5 years of calls and texts

IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym
IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym Posts: 5,573 Member
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If someone had access to all of your phone calls and text messages for the past 5 years, would any of your family members, friends or significant other have any reason to be upset with you?
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  • MiloBloom83
    MiloBloom83 Posts: 2,724 Member
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  • vtmoon
    vtmoon Posts: 3,436 Member
    can-of-worms-o.jpg

    FIFY.
  • eazy_
    eazy_ Posts: 516 Member
    You could go back 5 minutes and I would have problems.
  • Hauntinglyfit
    Hauntinglyfit Posts: 5,537 Member
    Yes.
  • vtmoon
    vtmoon Posts: 3,436 Member
    You could go back 5 minutes and I would have problems.

    You are suppose to use pagers!
  • Junken_Diraffe
    Junken_Diraffe Posts: 716 Member
    Absolutely. If we're throwing in IMing, like kik or google hangouts, then I would make most people blush. :wink:
  • Derp_Diggler
    Derp_Diggler Posts: 1,456 Member
    Nah. I lead a pretty boring life.
  • BeckyGee84
    BeckyGee84 Posts: 124 Member
    Ab-so-lute-ly!!!!!!!!
  • CallMeCupcakeDammit
    CallMeCupcakeDammit Posts: 9,377 Member
    My daughter got into my MFP account because she was using my ipod when a comment came through. She was reading my PM's and was totally grossed out by a conversation I was having with one of my guy friends. MFP is supposed to be my safe place! This is why I got rid of my "toys", I don't want to die first and have my kids or my parents find them.
  • No_Finish_Line
    No_Finish_Line Posts: 3,661 Member
    My daughter got into my MFP account because she was using my ipod when a comment came through. She was reading my PM's and was totally grossed out by a conversation I was having with one of my guy friends. MFP is supposed to be my safe place! This is why I got rid of my "toys", I don't want to die first and have my kids or my parents find them.

    omg actually never considered this
  • Shedding4Wedding2014
    Shedding4Wedding2014 Posts: 92 Member
    My mother would probably take offence...maybe it would change her behaviour :smokin:
  • UsedToBeHusky
    UsedToBeHusky Posts: 15,228 Member
    Probably. But if its been as long as 5 years, then odds are, no one cares anymore.
  • bd0027
    bd0027 Posts: 1,053 Member
    I'd be humiliated lol. Hopefully they'd understand though, considering I've been single for a while and I get lonely from time to time.
  • IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym
    IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym Posts: 5,573 Member
    My daughter got into my MFP account because she was using my ipod when a comment came through. She was reading my PM's and was totally grossed out by a conversation I was having with one of my guy friends. MFP is supposed to be my safe place! This is why I got rid of my "toys", I don't want to die first and have my kids or my parents find them.


    lol, I thought about including MFP walls and PM's, too.
  • _Krys10_
    _Krys10_ Posts: 1,234 Member
    upset no, suddenly tuned on...probably
  • Loss4TheWin
    Loss4TheWin Posts: 249
    Nope. I'm terrible, BUT my loved ones know my sense of humor, so there wouldn't be any butthurt. Anything that's put in writing can be seen by someone it isn't intended to be seen by - so I *try* to always think, before putting something in writing, "Would I be upset if this was seen by everyone I know?". If the answer is yes, I'll try to rephrase or wait until a face-to-face conversation. But even face-to-face conversation, I'm a touch paranoid. Like...what if we're saying "Oh my god, can you believe so-and-so did whatever" and I accidentally hit my phone and Siri hears the persons name and calls them...now they are listening to a kiki session that could have serious ramifications to our relationship...so, if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all.
  • Mrsallypants
    Mrsallypants Posts: 887 Member
    They would think I have some sort of oral fetish.
  • TheRoadDog
    TheRoadDog Posts: 11,788 Member
    Nope. I've had about 60 calls in 5 years and only 1 text.

    Only took two pictures with my phone in tha last 5 years.

    Don't know how to use it to sext, instagram, fb or any other reason. I'm lucky to get one call a month.

    It's for emergencies only.
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  • MoreBean13
    MoreBean13 Posts: 8,701 Member
    Yikes.

    Are you awaiting trial for murder or something?
  • Wondergirll
    Wondergirll Posts: 26
    Isn't there a statute of limitations or something? "That was 3 years ago... I'm a different person now!"
  • just_Jennie1
    just_Jennie1 Posts: 1,233
    Nope.

    I don't hide anything from my husband. He knows who I'm texting and what I'm texting. Heck he'll even grab my phone and text back if he hears a certain person contacting me and vice versa.

    As for my family I really couldn't care less if they'd be upset by the things I text. I'm a big girl and I am capable of living my own life.
  • harvo
    harvo Posts: 4,676 Member
    I wish.....sigh
  • wolfsbayne
    wolfsbayne Posts: 3,116 Member
    Nope.

    I don't hide anything from my husband. He knows who I'm texting and what I'm texting. Heck he'll even grab my phone and text back if he hears a certain person contacting me and vice versa.

    As for my family I really couldn't care less if they'd be upset by the things I text. I'm a big girl and I am capable of living my own life.

    yep
  • BikerGirlElaine
    BikerGirlElaine Posts: 1,631 Member
    Yes, but only my family members, specifically my elderly and very prudish parents.

    Don't ask about farther back than that, please. :-)
  • IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym
    IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym Posts: 5,573 Member
    Yikes.

    Are you awaiting trial for murder or something?

    Or, I watched a show where someone had 5 years of wire taps of her husbands that she had to listen to and found a TON of incrimenating evidence that she was completely oblivious to.... and it got me to wondering.
  • usmcmp
    usmcmp Posts: 21,219 Member
    No. Most people know how I feel about them and I don't say horrible things about people behind their back (even when it comes to my ex).

    They would probably be shocked at how perverted I can be.
  • ShutupndMovee257
    ShutupndMovee257 Posts: 316 Member
    Oh yes! I've done and said it all...... flirting, pics, videos,.... not to proud of it all but I'd certainly be looked as a freak.... sorry.
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  • MoreBean13
    MoreBean13 Posts: 8,701 Member
    Yikes.

    Are you awaiting trial for murder or something?

    Or, I watched a show where someone had 5 years of wire taps of her husbands that she had to listen to and found a TON of incrimenating evidence that she was completely oblivious to.... and it got me to wondering.

    I'm sorry, that wasn't meant to be personally insulting- I "know" you to be a very nice and universally respectful member here and wasn't really suggesting you were a murderer. I just meant that the only time I've ever heard of someone having ALL their private communication exposed was when they were involved in something very bad.

    What was the reason the woman had to listen to all of this? I would not want to listen to 5 years of my SO's bizness any more than I'd want him to listen to mine- I realize people vent and I'm sure he's complained about me and I don't really need to hear it. Most of all, I don't want to listen to what his Mother says about me, lol.

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