WOMEN AGES 50+FOR MAY 2024
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When I was in my 30's my first marriage was falling apart and my husband was running amok. I had no idea what the future would bring and felt completely powerless. That's when I learned a gratitude practice that has continued to serve me well in all circumstances. When I had a few quiet moments I would tell myself all the things that were right with my life--I am fully dressed, I have more clothes in the closet. I ate breakfast, I have more food in the house, I have a house and this month's payment has been made, I have a job and they respect me at work, I am healthy, I have friend I can call, etc. It has saved me from going down the rabbit hole of despair and depression over and over since then.
Right now, I have a host of "procrasticlutter" that needs to be addressed---laundry to fold, sheets to change, bathroom sinks to wash. I'll get to it all in a minute. I'd rather be outside in the yard pulling weeds but the wet ground and threat of rain will make that something not pleasant to do. Instead, I'll take a minute to tell you all that you mean a lot to me and I'm glad you are in my life. Next I'll write a note to my friend who getting treatments for cancer. Today is her birthday and I know she could use something cheery.
Barbie in NW WA
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Rita - do you have a preferred range of carbs that you want to stick to? I aim for under 80 net carbs, and of course that's eliminating the white starchy stuff. I can still manage a handful of berries and small apple without doing too much damage but boy, those carbs sure add up don't they?
I wanted to thank you for telling us about DietDoctor.com a while back with the in-depth information about various forms of low/lower carb eating.
I haven't tried cauliflower rice before but plan to pick some up next time I'm at the store. I see on the Walmart website they have organic in the frozen section. Might be the best value for me since I don't want to mess with a whole head of it.
I need to do more of what Lisa does with cooking up a bunch of burger and adding taco seasoning or something to spice it up a bit. Keep up with the protein.
Lisa - loved the photo of you, Corey and your friends. (Agree about his eyes!! ) I know you'll have fun with them while they are there.
Heard from my sis, they have decided to stay in a motel when they come in July, as they'd originally planned, rather than at my house. They gave some thought to my warning about vocal Rosie. They used to have a yappy dog and were always yelling "shut up!". I told sis Rosie thinks that's her middle name, so probably a wise decision on their part.
Barbie - thank you for the reminder about focusing on things to be grateful for when our lives take a worrisome turn.
When I start worrying about overwhelming tasks around this place or a situation I can't control, I remind myself "what we think about expands". In other words, think about how much I've been able to accomplish or how much I'm able to have control over my diet, walking, and what I choose to read and view. The good things remind me of more good things. If I focus on the negative, a small worry becomes huge and wrecks my day.
Barbie - I think it was you who posted something to the effect that the more we give thanks, the more we'll have to be thankful for. Wise words.
Carol - glad your DH is going to the doctor tomorrow and that you'll be going with him. Crossing fingers the doc can get him fixed up, and ease any unnecessary worry for both of you.
Weekly Check-In reminder - please get your info to me today or by noon tomorrow.
Lanette
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Barbie I call it being aware of the muck. Gratitude and focusing on what you can do to make your life and health better is what keeps the muck from pulling you down.2
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SophieRosieMom wrote: »
I haven't tried cauliflower rice before but plan to pick some up next time I'm at the store. I see on the Walmart website they have organic in the frozen section. Might be the best value for me since I don't want to mess with a whole head of it.
I need to do more of what Lisa does with cooking up a bunch of burger and adding taco seasoning or something to spice it up a bit. Keep up with the protein.
Lanette
SW WA State
I mix half cauliflower rice with regular white(Japanese) rice when I make fried rice and neither son or dh can tell the difference.
I cook ground turkey in bulk- half I add taco seasoning and half Italian herb or Asian(soy,ginger, garlic)- put in ziplock bags for quick toppings for my salads or to add to some veggies or in tacos.
Heading to church- sunny but chilly at just 50. Walked around barefoot for a few minutes and now my toes are hurting(Reynauds acting up)burning/hurting/itching. Have fuzzy socks on with my dress shoes- cant tell, my dress is long and covers it.
May work in the garden later- depends on how wet it is- it poured most of yesterday.
Debbie
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I make turkey burgers. I mix one pound of ground turkey with an egg, two TBS of matzo meal, and a tsp of a spicy spice. I divide the mixture into 5 patties and freeze them individually so I can defrost them one or two at a time
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My son rang this evening to invite us to Nando's tomorrow early dinner, for Max's birthday. I said that it wouldn't suit us, as we were going out for lunch with John's younger daughter. Short notice! We will see them Tuesday, as I will get a taxi over, and we are babysitting on Friday, when they go out for a very delayed birthday meal for DDIL. Then he sent us some pictures of Max having the cake that my son made. They are sending some over tomorrow.
He obviously loves his hat!
The plan was for John and his daughter to go out for a walk in the morning and then I would meet them in the restaurant. Unfortunately, it's going to be raining! So she is coming here when she has to check out at 11. That means I will have to get ready earlier and tidy up a little bit. It's not in a bad state, but I like to spruce a bit. So not quite so relaxing as I thought. We will have anniversary present opening in the morning, but will have to get a move on. Not thrilled, but I'm sure it will be fine.
Carol - I hope your husband can get the help he needs.
Love to all, Heather UK xxxxxxxx
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Terri - I forgot to mention how much I appreciate when you give details about what you've done to stay on track with keeping your weight under control. Good advice for newbies and great reminders for those of us not-so-new.
Debbie - great suggestions for mixing cauliflower rice and white rice. I read somewhere that Jasmine and Basmati rice have lesser of a glycemic load that some other rices. I miss those fragrant rices. I've sometimes packaged browned turkey or chicken or burger in smaller packages like that, but have never done it already seasoned. Neat idea!
Barbie - great idea with the turkey burger. I'll grab some next time I'm at the store. After cooking for what, over 50 years, I run out of ideas even though I have a big shelf of cookbooks and every recipe imaginable here at my fingertips on the internet! I guess I just like hearing what other folks are making. I've never used Matzo Meal so looking forward to it.
Heather - Max looks so grown up in his hat, what a handsome kid. Beautiful cake! Did I count 14 candles?
Lanette
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SophieRosieMom wrote: »Terri - I forgot to mention how much I appreciate when you give details about what you've done to stay on track with keeping your weight under control. Good advice for newbies and great reminders for those of us not-so-new.
Debbie - great suggestions for mixing cauliflower rice and white rice. I read somewhere that Jasmine and Basmati rice have lesser of a glycemic load that some other rices. I miss those fragrant rices. I've sometimes packaged browned turkey or chicken or burger in smaller packages like that, but have never done it already seasoned. Neat idea!
Barbie - great idea with the turkey burger. I'll grab some next time I'm at the store. After cooking for what, over 50 years, I run out of ideas even though I have a big shelf of cookbooks and every recipe imaginable here at my fingertips on the internet! I guess I just like hearing what other folks are making. I've never used Matzo Meal so looking forward to it.
Heather - Max looks so grown up in his hat, what a handsome kid. Beautiful cake! Did I count 14 candles?
Lanette
SW WA State
I prefer just about any rice over the Japanese sticky rice but that is the only kind dh eats(and he would eat it every day if he could which is NOT a good thing for a diabetic) I really like wild rice or brown rice- at least there is texture and flavor with them. Only time I cook other white rice is if I am making fried rice(you can make it with left over Japanese rice but texture is different and you really have to fry it a lot to get it right), or in chicken and rice- again. Texture thing.
I get ground turkey on great sales and will cook it all at one time- one pan, less clean up, plus quick meals using it.4 -
Stat for the day-
Housecleaning etc- 3hrs 31min 9sec, vacuum, dust, make/refill hummingbird food, laundry fold/put away, etc= 987c4 -
dlfk202000 wrote: »SophieRosieMom wrote: »
I haven't tried cauliflower rice before but plan to pick some up next time I'm at the store. I see on the Walmart website they have organic in the frozen section. Might be the best value for me since I don't want to mess with a whole head of it.
I need to do more of what Lisa does with cooking up a bunch of burger and adding taco seasoning or something to spice it up a bit. Keep up with the protein.
Lanette
SW WA State
I mix half cauliflower rice with regular white(Japanese) rice when I make fried rice and neither son or dh can tell the difference.
I cook ground turkey in bulk- half I add taco seasoning and half Italian herb or Asian(soy,ginger, garlic)- put in ziplock bags for quick toppings for my salads or to add to some veggies or in tacos.
Debbie
Napa Valley,Ca
I do that once in a while with ground chicken.
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Evening ladies
If you look up Patty Labelles turkey burgers..she has an awesome diabetic recipe for turkey burgers..that are delish..
Tom and Elena used the gift certificate i got them for Christmas to one of the swanky restaurants here in town.. they loved it.. ,and still have some of it left over.
Taking Alfie over tomorrow night so he is all settled before I leave Tuesday.4 -
Today’s gratitude: sunny breaks in the rain. Camaraderie of the fellowship gals.
Yesterday’s gratitude: Joe changed his mind.Last week Joe announced he no longer wanted to drive the dogs to the Gold Beach shelter for their nail trims. He thought we should trim their nails ourselves and save the donation and gas money. I was sorry to hear it, I really enjoyed his music selections on our drives to Gold Beach, it was like our road trips together in days past. Because their nails are black, it’s hard to see the quick, easy to hurt them. I won’t do it. Joe said he looked it up on the computer, learned about the two methods (snip and grind) watched a YouTube and was confident he could do it. When I settled with the tech, I told her of Joe’s (spectacularly poor in my opinion) decision and cancelled all future appointments. This morning, while discussing his plans to get new speakers installed in the Jeep, he said something about remembering what I said about road trips and he’d be willing to take the dogs back to Gold Beach for their trims. I sure didn’t see that coming. I am soooo grateful!Lanette please share your chainsaw shopping experiences. I, too, am inspired by Debbie and Lisa. Want to tackle some of the most annoying branches that are too big around for me to lop. Thanks also for sharing about the baking soda. I was lucky my sore throat lasted less than a day. Shadow doesn’t recognize me when I wear my Dansko ankle boots. Barks and shies away until I take them off. SMH. I’m with you about not wanting to make Shadow and Tumble feel like they can’t let me know when strangers (or critters) come near, so when they bark, I say “What is it? Show Mama.” Then make a show of looking out or checking the yard. Then I say “THANK you! Let’s go get a cookie.” Works about 90 % of the time That gadget sounds like a real life saver, especially of the big aggressive dog shies away and doesn’t try to come through the shaky fence.
Thanks, Machka. Look forward to seeing what the unsuspecting victim sees at the end of the climb. :devil:
Belated welcome back @countrygal2004 Angela from Ontario! This thread is about all I can keep up with and frequently fall behind.
Barbie thanks for the link to the fireproof safe. I’m thinking more of a fireproof file drawer like ?Beth? but getting something that small would really force me to purge and scan paper to thumb drive. Hmm. . . “procrasticlutter” :laugh:
Rita ((hugs)) moving is one of the top most stressful life events, and having to face possibly doing it twice, yikes! ((hugs))
Margaret thanks. Excess weight around the middle, that’s me. Thanks for the drink acv through a straw tip, I usually just rinse mouth with salt water after acv. Love how motivating your singing is.
Heather loved your “getting away” advice to Rita, and the “If you are feeling low, doing something nice for someone, is the best way to feel better” reminder to us all. Truth.
Lisa so sorry for gut uproar but the pics. The smiles tell it all. And your joy in your life both now and to come, really resonates.
Rebecca, well said!
Rosemarie conVERYgratulations for taking of NINE pounds!!!
Carol, praying for your DH and for you too.
Terri like Lanette, I love reading the details of your solid habits every month. Inspiring!
Bong! Been sitting long enough.
Later, lighter, lovelies!
Barbara, the Southern Oregon Coastie AHMOD
Move more than yesterday, fuel better than yesterday, l, live NOW.
Open heart and mind before mouth.
2024: Strengthen: body, mind, heart-connections.
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Lanette
SW WA State [/quote]
I mix half cauliflower rice with regular white(Japanese) rice when I make fried rice and neither son or dh can tell the difference.
I cook ground turkey in bulk- half I add taco seasoning and half Italian herb or Asian(soy,ginger, garlic)- put in ziplock bags for quick toppings for my salads or to add to some veggies or in tacos.
Debbie
Napa Valley,Ca[/quote]
I do that once in a while with ground chicken.
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I have done it with turkey, chicken and beef. What ever we get on sale.
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Did a cardio and Strength Circuit Workout DVD. This is for the rebounder. Keeper
Rained really hard last night but now it’s just cloudy so went for my walk around the neighborhood
Carol – prayers for your husband
Did a load of laundry so now have to make the bed
Think I’ll go paint (start to) my Tigger. I have black paint at home so I can start it here.
Was pretty warm today. Rained real hard during the night. Got some more of the ceramics out by the pool. Vince is looking to buy more shelves to put them on...lol
How I wish I could get Vince to eat a turkey burger. I wonder if I were to use ½ ground beef and ½ ground turkey if he would notice. May have to try that.
Heather – boy, is Max growing up! What a lovely cake. What are the decorations?
Barbara – I’m so glad Joe changed his mind! I don’t even like cutting the cats' nails, Vince usually does it
I don’t know why, but I seem to be so tired. Think I’ll get to bed.
Michele NC5 -
There are so many different brands and sizes on the smaller chain saws. I bought myself the 6" one.
Like having a bit larger blade. Mine did have a little issue-wire broke inside but dh soldered it for me and now works fine;
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0C7BNJV5K/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_search_asin_title?ie=UTF8&psc=1
Second one is one I bought former hubby for his birthday. He really likes it.
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B08Z3T6GYD/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_search_asin_title?ie=UTF8&psc=1
Third one is one I bought my mom-
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B08NB16TL5/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_search_asin_title?ie=UTF8&psc=1
they go on sale/have coupons often. that is how I picked the ones I did.
You will have to get different ones as these are not available right now but there are others like it that are available.
Going to use mine in the next few days on the juniper from the neighbors yard. Pulled weeds for an hour this afternoon. That Bermuda grass is crazy- well over 6' long and about 1/2 " thick all over the whole top garden and over the retaining wall into the bottom garden.
Debbie
Napap Valley,Ca
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Barbara Check Amazon for fireproof safes, boxes, etc. There are so many different sizes and configuration. You will probably find a size and shape that works for you. We all have our own ideas of what documents should be kept in such a place.
Rita, Someone told me "it's not surprising that "move" is a four letter word. Just take it one day at a time and you'll get through this challenge.
Barbie in cold drizzly NW WA4 -
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Hello, I'm new! Starting this journey again, and hope to have some friends to boost me along the way! Starting at 257 and hoping to rid myself of some aches and pains along with some pounds ..9
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Pouring with rain, a painful night, and a very early morning.
I will do a quick tidy up and hoover when I go down to make a cup of tea. I will have to give my brain a shake so I am less annoyed. Be glad for John, or ... something ... Grrrrrr.
Max is 13 today. A teenager! My son makes the most amazing cakes, gluten free, and the decorations are freestyle. He often makes his own butterscotch shards.
John made a wonderful card for him, involving 'macs' (mackintoshes) which Max will appreciate. He will be opening that this morning.
I must remember one of the best days of my life, 21 years ago, when I met John and my life changed for ever. That's why we celebrate this more than our wedding anniversary.
Much love, Heather UK xxxxxxxx8 -
Machka's Food
Here's what I eat from 11:30 am until about 6:30 or 7 pm.
Sorry about the size of the photos these days ... I've put most of them into spoilers.
Lunch
One 125g container of rice
One tin of chicken or chickpeas
One bag of one of these veggies
Snacks
1 or 2 of these crackers & cheese each day
1 of these yogurts
1 or 2 pieces of fruit:- 1 banana or
- 2 mandarins or
- 2 kiwi fruits or
- 1 apple or
- 1 banana passionfruit and 2 figs
After I get home from work, I eat dinner and dessert.
I can definitely maintain on that!
But yes, I can lose weight with that as well ... if I up my exercise a bit.
If I want to speed things up, I might have 1 crackers & cheese instead of 2, and I might choose a lower calorie dessert at the end of the day.
Machka in Oz4 -
Good morning ladies!
Rita hope your move goes smoothly, and DH goes along with it amiably.
Carol good luck with your DH's medical issues.
I eat beef burgers when I go out. But I could make a turkey burger for Dad. Good idea!
My aunt's 90th birthday party was a marvelous party. I went a little overboard with the gifts, because I gave her things from my Mom: books by Robin Carr, three little framed pictures, and a teacup that belonged to her grandmother. Then I bought her a tea mug box with three kinds of tea. She loved it.
My aunt's whole family was there, including several cousins who had traveled. Twice I ended up staring when I couldn't think of anything to say. Oh well. I guess I will be the awkward spinster aunt.
My one cousin's daughter made a beautiful carrot cake. It was wonderful, but now my weight is back up high.
There was an awkward moment with my dad. He was going to walk home three blocks in a very light rain. A cousin asked him whether he had arrived in a car, and he got all confused and it scared them. She ended up driving him. I think he was just tired. I probably should have taken him home myself.
My dad will turn 90 the end of July. I have to decide what to do for that. I'm not much of a hostess. He loves parties but he doesn't help with anything.
Today will be a quiet day. Yay!
Have a marvelous day! May you be happy, healthy, safe and free!
Annie in Delaware
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@Pamelyb - and everyone who's new, just sign your posts with what you want us to call you and a vague idea of where you are, so we can get to know you a little...
Heather - I love the fact that you and John celebrate the day you met. Love how much your son's family celebrates the kid's birthdays, too. Lots of joyous memories down the years for all of them. Can't believe Max is 13!
Machka - Along with Heather's gourmet cooking, I always appreciate an idea of how you eat. Very different from my eating environment, but always fascinating.
My typing disturbed Egg enough that she deserted my lap, but she was obviously glad to haveus back into a routine this morning, as Corey went off to work at his regular time. I didn't have the heart to tell her that company is still here for the week. She'll realize soon enough, when my friend comes over with laundry. Which apparently is a large part of the day's plan. I'm fine with that, by the way. I hope to convince her to do the cooking for dinner, too.
We went out for Mexican last night, and it was good... but my gut is, as usual, protesting any change. Heck, it protests anything, anytime anywhere, so oh well. I hadn't realized how much our lives revolve around my Crohn's disease until we had friends here. You just adjust, adjust, adjust until you can't remember what your old life looked like.
Anyway - I need to get a few chores done, medications set up for the week, etc. I've got the heat on this morning. It wasn't terribly cold in the house this morning, but the continuing damp has every joint aching. The warmth is welcome. I did get my yoga done yesterday, hard to fit parts of your normal life in when you have company, but pleased that I did. Will try to get it in today as well, but have to wait until my gut settles down a bit more. Had to take some Zofran for the nausea already, unusual this early, but necessary. Thank goodness it works fast. Yurk.
Probably drop back in tomorrow, same bat time, same bat station 🦇😁. Hope everyone had a lovely weekend.
Love,
Lisa in AR8 -
LisaInArkansas wrote: »Machka - Along with Heather's gourmet cooking, I always appreciate an idea of how you eat. Very different from my eating environment, but always fascinating.
Love,
Lisa in AR
I've been eating like that for a long time! When it comes to food, I'm not keen on variety.
Machka in Oz
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Yummo!!
10 vegetables you never knew were rich in protein
https://www.taste.com.au/healthy/articles/vegetables-rich-protein/r5bzs3zk
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Monday Highlights
- Got through reading some policy documents etc.
- Completed my Working with Children refresher
- Took another load out to the new house after work.
- Walked a little over 2 km
- Climbed 25 flights of 20 stairs up and 33 flights of 20 stairs down.
- Lego and Cycling on TV4 -
Machka's Food
Here's what I eat from 11:30 am until about 6:30 or 7 pm.Sorry about the size of the photos these days ... I've put most of them into spoilers.
Lunch
One 125g container of rice
One tin of chicken or chickpeas
One bag of one of these veggies
Snacks
1 or 2 of these crackers & cheese each day
1 of these yogurts
1 or 2 pieces of fruit:- 1 banana or
- 2 mandarins or
- 2 kiwi fruits or
- 1 apple or
- 1 banana passionfruit and 2 figs
After I get home from work, I eat dinner and dessert.
I can definitely maintain on that!
But yes, I can lose weight with that as well ... if I up my exercise a bit.
If I want to speed things up, I might have 1 crackers & cheese instead of 2, and I might choose a lower calorie dessert at the end of the day.
Machka in Oz
Also ...
I rarely drink my calories. Food makes me feel full, beverages with calories do not make me feel full.
I rarely drink anything other than black coffee and water until about 6:30 pm. Then I'll head into some diet drinks.
I rarely eat anything sweet (like chocolate, cookies, pastries, ice cream, etc.) during the day.
I wait until my dessert time for anything like that.
So when I'm feeling tired at about 3 pm at work, I get up, climb more stairs, then get another cup of coffee and tall glass of water. If I feel a little hungry, I might have a zero sugar yogurt at that time.
I take some vitamins to make sure I've got things covered.
I try to keep busy to reduce the boredom eating.
Just a few things that work fairly well for me.
Machka in Oz
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I stay with the same foods over and over for a variety of reasons including the fact that I don't have to use a lot of time looking for ideas of what to cook. Grocery shopping is easy because we buy the same things every week. I decided at the beginning of this health journey in 2009 that I wouldn't use food for entertainment or recreation and it has served me well.
I eat turkey burgers because I learned through painful experience more than 10 years ago that I don't digest beef well. I didn't need too many bad mornings to convince me to stop eating beef. I had a similar experience in my 30's with avocado. I have a turkey burger with a huge serving of frozen mixed vegetables almost every suppertime. Sometimes Jake will want them for lunch with corn on the cob or cole slaw.
Having company in town is challenging and I am always glad when they leave. Fortunately it is a rare occurrence.
Carol, best wishes to your husband on his medical appointment.
Barbie in chilly drizzly NW WA
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I am enjoying my homemade yogurt. A friend tried it and she said it was like the yogurt you get in Europe. It is not quite as thick as the American version. I used a good starter Whole Milk Stonybrook ( a Minnesota brand) I use organic whole milk too when I make it. I reserve 3/8 of a cup from a batch to 3 cups of whole milk when I make it. I serve it over blueberries using about three tablespoons and a dash of some wild blueberry preserves sweetened with grape and date juice. It comes from France. Yum!4
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