Dear everyone...

1PatientBear
1PatientBear Posts: 2,089 Member
If you have a problem with your boyfriend/girlfriend/husband/wife, I have a guaranteed solution for you.

*ahem*

TALK TO THEM ABOUT IT!!!!!!!

The issue may not get fixed and you may wind up moving on or breaking up or getting divorced. But at least you'll know if you are on the same page and maybe, just maybe, you'll come to a resolution to whatever the problem was and live happily ever after. But if you never talk to THEM and just complain about it to your friends/mom/MFP, I can pretty much promise it will never get fixed.

Plus, if you never talk to them about it, we have a lot more TL;DR threads to sift through. :angry: :grumble:



Though I do enjoy the kitty GIFs that are the inevitable result of those threads......
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  • Crimson_Fire
    Crimson_Fire Posts: 2,504 Member
    What if the problem is with my FWB? I need to know what to do in that situation.
  • Miska_
    Miska_ Posts: 84
    Thread will fail.

    It is missing key words like "mean".

    This is too Dr. Phil and not enough Maury to survive. Try again.
  • 6ronXtreme9
    6ronXtreme9 Posts: 416 Member
    What if the problem is with my FWB? I need to know what to do in that situation.
    then you should contact me.
  • IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym
    IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym Posts: 5,573 Member
    this thread makes WAY too much sense for today or MFP.
  • redheaddee
    redheaddee Posts: 2,005 Member
    Too. Much. Logic.
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  • mccindy72
    mccindy72 Posts: 7,001 Member
    If you have a problem with your boyfriend/girlfriend/husband/wife, I have a guaranteed solution for you.

    *ahem*

    TALK TO THEM ABOUT IT!!!!!!!

    The issue may not get fixed and you may wind up moving on or breaking up or getting divorced. But at least you'll know if you are on the same page and maybe, just maybe, you'll come to a resolution to whatever the problem was and live happily ever after. But if you never talk to THEM and just complain about it to your friends/mom/MFP, I can pretty much promise it will never get fixed.

    Plus, if you never talk to them about it, we have a lot more TL;DR threads to sift through. :angry: :grumble:



    Though I do enjoy the kitty GIFs that are the inevitable result of those threads......

    What?!? you think spouses should.... gasp... talk to each other? WTF? it's obviously much easier to rant about them online.
  • WeepingAngel81
    WeepingAngel81 Posts: 2,232 Member
    TL;DR

    Just break up
  • mccindy72
    mccindy72 Posts: 7,001 Member
    and here's the obligatory kitteh gif. giphy.gif
  • Mia_RagazzaTosta
    Mia_RagazzaTosta Posts: 4,885 Member
    Can I do it by email?
  • Rage_Phish
    Rage_Phish Posts: 1,507 Member
    no reasons not to have a rational conversation with others on the issue before approaching you significant other. many people get advice from friends, parents, siblings, therapists and the like on such things. and some people would like to do it anonymously on the internet.
  • madhatter2013
    madhatter2013 Posts: 1,547 Member
    and here's the obligatory kitteh gif. giphy.gif

    That cat just doesn't seem to care
  • WeepingAngel81
    WeepingAngel81 Posts: 2,232 Member
    Can I do it by email?

    According MFP kik is far more affective
  • Crimson_Fire
    Crimson_Fire Posts: 2,504 Member
    Can I do it by email?

    According MFP kik is far more affective
    Correct. kik is the definite way to go.
  • Justifier
    Justifier Posts: 336 Member
    But how can I be passive aggressive online when I have to confront my problems head on?!?!
  • SymphonynSonata
    SymphonynSonata Posts: 533 Member
    Can I do it by email?

    According MFP kik is far more affective

    Is that a typo for lol?
  • MiloBloom83
    MiloBloom83 Posts: 2,724 Member
    Can I do it by email?

    According MFP kik is far more affective
    Correct. kik is the definite way to go.

    Stop derailing this thread with your kik talk. There are(at minimum) two other kik threads going on MFP as we speak!
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  • WeepingAngel81
    WeepingAngel81 Posts: 2,232 Member
    Can I do it by email?

    According MFP kik is far more affective
    Correct. kik is the definite way to go.

    Stop derailing this thread with your kik talk. There are(at minimum) two other kik threads going on MFP as we speak!

    I was just trying to give solid MFP relationship advice *kicks rocks*
  • ILiftHeavyAcrylics
    ILiftHeavyAcrylics Posts: 27,732 Member
    I wish this were like a talk show where we could go back and get updates from people who've posted threads requesting relationship advice.

    Where are they now...

    I'd like to see a reveal of how many were real and how many were troll.


    And how many were a complete misrepresentation of what happened (my guess, 80%)
  • mccindy72
    mccindy72 Posts: 7,001 Member
    Can I do it by email?

    According MFP kik is far more affective
    Correct. kik is the definite way to go.

    Stop derailing this thread with your kik talk. There are(at minimum) two other kik threads going on MFP as we speak!

    I think there are four.
  • Mia_RagazzaTosta
    Mia_RagazzaTosta Posts: 4,885 Member
    I wish this were like a talk show where we could go back and get updates from people who've posted threads requesting relationship advice.

    Where are they now...

    I'd like to see a reveal of how many were real and how many were troll.


    And how many were a complete misrepresentation of what happened (my guess, 80%)

    Yeah, where's that lady that was having a threesome with her friend's husband and her own? I want the update on THAT one.
  • what if i'm deaf and he's mute?


    SRS
  • WeepingAngel81
    WeepingAngel81 Posts: 2,232 Member
    I wish this were like a talk show where we could go back and get updates from people who've posted threads requesting relationship advice.

    Where are they now...

    I'd like to see a reveal of how many were real and how many were troll.


    And how many were a complete misrepresentation of what happened (my guess, 80%)

    Yeah, where's that lady that was having a threesome with her friend's husband and her own? I want the update on THAT one.

    Oh! I forgot about that one! That one was good!
  • MissKim78
    MissKim78 Posts: 426 Member
    I didn't even know KIK still existed.....I thought it went into the BBM abyss.....:noway: :huh:
  • Crimson_Fire
    Crimson_Fire Posts: 2,504 Member
    Can I do it by email?

    According MFP kik is far more affective
    Correct. kik is the definite way to go.

    Stop derailing this thread with your kik talk. There are(at minimum) two other kik threads going on MFP as we speak!
    sorry_zpsecd6bd3d.jpg
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  • WeepingAngel81
    WeepingAngel81 Posts: 2,232 Member
    Can I do it by email?

    According MFP kik is far more affective
    Correct. kik is the definite way to go.

    Stop derailing this thread with your kik talk. There are(at minimum) two other kik threads going on MFP as we speak!
    sorry_zpsecd6bd3d.jpg

    yeah...what she said
  • ChristinaOrtiz23
    ChristinaOrtiz23 Posts: 1,546 Member
    maybe they have or going to and would like some advice!!

    Ever thought of that mmmmmm :wink:

    Oh wait, i forgot, we cant ask for advice on the forums!!! Oh my fault, guess i didn't read the fine print!! :ohwell:
  • MissKim78
    MissKim78 Posts: 426 Member
    Can I do it by email?

    According MFP kik is far more affective
    Correct. kik is the definite way to go.

    Stop derailing this thread with your kik talk. There are(at minimum) two other kik threads going on MFP as we speak!
    sorry_zpsecd6bd3d.jpg

    yeah...what she said


    Oops....my bad....what they said...