Cougar > negative? sexy? huh?

wanna_b_there

Since my last birthday, my husband has joked that I've entered cougar territory, but it just doesn't hold water. I prefer men my age or a little bit older... (And he knows that, he just likes teasing me... )

So in your house, it's a put down or someone to laugh at. OK.

My_Own_Worst_Enemy

Labeling people. That always turns out so well.

Sinisterly

Indif about it. Age means nothing if you like the other person.

wanna_b_there

Indif about it. Age means nothing if you like the other person.

what if it's pure sex.

Sinisterly

Indif about it. Age means nothing if you like the other person.

what if it's pure sex.

I really hope people don't have sex with people they don't like O.o lol

Andy_83

I wouldn't ever consider it an insult to a lass if I heard them described as it but also would probably only use it tongue in cheek or with someone who I knew would take it as a compliment.

Chieflrg

I agree that it can depend on who is saying or what's implied.

Sometimes men over 40 just don't do.

Good thing I'm not even 30 yet. lol!

Really though, all women are beautiful! Young and old. (Just have a thing for older experienced ladies. They don't play around or do drama. I hate drama)

That's the thing. There's plenty of drama with a younger woman. Though I wouldn't call a 40+ woman "old."

#wurdNeffdrama

wanna_b_there

Indif about it. Age means nothing if you like the other person.

what if it's pure sex.

I really hope people don't have sex with people they don't like O.o lol

Um, it's pretty hot to slam someone you hate.

Sinisterly

Indif about it. Age means nothing if you like the other person.

what if it's pure sex.

I really hope people don't have sex with people they don't like O.o lol

Um, it's pretty hot to slam someone you hate.

Oh no, no way hahaha. Count me out XD

FancyPantsFran

Indif about it. Age means nothing if you like the other person.

what if it's pure sex.

I really hope people don't have sex with people they don't like O.o lol

Um, it's pretty hot to slam someone you hate.

hum don't think I could slam someone I hated unless there was massive amounts of tequila then.....

wanna_b_there

Indif about it. Age means nothing if you like the other person.

what if it's pure sex.

I really hope people don't have sex with people they don't like O.o lol

Um, it's pretty hot to slam someone you hate.

Oh no, no way hahaha. Count me out XD

Just wait until you're a cougar.

Sinisterly

Indif about it. Age means nothing if you like the other person.

what if it's pure sex.

I really hope people don't have sex with people they don't like O.o lol

Um, it's pretty hot to slam someone you hate.

hum don't think I could slam someone I hated unless there was massive amounts of tequila then.....

And quite a few illegal substances.

ShutupndMovee257

Indif about it. Age means nothing if you like the other person.

what if it's pure sex.

I really hope people don't have sex with people they don't like O.o lol

Um, it's pretty hot to slam someone you hate.

Where have you been all my life?! Lol! I'd hate you so much! Lol! Kidding.

FancyPantsFran

Indif about it. Age means nothing if you like the other person.

what if it's pure sex.

I really hope people don't have sex with people they don't like O.o lol

Um, it's pretty hot to slam someone you hate.

hum don't think I could slam someone I hated unless there was massive amounts of tequila then.....

And quite a few illegal substances.

and even then I think it would be hard for me... oh nooooo I might have performance anxiety YIKES :drinker: :drinker: :sad:

whitebalance

I'd prefer to be called a MILF. The term "cougar" makes me think of a lady in her mid 40's+ with botox, like all of those "Housewives." There's nothing wrong with being a cougar; I'm just not at that age yet.

Botox, lolwut? :noway:
Sheesh.

Re the original post, it's a negative term to me... but so is the premise. Not interested in guys my son's age; that's just, ew. No. The rest of y'all can have 'em. :flowerforyou:

Sinisterly

Indif about it. Age means nothing if you like the other person.

what if it's pure sex.

I really hope people don't have sex with people they don't like O.o lol

Um, it's pretty hot to slam someone you hate.

hum don't think I could slam someone I hated unless there was massive amounts of tequila then.....

And quite a few illegal substances.

and even then I think it would be hard for me... oh nooooo I might have performance anxiety YIKES :drinker: :drinker: :sad:

Lmao! Right?? hahahaha..

wanna_b_there

QuietBloom

Fortunately back in my dating years, dating younger men didn't require that I be labeled. :ohwell:

wanna_b_there

Fortunately back in my dating years, dating younger men didn't require that I be labeled. :ohwell:

Yeah it probably did, but no one said it to your face. Back then, sexual women were vilified.

SunofaBeach14

Like in most any communication, context and tone matter here

melb_alex

older women can teach guys my age a thing or two so I embrace them

QuietBloom

Fortunately back in my dating years, dating younger men didn't require that I be labeled. :ohwell:

Yeah it probably did, but no one said it to your face. Back then, sexual women were vilified.

Huh? LOL I don't recall every being vilified... At any rate, I don't care what people say about me that they can't say to my face. :happy:

FancyPantsFran

When I hear the term cougar I usually think of a women who is attractive, confident and has her **** together... that is sexy at any age....Women of the world UNITE

FancyPantsFran

Like in most any communication, context and tone matter here

Yep what he said

wanna_b_there

When I hear the term cougar I usually think of a women who is attractive, confident and has her **** together... that is sexy at any age....Women of the world UNITE

Damn freaking straight

summertime_girl

Back then, sexual women were vilified.

They still are. There's a very fine line between prude and slut.

wanna_b_there

Back then, sexual women were vilified.

They still are. There's a very fine line between prude and slut.

I straddle that line.

FancyPantsFran

Back then, sexual women were vilified.

They still are. There's a very fine line between prude and slut.

IMHO confident women unfortunately will be vilified regardless of their sexual prowess or lack there of but I think there is a huge difference between prude and slut... I prefer to find the middle ground :laugh: :laugh: :drinker:

FancyPantsFran

Back then, sexual women were vilified.

They still are. There's a very fine line between prude and slut.

I straddle that line.

ROFL HAHAHAAHA

Sinisterly

older women can teach guys my age a thing or two so I embrace them

Sometimes it's the younger guys that can teach a woman a thing or two!
:laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: