WOMEN AGES 50+FOR MAY 2024

barbiecat
barbiecat Posts: 17,183 Member
edited May 1 in Motivation and Support
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🌻Welcome to the merry month of May. A new month is a good time to start a new habit or recommit to a old one. Let's do this together

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👣🐾🚶‍♀️🌻🌞Barbie in NW WA
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  • OregonMother
    OregonMother Posts: 1,661 Member
    Thank you, Barbie. I appreciate your faithfulness.

    Flea
    Willamette Valley, OR
  • skuehn48
    skuehn48 Posts: 3,027 Member
    <3
  • evie1958
    evie1958 Posts: 863 Member
    Thanks for the fresh start Barbie!
    Evelyn, Vancouver Island
  • SophieRosieMom
    SophieRosieMom Posts: 3,635 Member
    Thank you Barbie. Let's do this!

    Lanette B)
    SW WA State
  • 1948CWB
    1948CWB Posts: 1,575 Member
    Barbie ~ Thanks so much for leading us into a new month! :)

    Carol in GA
  • barbiecat
    barbiecat Posts: 17,183 Member
    :)Welcome, Joy, I hope you will keep coming back. I have been participating in this thread for many years. I log on and read it every morning to connect with others who have made health and fitness a focus of their lives. These women encourage me to stay on my journey. They give me ideas for habits and activities that will make my life better.


    :)Lisa, I love how you write a daily accounting of your day with both the ups and downs.

    :) I was active through April with both walking (averaged over 14,000 steps a day) and riding my exercise bike (a couple of hours a day), but didn't do much work in the yard because of the continuing need to supervise Annie, the puppy. It has bee pretty cold all month so the lure hasn't been so great. There are lots of weeds to pull but they'll wait for May.

    <3 Barbie in NW WA
  • Machka9
    Machka9 Posts: 25,559 Member
    Thank you Barbie!

    Went to the cemetery to start the design for DH and My Marker. I want it to match our son's so we will have separate markers that match our son's marker. The designs in the joint marker do not match his. There is more flexibility in doing it this way. I decided to make them more unified by having each Marker say We,truly, love you at the bottom. Son's marker says We, truly, love you John My son's last text to me was I, truly, love you MOM so it is way of honoring him too!


    Working on getting all my planters done...then I will start planting in the ground. It is a bit early but we are having a warmer spring this year. The long term forecast also says a warmer May!

    Reading the book Breath by James Nestor. Fascinating book about how our facial structure has changed from our ancestors making it more difficult to breathe correctly through our nose. Since my sinus infection cleared up I did try the tape idea last night and the night before. I was successful. I will be curious to see what affect this will have on my teeth. I already notice I did not wake up with a dry mouth and slept through not needing to go to the bathroom. Mouth breathing at night contributes to gum disease, snoring, and dehydration. In his book he describes how many illnesses are aggravated by shallow and rapid breathing. Our diaphragms are our second heart. Being a singer I am very aware of how important it is to sing from the diaphragm. I was trying to help a friend who breathes shallow, and she had trouble feeling her diaphragm. I described as when you breathe in your lower stomach should expand when you breathe out your squeeze your stomach muscles as you breathe out. We have been taught we don't want a protruding stomach so we breathe high in our chests. The irony is because we let the diaphragm weaken we are more likely to have a protruding stomach as a result. The diaphragm is a muscle that holds our organs and helps our lungs expand to take in more air. When you are under stress you are more likely to breathe higher in your chest. Breathing from the diaphragm helps to ease stress. The author also recommends slower breaths with longer exhales then inhales to help calm you down too! Many of us breathe too fast!


    Also ... we know that fat loss occurs through breathing out (see articles below, and more if you google it).

    I learned to do long, thorough exhales when I developed asthma, in particular exercise induced asthma. In order to control it so that I didn't go into a full asthma attack when I was picking up speed while running or cycling up a hill, I would focus on my exhales ... making them as long as possible. Inhales take care of themselves.

    I also find that climbing stairs is much easier, when I focus on long, thorough exhales.

    And fortunately, exhaling gets rid of fat! :)

    https://www.verywellfit.com/how-does-fat-leave-the-body-4165132
    https://www.healthline.com/nutrition/where-does-fat-go-when-you-lose-weight#where-it-goes
    https://health.clevelandclinic.org/where-does-body-fat-go-when-you-lose-weight
    https://www.bmj.com/content/349/bmj.g7257 - "Our calculations show that the lungs are the primary excretory organ for fat."


    As for stress, I like box breathing. I do it before each interview I have, and find that I'm able to talk without going into a stress induced asthma situation.

    I sit up straight, breathe all the way in for a slow count of 4, hold my breath for a slow count of 4, exhale all the way out for a very slow count of 4, and hold my breath for a slow count of 4.

    Then I breathe normally for a few breaths (focusing on the exhale), and do the box breathing again.

    Usually, repeating it 3 or 4 times gets me where I want to be.


    Machka in Oz
  • Vickil57
    Vickil57 Posts: 1,881 Member
    Barbie--Thanks for getting us started on the new month.
    Welcome to all the new ladies. this is a great place for support and friendship.
    Blessings, Vicki GRAND ISLAND, NE <3
  • pipcd34
    pipcd34 Posts: 17,211 Member
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  • LisaInArkansas
    LisaInArkansas Posts: 2,862 Member
    Joy in Florida - Welcome! Join in wherever you feel comfortable. I think there's a general consensus that health here involves the whole woman, not just losing weight or inches, so there are many posts around our lives, as well as weight and exercise. Well done on a good beginning, stay and chat!

    Barbie - Thank you! I have speculated sometimes if what I write here is a downer, especially on my bad days. Y'all do tend to get the warts as well as the wonders of my life, but I figure people can always skip or block my posts if they choose. I'm prolific because my professional life left me with the ability to type almost as fast as I talk, but then I'm a Texan, and I talk pretty slow... :smiley:

    Machka - I use the box breathing a lot myself. It's very useful to stay calm, like during dental work or in a medical waiting room.

    Rusty - Love the saturated colors, and look forward to seeing your acrylics!

    Quilt work this morning... am almost to the point where I can begin quilting the individual pieces-parts. A little more cleaning to do too, for visitors tomorrow...

    Later,
    Love,
    Lisa in AR

  • kevrit
    kevrit Posts: 4,284 Member
    Thank you Barbie for another month start. In the spoiler are my goals and list I refer to every day.
    2024 Goals
    Words of the year: simplify, empowered, and authentic.

    SIMPLIFY—make (something) simpler or easier to do or understand.
    EMPOWERED—give (someone) the authority or power to do something.
    AUTHENTIC—.
    of undisputed origin; genuine.

    I will be authentic and empowered while working to simplify my life.

    1. Do 12 different crafts this year: color, origami, draw, sew, candles, crochet, loop looms, paint with water, macrame, photography knit, bead jewelry, make cards, scrapbook, 10/12 -100%
    2. Walk average of 7250 steps a month 1/12 100%, 61%, 76%
    3. 30 minutes activity /30 days a month 100%, 100%,100%
    4. Journal 12/23 days a month 100, 74%, 60%, 52%
    5. Meditate 23 /30 days a month 100%, 96%,100%, 77%
    6. Family phone calls 19/12 monthly. 100%,100%,100%,100%
    7. Save $1000 for emergencies by depositing $50 a month into savings and not touching it. 4/12 0, 100% April up to $240 savings
    8. Research and apply for senior independent living in Roswell, one a month. 4/12. 100%, 100% Spreadsheet started for comparison. — cost of getting new camper. 40-50k——possible buy a house? —- rent a house?—- For May I will research more campers as a new camper will be the next step in 2 years.
    9. Drink 8 days a month or less. 0/8 100%, 100%, 100%, 100% 9 months sober!
    10. Read 26/24 Books this year. 100%
    11. Weigh less at end of month than at beginning. 2/12 100%, 0,100%, 0
    12. Complete at minimum to week 5, the 9 week squat as challenge starting 1/23/24. weeks 26/27 weeks 3 sets a week for 9 weeks. 100%, 100%

    January Completed — 92%,
    February Completed —-58%
    March completed—— 95% with being sick!!!
    April Completed——95%

    “I’m learning to treat myself as if I am valuable. I find that when I practice long enough, I begin to believe it.” In All Our Affairs

    “And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God.” —-Romans, The Bible.

    Keep it Simple
    But for the Grace of God
    Easy Does It
    First Things First
    Just for Today
    Let it Begin with Me
    How Important is it?
    Think
    One Day at a Time
    Keep an Open Mind
    Live and Let Live
    Let Go and Let God

    say the Serenity prayer.
    “Lord, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change,
    Courage to change the things I can, and
    The wisdom to know the difference.”

    I also say a step 7 prayer which is very simple and it goes like this: 'God, please help me deal with my character defects.’

    The results of your personality test are in. Here they are:
    Personality type: Logistician (ISTJ-T)
Traits: Introverted – 69%, Observant – 58%, Thinking – 75%, Judging – 56%, Turbulent – 54%
Role: Sentinel
Strategy: Constant Improvement

    Joined MFP 5/26/2010

    https://health.clevelandclinic.org/vitamin-k2

    https://aarp.org/health/drugs-supplements/info-2023/anti-obesity-medications-risks.html

    https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC10389239/

    https://www.verywellfit.com/seated-upper-body-workout-1231439

    https://roberthajnal.ro/wp-content/uploads/2017/11/Robert-Maurer-The-Kaizen-Way-PDF.pdf


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  • Joy1580vb
    Joy1580vb Posts: 422 Member
    edited May 1
    Welcome Jody from Florida!

    Thank you Barbie for another month.

    Finally got some much needed rain....1 1/2 inch....grass is suddenly turning green. Had a bit of snow yesterday but it melted during the day.

    Enjoying reading through the posts.

    Joy
  • OregonMother
    OregonMother Posts: 1,661 Member
    Oh that Athena. I love her to pieces. She has no idea how many aunties she has from around the world!

    I love your idea of starting with a clean fridge, pantry, and refrigerator. I would love that. But my husband believes we need at least two weeks of food at all time. In his defense, he's from southern California and has lived through a couple major earthquakes where getting to the store, or anywhere, was not possible. Then we lived in Kansas for 15 years, and there were times. 🌪️

    Flea
    Willamette Valley OR
  • auntiebk
    auntiebk Posts: 2,607 Member
    Gratitudes:
    Today: Barbie thanks for your faithful fresh start every month.
    Grateful I woke up able to move after yesterday’s burn-a-thon. ;)
    Tuesday: after 3 hours of lopping, bending over, picking up branches etc to feed the burn barrel I was wiped out. There were still three big branches poking up out, preventing me from putting a cover on it and being done. Joe got up from his nap and lopped them down to size so I could collapse. Grateful for him doing it so cheerfully, Grateful I was able to work that hard that long. Grateful the brush pile is gone. Grateful he said next time pile the big branches up near the canopy and he’ll saw them down to kindling size for next winter.
    April summary below, overall improvement from March. Still really want not so much to weigh less but to be leaner and stronger. The plan is to huff and puff more often throughout the day.
    average weight half pound lighter 132.9 than March 133.4
    Average steps 6875, better than than March’s 6025
    PT started strong but fell off mid month, only when in PT office after 4/16.
    Fuel better? No idea, lost track of sugar and CI<CO
    Dedicated time with Joe, readings, BP, consistent line dance class, dog group, bone broth, vitamins solid.
    April plan – stronger than March.
    Move - PT before breakfast, average more steps than May (7778), twice weekly: line dancing; daily-ish: PT shoulders, basic wii balance games, play with and walk dogs; every other daily-ish: knee PT, dumbbells, criss-cross with abs, hip openers, seated twist and block ab lifts.
    Fuel better: dailyish vitamins and bone broth, less sugar, CI<CO.
    Live NOW: dailyish time with Joe, dogs, readings. Open heart and mind before mouth.
    Prayers and whooshing good thoughts for Beth’s procedure and continuing care.
    Rita thanks for tying up the story. I too have had the blahs for no good reason. Let’s both take better care of ourselves, it will make us feel better!
    Lanette con VERY gratulations on the inch! Well done!
    Debbie sounds like in addition to his other attitude issues your DH is jealous of your items’ successes. That weed-eating nearby sounds aggressive and abusive to me.
    Rusty ((hugs)) and prayers for your son. What a horrible effect from the surgery, was it emergency?
    Vicki glad to see you checking in, ((hugs)) held extra long for you being your friend’s POA. Painful and hard. ((hugs))
    Linda “urgent care is to keep people OUT of the ER.” Yah no, not here. Our local Urgent Care told me when I went back after a week of swollen leg and pain that they were just like a Dr’s office but after hours, and I had to go to the ER 25 miles north. Glad I did, they were great and their ultrasound reader found “lots of clots” that the Urgent Care didn’t. Now our local Urgent Care has been converted to an ER to cash in on the “nearest ER” ambulance rules of medicare, but based on my experience I’ll still go north to the ER in the local hospital.
    Annie I’m with Rebecca and Rita, get a service, give them the mower. Getting on their schedule sooner rather than later will give your dad more time to adjust. Maybe fill his calendar with dates at the local senior center?
    Allie I enjoyed Julie/Julia until the end, was so disappointed. ;{ BUT I still laugh whenever I see a pound of butter ;)
    BONG the get up and move timer just went off so will read May thread later.
    Later, lighter, lovelies!
    Barbara, the Southern Oregon Coastie AHMOD x8zcp1ya37k1.gif
    April: Move more than yesterday, fuel better than yesterday, live NOW.
    Open heart and mind before mouth.
    2024: Strengthen: body, mind, heart-connections.
  • LisaInArkansas
    LisaInArkansas Posts: 2,862 Member
    Jody in Florida - So sorry I misspelled your name! Hope you stay and join in this community of lovely and supportive women.

    Beth - Been hoping that the surgery went well. Being dizzy is no joke - be careful... and if Corey couldn't cook, I'd probably live on toast and cheese. :smiley:

    Heather - glad it was a good visit... by this time next month, you'll be telling us how quickly the surgery has made a difference!

    Love,
    Lisa in AR
  • Whidislander
    Whidislander Posts: 3,771 Member
    Oh that Athena. I love her to pieces. She has no idea how many aunties she has from around the world!

    I love your idea of starting with a clean fridge, pantry, and refrigerator. I would love that. But my husband believes we need at least two weeks of food at all time. In his defense, he's from southern California and has lived through a couple major earthquakes where getting to the store, or anywhere, was not possible. Then we lived in Kansas for 15 years, and there were times. 🌪️

    Flea
    Willamette Valley OR

    I so get your husbands way of thinking in all fairness. I catch myself buying 3 of something just
    because. Like today, I had leftovers of a pizza we had, but I have pizza sauce, a cut tomato, fresh white mushrooms, and an opened Bobili pizza crust and salami that need to be used up. So all that trumped 2 pieces from a restaurant. I hate when I waste food, or check on some veggies only to see they were moldy. Its like the sound "wah wah wah" goes off in my head as the loser in this balance we have with food in the fridge.
    Yes that Athena. I need to tell her next time how many "aunties" she has. Maybe she'll say something in a video that I can post.😁💖
    Rebecca
    Whidbey
    Wa