The dumb(est) reasons someone disliked you
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Miss_Chiev0us wrote: »Because I LOVE pineapple on Pizza
My love for you loving pineapple on pizza completely makes up for any idiot who disliked you for it.
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FeelinFooFoo wrote: »The good ole green monster.
(Alas, I have fallen prey to this myself, women can be real biatches)
Do men share an equivalent type of trait, I wonder?0 -
@KosmosKitten
wow, the #1on your long list has me thinking people $U@k bigtime. I mean, wth is wrong with some people??0 -
KosmosKitten wrote: »Oh, there's a list. Apparently I am quite unlikable.
- Too fat - I get this one a lot, honestly.
- Too mean looking - I have RBF, can't control that.
- Don't "take care of" myself. By that, they meant I refused to wear makeup or dress like I was stepping into a movie all the time.
- Too weird/wild. I like weird clothing choices. Flashy colors, cat ears, tails, fishnets, large graphic tees with fun things on them, dyed hair, tattoos and piercings. Apparently, that's just too much for some people.
- Didn't say "hi" to them first. Lol, what?? Yes, this actually happened with a girl in my dorm at college.
- Refused to play "nice".
- Hung out with mostly guys. Apparently, this drove most of the girls in my dorm batty.
- Talked to someone they didn't like. Wasn't friends with said person, but just talked to them.
- Wasn't a vegan.
- Didn't like the same pizza they liked.
- Was in the same class and actually answered questions that were asked.
- Was president of a club on campus that they wanted to be in charge of.
- Wouldn't go to the bar.
- And my personal favorite: I am a woman with opinions and I like to back up those opinions and decisions I make with readily available facts.. that I will gladly show you. Men really get up in arms when a woman proves a.) she has valid opinions and b.) her decision to run an organization is the correct one and backed by facts.
I mean, really.. this list goes on.
Exactly why I do like you2 -
@Versicolour
@Motorsheen That man knows a way to a woman's heart. He says all the 'chicks' like him. I believe it.2 -
Diatonic12 wrote: »@Versicolour
@Motorsheen That man knows a way to a woman's heart. He says all the 'chicks' like him. I believe it.
I believe it too. Flattery goes a long way towards winning a girl over1 -
@KosmosKitten played the alphabet locale game with me. I didn't intend to start blathering but I did. I can't put it back in the box and hide. I kept my mouth shut for 4 years but we started playing that game and it was no longer a game. It set me free.
No one should ever, ever underestimate her personality or power in any way. I'm not the same now. Something has crossed over in me. I'm trying to rein it all back in but it's not working very good.
I even thought I should leave and go hide, pack my bags and move far, far, away. I can't. I would miss this place. So here's a song dedicated to myself....
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_fHxFS9PiYM
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@KosmosKitten
wow, the #1on your long list has me thinking people $U@k bigtime. I mean, wth is wrong with some people??
High school/college kids can be cruel. I don't get it as often, but I still get it being a military spouse. If you aren't "fit" enough in some circles on base, you get hate or get a terrible label of being a "dependapotamus" based only on your looks and not what you actually do, who you know or where (or if) you work. They just assume fat = lazy and no willpower.
One of the main reasons I have no IRL friends in any given place I live (that and we all move every three years). There's a couple of really good people I've met, but the majority still have that extremely clique-ish attitude.Versicolour wrote: »KosmosKitten wrote: »Oh, there's a list. Apparently I am quite unlikable.- Too fat - I get this one a lot, honestly.
- Too mean looking - I have RBF, can't control that.
- Don't "take care of" myself. By that, they meant I refused to wear makeup or dress like I was stepping into a movie all the time.
- Too weird/wild. I like weird clothing choices. Flashy colors, cat ears, tails, fishnets, large graphic tees with fun things on them, dyed hair, tattoos and piercings. Apparently, that's just too much for some people.
- Didn't say "hi" to them first. Lol, what?? Yes, this actually happened with a girl in my dorm at college.
- Refused to play "nice".
- Hung out with mostly guys. Apparently, this drove most of the girls in my dorm batty.
- Talked to someone they didn't like. Wasn't friends with said person, but just talked to them.
- Wasn't a vegan.
- Didn't like the same pizza they liked.
- Was in the same class and actually answered questions that were asked.
- Was president of a club on campus that they wanted to be in charge of.
- Wouldn't go to the bar.
- And my personal favorite: I am a woman with opinions and I like to back up those opinions and decisions I make with readily available facts.. that I will gladly show you. Men really get up in arms when a woman proves a.) she has valid opinions and b.) her decision to run an organization is the correct one and backed by facts.
I mean, really.. this list goes on.
Exactly why I do like you
Heh, I like you lots, too. Also, you make really pretty (and I bet delicious) cupcakes.
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For doing my job. Sorry but yes you have to wash your hands and not come to work sick. 🤦🏻♀️
I’m literally the nicest person about telling people when they need to correct something. There is a woman who cry’s and slams things every time I look in her general direction. I can’t make this stuff up. I’m really thinking she needs medicated. I don’t talk to her without someone else present.5 -
Because i corrected them about something
In their defense, getting publicly corrected is the worst and I shouldn’t have done it5 -
I have no idea. Nobody has ever come right out and said it. So I don’t know if anyone has had a “dumb” reason or not. I suppose any reason could be considered valid. I would guess that some people don’t like me because I do have rbf. It’s part just the way I look, part my mind is usually in a million places, part where I come from. It’s almost like you have to have a little bit of a shell to not get taken advantage. I used to be very outspoken and made sure my opinions were known. I don’t do that anymore. Cuz, don’t currr. I would guess people online don’t like me because they take my kindness as being fake. My selfies as being vapid. My jokes as being stupid. And.....I write way too long of posts. That’s a valid reason though.5
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Apparently I’m “too open?” How can myself being too open actually upset someone else enough to make them disklike me? I have no idea....4
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Hate? Hmmm...
I voted for a particular person years ago and never heard from a friend since then.
I've lost contact with family members since I told them that I no longer believe in an old man who resides in the skies and grants wishes.3 -
Because I smiled too much.
There was a time I did a lot of talking to people online and spent some time talking to this one guy. I tend to use the smile emoji a lot online to show something is said in good spirits. We finally exchanged pictures and, apparently, that was the best insult he could come up with.
He was an idiot. 3 -
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I kept looking through their top window!!
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Oh Santa is real for sure!2 -
Ima just trying to think of someone who hasn't / doesn't dislike me.
Dumb reasons to dislike me?
I suppose some are dumb, others.... not so much.4 -
Oh Santa is real for sure!
Phew!
Said the jew who shouldn't believe in Santa. 1 -
Motorsheen wrote: »Ima just trying to think of someone who hasn't / doesn't dislike me.
Dumb reasons to dislike me?
I suppose some are dumb, others.... not so much.
I think you’re the worst, does that count?3 -
Because I make people laugh and happy.
The other was because their girl kept staring at me.
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Because I like horses.
It's totally acceptable to be a dog person, but the second you love horses you must be a snobby *kitten*. Ironically, rarely does a horse person not like dogs....5 -
Motorsheen wrote: »Ima just trying to think of someone who hasn't / doesn't dislike me.
Dumb reasons to dislike me?
I suppose some are dumb, others.... not so much.
I think you’re the worst, does that count?
A Little.2 -
Motorsheen wrote: »Ima just trying to think of someone who hasn't / doesn't dislike me.
Dumb reasons to dislike me?
I suppose some are dumb, others.... not so much.
Because I don't want a stinking burrito, ok!0 -
She didnt want to be friends any more because I filled out a pair of jeans better than she did. *blinkblink*
Whatever. I still do.6 -
Too fast2
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4legsRbetterthan2 wrote: »Motorsheen wrote: »Ima just trying to think of someone who hasn't / doesn't dislike me.
Dumb reasons to dislike me?
I suppose some are dumb, others.... not so much.
Because I don't want a stinking burrito, ok!
you don't want the burrito?
unpossible.2
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