Gym Crush
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Oh yeah, maybe it isn't. You could still ask him out and if he says no I have a girlfriend, then at least you will be prepared and know that it's not a rejection.
I'm married and I get asked out. It's never a rejection of the person, just that I'm already taken.0 -
I shall try to establish rapport with him. I think that's a good thing to do. Baby steps hahah
This is exactly the right thing to do! Also, nerd moment: I love when people use the word "rapport."
Good luck!!
Gah well he has a gf
. She's pretty. We're kind of the same blah **** it. This is why I hate having crushes haha. 0 -
Crushes are def the worst. lol.0
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Crushes are def the worst. lol.
Riiight 0 -
Tell him to visit : http://tinyurl.com/kyf2azz0
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I just don't ask people out, solves problems XDI've asked guys out and been rejected. It stings at first but it feels SO GREAT knowing whether or not you're wasting your time obsessing over the dude. There's a thrill that I feel when asking dudes out, even when they say no. I can't explain it, you'd probably feel the same way. (: You're a pretty girl and you seem nice, ask him out. The worst thing he can do is say no, right?0 -
Well you should still establish a rapport with the guy. Most gfs aren't forever so go ahead and start getting to know this guy to find out if you want to go out with him when he's available next time.I shall try to establish rapport with him. I think that's a good thing to do. Baby steps hahah
This is exactly the right thing to do! Also, nerd moment: I love when people use the word "rapport." Good luck!!
Gah well he has a gf. She's pretty. We're kind of the same blah **** it. This is why I hate having crushes haha.0 -
Should of just asked.. He could of went on a date with you anyway and upgraded... :drinker:0
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Should of just asked.. He could of went on a date with you anyway and upgraded... :drinker:
Hahaha maybe he wouldn't think of me as an upgrade from her and I'm sure she would probably hunt me down and kill me
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If I were about 30yrs older, I got some pretty fit grannies running around at my gym at 5am haha0
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Well you should still establish a rapport with the guy. Most gfs aren't forever so go ahead and start getting to know this guy to find out if you want to go out with him when he's available next time.I shall try to establish rapport with him. I think that's a good thing to do. Baby steps hahah
This is exactly the right thing to do! Also, nerd moment: I love when people use the word "rapport." Good luck!!
Gah well he has a gf. She's pretty. We're kind of the same blah **** it. This is why I hate having crushes haha.
I guess so, and keep being a creep and checking his Facebook to see if he's finally single haha. He's been dating her for 2 years now and they seem happy in their pics. I don't think they'll be breaking up anytime soon.0 -
No biggie.
Your young and pretty and sounds like you have good values so keep doing the do.
Stop creeping facebook though!!!! :laugh:0 -
Well you should still establish a rapport with the guy. Most gfs aren't forever so go ahead and start getting to know this guy to find out if you want to go out with him when he's available next time.I shall try to establish rapport with him. I think that's a good thing to do. Baby steps hahah
This is exactly the right thing to do! Also, nerd moment: I love when people use the word "rapport." Good luck!!
Gah well he has a gf. She's pretty. We're kind of the same blah **** it. This is why I hate having crushes haha.
I guess so, and keep being a creep and checking his Facebook to see if he's finally single haha. He's been dating her for 2 years now and they seem happy in their pics. I don't think they'll be breaking up anytime soon.
I think you should move on from that guy. Find another single guy.0 -
OP-how often are you getting asked out?
Even if he has a gf, you have no idea how stuff is going in that relationship. He may be looking to monkey branch, hit the exits so to speak. So yes, make it be known that you are into him.
If not this case, there could be a time in the future where you will need to put the moves on a guy.
Any situation, make it known, whether the guy is single, in a relationship. You'll have more peace about things that way. Rejection is usually better than regret that you didn't flesh it out a little bit.
Under most normal circumstances, I'd advise that you elicit him to ask you through flirty seduction. But since he's at work, hitting on women may not be priority number 1, so you could ask him out & it'd be ok. Be direct with your words and confident with your body language whenever you ask out a guy.
If you are going to ask a guy out, do a bar/drinks date on a weeknight.0 -
this isnt a gym crush its more in 6thform collee i had a pe teacher (super sexy and i mean super sexy to me anyway haha) kinda looks like mark selby the snooker player if anyone needs to know. i still bump into him in darlington whenever i go shopping there which is nice sometimes we go for a catch up drink.just because i have a bf doesnt mean i cant catch up with friends right haha.0
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Just go to him and ask him if he would like to have a <beer, rum, smoke , coffee, pizza or insert here whatever you feel that is suitable> with you after work. What's the big deal here?0
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What's the worst thing that can happen? That he says no? So what. I'm much older than you and, with age, you learn to be bold.
Be bold.0 -
OP-how often are you getting asked out?
Even if he has a gf, you have no idea how stuff is going in that relationship. He may be looking to monkey branch, hit the exits so to speak. So yes, make it be known that you are into him.
If not this case, there could be a time in the future where you will need to put the moves on a guy.
Any situation, make it known, whether the guy is single, in a relationship. You'll have more peace about things that way. Rejection is usually better than regret that you didn't flesh it out a little bit.
Under most normal circumstances, I'd advise that you elicit him to ask you through flirty seduction. But since he's at work, hitting on women may not be priority number 1, so you could ask him out & it'd be ok. Be direct with your words and confident with your body language whenever you ask out a guy.
If you are going to ask a guy out, do a bar/drinks date on a weeknight.
I'm not getting asked out often. Guys go for girls who are a little more "plain" I would say. Also, I woudl like to flirt and talk more with him but I would feel awful knowing he has a gf and I'm trying to get in good with him 0 -
OP-how often are you getting asked out?
Even if he has a gf, you have no idea how stuff is going in that relationship. He may be looking to monkey branch, hit the exits so to speak. So yes, make it be known that you are into him.
If not this case, there could be a time in the future where you will need to put the moves on a guy.
Any situation, make it known, whether the guy is single, in a relationship. You'll have more peace about things that way. Rejection is usually better than regret that you didn't flesh it out a little bit.
Under most normal circumstances, I'd advise that you elicit him to ask you through flirty seduction. But since he's at work, hitting on women may not be priority number 1, so you could ask him out & it'd be ok. Be direct with your words and confident with your body language whenever you ask out a guy.
If you are going to ask a guy out, do a bar/drinks date on a weeknight.
I'm not getting asked out often. Guys go for girls who are a little more "plain" I would say. Also, I woudl like to flirt and talk more with him but I would feel awful knowing he has a gf and I'm trying to get in good with him
Plain? What do you mean by plain?0 -
It would've been a mis match lol. Your photos are beautiful. You could've gone on that show beauty and the geek though.
Haha just kidding....kinda...
Anyway just move on to the next guy. Time waits for no one.0 -
OP-how often are you getting asked out?
Even if he has a gf, you have no idea how stuff is going in that relationship. He may be looking to monkey branch, hit the exits so to speak. So yes, make it be known that you are into him.
If not this case, there could be a time in the future where you will need to put the moves on a guy.
Any situation, make it known, whether the guy is single, in a relationship. You'll have more peace about things that way. Rejection is usually better than regret that you didn't flesh it out a little bit.
Under most normal circumstances, I'd advise that you elicit him to ask you through flirty seduction. But since he's at work, hitting on women may not be priority number 1, so you could ask him out & it'd be ok. Be direct with your words and confident with your body language whenever you ask out a guy.
If you are going to ask a guy out, do a bar/drinks date on a weeknight.
I'm not getting asked out often. Guys go for girls who are a little more "plain" I would say. Also, I woudl like to flirt and talk more with him but I would feel awful knowing he has a gf and I'm trying to get in good with him
Plain? What do you mean by plain?
Maybe she means no make-up?0 -
OP-how often are you getting asked out?
Even if he has a gf, you have no idea how stuff is going in that relationship. He may be looking to monkey branch, hit the exits so to speak. So yes, make it be known that you are into him.
If not this case, there could be a time in the future where you will need to put the moves on a guy.
Any situation, make it known, whether the guy is single, in a relationship. You'll have more peace about things that way. Rejection is usually better than regret that you didn't flesh it out a little bit.
Under most normal circumstances, I'd advise that you elicit him to ask you through flirty seduction. But since he's at work, hitting on women may not be priority number 1, so you could ask him out & it'd be ok. Be direct with your words and confident with your body language whenever you ask out a guy.
If you are going to ask a guy out, do a bar/drinks date on a weeknight.
I'm not getting asked out often. Guys go for girls who are a little more "plain" I would say. Also, I woudl like to flirt and talk more with him but I would feel awful knowing he has a gf and I'm trying to get in good with him
Plain? What do you mean by plain?
Like I mean they have a "plain" personality. They are boring, plain.0 -
It would've been a mis match lol. Your photos are beautiful. You could've gone on that show beauty and the geek though.
Haha just kidding....kinda...
Anyway just move on to the next guy. Time waits for no one.
Did you see his picture though? Haha he's not ugly at all!0 -
OP-how often are you getting asked out?
Even if he has a gf, you have no idea how stuff is going in that relationship. He may be looking to monkey branch, hit the exits so to speak. So yes, make it be known that you are into him.
If not this case, there could be a time in the future where you will need to put the moves on a guy.
Any situation, make it known, whether the guy is single, in a relationship. You'll have more peace about things that way. Rejection is usually better than regret that you didn't flesh it out a little bit.
Under most normal circumstances, I'd advise that you elicit him to ask you through flirty seduction. But since he's at work, hitting on women may not be priority number 1, so you could ask him out & it'd be ok. Be direct with your words and confident with your body language whenever you ask out a guy.
If you are going to ask a guy out, do a bar/drinks date on a weeknight.
I'm not getting asked out often. Guys go for girls who are a little more "plain" I would say. Also, I woudl like to flirt and talk more with him but I would feel awful knowing he has a gf and I'm trying to get in good with him
Plain? What do you mean by plain?
Like I mean they have a "plain" personality. They are boring, plain.
Why would you think men are interested in boring women (also what seems boring to you may be interesting to another person who has different interests in life than you do)? Is that something your mom told you? Men like women that are attractive in various ways (and depending on their personal preferences which vary), some men like younger women/older women/or women their own age, interesting, fun, playful, that smile, that seem inviting towards them yet not desperate, confident but not arrogant, sociable. Sometimes men are shy, sometimes they are already taken in a long term happy partnership, sometimes they have a no flirting at work policy (so you may need to go other places to meet men), sometimes they prefer women that drink or women that don't drink. Different men have different personalities and interests in life and in women.
My husband said that he found me attractive (face/figure). He liked me because I was kind, intelligent, creative, and very very playful and adventurous, and he liked the graceful way I move and my dancing (I'm a dancer). We were young and in college, though. And he is a scientist and I've always had a strong interest in science as well.
I think at certain stages in life it can be more challenging or less challenging to meet a guy. It has a lot to do with the opportunities to meet guys that have similiar interests. Especially if you want to meet a guy, it may feel like you don't have as many opportunities. Or maybe you don't notice the single guys that are interested.0 -
OP-how often are you getting asked out?
Even if he has a gf, you have no idea how stuff is going in that relationship. He may be looking to monkey branch, hit the exits so to speak. So yes, make it be known that you are into him.
If not this case, there could be a time in the future where you will need to put the moves on a guy.
Any situation, make it known, whether the guy is single, in a relationship. You'll have more peace about things that way. Rejection is usually better than regret that you didn't flesh it out a little bit.
Under most normal circumstances, I'd advise that you elicit him to ask you through flirty seduction. But since he's at work, hitting on women may not be priority number 1, so you could ask him out & it'd be ok. Be direct with your words and confident with your body language whenever you ask out a guy.
If you are going to ask a guy out, do a bar/drinks date on a weeknight.
I'm not getting asked out often. Guys go for girls who are a little more "plain" I would say. Also, I woudl like to flirt and talk more with him but I would feel awful knowing he has a gf and I'm trying to get in good with him
Plain? What do you mean by plain?
Like I mean they have a "plain" personality. They are boring, plain.
Ah, a belief and attitude like this may be why you don't get asked out.0 -
It would've been a mis match lol. Your photos are beautiful. You could've gone on that show beauty and the geek though.
Haha just kidding....kinda...
Anyway just move on to the next guy. Time waits for no one.
Did you see his picture though? Haha he's not ugly at all!
Lets just say we all see things different then! Anyway good luck.0 -
Write your number on a Thong, walk out and stuff it in his top pocket, if he rings, great, if he doesn't, it'll show such confidence you never need be embarrassed.0
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you're very pretty. i'm sure he'd love to go on a date with you too.
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It would've been a mis match lol. Your photos are beautiful. You could've gone on that show beauty and the geek though.
Haha just kidding....kinda...
Anyway just move on to the next guy. Time waits for no one.
Did you see his picture though? Haha he's not ugly at all!
Lets just say we all see things different then! Anyway good luck.
Lol well that picture link I posted may not be his best one, but on his Facebook and in real life he's much cuter. I don't want ot post his Facebook though. 0
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