tazaria87
    Tazaria87 Posts: 604 Member
    KeriA wrote: »
    @Tarzaria87 so you are doing usually 6 days of exercise a week and once in a while 5 right? Not that it matters. It is what works for you. I am trying to establish a good schedule for myself and am just interested in what others are doing. Great progress!

    Yep that's exactly how it works out! Before I switched to this kind of schedule I was doing 6 days in a row and then taking a rest day because I was trying to make it so certain days of the week were certain exercises. I started getting a pain in my shoulder and was also getting really run down. I didn't want to change my lifts because I like how I have it so I changed the schedule instead. I figure it's better to have a weird varied schedule than it is to risk injury/burnout!
  • FoolishJoy
    FoolishJoy Posts: 139 Member
    @KeriA
    That's so weird: I was just wondering this morning if my new level of exercise could help my insomnia and if I needed to take all of that medication anymore. I'll try dropping the Benadryl.
  • FoolishJoy
    FoolishJoy Posts: 139 Member
    pamiede wrote: »
    Happy Saturday❣️ Today is my weigh-in day but it’s a sisters’ weekend so I weighed on yesterday... just didn’t post.

    Height: 5’4”
    SW: 4/2019 307
    6/6 189.4
    6/10 189.4 (-0)
    6/13 188.8 (-0.6)
    6/19 188.0 (-0.8)
    June GW: 185 (3 lbs to go 🤞🏽)
    UGW: 160 (28 lbs to go 🤞🏽)

    ✅Going to continue with hydration, diet, and exercise!

    My sister gave me a cute skirt! Played model for a second 😊.

    @Mithridites: Welcome to Onederland❣️ 3xebskjbuzv6.jpeg

    That skirt is adorbs!!
  • AlexandraFindsHerself1971
    AlexandraFindsHerself1971 Posts: 3,106 Member

    Special treat: I am on Zyprexa/olanzapine and gained 40 lbs. in less than 6 months a couple of years ago. If you're on a psych Rx or any other annoying medication, feel free to friend or message me.

    I'm on Adderall, and everyone thinks that would help with weight loss. Eh, kinda, kinda not. It suppresses my feelings of hunger until I'm angry for no reason at my partners or having a weeping fit, and I don't know why. Then I get a migraine. So that's not very helpful. And it means when I do eat I have to bolt my food fast because if I slow down and enjoy it, I won't eat enough to get me through to the next meal. But it does give me my brain back, so it's worth it. Also Valium as a rescue med/for when I have dental work done.

    Boyfriend's on risperidone and Effexor and disulfiram, and Girlfriend's on Abilify and lamictol. We have a sign up in our house that says "Just relax....we're all crazy...it's okay."
  • planktonbye
    planktonbye Posts: 65 Member

    Special treat: I am on Zyprexa/olanzapine and gained 40 lbs. in less than 6 months a couple of years ago. If you're on a psych Rx or any other annoying medication, feel free to friend or message me.

    I'm on Adderall, and everyone thinks that would help with weight loss. Eh, kinda, kinda not. It suppresses my feelings of hunger until I'm angry for no reason at my partners or having a weeping fit, and I don't know why. Then I get a migraine. So that's not very helpful. And it means when I do eat I have to bolt my food fast because if I slow down and enjoy it, I won't eat enough to get me through to the next meal. But it does give me my brain back, so it's worth it. Also Valium as a rescue med/for when I have dental work done.

    Boyfriend's on risperidone and Effexor and disulfiram, and Girlfriend's on Abilify and lamictol. We have a sign up in our house that says "Just relax....we're all crazy...it's okay."

    Interesting. I am also on metformin to help counteract the diabetogenic effects of Zyprexa. And I think it does suppress some of my appetite, but not all of it, LOL. My boyfriend is on the full slate of diabetic Rx and has basically no appetite. He eats like once a day and is a healthy weight. If only!!!
  • planktonbye
    planktonbye Posts: 65 Member
    Use the hotel pool, and walk the corridors

    Hotel pools are the bomb!

  • micwrites
    micwrites Posts: 123 Member
    pamiede wrote: »
    Happy Saturday❣️ Today is my weigh-in day but it’s a sisters’ weekend so I weighed on yesterday... just didn’t post.

    Height: 5’4”
    SW: 4/2019 307
    6/6 189.4
    6/10 189.4 (-0)
    6/13 188.8 (-0.6)
    6/19 188.0 (-0.8)
    June GW: 185 (3 lbs to go 🤞🏽)
    UGW: 160 (28 lbs to go 🤞🏽)

    ✅Going to continue with hydration, diet, and exercise!

    My sister gave me a cute skirt! Played model for a second 😊.

    @Mithridites: Welcome to Onederland❣️ 3xebskjbuzv6.jpeg

    Love the skirt! The belt, too! You look fab!!
  • KeriA
    KeriA Posts: 3,338 Member
    @pamiede That is such a cute skirt!