What THINGS do you LOVE MOST about your spouse/partner

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  • fionarama
    fionarama Posts: 788 Member
    Probably the things that infuriate me the most as well. His stubborness, his strength of character. His alpha male personality. (oh and his muscles! :) )
  • bethmakesmusic
    bethmakesmusic Posts: 164 Member
    I love that my hubby can embrace my imperfections and still challenge me to be better. He supports me when I'm passionate about something...even if he doesn't look at it the way i do. He thinks I'm hot even when I just can't see it. He celebrates me when I have victories and cheers me up when I experience defeat. He has the most amazing work ethic and he lives/acts/and makes decisions like we're a team. He's protective of me and he has the cutest smile and the best big, manly muscles!
  • DisneyAddictRW
    DisneyAddictRW Posts: 800 Member
    He's a hardworker, great father, and best of all loves me for who I am!
  • seltzermint555
    seltzermint555 Posts: 10,740 Member
    I loved seeing a posting about saying NICE things about our spouses/partners.... nothing irks me more than when people talk negatively about their spouses - especially on public forums - so it's refreshing to see a genuine, mushy, wuvy-dovey love fest for once. Hoorah, OP!

    I love absolutely everything about my husband. He's the sweetest, kindest, funniest, most loving and genuine person I've ever met in my life. I love that he's not afraid to show his emotions or have deep, emotional conversations. I love his compassion for animals and the environment. I love his sense of humor, which is often as corny, morbid and/or raunchy as mine, lol. I love the way his eyes sparkle when he looks at me and tells me he loves me. I love the way just the sound of his voice on the phone is enough to erase all the worst things in the world that may have happened in my day. I love how he always listens and engages with me - he never just says 'yes dear' and ignores me. I love his patience and his honesty - the way he doesn't hold back and tells it like it is. I love how brave he is (and how I'm a 'goody two shoes' and he's really helped me come out of my shell). I love how supportive he is - no matter what I do, he has faith in me and makes me feel like I can fly. I love his smile and the way that it melts me every time (think of the smoulder from Tangled! lol). He's my soul mate in every way imaginable. I love that he makes me want to be a better person, and has given me so much hope and love and happiness. I love the way that I feel when I am with him - and how much I miss him when we're apart. I couldn't imagine a single day of my life without him, and he's told me a million times that he feels the same. What do I love most? Him. Plain and simple - everything that makes him who he is... that's everything to me.

    I could relate to about 95% of these regarding my fiancé and I just had to tell you I'm so happy for you and your husband. Is that him on your ticker? He's an attractive man, but after reading about him it makes him about 100 times hotter than Brad Pitt :-) You go, girl.
  • hollyk57
    hollyk57 Posts: 520 Member
    I loved seeing a posting about saying NICE things about our spouses/partners.... nothing irks me more than when people talk negatively about their spouses - especially on public forums - so it's refreshing to see a genuine, mushy, wuvy-dovey love fest for once. Hoorah, OP!

    I love absolutely everything about my husband. He's the sweetest, kindest, funniest, most loving and genuine person I've ever met in my life. I love that he's not afraid to show his emotions or have deep, emotional conversations. I love his compassion for animals and the environment. I love his sense of humor, which is often as corny, morbid and/or raunchy as mine, lol. I love the way his eyes sparkle when he looks at me and tells me he loves me. I love the way just the sound of his voice on the phone is enough to erase all the worst things in the world that may have happened in my day. I love how he always listens and engages with me - he never just says 'yes dear' and ignores me. I love his patience and his honesty - the way he doesn't hold back and tells it like it is. I love how brave he is (and how I'm a 'goody two shoes' and he's really helped me come out of my shell). I love how supportive he is - no matter what I do, he has faith in me and makes me feel like I can fly. I love his smile and the way that it melts me every time (think of the smoulder from Tangled! lol). He's my soul mate in every way imaginable. I love that he makes me want to be a better person, and has given me so much hope and love and happiness. I love the way that I feel when I am with him - and how much I miss him when we're apart. I couldn't imagine a single day of my life without him, and he's told me a million times that he feels the same. What do I love most? Him. Plain and simple - everything that makes him who he is... that's everything to me.

    I could relate to about 95% of these regarding my fiancé and I just had to tell you I'm so happy for you and your husband. Is that him on your ticker? He's an attractive man, but after reading about him it makes him about 100 times hotter than Brad Pitt :-) You go, girl.

    Awh, thanks! Yep - that's my awesome hubby on my ticker and I'd take him over Brad Pitt any day! Congrats on your engagement - I'm glad to hear you're so happy too! *hugs*
  • naturallyme36
    naturallyme36 Posts: 155 Member
    upset with hubby today and felt the need to revisit this thread because It is so positive and I don't really want to be upset with him. Thanks TT for this. It is awesome to see how much we need our mates. I will now go and find a way to get over it and let him know how much I appreciate him. :love: :love:
  • SerenaFisher
    SerenaFisher Posts: 2,170 Member
    He holds my hair for me when I puke.

    True love.
  • primal_cupcakes
    primal_cupcakes Posts: 280 Member
    My boyfriend inspires me to be a better partner. He is patient and understanding and generous and compassionate and fun to be around. I am amazed by his ability to take care of everything in his life with an attitude of acceptance and humility and thankfulness. He's a rare combination of a brilliant brainiac who can fix anything around the house and charm even the grumpiest fool out there (and he's drop-dead sexy. Seriously). He can't cook to save his life, but I actually love that about him, too. Because it's fun to take care of such an amazing person.
  • hbrittingham
    hbrittingham Posts: 2,518 Member
    My husband, despite his tough New Yorker accent and attitude, is actually the kindest, most gentle man ever. It breaks his heart if he inadvertently hurts my feelings. After 23 years together, I feel like he loves me more than he ever has, and he tells me that every single day. He thinks I am perfect. I feel very fortunate to have such a sweet, loving man as my husband.
  • CookNLift
    CookNLift Posts: 3,660 Member
    she's my balance. she makes me a better person with every passing day. And I know that I am for her as well. We compliment each other even though we have so many differences. I also love that she is my best friend
  • Hildy_J
    Hildy_J Posts: 1,050 Member
    He has to abide by the restraining order AND keep up with the maintenance payments. :smile:
  • Cre8veLifeR
    Cre8veLifeR Posts: 1,062 Member
    He's thoughtful, dependable, super smart, works hard, is brave, makes me laugh hard, is athletic, and is GREAT in the sack.
  • gwenmf
    gwenmf Posts: 888 Member
    I love this thread................will post when I have time. Posting this so I can return!
  • Tatonka_usn
    Tatonka_usn Posts: 433 Member
    The fact that, after 11 years of dealing with my mannerisms, quirks and assorted medical issues, she still has the patience and caring to put up with it all.......
  • Solarian_13
    Solarian_13 Posts: 5 Member
    I love how he makes me laugh. I love how supportive he is of me. I love how we just click.
  • primal_cupcakes
    primal_cupcakes Posts: 280 Member
    He has to abide by the restraining order AND keep up with the maintenance payments. :smile:

    Best of both worlds! lolz
  • PositiveBody
    PositiveBody Posts: 43 Member
    - He is the rock I swirl around
    - Has few requirements of me..he lets me be me
    - I can work or not work, my decision
    - I am secure in home and future
    - He supports my efforts
    - Rarely complains about anything
  • deanconnors3
    deanconnors3 Posts: 22 Member
    Dudes, I do not think there is enough room on this forum to wrap up all the things I love most about my wife. Fell in love with her the first night I met her, 23 years ago, and not a bit has changed. She has the purest heart, even though she's had a fairly miserable life with numerous family tragedies and a horrific first marriage. I can't even describe the simple, effortless way that she loves, makes it impossible to not love her back nearly as effortlessly. Even though we barely get to see each other, (16+ hour days for me, she home cares for her mother AND brother), its still the absolutely the best part of any day when I get home and see her there.
  • RenCara
    RenCara Posts: 300 Member
    He is smart. he calms me, he excites me, he brings out the best in me.
  • Airadet
    Airadet Posts: 31 Member
    I love how genuine he is. He is so sincere.
    I love what a gentleman he is.
    I love how he always knows just what to say.
    I love him for how much he loves me! He is always so supportive and does everything he can for me.
  • cstoney2013
    cstoney2013 Posts: 167 Member
    He has to abide by the restraining order AND keep up with the maintenance payments. :smile:

    that is rich! Reminds me I haven't kissed my wife's *kitten* enough this week :tongue:
  • margelizard
    margelizard Posts: 89 Member
    - He is always willing to do absolutely anything that I ask him to, regardless of how silly!
    - He makes me smile
    - He sends me cute and funny texts when I feel down
    - He understands the problems that I have and doesn't make me feel bad about them
    - He is super supportive and really compliments me when he sees me flagging
    - He works out with me when he is home since it helps keep me motivated
    - He is a great cook!
    - He knows that the little things mean a lot
    - He likes to snuggle on the couch under a blanket and watch soccer on a Saturday morning
    - He loves cats and takes the time to play with our cats and give them tons of attention (even though he is allergic)
    - He is adorable with children
    - His awkwardness, it is so endearing!
    - He does his fair share (or more) of chores around the house so we get finished faster and have more time together
    - He is amazing!!
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  • lady6starlight
    lady6starlight Posts: 127 Member
    My boyfriend is truly my best friend. We argue a lot, but he compliments me in a way that no one else can. I am very anxious and always nervous, while he is calm and rational. He has helped me through countless challenges because of that balance.
  • 45 YEARS!!!!!

    FORTY FIVE years counting the 2 years we dated before getting married. Through THREE CHILDREN AND 11 Grand children. through thick and thin . Through 3 miscarriages, through 4 bankruptcies, through 11 jobs and 9 cars the first year, through three heart surgeries and one heart attack. Through eight years in the military. She never let me down ,always hung around. She has stood beside me through it all. A man can't not love a woman like that. . .