Ladies, what is the worst compliment you have ever received?

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  • iMago
    iMago Posts: 8,714 Member
    ive given out a lot of awful compliments in the past i think. but i always say "that's a compliment im complimenting you" right after so its all okay in the end
  • Reckoner69_lmao
    Reckoner69_lmao Posts: 1,000 Member
    MaltedTea wrote: »
    I'll let the guys defend their gender but the "intimidating" and "unapproachable" remarks is most often doled out to women who are competant in their career and leisure pursuits, reserved/introspective, contented in their own company and who are also afflicted with RBF 🙄

    So unless you're an extrovert, consider taking all the above and being "intimidating" as an actual compliment....just with poor word selection 😉

    "You're intimidating," he says. She thumbs the hammer back; for a moment, that click is the loudest sound in the room.
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    MaltedTea wrote: »
    I'll let the guys defend their gender but the "intimidating" and "unapproachable" remarks is most often doled out to women who are competant in their career and leisure pursuits, reserved/introspective, contented in their own company and who are also afflicted with RBF 🙄

    So unless you're an extrovert, consider taking all the above and being "intimidating" as an actual compliment....just with poor word selection 😉

    You forgot 🔥 af... 😏
  • ermengarde22
    ermengarde22 Posts: 2,116 Member
    MaltedTea wrote: »
    I'll let the guys defend their gender but the "intimidating" and "unapproachable" remarks is most often doled out to women who are competant in their career and leisure pursuits, reserved/introspective, contented in their own company and who are also afflicted with RBF 🙄

    So unless you're an extrovert, consider taking all the above and being "intimidating" as an actual compliment....just with poor word selection 😉

    actually i hear that from women
  • MaltedTea
    MaltedTea Posts: 6,286 Member
    MaltedTea wrote: »
    I'll let the guys defend their gender but the "intimidating" and "unapproachable" remarks is most often doled out to women who are competant in their career and leisure pursuits, reserved/introspective, contented in their own company and who are also afflicted with RBF 🙄

    So unless you're an extrovert, consider taking all the above and being "intimidating" as an actual compliment....just with poor word selection 😉

    actually i hear that from women

    ...even more laudable 😍 lol
  • KosmosKitten
    KosmosKitten Posts: 10,476 Member
    Revolu7 wrote: »
    There was a horrific show on a few years ago i think it was called the pick up artist. It was a show geared to show men how to pick up women. One technique was to give backhanded compliments to a woman to get her to engage and let her know you are interested but not gonna get all swoony.

    I remember one of them was, your hair looks really good greasy......it was a god awful show lol

    Ah yes, a show built around psychologically abusing and gaslighting women in an attempt to get in their pants. This show wouldn't have also happened to have a male co-host that dressed like he had murdered a bunch of black muppets, would it?

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  • MaltedTea
    MaltedTea Posts: 6,286 Member
    ^^ If one must tat a hickey in the making on one's neck, one cannot be taken seriously.
  • M0n1KCR
    M0n1KCR Posts: 149 Member
    I'm a teacher. I was telling a class of teens than we didn't have mobile phones when I has at high school, and one of them told me: No way! You can't be THAT old!
  • Mithridites
    Mithridites Posts: 600 Member
    “You know why I love you? Because you’re SO clean!”
  • Thetwitchisback
    Thetwitchisback Posts: 462 Member
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    Revolu7 wrote: »
    There was a horrific show on a few years ago i think it was called the pick up artist. It was a show geared to show men how to pick up women. One technique was to give backhanded compliments to a woman to get her to engage and let her know you are interested but not gonna get all swoony.

    I remember one of them was, your hair looks really good greasy......it was a god awful show lol

    Lol...that’s bad. Made me think of this.

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    😂 yup
  • MaltedTea
    MaltedTea Posts: 6,286 Member
    PaperDoll_ wrote: »
    “youre intimidating”

    This makes me jealous. No one will ever tell me this. :(

    I tell them I am, but they don't listen. :(

    Keep believing in yourself! They'll catch up eventually 😉
  • PaperDoll_
    PaperDoll_ Posts: 32,857 Member
    MaltedTea wrote: »
    PaperDoll_ wrote: »
    “youre intimidating”

    This makes me jealous. No one will ever tell me this. :(

    I tell them I am, but they don't listen. :(

    Keep believing in yourself! They'll catch up eventually 😉

    It's the lack of the RBF. I'm gonna work on it. :| and not :)

    Gonna go practice.
  • ermengarde22
    ermengarde22 Posts: 2,116 Member
    PaperDoll_ wrote: »
    MaltedTea wrote: »
    PaperDoll_ wrote: »
    “youre intimidating”

    This makes me jealous. No one will ever tell me this. :(

    I tell them I am, but they don't listen. :(

    Keep believing in yourself! They'll catch up eventually 😉

    It's the lack of the RBF. I'm gonna work on it. :| and not :)

    Gonna go practice.

    i been looking at face on/off all day to see if i got rbf and dont know it
  • stevehenderson776
    stevehenderson776 Posts: 324 Member
    Why no mens? Do men not receive awful compliments? Another inequality!?

    Men don't communicate with each other on any meaningful level.
  • _Figgzie_
    _Figgzie_ Posts: 3,506 Member
    THESE ARE GREAT :D
  • Thetwitchisback
    Thetwitchisback Posts: 462 Member
    "You are kinda pretty"
    "You smell like makeup"
    "You look like a girl that hunts sharks"
    "You are thick in some of the right places"
    "You are kinda pretty"
    "You smell like makeup"
    "You look like a girl that hunts sharks"
    "You are thick in some of the right places"

    "You look like a girl that hunts sharks" is something I would have probably never thought to say, to anyone, ever

    Yeah, I’ll be using that one
  • Revolu7
    Revolu7 Posts: 1,035 Member
    "You are kinda pretty"
    "You smell like makeup"
    "You look like a girl that hunts sharks"
    "You are thick in some of the right places"

    "You look like a girl that hunts sharks" is something I would have probably never thought to say, to anyone, ever

    Yeah, because wouldn't be easier just to say fisherman?