Traded in my Breasts for a Skinnier Me

chani8

I think the healthiest thing to do is just accept that it happened.

You can't be on top forever. What about when you're 70?

A boob job is not gonna make you young again, it will just make you a person with a boob job.

Even if you buy a little time with implants, it won't fix the reality that we all age.

Age gracefully with dignity and be strong enough to accept what is going on.

I think this is sweet and well put.

Acceptance and self love. I'm working on it myself. And building a butt of steel is helping with the self-confidence. lol

Doc_V

I made myself a deal that if I got to my goal weight, I'd get a new set. At my heaviest I was a B, now I'm barely filling those up. I've got a serious case of 'dat azz' and broad shoulders, so I really just want to be proportionate. I know lots of girls who have gotten into shape and rewarded themselves with silicone. I want to be fit and strong, but I still want to be curvy!

daniflems

OP here so after reading through all these great posts (getting a few giggles here and there) I got what I wanted...some opinions from both the "go for it" side and the "accept what you've got" side...

Although Nuttellanuts had a fantastic first post...they all kinda went downhill from there...LOL! Way to stir the pot though dude...you win the Controversy prize fursure...I appreciate the good advice you gave (accepting and being happy with myself) but the rest of the nonsense has gone in one ear and out the other...thank god I have a working filter

Also to clear up some assumptions; I'm not married but I have an amazing boyfriend and father of my daughter who seems quite happy with me the way I am. He tells me this and I have no reason to believe he would lie to me about that. We plan to spend the rest of our lives together wether we get married or not...it honestly is me who has the problem which makes sense; they are my boobs after all. He would also support whatever decision I made as long as it made me happy. He is an amazing man.

To assume I'm older is also wrong; I'm 28 years old, which to me is still pretty damn young. You don't have to be older to have sagging breasts (obviously) genetics, babies, and weight gain and loss play a huge roll in that.

I am not trying to regain my youth or single days. I have never been one to look for excessive attention from others (male or female) for any reason; I simply want my boobs to look nice in my bathing suit, dress or shirt and not have to worry about adjusting them or having them protrude out at the wrong spots.

Lastly, to question the way I treat or love my daughter is enraging. I am a good mother and spend almost all of my time caring for and making my baby girl happy and healthy. How you can even bring that into the equation based on my original post is befuddling. You were getting way off topic.

Anyways, to all who commented thanks for the "support" LOL and don't let the opinions of one Peon get you riled up; he is entitled to them no matter how skewed, absurd or small-minded they seem.

clanmcfleming

Hi OP, as a mum of three (and breastfed every one) I can sympathise with the loss of your boobs! Some of us are just unlucky to be left with deflated 'balloons' post babies and there is a big difference between a pert A cup and what I seem to be left with now! I dont see anything wrong with breast augmentation. I would only caution rushing to get any work done before your family is complete. Enjoy your little girl and invest in some great underwear in the meantime.

nutellabrah

OP here so after reading through all these great posts (getting a few giggles here and there) I got what I wanted...some opinions from both the "go for it" side and the "accept what you've got" side...

Although Nuttellanuts had a fantastic first post...they all kinda went downhill from there...LOL! Way to stir the pot though dude...you win the Controversy prize fursure...I appreciate the good advice you gave (accepting and being happy with myself) but the rest of the nonsense has gone in one ear and out the other...thank god I have a working filter

Also to clear up some assumptions; I'm not married but I have an amazing boyfriend and father of my daughter who seems quite happy with me the way I am. He tells me this and I have no reason to believe he would lie to me about that. We plan to spend the rest of our lives together wether we get married or not...it honestly is me who has the problem which makes sense; they are my boobs after all. He would also support whatever decision I made as long as it made me happy. He is an amazing man.

To assume I'm older is also wrong; I'm 28 years old, which to me is still pretty damn young. You don't have to be older to have sagging breasts (obviously) genetics, babies, and weight gain and loss play a huge roll in that.

I am not trying to regain my youth or single days. I have never been one to look for excessive attention from others (male or female) for any reason; I simply want my boobs to look nice in my bathing suit, dress or shirt and not have to worry about adjusting them or having them protrude out at the wrong spots.

Lastly, to question the way I treat or love my daughter is enraging. I am a good mother and spend almost all of my time caring for and making my baby girl happy and healthy. How you can even bring that into the equation based on my original post is befuddling. You were getting way off topic.

Anyways, to all who commented thanks for the "support" LOL and don't let the opinions of one Peon get you riled up; he is entitled to them no matter how skewed, absurd or small-minded they seem.

Lol they are just studies I have read in science books and reports.

If you disagree with something I would be glad to link you to a study that helps you understand what I was saying.

ILiftHeavyAcrylics

OP here so after reading through all these great posts (getting a few giggles here and there) I got what I wanted...some opinions from both the "go for it" side and the "accept what you've got" side...

Although Nuttellanuts had a fantastic first post...they all kinda went downhill from there...LOL! Way to stir the pot though dude...you win the Controversy prize fursure...I appreciate the good advice you gave (accepting and being happy with myself) but the rest of the nonsense has gone in one ear and out the other...thank god I have a working filter

Also to clear up some assumptions; I'm not married but I have an amazing boyfriend and father of my daughter who seems quite happy with me the way I am. He tells me this and I have no reason to believe he would lie to me about that. We plan to spend the rest of our lives together wether we get married or not...it honestly is me who has the problem which makes sense; they are my boobs after all. He would also support whatever decision I made as long as it made me happy. He is an amazing man.

To assume I'm older is also wrong; I'm 28 years old, which to me is still pretty damn young. You don't have to be older to have sagging breasts (obviously) genetics, babies, and weight gain and loss play a huge roll in that.

I am not trying to regain my youth or single days. I have never been one to look for excessive attention from others (male or female) for any reason; I simply want my boobs to look nice in my bathing suit, dress or shirt and not have to worry about adjusting them or having them protrude out at the wrong spots.

Lastly, to question the way I treat or love my daughter is enraging. I am a good mother and spend almost all of my time caring for and making my baby girl happy and healthy. How you can even bring that into the equation based on my original post is befuddling. You were getting way off topic.

Anyways, to all who commented thanks for the "support" LOL and don't let the opinions of one Peon get you riled up; he is entitled to them no matter how skewed, absurd or small-minded they seem.

Lol they are just studies I have read in science books and reports.

If you disagree with something I would be glad to link you to a study that helps you understand what I was saying.

I don't think studies are going to change her mind. It's her body. She's entitled to her feelings about it. Studies aren't likely to change that.

nutellabrah

OP here so after reading through all these great posts (getting a few giggles here and there) I got what I wanted...some opinions from both the "go for it" side and the "accept what you've got" side...

Although Nuttellanuts had a fantastic first post...they all kinda went downhill from there...LOL! Way to stir the pot though dude...you win the Controversy prize fursure...I appreciate the good advice you gave (accepting and being happy with myself) but the rest of the nonsense has gone in one ear and out the other...thank god I have a working filter

Also to clear up some assumptions; I'm not married but I have an amazing boyfriend and father of my daughter who seems quite happy with me the way I am. He tells me this and I have no reason to believe he would lie to me about that. We plan to spend the rest of our lives together wether we get married or not...it honestly is me who has the problem which makes sense; they are my boobs after all. He would also support whatever decision I made as long as it made me happy. He is an amazing man.

To assume I'm older is also wrong; I'm 28 years old, which to me is still pretty damn young. You don't have to be older to have sagging breasts (obviously) genetics, babies, and weight gain and loss play a huge roll in that.

I am not trying to regain my youth or single days. I have never been one to look for excessive attention from others (male or female) for any reason; I simply want my boobs to look nice in my bathing suit, dress or shirt and not have to worry about adjusting them or having them protrude out at the wrong spots.

Lastly, to question the way I treat or love my daughter is enraging. I am a good mother and spend almost all of my time caring for and making my baby girl happy and healthy. How you can even bring that into the equation based on my original post is befuddling. You were getting way off topic.

Anyways, to all who commented thanks for the "support" LOL and don't let the opinions of one Peon get you riled up; he is entitled to them no matter how skewed, absurd or small-minded they seem.

Lol they are just studies I have read in science books and reports.

If you disagree with something I would be glad to link you to a study that helps you understand what I was saying.

I don't think studies are going to change her mind. It's her body. She's entitled to her feelings about it. Studies aren't likely to change that.

That's absurd. The best choices are made using sound reasoning and critical thinking skills.

amonpas

Implants only last for so many years. Mammograms you have 8 instead of 4, also need to have an MRI every couple years. There is also a high risk of lots of scar tissue. Be very sure you get all the facts.

daniflems

Thanks! All great information to consider.

chantels1

So glad I found this thread... I just measured for a bra today. I knew I needed a 32" band, but had no idea that I am now an AA cup!!! Haven't been this size since high school, and was hoping to retain a little from being so maternal and breastfeeding 5 kids! UHG!!! I wanna cry! I have considered augmentation, however, the surgery scares me. Where is a good place to shop for cute sexy bras for little tiny breasts?