move less and eat less
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I think part of the problem is we don't mean the same thing by "fitness".
Health is not a weight, or a shape.
Fitness, likewise, is not necessarily a weight or a shape.
ANYONE losing weight and building muscle is becoming more fit. Period. They may not look like The Rock, but they are becoming more fit.
That said, Many of those big guys are actually less healthy, in a number of ways, than people who aren't overmuscled and at ridiculously low body fat percentages.
You cannot honestly tell me that weight loss and fitness are competing goals.
perhaps weight loss and muscle building.. (which, is to say, using weights to build the muscles beyond what a body-weight only regimen can do for you).
but being overly muscled is not any more a sign of "fitness" than being moderately muscled on a body-weight only routine.
Yes, I can tell you that weight loss and fitness are competing goals, and in can also expect you to put enough thought into it to understand the statement before attacking a loosely related idea that actually doesn't match this one at all.
But that would be naive.
Yes, it is naive for you to say something like that, again, without any parameters of what you mean by "Weight loss" and "Fitness".
clearly "Weight loss" and "building muscle mass" may be at cross purposes.
But unless you explain what you mean by "Fitness", I'm going to say, well, you remain rather confusing.
Nebulous terms, an apparently inability to frame what you mean clearly, and statements like "less exercise means you'll lose weight faster!" pretty much guarantee nobody is going to get what you mean.
Because they are all meaningless.
Weight loss= a bunch of decomposition reactions
Fitness = a bunch of synthesis
You know this though, Sara. You know everything and apply everything really well, and following my own advice here makes my program look more like yours.
What I said was "eat less, move less". It's a play in a phrase we all know.
Further, if I'm SO crazy, why did some people immediately understand where I am coming from and where I'm going?
No, I think you'll find there is a particular audience, people like me, who need to be told this with some pretty strong emphasis to get it.
Who on EARTH is Sara, and why do you seem to think I am them?
Oops. Sorry, hard to keep track on a phone.0 -
ok - read through this entire thread. The problem is the OP's original phrasing, especially comments like, 'exercising 3x/week' there is your problem. Uhmm, no. But, as I read through more and more, I think the key point (which is really lost in the OP) is that over-training can be counter-productive if your goal is scale weight loss. It can also lead to injuries, a drop in performance, etc...The other over-generalization is 'a deep deficit'. What is considered a deep deficit?
For me, my body tells me when I am overtraining - and fairly quickly. In particular, I will see it in my performance. So, what the OP clearly does not address is specifics. How much should a person exercise and what kind of deficit is optimal if one's goal is purely to see a lower scale weight?
I have always used MFP recommendations or Scooby's recommendations for deficit - ranging from 250 cals to 500 cals per day...I will work out anywhere from 5-6 times a week (2 long distance runs (7-10kms), 3 strength training, 1 HIIT)...I mean, is that too much? Too little? Who is the judge of what is what here?0 -
Take a look around at posts from people "doing everything right and not losing". What do almost all of them have in common? Crazy exercise regimen.
The problem isn't "crazy exercise regimen", it's over-eating because they're not being honest about their exercise regimen burn.
DING! DING! DING!
10 points.
This simply isn't always true, although I'm sure it is for a large percentage. MFP is full of stories of people exercising like crazy and eating 1200 calories. When they increase their calories a little, the weight starts coming off again. I have been in here for over a year and have seen it over and over again.
There have also been threads on those who have been surprised when they had a few weeks where they couldn't exercise as much, but actually lost more weight.
100% isn't required to earn points.
And I'm a card-carrying member of the "eat more" club, so I understand what you're saying...it's just that it seems like *most* of the time it is bad logging, not insufficient calories.
And weight loss isn't linear....so when something happens that seems to defy expectation, such as losing weight when decreasing exercise, they note it and report it. When the norm happens, it's expected so it goes unnoticed and unreported. Finally, weight loss after ceasing exercise for a short period can easily be explained by decreased "water weight".
Yeah sometimes also true.
But I kinda think a 12mm reduction (50%) in the belly skin fold in 1 month when you expected half that from past experience is hard to explain as water weight from reduced inflammation.
That's where I am at. I FIGURATIVELY am blown away by how effective rest is (not just not overtraining). So I shall henceforth be known as captain rest.
Ok maybe not, but I'm definitely gonna be all up in that rest more bandwagon for a while.0 -
ok - read through this entire thread. The problem is the OP's original phrasing, especially comments like, 'exercising 3x/week' there is your problem. Uhmm, no. But, as I read through more and more, I think the key point (which is really lost in the OP) is that over-training can be counter-productive if your goal is scale weight loss. It can also lead to injuries, a drop in performance, etc...The other over-generalization is 'a deep deficit'. What is considered a deep deficit?
For me, my body tells me when I am overtraining - and fairly quickly. In particular, I will see it in my performance. So, what the OP clearly does not address is specifics. How much should a person exercise and what kind of deficit is optimal if one's goal is purely to see a lower scale weight?
I have always used MFP recommendations or Scooby's recommendations for deficit - ranging from 250 cals to 500 cals per day...I will work out anywhere from 5-6 times a week (2 long distance runs (7-10kms), 3 strength training, 1 HIIT)...I mean, is that too much? Too little? Who is the judge of what is what here?
Hey, ya know, it got you talking, didn't it?
I think a good place to start is, do less, and if your performance improves in any area, you were doing too much.
A lot of people are doing too much. Ok. But that's not really my point. Or not the only one.
I'm saying that weight loss is traumatic, and rest is a good way to heal from trauma. And I'm saying a prolonged state of chronic trauma is no bueno, so if you are losing a bunch of weight, back off the training, not because training is bad, but because it isn't rest. As a side benefit you lean out faster and get back to building something better.0 -
I also lost a lot of weight doing the opposite of what I recommend. It proves nothing. I would be more fit now had I done something better. I would be closer to my goal.
Okay so what you are saying then is this...
I was 40 when I started, 5ft 7 and started at 205...I have in the past weighed as little at 130lbs...so lets use that weight.
If I had just concentrated on losing the 75lbs then started exercise I would have been better off????really???
Now is losing probably 20lbs of muscle mass a good thing???? That would have taken me at what 4 years to build back...bulking, cutting ,bulking, cutting...how is that better?????
No thank you. I prefer to maintain as much of my 120lbs of muscle, eat at a reasonable deficet and take 2-3 years to acheive my ultimate goals (20-22% BF, bench my bw, DL 2x my BW etc) rather than take 1-2 years to lose 75lbs, and another maybe 4 to build back what I lost.
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I workout 5x a week...eat at a reasonable deficet. Been here a year and almost at size/weight goal...after that...maybe another year to get BF and strength goals.0 -
Yeah sometimes also true.
But I kinda think a 12mm reduction (50%) in the belly skin fold in 1 month when you expected half that from past experience is hard to explain as water weight from reduced inflammation.
That's where I am at. I FIGURATIVELY am blown away by how effective rest is (not just not overtraining). So I shall henceforth be known as captain rest.
Ok maybe not, but I'm definitely gonna be all up in that rest more bandwagon for a while.
Or, it's because it's well documented that belly fat is the hardest to get rid of, and last to go, so you are now at the point where that is what you are primarily losing.
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I also lost a lot of weight doing the opposite of what I recommend. It proves nothing. I would be more fit now had I done something better. I would be closer to my goal.
Okay so what you are saying then is this...
I was 40 when I started, 5ft 7 and started at 205...I have in the past weighed as little at 130lbs...so lets use that weight.
If I had just concentrated on losing the 75lbs then started exercise I would have been better off????really???
Now is losing probably 20lbs of muscle mass a good thing???? That would have taken me at what 4 years to build back...bulking, cutting ,bulking, cutting...how is that better?????
No thank you. I prefer to maintain as much of my 120lbs of muscle, eat at a reasonable deficet and take 2-3 years to acheive my ultimate goals (20-22% BF, bench my bw, DL 2x my BW etc) rather than take 1-2 years to lose 75lbs, and another maybe 4 to build back what I lost.
No, that's pretty much a crappy program I wouldn't recommend. Why would you think I would recommend no exercise?0 -
MFP is full of stories of people exercising like crazy and eating 1200 calories.
That doesn't capture the actual reality for most of those people.
A whack of them aren't exercising very hard at all, because they don't understand "out of shape and sweating" is not the same as "burning crap loads of calories". Another whack of them bomb out after a week because they blow their glycogen stores and then give up, because blowing your stores and trying to exercise really, really sucks. And a significant whack of them, as per normal on MFP, aren't actually logging and in reality are eating quite a bit more than they claim.
I also don't believe that focusing on only one of weight loss or exercise will lead to greater success for most people who crash and burn trying to do both. People prone to insensible behaviour will always find an outlet...0 -
I also lost a lot of weight doing the opposite of what I recommend. It proves nothing. I would be more fit now had I done something better. I would be closer to my goal.
Okay so what you are saying then is this...
I was 40 when I started, 5ft 7 and started at 205...I have in the past weighed as little at 130lbs...so lets use that weight.
If I had just concentrated on losing the 75lbs then started exercise I would have been better off????really???
Now is losing probably 20lbs of muscle mass a good thing???? That would have taken me at what 4 years to build back...bulking, cutting ,bulking, cutting...how is that better?????
No thank you. I prefer to maintain as much of my 120lbs of muscle, eat at a reasonable deficet and take 2-3 years to acheive my ultimate goals (20-22% BF, bench my bw, DL 2x my BW etc) rather than take 1-2 years to lose 75lbs, and another maybe 4 to build back what I lost.
No, that's pretty much a crappy program I wouldn't recommend. Why would you think I would recommend no exercise?
ah because of this post and your response....I lost around 50lbs without doing any exercise at all. For me it was too overwhelming to learn how to lose weight (for the first time in my life) and also figure out the whole exercise thing (also for the first time in my life). So I decided to focus on diet/calorie deficit. And it worked great for me doing it this way. I lost the weight and improved my health (including getting my glucose number back down into the normal range), and then as I transitioned into maintenance I started walking and my exercise routine has progressed from there. If I had to do it all over I would do the same thing again
Clearly focusing on doing one thing at a time, which is called "specificity", is a really good concept to have when you want I create any adaptation.
Wish I were as smart a you! Took me forever to realize this.0 -
MFP is full of stories of people exercising like crazy and eating 1200 calories.
That doesn't capture the actual reality for most of those people.
A whack of them aren't exercising very hard at all, because they don't understand "out of shape and sweating" is not the same as "burning crap loads of calories". Another whack of them bomb out after a week because they blow their glycogen stores and then give up, because blowing your stores and trying to exercise really, really sucks. And a significant whack of them, as per normal on MFP, aren't actually logging and in reality are eating quite a bit more than they claim.
I also don't believe that focusing on only one of weight loss or exercise will lead to greater success for most people who crash and burn trying to do both. People prone to insensible behaviour will always find an outlet...
If you had quoted everything I wrote, you would have shown that I agreed that a large percentage are not honestly or accurately logging. But there are many examples of people who upped their calories and started losing (you conveniently left that part of my post out). If they had been logging incorrectly, then they wouldn't have lost weight when they increased calories.
I shouldn't treat everyone who is eating 1200 calories the same, but neither should you. I find you very condescending. And next time you quote me, do me a a favor and not pick and choose. Makes you look dishonest.0 -
If they had been logging incorrectly, then they wouldn't have lost weight when they increased calories.
In my opinion this is not necessarily correct. Often times, increasing calories can increase dietary compliance and adherence in the long term. So for example many times people make an attempt at setting intake too low. They comply for a few days then they make up for it by having a binge day or a "I'm not going to track today" day and effectively un-do the deficit they may have created over the short periods of compliance.0 -
If I want to train for a 100 mile bicyling event, I can't be eating at a deficit. I'll get sick, for sure. I can either lose weight fast and don't train hard, or lose weight very slowly and train....
Everyone is different. I trained for the 100 Miles of Nowhere (3300 feet of climbing on my route) and for D2R2 this summer (only the 100K version, but it did have 8,000 feet of climbing, mostly on dirt) and then the Great River Ride 170K (really 179 km, or 111.5 mi, with 8,800 feet of climbing), while running a deficit between 350 and 500 calories a day. I'm a much stronger cyclist now than I was this time last year, despite losing nearly 50 lb. over the course of the last thirteen months.
Maybe I would have improved even more if I hadn't been eating at a deficit - I'll find that out this summer, I hope!0 -
I find you very condescending.
I know this wasn't directed at me, but as long as we're airing our grievances...
...I find you very adversarial and abrasive...
...and I don't like you.0 -
If they had been logging incorrectly, then they wouldn't have lost weight when they increased calories.
In my opinion this is not necessarily correct. Often times, increasing calories can increase dietary compliance and adherence in the long term. So for example many times people make an attempt at setting intake too low. They comply for a few days then they make up for it by having a binge day or a "I'm not going to track today" day and effectively un-do the deficit they may have created over the short periods of compliance.0 -
If they had been logging incorrectly, then they wouldn't have lost weight when they increased calories.
In my opinion this is not necessarily correct. Often times, increasing calories can increase dietary compliance and adherence in the long term. So for example many times people make an attempt at setting intake too low. They comply for a few days then they make up for it by having a binge day or a "I'm not going to track today" day and effectively un-do the deficit they may have created over the short periods of compliance.
Agreed.0 -
It has taken me a year to figure out, and I'd be a jerk if I didn't share.
Trying to lose weight? Working out more than 3 times a week? There is your problem.
Take a look around at posts from people "doing everything right and not losing". What do almost all of them have in common? Crazy exercise regimen.
Losing weight is a destructive process. By definition. While you are tearing down the body you have now, don't think of training as anything but a way to reduce the damage from this process. Eat less, move less. Find a distraction that isn't going to prolong your weight loss. Working out is not a good one!
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I also lost a lot of weight doing the opposite of what I recommend. It proves nothing. I would be more fit now had I done something better. I would be closer to my goal.
Okay so what you are saying then is this...
I was 40 when I started, 5ft 7 and started at 205...I have in the past weighed as little at 130lbs...so lets use that weight.
If I had just concentrated on losing the 75lbs then started exercise I would have been better off????really???
Now is losing probably 20lbs of muscle mass a good thing???? That would have taken me at what 4 years to build back...bulking, cutting ,bulking, cutting...how is that better?????
No thank you. I prefer to maintain as much of my 120lbs of muscle, eat at a reasonable deficet and take 2-3 years to acheive my ultimate goals (20-22% BF, bench my bw, DL 2x my BW etc) rather than take 1-2 years to lose 75lbs, and another maybe 4 to build back what I lost.
No, that's pretty much a crappy program I wouldn't recommend. Why would you think I would recommend no exercise?
ah because of this post and your response....I lost around 50lbs without doing any exercise at all. For me it was too overwhelming to learn how to lose weight (for the first time in my life) and also figure out the whole exercise thing (also for the first time in my life). So I decided to focus on diet/calorie deficit. And it worked great for me doing it this way. I lost the weight and improved my health (including getting my glucose number back down into the normal range), and then as I transitioned into maintenance I started walking and my exercise routine has progressed from there. If I had to do it all over I would do the same thing again
Clearly focusing on doing one thing at a time, which is called "specificity", is a really good concept to have when you want I create any adaptation.
Wish I were as smart a you! Took me forever to realize this.
that word... focus... I don't think it means what you think it means. when I focus on one thing it doesn't mean i completely exclude another. if I meant to say "do exclusively", I'd probably say that.
I need a little "straw man award" sticker to post on some of these "takedowns" this one is quite a reach though.0 -
If I want to train for a 100 mile bicyling event, I can't be eating at a deficit. I'll get sick, for sure. I can either lose weight fast and don't train hard, or lose weight very slowly and train....
Everyone is different. I trained for the 100 Miles of Nowhere (3300 feet of climbing on my route) and for D2R2 this summer (only the 100K version, but it did have 8,000 feet of climbing, mostly on dirt) and then the Great River Ride 170K (really 179 km, or 111.5 mi, with 8,800 feet of climbing), while running a deficit between 350 and 500 calories a day. I'm a much stronger cyclist now than I was this time last year, despite losing nearly 50 lb. over the course of the last thirteen months.
Maybe I would have improved even more if I hadn't been eating at a deficit - I'll find that out this summer, I hope!
well that's kinda complicated. How much better are you at biking with 50 lbs strapped on might be a way to explore your increased capacity for work.0 -
If they had been logging incorrectly, then they wouldn't have lost weight when they increased calories.
In my opinion this is not necessarily correct. Often times, increasing calories can increase dietary compliance and adherence in the long term. So for example many times people make an attempt at setting intake too low. They comply for a few days then they make up for it by having a binge day or a "I'm not going to track today" day and effectively un-do the deficit they may have created over the short periods of compliance.
how about a more goldylocks type approach for compliance?
some people seem to hold up better through a slow grind, some like to rip a bandaid off as quick as possible.
you just weigh your type against your goals. no reason to let the perfect be the enemy of the good.
but if you are like me, a 300 cal deficit feels more or less like a 1000 cal deficit, only with more energy to get bored with. much easier for me, personally, it turns out, to cut 3 times as hard for 1/3 as long. and oddly more effective now that I got this rest thing down.0 -
Yeah sometimes also true.
But I kinda think a 12mm reduction (50%) in the belly skin fold in 1 month when you expected half that from past experience is hard to explain as water weight from reduced inflammation.
That's where I am at. I FIGURATIVELY am blown away by how effective rest is (not just not overtraining). So I shall henceforth be known as captain rest.
Ok maybe not, but I'm definitely gonna be all up in that rest more bandwagon for a while.
Or, it's because it's well documented that belly fat is the hardest to get rid of, and last to go, so you are now at the point where that is what you are primarily losing.
ancedotal =/= science.
I take measurements from a few spots, and this ain't my first time at this bodyfat % thanks, but i know the drill and my expectations based on past performance are quite specific. and based on actual past experience and having kept records, not impressions formed before I've done my first round of cutting.
why do people keep throwing straw men at this? look at my freaking profile, you think I really don't know how this works? a year ago, if a guy with my record said "hey, check out this mistake I made for a year", I would have found that pretty damn interesting. unfortunately, I mostly interacted with fellow instant experts.
of course anecdotal evidence isn't science. science is a method, so...0 -
of course anecdotal evidence isn't science. science is a method, so...
So no science will occur in this thread?
What does it matter though if you create a calorie deficit of 3500 calories while eating 2700 calories a day (exercising 5-6 hours a week) or 2200 calories a day (with 2-3 days a week)? In the end, it will still create a 1 lb loss.
I am struggling to understand how lowering your intake and your TDEE will create more weight loss?0 -
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I also lost a lot of weight doing the opposite of what I recommend. It proves nothing. I would be more fit now had I done something better. I would be closer to my goal.
Okay so what you are saying then is this...
I was 40 when I started, 5ft 7 and started at 205...I have in the past weighed as little at 130lbs...so lets use that weight.
If I had just concentrated on losing the 75lbs then started exercise I would have been better off????really???
Now is losing probably 20lbs of muscle mass a good thing???? That would have taken me at what 4 years to build back...bulking, cutting ,bulking, cutting...how is that better?????
No thank you. I prefer to maintain as much of my 120lbs of muscle, eat at a reasonable deficet and take 2-3 years to acheive my ultimate goals (20-22% BF, bench my bw, DL 2x my BW etc) rather than take 1-2 years to lose 75lbs, and another maybe 4 to build back what I lost.
No, that's pretty much a crappy program I wouldn't recommend. Why would you think I would recommend no exercise?
ah because of this post and your response....I lost around 50lbs without doing any exercise at all. For me it was too overwhelming to learn how to lose weight (for the first time in my life) and also figure out the whole exercise thing (also for the first time in my life). So I decided to focus on diet/calorie deficit. And it worked great for me doing it this way. I lost the weight and improved my health (including getting my glucose number back down into the normal range), and then as I transitioned into maintenance I started walking and my exercise routine has progressed from there. If I had to do it all over I would do the same thing again
Clearly focusing on doing one thing at a time, which is called "specificity", is a really good concept to have when you want I create any adaptation.
Wish I were as smart a you! Took me forever to realize this.
that word... focus... I don't think it means what you think it means. when I focus on one thing it doesn't mean i completely exclude another. if I meant to say "do exclusively", I'd probably say that.
I need a little "straw man award" sticker to post on some of these "takedowns" this one is quite a reach though.
No not trying to create a straw man actually asking a question...just like I did at first to clarify exactly what you meant, not that you clarified much and glossed over my questions like "what do you consider extreme for workouts"
. You are not very precise or concise with your thoughts and the OP was a bit how do I say...confusing then as you continue and not answer questions it gets more confusing then when you say "focus" on one thing...yah that means the main area of interest...trust me I read the words and take their meaning just fine.
Mean what you say, say what you mean and be able to back it up and when asked a question for clarification answer it...but Im not the only one here who still believes this OP is not as great as you think.
I will continue on my way working out 5x a week, lifting 3x out of those 5 and eating at a deficet and not worry about eating less and moving less...as I am getting great results and in less time than a lot of people that are doing this with me outside of MFP.0 -
of course anecdotal evidence isn't science. science is a method, so...
So no science will occur in this thread?
What does it matter though if you create a calorie deficit of 3500 calories while eating 2700 calories a day (exercising 5-6 hours a week) or 2200 calories a day (with 2-3 days a week)? In the end, it will still create a 1 lb loss.
I am struggling to understand how lowering your intake and your TDEE will create more weight loss?
because, MAJIK
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It has taken me a year to figure out, and I'd be a jerk if I didn't share.
Trying to lose weight? Working out more than 3 times a week? There is your problem.
Take a look around at posts from people "doing everything right and not losing". What do almost all of them have in common? Crazy exercise regimen.
Losing weight is a destructive process. By definition. While you are tearing down the body you have now, don't think of training as anything but a way to reduce the damage from this process. Eat less, move less. Find a distraction that isn't going to prolong your weight loss. Working out is not a good one!0 -
of course anecdotal evidence isn't science. science is a method, so...
So no science will occur in this thread?
What does it matter though if you create a calorie deficit of 3500 calories while eating 2700 calories a day (exercising 5-6 hours a week) or 2200 calories a day (with 2-3 days a week)? In the end, it will still create a 1 lb loss.
I am struggling to understand how lowering your intake and your TDEE will create more weight loss?
because, MAJIK
In for magic...0 -
"how about a more goldylocks type approach for compliance?
some people seem to hold up better through a slow grind, some like to rip a bandaid off as quick as possible.
you just weigh your type against your goals. no reason to let the perfect be the enemy of the good.
but if you are like me, a 300 cal deficit feels more or less like a 1000 cal deficit, only with more energy to get bored with. much easier for me, personally, it turns out, to cut 3 times as hard for 1/3 as long. and oddly more effective now that I got this rest thing down."
@OP - so what I understand you to be saying above is that you are comfortable eating at 1000 calories/day deficit, with less workouts so that you can cut quicker. That is a very steep cut to maintain for an extended period - perhaps if you are someone with alot to lose, and only for a period of time...but, general recommendations on these forums seem to suggest 1 lb/week (500 cals deficit) as a rule of thumb decreasing to 250 deficit as you get within striking range of your goal. I can only speak for myself when I say there is no way I would entertain a 1000 cal deficit for an extended period of time. To me, there is a significant difference between a 300 cal deficit and a 1000 cal deficit.0 -
"how about a more goldylocks type approach for compliance?
some people seem to hold up better through a slow grind, some like to rip a bandaid off as quick as possible.
you just weigh your type against your goals. no reason to let the perfect be the enemy of the good.
but if you are like me, a 300 cal deficit feels more or less like a 1000 cal deficit, only with more energy to get bored with. much easier for me, personally, it turns out, to cut 3 times as hard for 1/3 as long. and oddly more effective now that I got this rest thing down."
@OP - so what I understand you to be saying above is that you are comfortable eating at 1000 calories/day deficit, with less workouts so that you can cut quicker. That is a very steep cut to maintain for an extended period - perhaps if you are someone with alot to lose, and only for a period of time...but, general recommendations on these forums seem to suggest 1 lb/week (500 cals deficit) as a rule of thumb decreasing to 250 deficit as you get within striking range of your goal. I can only speak for myself when I say there is no way I would entertain a 1000 cal deficit for an extended period of time. To me, there is a significant difference between a 300 cal deficit and a 1000 cal deficit.
I agree. However, it appears that OP has decided that his experience is the only one that matters and that anyone else's amounts to a straw man argument if it at all differs from his own.0 -
I find you very condescending.
I know this wasn't directed at me, but as long as we're airing our grievances...
...I find you very adversarial and abrasive...
...and I don't like you.
I'm abrasive?. For the most part I've just given my opinion, except in this instance.
Oh, and I'm heartbroken. I think I'll go cry myself to sleep.0 -
I find you very condescending.
I know this wasn't directed at me, but as long as we're airing our grievances...
...I find you very adversarial and abrasive...
...and I don't like you.
I'm abrasive?. For the most part I've just given my opinion, except in this instance.
Oh, and I'm heartbroken. I think I'll go cry myself to sleep.
Hello. I don't know you and don't have a dog in this race. Then I went and read your post history.
You are abrasive.
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