Cougar > negative? sexy? huh?

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  • FancyPantsFran
    FancyPantsFran Posts: 3,687 Member
    older women can teach guys my age a thing or two so I embrace them ;)
    Sometimes it's the younger guys that can teach a woman a thing or two!
    :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

    You are never too old to learn :wink: :blushing:
  • wanna_b_there
    wanna_b_there Posts: 295 Member
    Back then, sexual women were vilified.

    They still are. There's a very fine line between prude and slut.

    I straddle that line.

    ROFL HAHAHAAHA





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  • summertime_girl
    summertime_girl Posts: 3,945 Member
    IMHO confident women unfortunately will be vilified regardless of their sexual prowess or lack there of but I think there is a huge difference between prude and slut... I prefer to find the middle ground :laugh: :laugh: :drinker:

    Agreed. I was referring to society as a whole. Actually, it seems to be moving backwards. Instead of a larger middle ground, it's narrowing. I'm constantly horrified by the slut-shaming that goes on.
  • Marcolter
    Marcolter Posts: 103 Member
    I say they are the choice of men with Oedipal Complex and Women with and Elektra complex. You know, mommy and daddy issues.
  • FancyPantsFran
    FancyPantsFran Posts: 3,687 Member
    True there is a lot of slut slamming going on.....some people regardless of age or gender aren't happy unless they are creating drama..
  • FancyPantsFran
    FancyPantsFran Posts: 3,687 Member
    I say they are the choice of men with Oedipal Complex and Women with and Elektra complex. You know, mommy and daddy issues.

    Humm I never thought about it that way.....
  • FancyPantsFran
    FancyPantsFran Posts: 3,687 Member
    Back then, sexual women were vilified.

    They still are. There's a very fine line between prude and slut.

    I straddle that line.


    oh Madonna... with a 22 year old boyfriend ROAR

    ROFL HAHAHAAHA





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  • wanna_b_there
    wanna_b_there Posts: 295 Member
    I say they are the choice of men with Oedipal Complex and Women with and Elektra complex. You know, mommy and daddy issues.

    No because if it were a daddy issue, shed be banging old men.

    I just like shagging younger guys because they have great bodies, get "ready" in seconds and wake me up an hour later for more. Sue me.
  • Sinisterly
    Sinisterly Posts: 10,913 Member
    Why is it "a match made in heaven" for men.. And "cougar" for females...
    :noway:
  • cvty
    cvty Posts: 41
    I say they are the choice of men with Oedipal Complex and Women with and Elektra complex. You know, mommy and daddy issues.

    Oh yeah! The best issues evar!
  • SunofaBeach14
    SunofaBeach14 Posts: 4,899 Member
    Why is it "a match made in heaven" for men.. And "cougar" for females...
    :noway:

    Isn't it dirty old man though?
  • FancyPantsFran
    FancyPantsFran Posts: 3,687 Member
    Why is it "a match made in heaven" for men.. And "cougar" for females...
    :noway:

    I think its because men don't want us to have as much fun as them in that arena :drinker: :drinker: :wink:
  • DjinnMarie
    DjinnMarie Posts: 1,297 Member
    I say they are the choice of men with Oedipal Complex and Women with and Elektra complex. You know, mommy and daddy issues.

    No because if it were a daddy issue, shed be banging old men.

    I just like shagging younger guys because they have great bodies, get "ready" in seconds and wake me up an hour later for more. Sue me.

    You are banging the wrong 30 year olds. I know many 30 year old men that are rock hard, in more ways than one.
  • be_dazzled
    be_dazzled Posts: 353 Member
    I say they are the choice of men with Oedipal Complex and Women with and Elektra complex. You know, mommy and daddy issues.

    So my supposed sexual preoccupation with my father and desire to compete with my mother (my understanding of elektra complex) makes me desire younger men??? Huh
  • Sinisterly
    Sinisterly Posts: 10,913 Member
    Why is it "a match made in heaven" for men.. And "cougar" for females...
    :noway:

    I think its because men don't want us to have as much fun as them in that arena :drinker: :drinker: :wink:

    THIS. Ty <3.
  • FancyPantsFran
    FancyPantsFran Posts: 3,687 Member
    I say they are the choice of men with Oedipal Complex and Women with and Elektra complex. You know, mommy and daddy issues.

    Oh yeah! The best issues evar!

    Thank you Sigmund Fraud
  • nytrifisoul
    nytrifisoul Posts: 499 Member
    LOL @ guys into cougars, and the women proud to be one.
  • Caporegiem
    Caporegiem Posts: 4,297 Member
    Why is it "a match made in heaven" for men.. And "cougar" for females...
    :noway:

    Isn't it dirty old man though?

    This. I've never heard of an old guy dating a young girl as "a match made in heaven"
  • krazyforyou
    krazyforyou Posts: 1,428 Member
    **purrr** Meow **purrr**
  • cvty
    cvty Posts: 41
    I say they are the choice of men with Oedipal Complex and Women with and Elektra complex. You know, mommy and daddy issues.

    Oh yeah! The best issues evar!

    Thank you Sigmund Fraud

    Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar
  • nutellabrah
    nutellabrah Posts: 543
    Yeah theres a sense of negativity to it. Its a bit too spot on allegorically.

    Its also part of the humor of the term. Like a men-only type comment.

    Like if a girl is a kitten/***** cat, the cougar is a the looser skinned cousin. A smaller subsection of all the great cats like the lion, tiger, panther.... then theres the ol cougar.

    Thats where the laugh/chuckle in the mind comes from.

    So yeah it is negative but not malicious. Just a bit too tangy. Its not something I would say around women, only the boys.
  • DamePiglet
    DamePiglet Posts: 3,730 Member
    To me, "cougar" implies an older woman who tries too hard.
    When I refer to a confident, sexy, 45 year-old woman, I use first person pronouns. :glasses:

    :laugh:
  • ndj1979
    ndj1979 Posts: 29,136 Member
    Personally I find it offensive, it suggests a predatory nature. I never chase younger men, they pursue me

    touche ….
  • ndj1979
    ndj1979 Posts: 29,136 Member
    LOL @ guys into cougars, and the women proud to be one.

    whats wrong with cougars?
  • FancyPantsFran
    FancyPantsFran Posts: 3,687 Member
    I say they are the choice of men with Oedipal Complex and Women with and Elektra complex. You know, mommy and daddy issues.

    Oh yeah! The best issues evar!

    Thank you Sigmund Fraud

    Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar

    Smoke em if you got em
  • Sinisterly
    Sinisterly Posts: 10,913 Member
    Why is it "a match made in heaven" for men.. And "cougar" for females...
    :noway:

    Isn't it dirty old man though?

    This. I've never heard of an old guy dating a young girl as "a match made in heaven"
    Heard it plenty of times in Georgia :laugh: :laugh:
  • FancyPantsFran
    FancyPantsFran Posts: 3,687 Member
    To me, "cougar" implies an older woman who tries too hard.
    When I refer to a confident, sexy, 45 year-old woman, I use first person pronouns. :glasses:

    :laugh:

    Woot You Go Girl.... second person but you know what I mean....:wink:
  • DjinnMarie
    DjinnMarie Posts: 1,297 Member
    Why is it "a match made in heaven" for men.. And "cougar" for females...
    :noway:

    Isn't it dirty old man though?

    This. I've never heard of an old guy dating a young girl as "a match made in heaven"
    Heard it plenty of times in Georgia :laugh: :laugh:

    It's a southern thing. She's young and beautiful, but dumber than a bag of hammers. He's rich and successful, and a pervert. Match made in heaven.
  • SunofaBeach14
    SunofaBeach14 Posts: 4,899 Member
    Why is it "a match made in heaven" for men.. And "cougar" for females...
    :noway:

    Isn't it dirty old man though?

    This. I've never heard of an old guy dating a young girl as "a match made in heaven"
    Heard it plenty of times in Georgia :laugh: :laugh:

    Whatever works. I would posit that our society is entirely too prudish in general
  • Caporegiem
    Caporegiem Posts: 4,297 Member
    Guess I'm missing out. Then again when you say older guy I'm thinking of fellas in their 60s going for a girl in her early 20s. Like those old *kitten* that set on the benches at Walmart. Pretty creepy **** that they come off with.

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