Cougar > negative? sexy? huh?

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  • wanna_b_there
    wanna_b_there Posts: 295 Member
    Since my last birthday, my husband has joked that I've entered cougar territory, but it just doesn't hold water. I prefer men my age or a little bit older... (And he knows that, he just likes teasing me... :wink: )


    So in your house, it's a put down or someone to laugh at. OK.
  • My_Own_Worst_Enemy
    My_Own_Worst_Enemy Posts: 218 Member
    Labeling people. That always turns out so well.
  • Sinisterly
    Sinisterly Posts: 10,913 Member
    Indif about it. Age means nothing if you like the other person.
  • wanna_b_there
    wanna_b_there Posts: 295 Member
    Indif about it. Age means nothing if you like the other person.

    what if it's pure sex.
  • Sinisterly
    Sinisterly Posts: 10,913 Member
    Indif about it. Age means nothing if you like the other person.

    what if it's pure sex.
    I really hope people don't have sex with people they don't like O.o lol
  • Andy_83
    Andy_83 Posts: 270
    I wouldn't ever consider it an insult to a lass if I heard them described as it but also would probably only use it tongue in cheek or with someone who I knew would take it as a compliment.
  • Chieflrg
    Chieflrg Posts: 9,097 Member
    I agree that it can depend on who is saying or what's implied.

    Sometimes men over 40 just don't do. :wink:

    Good thing I'm not even 30 yet. ;) lol!

    Really though, all women are beautiful! Young and old. (Just have a thing for older experienced ladies. They don't play around or do drama. I hate drama)

    That's the thing. There's plenty of drama with a younger woman. Though I wouldn't call a 40+ woman "old."
    #wurdNeffdrama
  • wanna_b_there
    wanna_b_there Posts: 295 Member
    Indif about it. Age means nothing if you like the other person.

    what if it's pure sex.
    I really hope people don't have sex with people they don't like O.o lol

    Um, it's pretty hot to slam someone you hate. =)
  • Sinisterly
    Sinisterly Posts: 10,913 Member
    Indif about it. Age means nothing if you like the other person.

    what if it's pure sex.
    I really hope people don't have sex with people they don't like O.o lol

    Um, it's pretty hot to slam someone you hate. =)
    Oh no, no way hahaha. Count me out XD
  • FancyPantsFran
    FancyPantsFran Posts: 3,687 Member
    Indif about it. Age means nothing if you like the other person.

    what if it's pure sex.
    I really hope people don't have sex with people they don't like O.o lol

    Um, it's pretty hot to slam someone you hate. =)

    hum don't think I could slam someone I hated unless there was massive amounts of tequila then.....
  • wanna_b_there
    wanna_b_there Posts: 295 Member
    Indif about it. Age means nothing if you like the other person.

    what if it's pure sex.
    I really hope people don't have sex with people they don't like O.o lol

    Um, it's pretty hot to slam someone you hate. =)
    Oh no, no way hahaha. Count me out XD

    Just wait until you're a cougar.

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  • Sinisterly
    Sinisterly Posts: 10,913 Member
    Indif about it. Age means nothing if you like the other person.

    what if it's pure sex.
    I really hope people don't have sex with people they don't like O.o lol

    Um, it's pretty hot to slam someone you hate. =)

    hum don't think I could slam someone I hated unless there was massive amounts of tequila then.....
    And quite a few illegal substances.
  • ShutupndMovee257
    ShutupndMovee257 Posts: 316 Member
    Indif about it. Age means nothing if you like the other person.

    what if it's pure sex.
    I really hope people don't have sex with people they don't like O.o lol

    Um, it's pretty hot to slam someone you hate. =)


    Where have you been all my life?! Lol! I'd hate you so much! Lol! Kidding. ;)
  • FancyPantsFran
    FancyPantsFran Posts: 3,687 Member
    Indif about it. Age means nothing if you like the other person.

    what if it's pure sex.
    I really hope people don't have sex with people they don't like O.o lol

    Um, it's pretty hot to slam someone you hate. =)

    hum don't think I could slam someone I hated unless there was massive amounts of tequila then.....
    And quite a few illegal substances.

    and even then I think it would be hard for me... oh nooooo I might have performance anxiety YIKES :drinker: :drinker: :sad:
  • whitebalance
    whitebalance Posts: 1,654 Member
    I'd prefer to be called a MILF. The term "cougar" makes me think of a lady in her mid 40's+ with botox, like all of those "Housewives." There's nothing wrong with being a cougar; I'm just not at that age yet.
    Botox, lolwut? :noway:
    Sheesh.

    Re the original post, it's a negative term to me... but so is the premise. Not interested in guys my son's age; that's just, ew. No. The rest of y'all can have 'em. :flowerforyou:
  • Sinisterly
    Sinisterly Posts: 10,913 Member
    Indif about it. Age means nothing if you like the other person.

    what if it's pure sex.
    I really hope people don't have sex with people they don't like O.o lol

    Um, it's pretty hot to slam someone you hate. =)

    hum don't think I could slam someone I hated unless there was massive amounts of tequila then.....
    And quite a few illegal substances.

    and even then I think it would be hard for me... oh nooooo I might have performance anxiety YIKES :drinker: :drinker: :sad:
    Lmao! Right?? hahahaha..
  • wanna_b_there
    wanna_b_there Posts: 295 Member
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  • QuietBloom
    QuietBloom Posts: 5,413 Member
    Fortunately back in my dating years, dating younger men didn't require that I be labeled. :ohwell:
  • wanna_b_there
    wanna_b_there Posts: 295 Member
    Fortunately back in my dating years, dating younger men didn't require that I be labeled. :ohwell:

    Yeah it probably did, but no one said it to your face. Back then, sexual women were vilified.
  • SunofaBeach14
    SunofaBeach14 Posts: 4,899 Member
    Like in most any communication, context and tone matter here
  • melb_alex
    melb_alex Posts: 1,154 Member
    older women can teach guys my age a thing or two so I embrace them ;)
  • QuietBloom
    QuietBloom Posts: 5,413 Member
    Fortunately back in my dating years, dating younger men didn't require that I be labeled. :ohwell:

    Yeah it probably did, but no one said it to your face. Back then, sexual women were vilified.

    Huh? LOL I don't recall every being vilified... At any rate, I don't care what people say about me that they can't say to my face. :happy:
  • FancyPantsFran
    FancyPantsFran Posts: 3,687 Member
    When I hear the term cougar I usually think of a women who is attractive, confident and has her **** together... that is sexy at any age....Women of the world UNITE
  • FancyPantsFran
    FancyPantsFran Posts: 3,687 Member
    Like in most any communication, context and tone matter here

    Yep what he said
  • wanna_b_there
    wanna_b_there Posts: 295 Member
    When I hear the term cougar I usually think of a women who is attractive, confident and has her **** together... that is sexy at any age....Women of the world UNITE

    Damn freaking straight =)

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  • summertime_girl
    summertime_girl Posts: 3,945 Member
    Back then, sexual women were vilified.

    They still are. There's a very fine line between prude and slut.
  • wanna_b_there
    wanna_b_there Posts: 295 Member
    Back then, sexual women were vilified.

    They still are. There's a very fine line between prude and slut.

    I straddle that line.
  • FancyPantsFran
    FancyPantsFran Posts: 3,687 Member
    Back then, sexual women were vilified.

    They still are. There's a very fine line between prude and slut.

    IMHO confident women unfortunately will be vilified regardless of their sexual prowess or lack there of but I think there is a huge difference between prude and slut... I prefer to find the middle ground :laugh: :laugh: :drinker:
  • FancyPantsFran
    FancyPantsFran Posts: 3,687 Member
    Back then, sexual women were vilified.

    They still are. There's a very fine line between prude and slut.

    I straddle that line.

    ROFL HAHAHAAHA
  • Sinisterly
    Sinisterly Posts: 10,913 Member
    older women can teach guys my age a thing or two so I embrace them ;)
    Sometimes it's the younger guys that can teach a woman a thing or two!
    :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

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