Do women really go for guys in bands?

djeffreys10
djeffreys10 Posts: 2,312 Member
edited February 4 in Chit-Chat
You always hear how women dig a guy in a band. But I don't really think so. I was in a band in high school, and I still never had a date. When I tried to use it to my advantage, it generally went like this:

Me: "Hey, wanna come hear my band Friday night?"

Her "Maybe, what's the name of your band?"

Me: "Marching"

Her: *walks away*
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  • DudeistPriest
    DudeistPriest Posts: 665 Member
    Chicks dig musicians. Well except the bass player. Poor *kitten* always gets left behind...
    OF course the drummer is still packing his **** while the rest of the guys are in the van already. Guitar pickers gotta unplugg and pack up....
    This is why the front man gets all the *****, he's just gotta drop the mic and leave....
  • Cindy311
    Cindy311 Posts: 780 Member
    She's crazy not to, especially if you play one of the horns...:smokin:
  • LankyYankee
    LankyYankee Posts: 260 Member
    Yes, yes they do. My ex played guitar. I wasn't with him cause he was smart:)
  • mag131
    mag131 Posts: 542 Member
    Do you know how many free drinks the simple saying "I'm with the band" gets you?
    It's a beautiful thing.
  • 1PatientBear
    1PatientBear Posts: 2,089 Member
    Yes, yes they do. My ex played guitar. I wasn't with him cause he was smart:)

    Because he opened pickle jars for you??
  • DudeistPriest
    DudeistPriest Posts: 665 Member
    Yes, yes they do. My ex played guitar. I wasn't with him cause he was smart:)
    Smart enough to figure out six strings and a fret board is as good as a fat wallet and a mercedes!
    12 strings are better. Mad finger skills. Chicks LOVE mad finger skills...
  • silvergurl518
    silvergurl518 Posts: 4,123 Member
    musicians are hot. depending on the popularity of the band, the emotional availability of its members varies too. but the physical availibility usually is there ;) ah, my younger days!
  • LankyYankee
    LankyYankee Posts: 260 Member
    @ Beer Shark...there was no Mercedes and yes the ability to play was actually quite impressive

    @ 1PatientBear How did you know?!
  • _Emma_Problema_
    _Emma_Problema_ Posts: 261 Member
    There's something really sexy about watching a man play guitar. Not acoustic. That's for *kitten*.

    But beware ladies. I've dated a few guitar players and I've found that a lot of them can be man children.

    Not all. But some.
  • diodelcibo
    diodelcibo Posts: 2,564 Member
    Depends how famous your band is.
  • LumpySpacePrincess1
    LumpySpacePrincess1 Posts: 388 Member
    No, cause every time we'd have sex he'd crowd dive onto me.
  • DudeistPriest
    DudeistPriest Posts: 665 Member
    @ Beer Shark...there was no Mercedes and yes the ability to play was actually quite impressive

    @ 1PatientBear How did you know?!

    Of course there wasn't, didn't need it. There was The Guitar...
  • Warchortle
    Warchortle Posts: 2,197 Member
    Every college girl wants a guitarist.. then I tell them I play bass.. WOMP WOMP WWOMPPP.
  • leaaa92
    leaaa92 Posts: 164 Member
    I LOVE musicians. :love: If they're talented musicians (and not an *kitten*), I'd be all up on that. :wink:

    Favorites: Singer (if good), Drummer, or Guitarist (any, including bass)
  • mank32
    mank32 Posts: 1,323 Member
    yeah, i liked being with the singer/strummer on stage. briefly. (musicians can be mercurial. i know. i am one.)
  • KANGOOJUMPS
    KANGOOJUMPS Posts: 6,474 Member
    when I was young and stupid
  • eric_sg61
    eric_sg61 Posts: 2,925 Member
    Depends how famous your band is.
    This. And depends on the style of music you play. You won't get chicks playing death metal, even though it takes more talent to play that than just about anythng else.
  • BattleTaxi
    BattleTaxi Posts: 752 Member
    I usually go for the bass players or the drummers. But to be honest, I'm not interested in the flock of groupies, so I probably won't bother trying to engage in conversation.

    I also tend to have a lot of trouble talking to people about music, because I am very passionate about it and I'm sort of an elitist when it comes to specific genres. (ie I don't care for people who want to trash on an entire genre with no good support for that.)
  • TMLPatrick
    TMLPatrick Posts: 558 Member
    Never really worked too much for me, although I did meet my partner of 10 years through my band... so I guess it only needed to work once?
  • WisiPls
    WisiPls Posts: 359
    what about the flute?
  • djeffreys10
    djeffreys10 Posts: 2,312 Member
    Naw, we played whatever the band director picked out for our show that year. Like my junior year, we did a Beatles show. Chicks dig the Beattles. Maybe I was doing it wrong...
  • Jonesingmucho
    Jonesingmucho Posts: 4,902 Member
    You always hear how women dig a guy in a band. But I don't really think so. I was in a band in high school, and I still never had a date. When I tried to use it to my advantage, it generally went like this:

    Me: "Hey, wanna come hear my band Friday night?"

    Her "Maybe, what's the name of your band?"

    Me: "Marching"

    Her: *walks away*

    ROFLMAO

    I really liked this....

    And yes....
  • djeffreys10
    djeffreys10 Posts: 2,312 Member
    See, I see where a lot of you are saying drummers. I was a drummer. Snare drum, to be more specific. I marched the hell out of that snare drum!
  • Mslmesq
    Mslmesq Posts: 1,000 Member
    You always hear how women dig a guy in a band. But I don't really think so. I was in a band in high school, and I still never had a date. When I tried to use it to my advantage, it generally went like this:

    Me: "Hey, wanna come hear my band Friday night?"

    Her "Maybe, what's the name of your band?"

    Me: "Marching"

    Her: *walks away*

    Lol. That's cute.

    Btw, roll tide. :smile:
  • aliencheesecake
    aliencheesecake Posts: 569 Member
    You always hear how women dig a guy in a band. But I don't really think so. I was in a band in high school, and I still never had a date. When I tried to use it to my advantage, it generally went like this:

    Me: "Hey, wanna come hear my band Friday night?"

    Her "Maybe, what's the name of your band?"

    Me: "Marching"

    Her: *walks away*

    I have dated a few guys in a band. I was in one of the bands WITH one of the guys. BUt my experience has been, unless the girl is JUST as into the band as the guy is, it's kind of a pain in the *kitten*... Girl often takes 2nd best.
  • djeffreys10
    djeffreys10 Posts: 2,312 Member
    You always hear how women dig a guy in a band. But I don't really think so. I was in a band in high school, and I still never had a date. When I tried to use it to my advantage, it generally went like this:

    Me: "Hey, wanna come hear my band Friday night?"

    Her "Maybe, what's the name of your band?"

    Me: "Marching"

    Her: *walks away*

    ROFLMAO

    I really liked this....

    And yes....

    Yeah, I think most everyone else is actually taking this seriously lol
  • taunto
    taunto Posts: 6,420 Member
    if being in a band doesn't get you laid then just give up and start dating professionals.
  • gangsterfurious
    gangsterfurious Posts: 56
    If the guy is Geddy Lee, yeah. :)
  • fatalis_vox
    fatalis_vox Posts: 106 Member
    I had the misfortune of dating a guy in a band when I was 19 and stupid.

    Found out later that he cheated on me with no fewer than 9 other girls. Promptly got tested and swore off guys in bands.
  • Cliffslosinit
    Cliffslosinit Posts: 5,044 Member
    Polka bands get no action!:cry:
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