Do women really go for guys in bands?

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  • lighteningjeanne855
    lighteningjeanne855 Posts: 566 Member
    I went for an operatic tenor.

    Musicians are the same, no matter the genre.
  • fatalis_vox
    fatalis_vox Posts: 106 Member
    Exception: Collegiate a capella. Those guys can make sweet music with me any day. I don't care if they get me in treble. I'll follow them right off a clef.
  • DudeistPriest
    DudeistPriest Posts: 665 Member
    Polka bands get no pussie!:cry:
    No, but they get bacon and that's almost the same...
  • twinketta
    twinketta Posts: 2,130 Member
    Haha
    I must be getting old cos when I read the title of the post I was thinking what type of band...like a guy in a head band or a friendship band :tongue:

    Do people call them bands or groups?

    I can understand the marching band thing now I have read the OP`s question
  • dbmata
    dbmata Posts: 12,950 Member
    I was a dj AND on the radio... I can tell you that it wasn't being on the radio that filled my dance card.
  • seltzermint555
    seltzermint555 Posts: 10,740 Member
    Even when I was a teenager in the 90's and loved going to local punk & ska shows, I may have found some of the musicians attractive but I didn't want to date them because seriously...who wants a partner who has so many social obligations and is "all about the music"? I'd rather date a guy who's all about me.
  • TheRealParisLove
    TheRealParisLove Posts: 1,907 Member
    Both my ex and current husband are musicians. An interest in music shows a creative side to a person. Poets, writers, dancers, and artists all have a pretty easy time with finding dates as well.

    Mathematicians and computer coders have a harder time in the social arena, it seems.
  • grrrlface
    grrrlface Posts: 1,204 Member
    I'm a girl IN a band, I usually get asked which of the guys I'm with before we play and hanging around, the shock on their faces when I pick up a bass and start singing is priceless.

    I get a lot of guy interest but I'm with the drummer. My brother is the guitarist and doesn't get much female attention either. I think my presence puts girls off, I'm very tomboy-ish and feisty and have all the guy banter (kinda gotta get used to it in the music scene, very male dominant)

    When I was younger I went for guys in bands. Most of my previous boyfriends have been in bands or been a musician of some kind.
  • sunnyside1213
    sunnyside1213 Posts: 1,205 Member
    If you want to be bored to death and never get to dance, date a guy in a band.
  • dbmata
    dbmata Posts: 12,950 Member
    Even when I was a teenager in the 90's and loved going to local punk & ska shows, I may have found some of the musicians attractive but I didn't want to date them because seriously...who wants a partner who has so many social obligations and is "all about the music"? I'd rather date a guy who's all about me.

    If you're dating them, you're doing it wrong.
  • 1PatientBear
    1PatientBear Posts: 2,089 Member
    @ 1PatientBear How did you know?!

    Because I AM smart. I'm not just fur and a cave you know!!
  • Melissa22G
    Melissa22G Posts: 847 Member
    what about the flute?


    OMG you're so hawt!
  • 1PatientBear
    1PatientBear Posts: 2,089 Member
    what about the flute?


    OMG you're so hawt!

    You just want to borrow his flute so you can take it to band camp......
  • Sovictorrious
    Sovictorrious Posts: 770 Member
    I dated a guitar player of a Haitian boy-band. Their name was Papillion translated "Butterfly" He had a small peen and could not hold his note.
  • FizikallyFit
    FizikallyFit Posts: 180 Member
    LMAO, only one of my ex's played instruments. So there is that. Is it a prerequisite? nope.

    In my opinion it is like just another skill, you got it cool, you don't cool. I am more into personality and humor. :flowerforyou:
  • suziepoo1984
    suziepoo1984 Posts: 915 Member
    Depends on how talented the guy is. For me any guy who is smart/talented in any way is very very attractive.
  • calibriintx
    calibriintx Posts: 1,741 Member
    Yes

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  • djeffreys10
    djeffreys10 Posts: 2,312 Member
    You know what engineers use for birth control? Their personality. :ohwell:

    <--engineer
    LMAO, only one of my ex's played instruments. So there is that. Is it a prerequisite? nope.

    In my opinion it is like just another skill, you got it cool, you don't cool. I am more into personality and humor. :flowerforyou:
  • EddieHaskell97
    EddieHaskell97 Posts: 2,227 Member
    Yes.

    I played guitar and bass for fun, though professionally I was a classical string bassist. Women really liked both, though the ones who went for Mozart and Beethoven were traditionally a bit older.
  • dbmata
    dbmata Posts: 12,950 Member
    what about the flute?


    OMG you're so hawt!

    You just want to borrow his flute so you can take it to band camp......

    Seen it, not as hot as you would think.
  • Mouse_Potato
    Mouse_Potato Posts: 1,513 Member
    You know what engineers use for birth control? Their personality. :ohwell:

    <--engineer
    LMAO, only one of my ex's played instruments. So there is that. Is it a prerequisite? nope.

    In my opinion it is like just another skill, you got it cool, you don't cool. I am more into personality and humor. :flowerforyou:

    I don't care if a guy can play the guitar or the tuba. I just likes 'em nerdy and dirty! :love:
  • CookNLift
    CookNLift Posts: 3,660 Member
    if a woman wants you solely because you're in a band, there is a high probability that she is a *kitten*.
  • Jonesingmucho
    Jonesingmucho Posts: 4,902 Member
    You know what engineers use for birth control? Their personality. :ohwell:

    <--engineer

    ROFLMAO

    Killing me today DJ!
  • djeffreys10
    djeffreys10 Posts: 2,312 Member
    if a woman wants you solely because you're in a band, there is a high probability that she is a *kitten*.

    You have to pay a *kitten* for sex. No thanks, I spent 8 years paying for sex. Most people called it marriage.
  • Deipneus
    Deipneus Posts: 1,855 Member
    I was never in a band. No musical talent whatsoever. I did have some business sense though. I used to hire bands as a promoter and that kinda worked for me.
  • pseudomuffin
    pseudomuffin Posts: 1,058 Member
    I was the singer in an indie band full of guys when I was in college and they were all insecure *kitten* with substance abuse problems and none of them could ever get laid. Not saying every guy ever in a band is like this but that was just my experience.
  • Jleonra
    Jleonra Posts: 42
    Yes they do, specially guitar players, at least they did in HS
  • CookNLift
    CookNLift Posts: 3,660 Member
    if a woman wants you solely because you're in a band, there is a high probability that she is a *kitten*.

    You have to pay a *kitten* for sex. No thanks, I spent 8 years paying for sex. Most people called it marriage.

    Payment can always come in the form of "The Herps" It does not always have to be monetary ;)

    I rofl waffled on the second part
  • dbmata
    dbmata Posts: 12,950 Member
    if a woman wants you solely because you're in a band, there is a high probability that she is a *kitten*.

    With no limitations or boundaries!

    IN.
  • iamanadult
    iamanadult Posts: 709 Member
    My girlfriends are all giddy about guys who play guitars..not me though. We could be sitting around the campfire drinking or at a party and if some dude busts out his guitar I could not be more turned off.

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