5 years of calls and texts

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  • cursiny
    cursiny Posts: 907 Member
    YUP!
  • just_Jennie1
    just_Jennie1 Posts: 1,233
    look at my profile pic........what do YOU think? lol

    you like ties
    and so does many females.

    Eh.

    I can take them or leave them. I don't find anything particularly sexy about a tie.
  • Yikes.

    Are you awaiting trial for murder or something?

    Or, I watched a show where someone had 5 years of wire taps of her husbands that she had to listen to and found a TON of incrimenating evidence that she was completely oblivious to.... and it got me to wondering.

    I'm sorry, that wasn't meant to be personally insulting- I "know" you to be a very nice and universally respectful member here and wasn't really suggesting you were a murderer. I just meant that the only time I've ever heard of someone having ALL their private communication exposed was when they were involved in something very bad.

    What was the reason the woman had to listen to all of this? I would not want to listen to 5 years of my SO's bizness any more than I'd want him to listen to mine- I realize people vent and I'm sure he's complained about me and I don't really need to hear it. Most of all, I don't want to listen to what his Mother says about me, lol.

    No! I wasn't offended. I actually laughed. The husband on Mob Wives was pinched for a ton of mobbish things, including murder conspiracy, but they gave her the wire taps, because she too was in trouble for supposedly "cooking the books" at their business.
  • Mother_Superior
    Mother_Superior Posts: 1,624 Member
    No :grumble:

    While I might look all peppermint and what not, I'm just too damned vanilla to be shocking.:grumble:
  • odusgolp
    odusgolp Posts: 10,477 Member
    Why would my mother want to see my vagina?
  • mccindy72
    mccindy72 Posts: 7,001 Member
    look at my profile pic........what do YOU think? lol

    you like ties

    Or you like to read.
  • Why would my mother want to see my vagina?

    I would say because she has a pickle for you, but that would just be weird....
  • HawkeyeTy
    HawkeyeTy Posts: 681 Member
    Probably. I have said some pretty hurtful/mean stuff about people I care about...(in my dark days, I would never do that now)
  • So_Much_Fab
    So_Much_Fab Posts: 1,146 Member
    Sadly, in the past I haven't been the most honest of girlfriends. These days though, I don't do anything (call/text/email, etc.) that I would be afraid of my man seeing or learning about. He does have access to my cell phone, and though he wouldn't snoop, there's nothing in there I would fear him seeing.
  • asimmons221
    asimmons221 Posts: 294 Member
    Well I mean, NSA does it anyways.
  • HawkeyeTy
    HawkeyeTy Posts: 681 Member
    look at my profile pic........what do YOU think? lol

    You like reading HORRIBLE writing, that does a HORRIBLE job of depicting that lifestyle?
  • ValerieMartini2Olives
    ValerieMartini2Olives Posts: 3,024 Member
    Oh my, yes.
  • HawkeyeTy
    HawkeyeTy Posts: 681 Member
    look at my profile pic........what do YOU think? lol

    You like reading HORRIBLE writing, that does a HORRIBLE job of depicting that lifestyle?
    no one said it was a GREAT book.....but I bet you know nothing about it yourself

    jus sayin'

    I know more than you, clearly.
  • TheSlorax
    TheSlorax Posts: 2,401 Member
    look at my profile pic........what do YOU think? lol

    You like reading HORRIBLE writing, that does a HORRIBLE job of depicting that lifestyle?

    oh, I just thought it meant he liked vanilla sex.
  • cmcollins001
    cmcollins001 Posts: 3,472 Member
    It would probably go something like this:

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  • LishieFruit89
    LishieFruit89 Posts: 1,956 Member
    look at my profile pic........what do YOU think? lol

    You like reading HORRIBLE writing, that does a HORRIBLE job of depicting that lifestyle?

    My thoughts, horribly written smut.
    I like smut but that book, mer.

    To answer you Bry, I have hundreds of thousands of texts that they'd have to sift through - I've gone through about 1k with someone ina DAY texting back in forth. My grandmother would be very disappointed in me if she saw them - though she's currently disappointed in me for things not as epic as my texting history
  • UsedToBeHusky
    UsedToBeHusky Posts: 15,228 Member
    look at my profile pic........what do YOU think? lol

    You like reading HORRIBLE writing, that does a HORRIBLE job of depicting that lifestyle?
    no one said it was a GREAT book.....but I bet you know nothing about it yourself

    jus sayin'

    I know more than you, clearly.
    geez some of you guys........make brownies out of ****.......literally.....lol

    calm down, I answered the OP question.........I don't see others being quoted.....your perception is wrong.....its ok. I bet you are wrong a lot in life......from your profile pic I can tell =)

    You know, I've honestly never read the book, but as I have lived the lifestyle, I feel like its over-marketing and commercialization almost ensures that it doesn't accurately depict the lifestyle.

    And furthermore, if you are in the lifestyle, then why would the book even interest you? Jus' sayin'.

    I mean, you would be living more exciting moments than the book, right?
  • look at my profile pic........what do YOU think? lol

    That you read crap literature?
  • HawkeyeTy
    HawkeyeTy Posts: 681 Member
    look at my profile pic........what do YOU think? lol

    You like reading HORRIBLE writing, that does a HORRIBLE job of depicting that lifestyle?
    no one said it was a GREAT book.....but I bet you know nothing about it yourself

    jus sayin'

    I know more than you, clearly.
    geez some of you guys........make brownies out of ****.......literally.....lol

    calm down, I answered the OP question.........I don't see others being quoted.....your perception is wrong.....its ok. I bet you are wrong a lot in life......from your profile pic I can tell =)

    Calm down?
    I'm calm


    YOU MAD, BRO??
  • look at my profile pic........what do YOU think? lol

    You like reading HORRIBLE writing, that does a HORRIBLE job of depicting that lifestyle?

    oh, I just thought it meant he liked vanilla sex.

    like, using whipped cream???
  • Myhaloslipped
    Myhaloslipped Posts: 4,317 Member
    I don't know about upset, but if my parents saw some of them, it could get pretty awkward.
  • ARDuBaie
    ARDuBaie Posts: 378 Member
    No, because if I have a problem with someone, I say it to their face, not via texts, email, phone calls, etc. Then it is done and over with and I discuss it no more. I don't discuss problems that I have with someone with other people. Period. I don't put awkward things on text, emails, etc. Pluse I don't swear via those modes, although facebook gets to see swear words once in a while, but most people know I have the potty mouth of a sailor.
  • not in the slightest the most interesting texts on my phone are relating to dr who, assassins creed, mass effect and my exercising moanings lol
  • _TastySnoBalls_
    _TastySnoBalls_ Posts: 1,298 Member
    I'd be neck deep in *kitten*. I'd probably have to move far, far away. and that's all i'm gonna say about that.
  • ItsCasey
    ItsCasey Posts: 4,021 Member
    What kind of "upset" are we talking about here?

    Are there texts I've sent to guys I've dated that I wouldn't want my dad to see? Definitely.

    Have I said anything about a family member in a text message that I wouldn't want them to find out about? No. But I'm lucky. My family is generally awesome, and when they have moments of non-awesome, they are open to criticism, so I don't have to say things behind their backs.

    Boyfriends? I would also say no. Pretty much every guy I've ever been in a serious relationship with (and there aren't many of those because I spent most of my 20s in a relationship with the same guy) has been someone I respected enough not to speak disparagingly about to other people.

    And I'm not a gossip. I don't get a kick out of dining on the drama of other people's lives, to borrow a phrase from Don Draper. I'm pretty boring, I guess.
  • firstsip
    firstsip Posts: 8,399 Member
    I can read, so that says a lot for most of the individuals that use this message board.

    and so does many females.

    Oh.
  • jonnythan
    jonnythan Posts: 10,161 Member
    I would probably get murdered by someone.
  • bootsiejayne
    bootsiejayne Posts: 151 Member
    You could go back 5 minutes and I would have problems.

    ME TOO.
  • I can read, so that says a lot for most of the individuals that use this message board.

    and so does many females.

    Oh.

    :laugh: beat me to it.
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