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  • golfmanwl
    golfmanwl Posts: 69
    If you are intimately getting to know someone and are hiding it from your significant other, you are obviously aware there is a reason to be hiding it and therefore know its wrong and that significant other would not be happy if they found out.

    This is truth.
  • mnwalkingqueen
    mnwalkingqueen Posts: 1,299 Member
    I put sexting in the same category as watching or reading porn. Its not real. You can't get knocked up or catch anything. 50 shades of gray would be considered cheating based off some of the posts here. Its just fantasizing, not acting on those fantasies.
    50 Shades of Grey is a (terrible, lousy, horrible) novel about imaginary people. If you're sending sexual texts to a real, live person, you are doing something wrong.

    Are you telling me you wouldn't be hurt if you found out your SO was doing that?

    I would not be hurt by my SO reading smut or watching porn. I would be hurt by him sending sexual text mssages, e-mails, private messages, whatever, to another woman.
    I would agree sexting is with real live people that you have meet in order to get their number. Porn whatever shoot I will watch it with you it's not real you don't know anyone in the video. I would say if as a couple you agreed that it is okay have at it, but if your hiding it don't do it will ruin a relationship for sure in many ways.
  • golfmanwl
    golfmanwl Posts: 69
    As soon as you have to hide, something is wrong.

    Again, this is truth.
  • rml_16
    rml_16 Posts: 16,414 Member
    I put sexting in the same category as watching or reading porn. Its not real. You can't get knocked up or catch anything. 50 shades of gray would be considered cheating based off some of the posts here. Its just fantasizing, not acting on those fantasies.
    50 Shades of Grey is a (terrible, lousy, horrible) novel about imaginary people. If you're sending sexual texts to a real, live person, you are doing something wrong.

    Are you telling me you wouldn't be hurt if you found out your SO was doing that?

    I would not be hurt by my SO reading smut or watching porn. I would be hurt by him sending sexual text mssages, e-mails, private messages, whatever, to another woman.
    I would agree sexting is with real live people that you have meet in order to get their number. Porn whatever shoot I will watch it with you it's not real you don't know anyone in the video. I would say if as a couple you agreed that it is okay have at it, but if your hiding it don't do it will ruin a relationship for sure in many ways.
    Yes. I forgot to add that if you've agreed as a couple it's OK that it's fine. :smile: In my relationship, it is not OK.
  • SweetLilyR
    SweetLilyR Posts: 283 Member
    Never sexted. But, I'm willing to learn. Do they have a class for that?
    [/quote I'd be happy to give you personalized, hands-on tutoring :smokin:
  • Ivey05131980
    Ivey05131980 Posts: 1,118 Member
    Anything you have to hide is cheating.

    *Pushes Kit Kat wrappers under couch*

    I have no idea what you are talking about honey.

    :laugh:
  • sammyantics
    sammyantics Posts: 191 Member
    Never sexted. But, I'm willing to learn. Do they have a class for that?

    This made my day. :)
  • mank32
    mank32 Posts: 1,323 Member
    Its just fantasizing, not acting...

    WRONG. it IS acting, in concert with another (hopefully willing) participant. elements of fantasy are present in this scenario, but it goes WAY beyond fantasy when another person is actively involved. fantasy is in your head. the moment you open your mouth (or your phone) to share your fantasy with someone else (no matter who it is), you are outside your own head, and are no longer in the realm of pure 'fantasy'--you have entered the realm of action.

    is it wrong to share your fantasies with ppl besides your (committed, monogamous) partner? idk. i'll let everyone decide that for themselves.
  • fitnessbyme1978
    fitnessbyme1978 Posts: 99
    Cool with it if it leads to something.
  • ajaxe432
    ajaxe432 Posts: 608 Member
    If you have to ask "should my significant other know about this" then its probably a bad idea. Just sayn.
  • RickNeedzToGetShreaded
    RickNeedzToGetShreaded Posts: 293 Member
    Well.. if you do then you aren't exactly in the right relationship, you wouldn't be looking elsewhere if you were.... and nah it's not right.
  • harvo
    harvo Posts: 4,676 Member
    Never sexted. But, I'm willing to learn. Do they have a class for that?
    [/quote I'd be happy to give you personalized, hands-on tutoring :smokin:

    Now here is someone that takes the ideas of MFP seriously...so wonderful for you to offer him support in his time of need!
  • Mainebikerchick
    Mainebikerchick Posts: 1,573 Member
    Never sexted. But, I'm willing to learn. Do they have a class for that?
    [/quote I'd be happy to give you personalized, hands-on tutoring :smokin:

    IN for hands-on tutoring!!!!! :bigsmile:
  • Follow_me
    Follow_me Posts: 6,120 Member
    It's actually fun if both parties are cool with it.
  • Sovictorrious
    Sovictorrious Posts: 770 Member
    What is this sexting you speak of? Is the the thing where you dry hump the phone while on is speaker? That's a good call.
  • ZombieGeezUs
    ZombieGeezUs Posts: 476
    I put sexting in the same category as watching or reading porn. Its not real. You can't get knocked up or catch anything. 50 shades of gray would be considered cheating based off some of the posts here. Its just fantasizing, not acting on those fantasies.
    50 Shades of Grey is a (terrible, lousy, horrible) novel about imaginary people. If you're sending sexual texts to a real, live person, you are doing something wrong.

    Are you telling me you wouldn't be hurt if you found out your SO was doing that?

    I would not be hurt by my SO reading smut or watching porn. I would be hurt by him sending sexual text mssages, e-mails, private messages, whatever, to another woman.

    Depends on the person. If he lived in Europe, meh, not really. A co-worker on the otherhand is different.
  • rml_16
    rml_16 Posts: 16,414 Member
    I put sexting in the same category as watching or reading porn. Its not real. You can't get knocked up or catch anything. 50 shades of gray would be considered cheating based off some of the posts here. Its just fantasizing, not acting on those fantasies.
    50 Shades of Grey is a (terrible, lousy, horrible) novel about imaginary people. If you're sending sexual texts to a real, live person, you are doing something wrong.

    Are you telling me you wouldn't be hurt if you found out your SO was doing that?

    I would not be hurt by my SO reading smut or watching porn. I would be hurt by him sending sexual text mssages, e-mails, private messages, whatever, to another woman.

    Depends on the person. If he lived in Europe, meh, not really. A co-worker on the otherhand is different.
    I don't care where the person lives. It's hurtful and it's cheating (unless youhave that kind of open relationship).
  • IPAkiller
    IPAkiller Posts: 711 Member
    It's quite simple, if you are doing an act that you wouldn't want your significant other engaging in with someone else, it's probably wrong...and it's cheating.
    ^^^ Nuf said! /thread
  • HarleyFatboyFan
    HarleyFatboyFan Posts: 344 Member
    It's quite simple, if you are doing an act that you wouldn't want your significant other engaging in with someone else, it's probably wrong...and it's cheating.
    ^^^ Nuf said! /thread
    You're a take charge kind of guy
  • Timshel_
    Timshel_ Posts: 22,834 Member
    Anything you have to hide is cheating.

    *Pushes Kit Kat wrappers under couch*

    I have no idea what you are talking about honey.

    :laugh:

    The wife caught me and we had to have *that* talk.

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    *hangs head in shame*

    I told her it was just something I did alone. Not like I was eating other people's Kit Kats. So I didn't see a problem. Lots of people say it is natural and a good thing once in a while. Experts even.

    Not sure how this will end though.
  • RN514
    RN514 Posts: 1,107 Member
    Anything you have to hide is cheating.

    *Pushes Kit Kat wrappers under couch*

    I have no idea what you are talking about honey.

    :laugh:

    The wife caught me and we had to have *that* talk.

    tumblr_lu45io9n6D1qgvip7.jpg


    *hangs head in shame*

    I told her it was just something I did alone. Not like I was eating other people's Kit Kats. So I didn't see a problem. Lots of people say it is natural and a good thing once in a while. Experts even.

    Not sure how this will end though.
    This is why you are one of my favorites, Chael!

    Hope yall can work through your Kit Kat addiction.
  • Timshel_
    Timshel_ Posts: 22,834 Member
    Hope yall can work through your Kit Kat addiction.

    STOP NAGGIN' WOMAN!

    I mean...yes dear.

    That is what the counselor sez I need to do.
  • Andreaviolet89
    Andreaviolet89 Posts: 290 Member
    It's quite simple, if you are doing an act that you wouldn't want your significant other engaging in with someone else, it's probably wrong...and it's cheating.

    I agree with this.
  • Phildog47
    Phildog47 Posts: 255 Member
    DON'T DO IT. Whether anyone thinks it's cheating or not is beside the point. What will ALWAYS happen is it will reach a point where someone will get hurt.
  • CheeksBryant
    CheeksBryant Posts: 193 Member
    It's quite simple, if you are doing an act that you wouldn't want your significant other engaging in with someone else, it's probably wrong...and it's cheating.

    ^^This...I only sext my hubby.
  • RN514
    RN514 Posts: 1,107 Member
    Hope yall can work through your Kit Kat addiction.

    STOP NAGGIN' WOMAN!

    I mean...yes dear.

    That is what the counselor sez I need to do.

    Aw, you're FINALLY learning. Cute :)
  • RN514
    RN514 Posts: 1,107 Member
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  • mteague277
    mteague277 Posts: 145 Member
    I will never in my life do this again after my awful/hilarious experience.
  • Mia_RagazzaTosta
    Mia_RagazzaTosta Posts: 4,885 Member
    I will never in my life do this again after my awful/hilarious experience.

    We're gonna need details...
  • wjstoj
    wjstoj Posts: 884 Member
    I will never in my life do this again after my awful/hilarious experience.
    Also in for details, and preventative tips
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