Bullies, meanies, and Police! OH MY!

MireyGal76

That sort of thing happens all the time. I think that a lot of posters aren't looking for advice so much as they are looking for their preconceived thoughts to be validated.

I agree with this too. If the OP gets snarky in response to non-snarky feedback, that's not a mean people thread, that just becomes entertainment.

Hehe

FlaxMilk

That's what I like to see.

I think in general... A lot of people want to help and are frustrated. And a lot want help and are frustrated. The frustrations smack together with a loud thud and neither side hears the sincerity

Maybe both sides need healthy doses of patience and compassion.


Or big squishy hugs. I like those too.

Perfectly said.

MireyGal76

That's what I like to see.

I think in general... A lot of people want to help and are frustrated. And a lot want help and are frustrated. The frustrations smack together with a loud thud and neither side hears the sincerity

Maybe both sides need healthy doses of patience and compassion.


Or big squishy hugs. I like those too.

Perfectly said.

*come to me little chicklet*

Lol

Seriously though... I like you and think you have a pretty good head on your shoulders.

Maybe it's cuz you agree with me! Hehe - kidding!

FlaxMilk

*come to me little chicklet*

Lol

Seriously though... I like you and think you have a pretty good head on your shoulders.

Maybe it's cuz you agree with me! Hehe - kidding!

Awww thank you--same to you! And your pics prove you clearly know what you are talking about.

ChristieisReady

I'm gonna get slapped for this one, but I have to speak.

Watch out for the MFP Police!

MAYBE, just MAYBE, the bullies, the meanies and the police, have something to share. Maybe the delivery can suck, maybe it can be hilarious at times... but the value is there...

Ma'am, I'm gonna have to ask you to step away from the ketones now.

MireyGal76

I'm gonna get slapped for this one, but I have to speak.

Watch out for the MFP Police!

MAYBE, just MAYBE, the bullies, the meanies and the police, have something to share. Maybe the delivery can suck, maybe it can be hilarious at times... but the value is there...

Ma'am, I'm gonna have to ask you to step away from the ketones now.

Bahaahahahahahahha

ndj1979

sigh this thread again ...

OP you might want to add "no originality" to your thread concerns...

Oh and In...before the "police" lock this thing down..

Nick

dude, ease up on the Propecia... medical evidence suggests that using too much may make you grouchy. 

Oh he's totally right though! :laugh:

I own that!

did not mean to rain on your parade...just have seen this one a couple hundred times...

oh and surprised that the police have not yet locked this down ....

MireyGal76

sigh this thread again ...

OP you might want to add "no originality" to your thread concerns...

Oh and In...before the "police" lock this thing down..

Nick

dude, ease up on the Propecia... medical evidence suggests that using too much may make you grouchy. 

Oh he's totally right though! :laugh:

I own that!

did not mean to rain on your parade...just have seen this one a couple hundred times...

oh and surprised that the police have not yet locked this down ....

Rain all you want... I'll just dance in it anyways. :-)

SpeSHul_SnoflEHk

Thanks for this, but I think I'm done with trying to be helpful, here. For every post like yours, there are 20 complaining about "bullies", "know-it alls" and "rude people".

I'm not so knowledgeable that my lack of input will be detrimental to the site or anything, but any effort I make to prevent people from having to learn things the hard way appears to be met with resistance and resentment. It isn't like I'm paid to be here. I thought I was being kind, but if that isn't the way it is perceived, I'm just wasting my time.

SO, are you going to start bullying for real then?

HiKaren

ETA: TL/DR - WE AREN'T ALL MEAN HERE

Disclaimer... Not original... As per Nick (p2)
* * * *

I'm gonna get slapped for this one, but I have to speak.

This site is full of BULLIES!
People are so MEAN!
Watch out for the MFP Police!


Really? People, I mean, really?
How old are we?


Can we not realize that not everyone is going to hand us flowers?
Not everyone will kiss our behind?
And not everyone will be given a free pass to the next grade.

When we've fallen and scraped our knees, there are some will pick us up, kiss our tears away and give us a lollipop; and some will holler "suck it up buttercup, you've got work to do"

I get that weight loss is an emotional topic. I get that there are a lot of people who battle emotionally with the issues, and I totally agree that compassion is a wonderful thing and it should be served liberally.

Thing is, though...

Weight loss is also a tough topic.
Getting is shape is hard. Staying in shape is a hard.

IT IS HARD


No one here knows it all.
That's why the community as a whole can be valuable. Taken with a grain of salt and a huge dose of research it for yourself (google - yay!), there is a lot that can be learned from the people here. EVEN THE MEAN OLD BULLY POLICE!!

Maybe, instead of getting mad, hurt, or ragequitting... try taking a deep breath.
Re-reading the comment.
Read it out loud in your own voice.
And ask... could there be any truth in this?

You might be surprised.


Yeah I know people will say... OMG you haven't lost any weight, who are you to be posting. Well, yeah, I've lost maybe 20 pounds. My mom on the other hand struggled with eating disorders her entire life, so I was raised with an unhealthy attachment to staying thin. I was raised with an "OBESE MIND" in that I always worried I was fat.

I am fit now, and there's a difference.
I have been busting my *kitten* for the last three years to lose those 20 pounds and 6 dress sizes. I don't eat great half the time, I don't log my food anymore, but I do put up massive calorie burns. I know what it's like to push hard, and to struggle with knowing what to eat. I know what it's like to emotional eat. I know what it's like to not want to eat at all.

I may not have a huge loss in my ticker, but I've learned a lot. And maybe, I have something to share too.

And that's my point.

MAYBE, just MAYBE, the bullies, the meanies and the police, have something to share. Maybe the delivery can suck, maybe it can be hilarious at times... but the value is there...

just please... try to see it before you get mad?
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or do... I kinda like it.

I liked this.. " LIKE" it. My sister told me many times growing up, "Get a thicker skin"
Took quite a while..

NonnyMary

To the OP - MFP aint bad. Just try going over to another kind of forum - like the Christians vs atheists forums or a Politics forum, and you will see a lot of what you think MFP has.