Guys, do you like it when the woman makes the first move?
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I never have... Its odd. I'm pretty extroverted and don't have much shy in me at all... but for some reason, I've never been able to bring myself to actually make the first move.
I've been known to drop some pretty blatant hints though...0 -
I've asked out a guy before and been shot down.
Ah well.0 -
My bf says I "made eyes" at him while we were both out dancing (separately) and that's why he came over to me and asked me to dance with him. I DO NOT remember "making eyes" at him but I'm glad he came over, so HE says he's glad I made the first move, and I say I'm glad he did!0
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I think this way is what make lasting relationships. IMO Call me old fashioned, the man takes the woman!it would be a turn on and show confidence in a woman.if she made the first move.
Make up your mind, dude :ohwell:0 -
I've asked out a guy before and been shot down.
Ah well.
Sounds like a real fluke to me. With your looks? Maybe he was gay, or celibate. Perhaps recently lobotomized.0 -
I've asked out a guy before and been shot down.
Ah well.
Sounds like a real fluke to me. With your looks? Maybe he was gay, or celibate. Perhaps recently lobotomized.
While I appreciate the sentiment- You can't judge a book by it's cover. I'm really underwhelming in person.
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Ideal situation is when the girl drops hints that she's interested and then waits for the guy to actually try and set up the first date. Now in the day of internet dating though, I think it's safe to say anything goes.0
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I have in the past, but I have found that I don't like the guys in the end because they seem weak overall. Some women like wearing the pants, so if he's "scared" to say anything & you like dominating go for it. However, if you want a man, then let him be one and make the "first move".
I used quotation marks because let's face it, we usually do so much laughing at lame jokes & hair twirling its ridiculous.0 -
Ideal situation is when the girl drops hints that she's interested and then waits for the guy to actually try and set up the first date.
^^^co-sign0 -
I'd say I've definitely made the first move more often than the other way around, it's awesome though when it's more mutual. I haven't had a lot of experience with rejection but it's happened (I have to be pretty sure they're into me before I make a move) but turning someone down feels about as bad as being the one being rejected too sometimes. I think it's worth taking a chance though and it's nice when guys make the move, but I don't really have a problem doing it either.0
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I think this way is what make lasting relationships. IMO Call me old fashioned, the man takes the woman!it would be a turn on and show confidence in a woman.if she made the first move.
Make up your mind, dude :ohwell:0 -
I think this way is what make lasting relationships. IMO Call me old fashioned, the man takes the woman!it would be a turn on and show confidence in a woman.if she made the first move.
Make up your mind, dude :ohwell:
Actually, you first said you prefer to be in control rather than be submissive...then you backpedaled. Whatever, dude. :ohwell:0 -
If I am attracted to her, sure why not.
If I am not attracted to her sure why not...as in away, interstate, overseas etc.
ETA: Second line was obviously a joke. Honestly who cares its 2014 not 1914 will the next thread be about if women can wear pants or vote.0 -
I tried and got rejected.
It was fun even though it bruised my ego lol.0 -
Women are the gatekeepers guys, they always make the first move, we are just too stupid to notice it. I guess I am old old school, a woman extends her hand to the man, she is inviting him into her space. Now, in today's society, I guess, it does not matter.
Yes, I like the woman to make the first overt move to let me know it's ok to approach her. It's just too bad I so oblivious, that they have to carry a baseball bat.0 -
Guys..to say You are shy..Some may see that as an opportunity to tackle you seeing you are quite a fascination to look at.
Answer to OP: I see what I like, I chat how I want it to be...how it hit off ,that will all depend on how the other party react to me. Take it or Leave it..thats my answer0 -
I've asked out a guy before and been shot down.
Ah well.
We have to spend our whole lives being shot down, sometimes politely, sometimes abusively and profanely. Why would anybody want to risk that?0 -
Of course I like it when she makes the first move, saves me a lot of trouble.0
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To original post: Yes, like it.
Always nice to feel wanted.0 -
Yes I do. I'm shy and clueless when it comes to the signals women put out. I miss them or assume she is just being friendly and not interested in that way.0
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