random post..do men prefer long or short..

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  • BusyRaeNOTBusty
    BusyRaeNOTBusty Posts: 7,166 Member
    You could cut off 12" and donate it to cancer patients and it'd still be "long".

    It takes years to grow hair that long. If you want to donate hair, go ahead and grow yours for that purpose. And make sure you research the charity first, there are stringent guidelines for what hair they will accept, so a LOT of donated hair gets thrown away because it doesn't qualify. Some of these organizations sell the donated hair, and some if them still charge the people for the wigs they make.

    I've had my hair long, and people suggesting I cut it off and donate it ticked me off because 1 - they didn't grow their own hair for that purpose, and 2- because they really knew nothing about how these "charities" actually work. Don't suggest to women that they give part of themselves away because YOU think it would be a nice thing to do. Go do it yourself.

    :huh: I've done it.

    I was just amazed that OP's hair is that long that cutting off 12" wouldn't be that noticeable.
  • JilloftheDead
    JilloftheDead Posts: 296 Member
    I prefer my own hair long.. I don't think I could ever pull off short hair.
  • Keiras_Mom
    Keiras_Mom Posts: 844 Member
    Didn't quote properly--sorry. :tongue:
  • Keiras_Mom
    Keiras_Mom Posts: 844 Member
    long....some girls can pull off the short but I'd still prefer long on them anyway.

    I've ended a relationship before with someone who tried to do the pixie thing. Just completely unappealing to me unless you are in the 1% category of women who could pull it off.
    Jamie Lee Curtis.
    1%

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    Totally.

    I was going to reply long.....until I saw Jamie. Don't care about the length, given that face and smile. (ok...ok....I'm partial to tall women, like Jamie, like my wife, who has long hair :)

    Jamie Lee Curtis isn't that tall.
  • sassypants0923
    sassypants0923 Posts: 7,188 Member
    Ooo nail biter... In to know the answer! Do tell!
  • AlongCame_Molly
    AlongCame_Molly Posts: 2,835 Member
    You could cut off 12" and donate it to cancer patients and it'd still be "long".

    It takes years to grow hair that long. If you want to donate hair, go ahead and grow yours for that purpose. And make sure you research the charity first, there are stringent guidelines for what hair they will accept, so a LOT of donated hair gets thrown away because it doesn't qualify. Some of these organizations sell the donated hair, and some if them still charge the people for the wigs they make.

    I've had my hair long, and people suggesting I cut it off and donate it ticked me off because 1 - they didn't grow their own hair for that purpose, and 2- because they really knew nothing about how these "charities" actually work. Don't suggest to women that they give part of themselves away because YOU think it would be a nice thing to do. Go do it yourself.

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  • emirror
    emirror Posts: 842 Member
    You could cut off 12" and donate it to cancer patients and it'd still be "long".

    It takes years to grow hair that long. If you want to donate hair, go ahead and grow yours for that purpose. And make sure you research the charity first, there are stringent guidelines for what hair they will accept, so a LOT of donated hair gets thrown away because it doesn't qualify. Some of these organizations sell the donated hair, and some if them still charge the people for the wigs they make.

    I've had my hair long, and people suggesting I cut it off and donate it ticked me off because 1 - they didn't grow their own hair for that purpose, and 2- because they really knew nothing about how these "charities" actually work. Don't suggest to women that they give part of themselves away because YOU think it would be a nice thing to do. Go do it yourself.

    :huh: I've done it.

    I was just amazed that OP's hair is that long that cutting off 12" wouldn't be that noticeable.

    It reads like a suggestion, not an observation. I misunderstood.
  • emirror
    emirror Posts: 842 Member

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    Hahahahahaha! That a funny one! :-D
  • _SantaClause_
    _SantaClause_ Posts: 215 Member
    Mrs. Clause has long hair.

    I like it.
  • summertime_girl
    summertime_girl Posts: 3,945 Member
    My hair is past my waist. Guys are always commenting on it. I've never had short hair, but long gets a lot of attention.
  • Mainebikerchick
    Mainebikerchick Posts: 1,573 Member
    My hubby says he likes long hair much more on a woman and mine is almost to my butt now so...I think he may keep me.
  • charliex2202
    charliex2202 Posts: 4,281 Member
    My hair is past my waist. Guys are always commenting on it. I've never had short hair, but long gets a lot of attention.

    I agree with this people do comment far more with my longhair then they ever did when it was shorter
  • RrustyBell
    RrustyBell Posts: 4 Member
    It has been my experience over the decades of my life that most men prefer long .... as long as it is on the woman. Once a man has long hair & has to take care of it they find it to be time consuming and costly. Then I've seen them cut it short & keep it short. Wear it how you like it -- he does & you should too. Then you won't have to wonder if he'll still think you're beautiful if circumstances require you to cut your hair. All part of being true to yourself & finding the one who will love you for you and not because you are a piece of arm candy. You don't want that kind of guy.
  • All things even, I prefer long. Of course, it all depends on the face.
  • Gotta go with long. I only find a handful of women attractive with short hair.
  • ldrosophila
    ldrosophila Posts: 7,512 Member
    I still got good lovin' bald (he was actually very proud of me and so supportive), so guess it doesn't matter to him

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  • CTONDO
    CTONDO Posts: 43 Member
    This is an obvious. All men like long hair. I think most women would prefer to have long hair. If I could have longer hair I would. Mine is super damaged due to the high chlorine in my water which fried my hair. Working on trying to get it back to being longer. My boyfriend doesn't hate my hair short, but would prefer it long over shorter.
  • Keiras_Mom
    Keiras_Mom Posts: 844 Member
    This is an obvious. All men like long hair. I think most women would prefer to have long hair. If I could have longer hair I would. Mine is super damaged due to the high chlorine in my water which fried my hair. Working on trying to get it back to being longer. My boyfriend doesn't hate my hair short, but would prefer it long over shorter.

    Most, probably, but not ALL.
  • charliex2202
    charliex2202 Posts: 4,281 Member
    Thanks for all your replys guys and gals, its great to hear other peoples points of views.. i personally think that my longer hair makes me feel more feminine and flirty lol, but short hair simply suits some women too
  • SpeSHul_SnoflEHk
    SpeSHul_SnoflEHk Posts: 6,256 Member
    It all depends on the face the hair is framing.
  • tlou5
    tlou5 Posts: 497 Member
    I still got good lovin' bald (he was actually very proud of me and so supportive), so guess it doesn't matter to him

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    YAY! Gotta love people who love for what's inside :happy:
  • p4ulmiller
    p4ulmiller Posts: 588 Member
    Long hair is a visual symptom of good health. In prehistoric times, long hair would attract a male eager to continue his genetic pool. That's why we now find it attractive.
  • kelsully
    kelsully Posts: 1,008 Member
    My husband doesn't seem to care. I have a short pixie. I find that when I grow my hair longer that it draws my face out and I look tired constantly. Even men would ask why I was tired. I think pixie (little faux hawk) has got to look better than exhausted.
  • BrookieTrout626
    BrookieTrout626 Posts: 89 Member
    I've had long and short. I prefer the long. IMO its more feminine. It just flows, and is soft, and when it blows in the wind it looks real pretty :) Plus in the winter I use it as a scarf ;)

    p.s. I don't see anything wrong with asking men their opinions on things like this. In the end you will do what you want anyhow but just like going shopping with a girlfriend you ask their opinion, whats so different on this?
  • ironanimal
    ironanimal Posts: 5,922 Member
    Most women look better with their hair longer IMO, but it doesn't really matter.
  • desolate_angel
    desolate_angel Posts: 175 Member
    My husband says he doesn't really like long hair, but I sometimes wonder if he just doesn't like my long hair. It's fairly coarse and somewhat wavy, and since I don't like taking a flat iron and gallons of anti-frizz serum to it to make it look decent, it's usually up or braided.
  • seltzermint555
    seltzermint555 Posts: 10,740 Member
    I think the majority like long hair, but some do actually prefer short. I hear so many compliments on my short hair from guys.
  • csuhar
    csuhar Posts: 779 Member
    I was reading an article today about men that prefer women with long hair as opposed to short hair.... is this just a stereotypical assumption or could it be true..come on guys lets hear your thoughts.....

    long or short??

    When it comes to looks, I tend to be a fan of shoulder- to mid-back length hair. But I can't recall hair length ever being a deciding factor in whether or not I found a woman attractive. I have, on multiple occasions, still been floored by shorter and longer hairstyles, usually as a result of how the woman carries herself, regardless of her hairstyle.
  • seltzermint555
    seltzermint555 Posts: 10,740 Member
    This is an obvious. All men like long hair. I think most women would prefer to have long hair. If I could have longer hair I would. Mine is super damaged due to the high chlorine in my water which fried my hair. Working on trying to get it back to being longer. My boyfriend doesn't hate my hair short, but would prefer it long over shorter.

    What...no...I can grow my short hair to shoulder-length in about 4 months, people are always amazed. I like long hair on many women but not myself. I feel like Michelle Duggar, especially if I happen to wear a dress, skirt, or lots of jewelry with longer hair. I love wearing dresses/skirts with really short hair though.

    I think to each their own, but I honestly don't think "most" women would prefer to have long hair. I know way too many women who dislike long hair. I personally have such thick hair that when it's long I had to get it trimmed constantly and always wound up putting it in a clip or ponytail, so it rarely looked "nice". hehe
  • sassypants0923
    sassypants0923 Posts: 7,188 Member
    Dang looks like I'm in the minority :(