Cougar > negative? sexy? huh?

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  • ndj1979
    ndj1979 Posts: 29,136 Member
    Never made love to an older woman. But Im scared to have a bad experience...

    Who knows whats down there...

    find one in early 40's with fake boobs and likes to work out/stay in shape….you will thank yourself later….
  • ndj1979
    ndj1979 Posts: 29,136 Member
    Personally I find it offensive, it suggests a predatory nature. I never chase younger men, they pursue me

    You are 35. That's hardly cougar territory.

    that's called a Puma.

    what comes before Puma????

    A regular house cat.


    FFS!!
    Do I have to be any sort of feline?!?!
    Calm, catwoman! CALM!!!!

    Cat women... where does that fall on the cougar spectrum.....Hummmm

    are we talking about Hale Berry as cat woman????
    I was mirin her in that outfit. Just sayin'.

    I have had bad thoughts about her in that outfit….ohhhhsooooo badddd….
    Uh huh.. Go on.. We want to know the rest hahaha. -takes notes for later-

    LOL, I don't feel like getting banned...
  • Hauntinglyfit
    Hauntinglyfit Posts: 5,537 Member
    Never made love to an older woman. But Im scared to have a bad experience...

    Who knows whats down there...

    A vagina. It would be a totally new experience for you.
  • AndiGirl70
    AndiGirl70 Posts: 542 Member
    Its just another label in a long list of labels we use for people every day. We all use labels in some form or fashion, some good & some bad. They are open to interpretation person to person. Personally I don't find it offensive (not that I've been called one but I fit the age demographic) but if its a choice between being called a cougar or a middle aged mom I'll pick the cat label thank you very much (sleek v. saggy) :) LOL
  • ndj1979
    ndj1979 Posts: 29,136 Member
    Never made love to an older woman. But Im scared to have a bad experience...

    Who knows whats down there...

    A vagina. It would be a totally new experience for you.

    do cougars have vaginas???
  • FancyPantsFran
    FancyPantsFran Posts: 3,687 Member
    Never made love to an older woman. But Im scared to have a bad experience...

    Who knows whats down there...

    find one in early 40's with fake boobs and likes to work out/stay in shape….you will thank yourself later….

    Are you speaking from experience???
  • ndj1979
    ndj1979 Posts: 29,136 Member
    Never made love to an older woman. But Im scared to have a bad experience...

    Who knows whats down there...

    find one in early 40's with fake boobs and likes to work out/stay in shape….you will thank yourself later….

    Are you speaking from experience???

    yes, have slain a few cougars in my day….
  • Caporegiem
    Caporegiem Posts: 4,297 Member
    Never made love to an older woman. But Im scared to have a bad experience...

    Who knows whats down there...

    A vagina. It would be a totally new experience for you.

    do cougars have vaginas???

    I hope that's what it was, if not I goofed.
  • wanna_b_there
    wanna_b_there Posts: 295 Member
    Nutella, I'm asking you respectfully not to ...

    cb5b226cc16886c

    this thread like you did the other. Please play somewhere else now. :smile:
  • Never made love to an older woman. But Im scared to have a bad experience...

    Who knows whats down there...

    find one in early 40's with fake boobs and likes to work out/stay in shape….you will thank yourself later….

    I once had an older beautiful women flirt with me on Tinder.

    She kept talking about kegels and bragging how she is so flexible and does all these special excursuses and can contract and control herself.

    Any truth to that? Any experience with that? She almost talked me into it. I have to admit I was intrigued. Valiant attempt on her part.
  • BeckyMBisMe
    BeckyMBisMe Posts: 215 Member
    I don't think a "cougar "is necessarily a woman over a certain age but instead is a woman who only dates and pursues men several years younger than herself. jmo

    But what if they pursue her????

    lucky lady? LOL

    Maybe what I was trying to say is "cougar" is kind of insulting to call a woman who just happens to be over 40. If a woman "deliberately" limits herself to men much younger than herself is what makes her a cougar.

    edited for a typo
  • FancyPantsFran
    FancyPantsFran Posts: 3,687 Member
    Never made love to an older woman. But Im scared to have a bad experience...

    Who knows whats down there...

    A vagina. It would be a totally new experience for you.

    She shoots and SCORES
  • Nutella, I'm asking you respectfully not to ...

    cb5b226cc16886c

    this thread like you did the other. Please play somewhere else now. :smile:

    This is a public place.

    DO NOT get passive aggressive with me. Nor try to bully me out of things by overly responding to everyone but me.
  • FancyPantsFran
    FancyPantsFran Posts: 3,687 Member
    Nutella, I'm asking you respectfully not to ...

    cb5b226cc16886c

    this thread like you did the other. Please play somewhere else now. :smile:

    :drinker: :drinker: :drinker: :glasses:
  • Sinisterly
    Sinisterly Posts: 10,913 Member
    Personally I find it offensive, it suggests a predatory nature. I never chase younger men, they pursue me

    You are 35. That's hardly cougar territory.

    that's called a Puma.

    what comes before Puma????

    A regular house cat.


    FFS!!
    Do I have to be any sort of feline?!?!
    Calm, catwoman! CALM!!!!

    Cat women... where does that fall on the cougar spectrum.....Hummmm

    are we talking about Hale Berry as cat woman????
    I was mirin her in that outfit. Just sayin'.

    I have had bad thoughts about her in that outfit….ohhhhsooooo badddd….
    Uh huh.. Go on.. We want to know the rest hahaha. -takes notes for later-

    LOL, I don't feel like getting banned...
    Okay, fair enough. Guess no notes for me!! :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
  • wanna_b_there
    wanna_b_there Posts: 295 Member
    I don't think a "cougar "is necessarily a woman over a certain age but instead is a woman who only dates and pursues men several years younger than herself. jmo

    But what if they pursue her????

    lucky lady? LOL

    Maybe what I was trying to say is "cougar" is kind of insulting to call a woman who just happens to be over 40. If a woman "deliberately" limits herself to men much younger than herself is what makes her a cougar.

    edited for a typo


    Not lucky. Some women take care of themselves and are appealing to men, period.

    Maybe younger men is all she wants right now.
  • ndj1979
    ndj1979 Posts: 29,136 Member
    Never made love to an older woman. But Im scared to have a bad experience...

    Who knows whats down there...

    find one in early 40's with fake boobs and likes to work out/stay in shape….you will thank yourself later….

    I once had an older beautiful women flirt with me on Tinder.

    She kept talking about kegels and bragging how she is so flexible and does all these special excursuses and can contract and control herself.

    Any truth to that? Any experience with that? She almost talked me into it. I have to admit I was intrigued. Valiant attempt on her part.

    why don't you find her and find out? Think of it as an adventure ….
  • wanna_b_there
    wanna_b_there Posts: 295 Member
    Nutella, I'm asking you respectfully not to ...

    cb5b226cc16886c

    this thread like you did the other. Please play somewhere else now. :smile:

    This is a public place.

    DO NOT get passive aggressive with me. Nor try to bully me out of things by overly responding to everyone but me.



    I wasn't being passive babe. :wink:
  • Sinisterly
    Sinisterly Posts: 10,913 Member
    Never made love to an older woman. But Im scared to have a bad experience...

    Who knows whats down there...

    find one in early 40's with fake boobs and likes to work out/stay in shape….you will thank yourself later….

    Are you speaking from experience???

    yes, have slain a few cougars in my day….
    Where are said pelts? I see no pelts upon your body, mister!
  • Never made love to an older woman. But Im scared to have a bad experience...

    Who knows whats down there...

    find one in early 40's with fake boobs and likes to work out/stay in shape….you will thank yourself later….

    I once had an older beautiful women flirt with me on Tinder.

    She kept talking about kegels and bragging how she is so flexible and does all these special excursuses and can contract and control herself.

    Any truth to that? Any experience with that? She almost talked me into it. I have to admit I was intrigued. Valiant attempt on her part.

    why don't you find her and find out? Think of it as an adventure ….

    Im scared....

    Maybe Ill wait awhile.
  • FancyPantsFran
    FancyPantsFran Posts: 3,687 Member
    I don't think a "cougar "is necessarily a woman over a certain age but instead is a woman who only dates and pursues men several years younger than herself. jmo

    But what if they pursue her????

    lucky lady? LOL

    Maybe what I was trying to say is "cougar" is kind of insulting to call a woman who just happens to be over 40. If a woman "deliberately" limits herself to men much younger than herself is what makes her a cougar.

    edited for a typo


    Not lucky. Some women take care of themselves and are appealing to men, period.

    Maybe younger men is all she wants right now.

    Maybe.. and maybe she just wants to have fun without attachment
  • Fiery_Vixen
    Fiery_Vixen Posts: 795 Member
    Some little idiot 22 year old called me a cougar once...BTW, I was 29 at the time. I was not amused :mad:
  • be_dazzled
    be_dazzled Posts: 353 Member
    Never made love to an older woman. But Im scared to have a bad experience...

    Who knows whats down there...

    find one in early 40's with fake boobs and likes to work out/stay in shape….you will thank yourself later….

    I once had an older beautiful women flirt with me on Tinder.

    She kept talking about kegels and bragging how she is so flexible and does all these special excursuses and can contract and control herself.

    Any truth to that? Any experience with that? She almost talked me into it. I have to admit I was intrigued. Valiant attempt on her part.


    Was she called sticky vicky???
  • Sinisterly
    Sinisterly Posts: 10,913 Member
    Some little idiot 22 year old called me a cougar once...BTW, I was 29 at the time. I was not amused :mad:

    :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
    -hug-
    You're gorgeous, it's okay!
  • Nutella, I'm asking you respectfully not to ...

    cb5b226cc16886c

    this thread like you did the other. Please play somewhere else now. :smile:

    This is a public place.

    DO NOT get passive aggressive with me. Nor try to bully me out of things by overly responding to everyone but me.



    I wasn't being passive babe. :wink:

    Well, pls leave your own thread. Pls.

    Find a thread I'm not in. Im only in 2.
  • Never made love to an older woman. But Im scared to have a bad experience...

    Who knows whats down there...

    find one in early 40's with fake boobs and likes to work out/stay in shape….you will thank yourself later….

    I once had an older beautiful women flirt with me on Tinder.

    She kept talking about kegels and bragging how she is so flexible and does all these special excursuses and can contract and control herself.

    Any truth to that? Any experience with that? She almost talked me into it. I have to admit I was intrigued. Valiant attempt on her part.


    Was she called sticky vicky???

    ew no.

    She seemed sexy tho. 40.

    Just really thirsty. Set off some red flags.
  • wanna_b_there
    wanna_b_there Posts: 295 Member
    Nutella, I'm asking you respectfully not to ...

    cb5b226cc16886c

    this thread like you did the other. Please play somewhere else now. :smile:

    This is a public place.

    DO NOT get passive aggressive with me. Nor try to bully me out of things by overly responding to everyone but me.



    I wasn't being passive babe. :wink:

    Well, pls leave your own thread. Pls.

    Find a thread I'm not in. Im only 2.

    Fixed that for ya kid. :happy:
  • Why can't I just blend in sometimes....

    You guys are bullying me.
  • FancyPantsFran
    FancyPantsFran Posts: 3,687 Member
    Never made love to an older woman. But Im scared to have a bad experience...

    Who knows whats down there...

    find one in early 40's with fake boobs and likes to work out/stay in shape….you will thank yourself later….

    I once had an older beautiful women flirt with me on Tinder.

    She kept talking about kegels and bragging how she is so flexible and does all these special excursuses and can contract and control herself.

    Any truth to that? Any experience with that? She almost talked me into it. I have to admit I was intrigued. Valiant attempt on her part.


    Was she called sticky vicky???

    sticky Vicky didn't she make a cameo appearance on CougarTown
  • Sinisterly
    Sinisterly Posts: 10,913 Member
    Why can't I just blend in sometimes....

    You guys are bullying me.
    srs...?