Neighbor issues...WTF
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yawn0
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You're not stuck in the middle, your wife is. Apparently your admiration for you neighbor is in plain view. Lose the fantasy and pay more attention to your wife. Clearly their is a serious problem that you need to work on personally in order to help your wife through this situation. Take her back to a time where you made her the most happiest and stay consistent. A little counseling wouldn't hurt either, especially if you initiate it. Show her how much you love her and stop crushing on your neighbor. If you can't compose your self around her than don't associate at all. Good Luck, remember that the grass isn't always greener on the other side.0
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Obviously you didn't see my next response. Looking is a whole other ballgame than talking or interacting. Looking can still be done while avoiding. But he married his wife, its his priority and job to make her comfortable not the neighbor.0
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Ok so i'm having this slight issue with my neighbor. She lives right next door to me, very attractive lady. I have to admit I find myself being a little ga-ga around her. I'm pretty sure my spouse noticed and now thinks were have having sex. She has called the neighbor while drunk late at night and has told her to stop sleeping with married men and i've been getting crap about this for weeks now!!! These two are always crossing paths and i'm stuck in the middle. WTF do I do???
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And truth be told I think some responses on this thread is not only moronic but judgemental. We are human, we are going to look and we are going to have doubts and self esteem issues from time to time.
I think your wife needs reinforcements from you that she is still the only person you want to be with. If you look at the neighbor I think that is fine as long as its not done around your wife, most attractive things are better left to the imagination the fantasy usually always beats out reality.
So getting wasted and calling a total stranger to tell her to leave your man alone is ok?
His wife needs something, but "reinforcement" isn't one of these things. AA, anger management, Lyrica.....0 -
And truth be told I think some responses on this thread is not only moronic but judgemental.
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And truth be told I think some responses on this thread is not only moronic but judgemental. We are human, we are going to look and we are going to have doubts and self esteem issues from time to time.
I think your wife needs reinforcements from you that she is still the only person you want to be with. If you look at the neighbor I think that is fine as long as its not done around your wife, most attractive things are better left to the imagination the fantasy usually always beats out reality.
So getting wasted and calling a total stranger to tell her to leave your man alone is ok?
His wife needs something, but "reinforcement" isn't one of these things. AA, anger management, Lyrica.....
I'm going to have to agree on this one.
Of course, this is presuming that the OP's story is true and not something he saw on "Red Shoe Diaries".0 -
And truth be told I think some responses on this thread is not only moronic but judgemental. We are human, we are going to look and we are going to have doubts and self esteem issues from time to time.
I think your wife needs reinforcements from you that she is still the only person you want to be with. If you look at the neighbor I think that is fine as long as its not done around your wife, most attractive things are better left to the imagination the fantasy usually always beats out reality.
So getting wasted and calling a total stranger to tell her to leave your man alone is ok?
His wife needs something, but "reinforcement" isn't one of these things. AA, anger management, Lyrica.....
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You're not stuck in the middle, your wife is. Apparently your admiration for you neighbor is in plain view. Lose the fantasy and pay more attention to your wife. Clearly their is a serious problem that you need to work on personally in order to help your wife through this situation. Take her back to a time where you made her the most happiest and stay consistent. A little counseling wouldn't hurt either, especially if you initiate it. Show her how much you love her and stop crushing on your neighbor. If you can't compose your self around her than don't associate at all. Good Luck, remember that the grass isn't always greener on the other side.
^^^^^This...You can admire another yard but if you don't take care of your own it's either going to die or somebody else is going to start taking REAL good care of it.0 -
And truth be told I think some responses on this thread is not only moronic but judgemental. We are human, we are going to look and we are going to have doubts and self esteem issues from time to time.
I think your wife needs reinforcements from you that she is still the only person you want to be with. If you look at the neighbor I think that is fine as long as its not done around your wife, most attractive things are better left to the imagination the fantasy usually always beats out reality.
So getting wasted and calling a total stranger to tell her to leave your man alone is ok?
His wife needs something, but "reinforcement" isn't one of these things. AA, anger management, Lyrica.....
No definitely NOT ok. Obviously she has some of her own issues but without the ENTIRE story on why she got drunk, if she drinks a lot etc I cant comment on that. But the thought was obviously in her head before she got drunk, so i doubt its only an issue when alcohol is involved. It just magnifies it and causes stupid actions0 -
Convince your wife to sleep with the neighbor so she doesn't feel left out.0
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Why are people taking this chit-chat thread seriously?
Ohh MFP.....you so silly.0 -
And truth be told I think some responses on this thread is not only moronic but judgemental. We are human, we are going to look and we are going to have doubts and self esteem issues from time to time.
I think your wife needs reinforcements from you that she is still the only person you want to be with. If you look at the neighbor I think that is fine as long as its not done around your wife, most attractive things are better left to the imagination the fantasy usually always beats out reality.
So getting wasted and calling a total stranger to tell her to leave your man alone is ok?
His wife needs something, but "reinforcement" isn't one of these things. AA, anger management, Lyrica.....
No definitely NOT ok. Obviously she has some of her own issues but without the ENTIRE story on why she got drunk, if she drinks a lot etc I cant comment on that. But the thought was obviously in her head before she got drunk, so i doubt its only an issue when alcohol is involved. It just magnifies it and causes stupid actions
*shhhhhhhhh* (he's trolling)0 -
Keep your eyes in your head when your wife is around, jeez.0
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This is the neighbor...0 -
And truth be told I think some responses on this thread is not only moronic but judgemental. We are human, we are going to look and we are going to have doubts and self esteem issues from time to time.
I think your wife needs reinforcements from you that she is still the only person you want to be with. If you look at the neighbor I think that is fine as long as its not done around your wife, most attractive things are better left to the imagination the fantasy usually always beats out reality.
So getting wasted and calling a total stranger to tell her to leave your man alone is ok?
His wife needs something, but "reinforcement" isn't one of these things. AA, anger management, Lyrica.....
No definitely NOT ok. Obviously she has some of her own issues but without the ENTIRE story on why she got drunk, if she drinks a lot etc I cant comment on that. But the thought was obviously in her head before she got drunk, so i doubt its only an issue when alcohol is involved. It just magnifies it and causes stupid actions
*shhhhhhhhh* (he's trolling)
Hahahaha oh ok. I am still stuck on the chose words in the title... neighbor issues... then reading his explanation it sounds life wife issues.... gotta be a reason he chose to say neighbor issues, obviously there is much more to ghe story. Take notice no where in thetitle or description ddoes it seem like he is making it HIS issue.0 -
So getting wasted and calling a total stranger to tell her to leave your man alone is ok?
His wife needs something, but "reinforcement" isn't one of these things. AA, anger management, Lyrica.....
Lmao! For real!0 -
This is the neighbor...
who happens to be an MFP member, which is why everyone who assumed you were trolling has been proven correct.
if siskel and ebert were still alive, they'd give this thread two thumbs down.
thanks for playing though.0 -
If she is genuinely your neighbour, I doubt she would be pleased for you to plaster her photo over the internet, and if your post is genuine I doubt your wife would be pleased either, what the hell are you doing with a neighbours photo?
Stop perving on your neighbour, spend time with your wife, treat her like the treasure she should be.
Grass is greenest where it is nurtured.0 -
Stop trying to make your wife think you're sleeping with the neighbor who obviously won't give you the time of day. Deal with your own martial problems without involving this decent looking neighbor who never did a thing but move in next to a perv and an alkie.
LOL, I like this one.0 -
Well, if you are getting blamed for something you are not doing, you might as well do it.
Have fun with the neighbor. Tell her I said hi.0 -
Read this link. He's making fun of my neighbor.0 -
Read this link. He's making fun of my neighbor.
Neighbor problems!!! LOL.0 -
Read this link. He's making fun of my neighbor.
You didn't have to be so mean about her though
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maybe try going ga ga for your wife instead..women are teases, and we like to flirt just to see if men want us..it normally works, but we really dont want to be with them..talk to your wife about this instead of us:drinker:0
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Read this link. He's making fun of my neighbor.
aaah now I see...thanks0 -
3 some? This might solve the issue.0
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Stuff like this doesn't happen without some history. What did you do in the past to warrant this suspicion?
Couldn't live in a marriage where there wasn't mutual trust.0 -
invite your neighbor over for a 3 some. that should do something anyways.0
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