Calling her unattractive

odusgolp

Repeat after me: I will never get in her pants...

dbmata

If she likes to pair both chocolate and caramel together that doesn't make her indecisive.

Nope, and the proper way to respond is, "Sweet, I've got both back in my bedroom, let's go."

psychdlc

Have you tried pulling her hair and calling her a big dummyhead? 'Cause they LOVE that. That'll make her fall in love with you for sure. Oh, and I hear they like ponies. Get her one of those.

3dogsrunning

If you really want it to go somewhere then I wouldn't. It is a good move of you can pull it off in the right manner but it has a high potential of going horribly horribly wrong if you can't pull it off just right.

Maybe practice on some random women that you could really care less about. Think bar situation. But unless you're confident you could pull it off right then don't do it with someone you actually care about things going somewhere.

Btw, the "unattractive" part should be said in a way where she is almost sure you are completely kidding BUT not 100% sure. Just a quick little mind game to pay for fun.

AND you don't ever call her unattractive, you call indecision unattractive. Big difference between calling someone something and saying something they did was a certain way. Your trying to flirt with her head, not destroy her ego.

Yeah, sorry women of MFP, I am kinda a ****.

Yeah, you are.




But you're cute too.



Did that work?

Yep...exactly. Except I wouldn't ever call a girl unattractive, I would call the action she did unattractive. I don't want her to think she's unattractive at the end of the day.

You can call guys ****s though...completely acceptable.

Is that like the difference between calling someone a b!tch and saying they are acting like a b!tch?

djeffreys10

If you really want it to go somewhere then I wouldn't. It is a good move of you can pull it off in the right manner but it has a high potential of going horribly horribly wrong if you can't pull it off just right.

Maybe practice on some random women that you could really care less about. Think bar situation. But unless you're confident you could pull it off right then don't do it with someone you actually care about things going somewhere.

Btw, the "unattractive" part should be said in a way where she is almost sure you are completely kidding BUT not 100% sure. Just a quick little mind game to pay for fun.

AND you don't ever call her unattractive, you call indecision unattractive. Big difference between calling someone something and saying something they did was a certain way. Your trying to flirt with her head, not destroy her ego.

Yeah, sorry women of MFP, I am kinda a ****.

Yeah, you are.




But you're cute too.



Did that work?

Yep...exactly. Except I wouldn't ever call a girl unattractive, I would call the action she did unattractive. I don't want her to think she's unattractive at the end of the day.

You can call guys ****s though...completely acceptable.

Personality>kindness>diplomacy>everything
stay safe

But who was aesthetics?

ElliottTN

If you really want it to go somewhere then I wouldn't. It is a good move of you can pull it off in the right manner but it has a high potential of going horribly horribly wrong if you can't pull it off just right.

Maybe practice on some random women that you could really care less about. Think bar situation. But unless you're confident you could pull it off right then don't do it with someone you actually care about things going somewhere.

Btw, the "unattractive" part should be said in a way where she is almost sure you are completely kidding BUT not 100% sure. Just a quick little mind game to pay for fun.

AND you don't ever call her unattractive, you call indecision unattractive. Big difference between calling someone something and saying something they did was a certain way. Your trying to flirt with her head, not destroy her ego.

Yeah, sorry women of MFP, I am kinda a ****.

Yeah, you are.




But you're cute too.



Did that work?

Yep...exactly. Except I wouldn't ever call a girl unattractive, I would call the action she did unattractive. I don't want her to think she's unattractive at the end of the day.

You can call guys ****s though...completely acceptable.

Is that like the difference between calling someone a b!tch and saying they are acting like a b!tch?

Yep..big difference there.

3dogsrunning

If you really want it to go somewhere then I wouldn't. It is a good move of you can pull it off in the right manner but it has a high potential of going horribly horribly wrong if you can't pull it off just right.

Maybe practice on some random women that you could really care less about. Think bar situation. But unless you're confident you could pull it off right then don't do it with someone you actually care about things going somewhere.

Btw, the "unattractive" part should be said in a way where she is almost sure you are completely kidding BUT not 100% sure. Just a quick little mind game to pay for fun.

AND you don't ever call her unattractive, you call indecision unattractive. Big difference between calling someone something and saying something they did was a certain way. Your trying to flirt with her head, not destroy her ego.

Yeah, sorry women of MFP, I am kinda a ****.

Yeah, you are.




But you're cute too.



Did that work?

Yep...exactly. Except I wouldn't ever call a girl unattractive, I would call the action she did unattractive. I don't want her to think she's unattractive at the end of the day.

You can call guys ****s though...completely acceptable.

Is that like the difference between calling someone a b!tch and saying they are acting like a b!tch?

Yep..big difference there.

Neither will be received well though.

MiloBloom83

I would recommend a less douchie approach. Good luck on your journey!:flowerforyou:

BusyRaeNOTBusty

Is that like the difference between calling someone a b!tch and saying they are acting like a b!tch?

Yep..big difference there.

Neither will be received well though.

Yeah, that distinction doesn't get you very far in my house either.

ElliottTN

Is that like the difference between calling someone a b!tch and saying they are acting like a b!tch?

Yep..big difference there.

Neither will be received well though.

Yeah, that distinction doesn't get you very far in my house either.

I would never recommend using the word ***** in this context though. I also would could never see that one going well.

Hauntinglyfit

What i would really like to know is why you need to make her feel like she's not worth much, to get in her pants.
I mean, how low do you think her standards need to get before you might have a shot?

BinaryPulsar

I think that if you say that to her, she will quietly slip away, while wondering what caused your brain damage.

Sovictorrious

WTF did I just read?

UGH

Matt24442

it's a no dude...just give me her number and ill take care of her...thank you

Jacwhite22

Well, not calling her unattractive as for who she is, but something she does or says.

A friend brought this up one time, and I thought it was time to put it to practice.
So I asked a girl I met last week the following question:
"Chocolate or Caramel?", to which she responded; "Depends. I'd rather have espresso with caramel flavour. But well, women and chocolate..."
Here comes the part my friend brought up..
I'm about to say the following: "Depends? You sound indecisive. That's unattractive.."
Then, regardless of what she says (probably "Really?" or similar), I'll respond with something telling her she's cute and why that is.

What do you think this will do to her? haha
She's gorgeous, but I don't know if she's very confident about herself or whatsoever as I've just met her.

I'll post the conversation later on, but am just curious about your opinions. =p

I read this twice. I still have no idea what you are trying to say/ask. My son is in first grade and they do a really cool thing called a 4 square. It allows them to organize their thoughts and then put them into a coherent paragraph.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Four_Square_Writing_Method

QuietBloom

If you really want it to go somewhere then I wouldn't. It is a good move of you can pull it off in the right manner but it has a high potential of going horribly horribly wrong if you can't pull it off just right.

Maybe practice on some random women that you could really care less about. Think bar situation. But unless you're confident you could pull it off right then don't do it with someone you actually care about things going somewhere.

Btw, the "unattractive" part should be said in a way where she is almost sure you are completely kidding BUT not 100% sure. Just a quick little mind game to pay for fun.

AND you don't ever call her unattractive, you call indecision unattractive. Big difference between calling someone something and saying something they did was a certain way. Your trying to flirt with her head, not destroy her ego.

Yeah, sorry women of MFP, I am kinda a ****.

Well, at least you admit to it.

Ed98043

I'm pretty sure all the cheesy "How to Pick up Hot Women" gurus that say you should make some little criticism to throw her off and "intrigue" her (because all she ever hears are compliments and it gets sooo boring *yawn*). I assume that's what OP is going for. And good luck with that.

shell_mc

Why? Just....why?