Calling her unattractive
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Negging is not okay. Ever.
Talk about being unattractive.0 -
This! This about perfectly describes my situation.If you really want it to go somewhere then I wouldn't. It is a good move of you can pull it off in the right manner but it has a high potential of going horribly horribly wrong if you can't pull it off just right.
Maybe practice on some random women that you could really care less about. Think bar situation. But unless you're confident you could pull it off right then don't do it with someone you actually care about things going somewhere.
Btw, the "unattractive" part should be said in a way where she is almost sure you are completely kidding BUT not 100% sure. Just a quick little mind game to pay for fun.
Yeah, sorry women of MFP, I am kinda a ****.
Make sure to go back and re-read where I edited it. Left out something really really important with a sentence.0 -
If you really want it to go somewhere then I wouldn't. It is a good move of you can pull it off in the right manner but it has a high potential of going horribly horribly wrong if you can't pull it off just right.
Maybe practice on some random women that you could really care less about. Think bar situation. But unless you're confident you could pull it off right then don't do it with someone you actually care about things going somewhere.
Btw, the "unattractive" part should be said in a way where she is almost sure you are completely kidding BUT not 100% sure. Just a quick little mind game to pay for fun.
AND you don't ever call her unattractive, you call indecision unattractive. Big difference between calling someone something and saying something they did was a certain way. Your trying to flirt with her head, not destroy her ego.
Yeah, sorry women of MFP, I am kinda a ****.
Yeah, you are.
But you're cute too.
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Yeah, what you just added is exactly the point; read the very first sentence of this thread..
This! This about perfectly describes my situation.If you really want it to go somewhere then I wouldn't. It is a good move of you can pull it off in the right manner but it has a high potential of going horribly horribly wrong if you can't pull it off just right.
Maybe practice on some random women that you could really care less about. Think bar situation. But unless you're confident you could pull it off right then don't do it with someone you actually care about things going somewhere.
Btw, the "unattractive" part should be said in a way where she is almost sure you are completely kidding BUT not 100% sure. Just a quick little mind game to pay for fun.
Yeah, sorry women of MFP, I am kinda a ****.
Make sure to go back and re-read where I edited it. Left out something really really important with a sentence.0 -
Just a side note. I just had a caramel apple with caramel and TWO kinds of chocolate. And my husband bought it for me without asking which was better or noticing my indecisiveness when choosing it amongst others with nuts. That's how you end up married, bro. Talk to some husbands IRL. They'll tell you how to get the girl/woman/etc.0
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Mind games. Fun. Nothing a girl likes more than a guy F'ing with her head.
^ Yep.
My suggestion is to never call a girl you like unattractive.0 -
If you really want it to go somewhere then I wouldn't. It is a good move of you can pull it off in the right manner but it has a high potential of going horribly horribly wrong if you can't pull it off just right.
Maybe practice on some random women that you could really care less about. Think bar situation. But unless you're confident you could pull it off right then don't do it with someone you actually care about things going somewhere.
Btw, the "unattractive" part should be said in a way where she is almost sure you are completely kidding BUT not 100% sure. Just a quick little mind game to pay for fun.
AND you don't ever call her unattractive, you call indecision unattractive. Big difference between calling someone something and saying something they did was a certain way. Your trying to flirt with her head, not destroy her ego.
Yeah, sorry women of MFP, I am kinda a ****.
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That's perfect! haha!Just a side note. I just had a caramel apple with caramel and TWO kinds of chocolate. And my husband bought it for me without asking which was better or noticing my indecisiveness when choosing it amongst others with nuts. That's how you end up married, bro. Talk to some husbands IRL. They'll tell you how to get the girl/woman/etc.0 -
Why the mind games, seriously? If someone tried doing that to me, I'd just probably assume they really didn't like the indecisiveness, also think they were being a bit of an *kitten* to say it like that, and it definitely wouldn't go anywhere.
I doubt it would affect my confidence since I'm aware that people find things different things attractive and that's ok, but telling me I'm cute afterwards. Wtf? Why would that help? It wouldn't. Plus not everyone is secure in themselves, I don't agree with negging at all. THAT is unattractive.0 -
Are you high?0
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I haven't the foggiest of what the eff I just read. It made no sense, but I'm going to take a stab in the dark. Don't play games! They're for kids.0
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WTF did I just read?
I think it might have been some wannabe neg strategy?
I dunno, seemed a little... odd.0 -
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If you really want it to go somewhere then I wouldn't. It is a good move of you can pull it off in the right manner but it has a high potential of going horribly horribly wrong if you can't pull it off just right.
Maybe practice on some random women that you could really care less about. Think bar situation. But unless you're confident you could pull it off right then don't do it with someone you actually care about things going somewhere.
Btw, the "unattractive" part should be said in a way where she is almost sure you are completely kidding BUT not 100% sure. Just a quick little mind game to pay for fun.
AND you don't ever call her unattractive, you call indecision unattractive. Big difference between calling someone something and saying something they did was a certain way. Your trying to flirt with her head, not destroy her ego.
Yeah, sorry women of MFP, I am kinda a ****.
Yeah, you are.
But you're cute too.
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Yep...exactly. Except I wouldn't ever call a girl unattractive, I would call the action she did unattractive. I don't want her to think she's unattractive at the end of the day.
You can call guys ****s though...completely acceptable.0 -
To put it simply, it isn't funny or natural if you have to put this much thought into it. Just be yourself! If you normally pick on people and tease them in a caring manner, then it won't be awkward. And to be honest, if that is how you normally are with people you care about and love, then why change that for someone you are potentially going to be with?
Sorry if that sounds messed up to anyone but, seriously! I pick on people all the time! There's a difference between a wink and a shove, ya know?
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