Bringing Dog to Gym
MayaDyra
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I've been bringing my dog to the gym but it's not allowed 
and they've threatened to end my membership. It's kind of hard for me to not bring my dog, because I was sexually assaulted 2 weeks ago and I don't really feel safe going out without the dog, I mean I could do it but it would be very very difficult and I probably would end up not going but I really need to go because I feel bad about my weight. At the same time if they end it I could potentially shop around for another gym. There's one I have in mind that includes a pool. At the same time this gym I'm at has Les Mills body pump classes and I know that helps to lose weight. Thoughts?
and they've threatened to end my membership. It's kind of hard for me to not bring my dog, because I was sexually assaulted 2 weeks ago and I don't really feel safe going out without the dog, I mean I could do it but it would be very very difficult and I probably would end up not going but I really need to go because I feel bad about my weight. At the same time if they end it I could potentially shop around for another gym. There's one I have in mind that includes a pool. At the same time this gym I'm at has Les Mills body pump classes and I know that helps to lose weight. Thoughts? 0
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get the dog registered as a therapy dog0
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Can I do that for a beagle?0
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If it is against the rules, it is against the rules. I would end my membership in a gym that allowed pets, I have allergies. My daughter is terrified of dogs and she would panic if someone showed up at the gym with a pet. Find a place where the dog is welcome, which means that it will not be also an unpleasant surprised for other members.0
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I know a girl who has her dog registered as a service animal. They cannot refuse service or entry to any business or establishment if the dog can pass the registry tests.
Edit: I'm so sorry to hear about your sexual assault as well. I hope you are coping well and getting the help you need, as well as serving justice to the person who has done this to you.0 -
Can I do that for a beagle?
You can do it for any dog. It isn't a "protection" dog, it's a dog to help you feel calm and relaxed. You could register a chihuahua or a great dane
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I would definitely do what others have suggested and register your dog as an emotional support animal. Apparently it's quite easy to do, you just have to pay a small fee, and once you do it you can't be denied entry to places and landlords can't refuse to rent to you because of your dog either.
I'm sorry about your traumatic experience also... I'm glad your canine friend can help you feel safe.0 -
Wow thank you for the supportive comments (I've had 2 sessions with a therapist)....I like that I could register it was an emotional support dog. So, how does this usually work? Do you go through a government agency or your vet? I live in Taiwan, but I'd like to get an idea...of how it generally works.0
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Wow thank you for the supportive comments (I've had 2 sessions with a therapist)....I like that I could register it was an emotional support dog. So, how does this usually work? Do you go through a government agency or your vet? I live in Taiwan, but I'd like to get an idea...of how it generally works.
Try typing the key words into google, such as
"Emotional support dog registry taiwan" or your specific area. It should link you to a place that does it near your home.0 -
I never tried bringing my dog to the gym but I know people who, just like what other people have already said here, registered their dogs as therapy or something.0
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That's understandable. Having your dog with you feels safe...why don't you try going with a friend?0
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There was a woman I know who brought her service dogs in- she trained them for that work- and she had permission from the gym- it was a none issue- she came in- did a half *kitten* workout to work with the dog- took the dog home and came back and actually worked out.
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I haven't found anything by searching that. Sigh I guess I'll just tie up my dog outside or something Last time one of the staff tied my dog really far as a joke and I asked them and the people at the front desk were laughing at me and they said it must have run away. I left the gym and was ready to file a report about the dog being gone but I went back into the gym to use the bathroom and the guy finally told me he tied it at the back of the building
Sigh. They don't understand.
I'm not not real or pulling anyone's leg. I just joined today and I would like to be able to talk about what is sincerely on my mind re: fitness and my body image without fearing that people will say I'm not sincere. I do have a very negative body image now and I'm very sensitive after Kazik ended our friendship at a very bad time for me. Thanks for all the supportive and kind comments though
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your poor dog. please dont bring him to the gym if you are going to leave him outside for anyone to abuse him.0
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I'm probably going to sound like a huge b here but I'm gonna be real... I was sexually assaulted. I didn't leave the house for weeks until I started working out. Even after I started leaving the house, I would have flashbacks standing at the bus stop. Bringing your dog is against the rules of your gym and it's that way for a reason. Also as a owner of two dogs, I think it is neglectful as a owner to leave your dog outside while you work out at the gym. Try to find a friend or maybe a super nice staff member who will walk with you to your car or bus stop.
Edit to say that I'm also really sorry this happened to you. I know it's not easy but know you are not alone. Are you seeing a counsellor or therapist? They can help you talk your feelings/fears out such as not being able to walk alone without your dog.0 -
^agreed.
I'm sorry hun but you need more than a dog right now. You need a friend and some family and some therapy.
Breaking the rules isn't the way to go right now. They are there for a reason. I'm also a little concerned about how you are being treated at your gym? Try to get someone to talk to so that you may try to act in a manner more rational and consistent with social mores so that your recent assault does not put you in the position to be victimized further.
Please do not think of yourself as "deserving" special treatment or rules to be broken no matter how much you feel you need it right now. That is a victim mentality and is not the direction you want to go. Take steps toward feeling your empowerment again and following the rules and blending in with society is one step in the right direction.
I'm a little taken aback that people register their dogs for reasons other than physical, blindness, or something the seems more relevant to what a dog can help with. Now I know how all these mofo's where I live are calling there dogs service dogs. I recently had a lady on a cane telling me her 3 legged six inch high pug was a service dog? Umm sersly HOW does that little thing HELP you walk, it looks more like something you might trip over and I am concerned for BOTH your safety.0 -
I doubt any gym will allow your dog unless it's a service animal, so switching gyms would probably be pointless. You'll just be in the same situation. I worked in commercial aviation for a number of years and I believe your dog could qualify as an emotional support pet, which is kind of like a service animal. They aren't usually trained to assist you with anything. I don't think the breed matters for service animals or emotional support animals, but I'm not sure your dog would be categorized as a service animal as it isn't trained to perform any tasks for you. With emotional support animals, the user was supposed to have documentation from a licensed mental health professional under who's care the person has been in at least sometime within a year. The documentation was supposed to sight that the animal is part of your care and required for your mental health. I'm not suggesting you have an mental illness or anything, but if you were recently assaulted I would think you may be working with a mental health professional to work through the aftermath of that.0
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First of all, I am very sorry for your situation and hope that you can get some peace.
People bring their dogs to CrossFit and I am allergic to dogs. The dander stays on the mats and in the air. I had an allergy attack and a bloody nose that lasted 18 hours after a recent hard workout.
I have been assaulted and I have guns that make me feel more comfortable but I don't take them in the gym. Dogs are not people and for me, they can be severely debilitating. I can't go to social events (parties) where dogs are present and when I go to family members' houses, I have to wear a mask. People act like I'm mean because I am severely allergic to dogs. I can understand that in someone's home but seriously, in a public place I have just as much right to be healthy as anyone else.0 -
This sounds like an excellent way to get someone else or your dog really hurt.0
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I'm a little taken aback that people register their dogs for reasons other than physical, blindness, or something the seems more relevant to what a dog can help with. Now I know how all these mofo's where I live are calling there dogs service dogs. I recently had a lady on a cane telling me her 3 legged six inch high pug was a service dog? Umm sersly HOW does that little thing HELP you walk, it looks more like something you might trip over and I am concerned for BOTH your safety.
I agree that lots of people claim their animals are service dogs just to be able to take them places, but remember that not all disabilities can be seen. I have a friend with severe diabetes, and her little dog can smell the changes in her blood sugar and alert her that she's getting ready to have an incident.0 -
I am very sorry to hear that this happened to you.
However, you still need to follow the rules. I understand that it is terrifying right now, and that you are overwhelmed. At the same time, it's good to know you are still trying to get out of the house. I am also glad to hear that you are in therapy for the assault. That will help you far more than bringing your dog to the gym.
Keep in mind that not everyone is a dog lover. Not everyone will know your story. Not everyone will be empathetic. I get that you are not happy with your weight, but perhaps working out with a friend will be better for you. The gym is not a place for a dog, and to use your dog as a crutch will only slow the healing on your end.0 -
This sounds like an excellent way to get someone else or your dog really hurt.
This. Gyms are too dangerous for animals.0 -
First of all, I'm really sorry to hear that you were sexually assaulted. That's completely horrible, and I hope you're able to get the help you need and that the person responsible is being held accountable.
As to your question, unfortunately it seems reasonable for the gym to insist you not bring your dog. I bring my dog almost everywhere with me (she's even listed as staff on the Team page at the software company I work for). But I can think of at least a couple sensible reasons a dog doesn't belong at a gym. Dog hair + sweat is gross, and it isn't fair or reasonable to expect strangers to deal with that. Secondly, some people have severe allergies. Making it uncomfortable or even difficult for them to breathe while they're working out means that they're now in a position where they're not really getting what they pay for with a gym membership. (I really don't meant to sound unsympathetic, I've been raped and I truly can empathize with the feelings of fear and powerlessness that follow.)
I understand that having your dog near you is fantastic for dealing with anxiety (that's part of why I bring my dog with me so much). But in terms of protection a beagle isn't going to do anything if you're actually threatened.
If your motivation for wanting your dog with you is psychological rather than as a physical defense, you may want to follow the advice of other posters and investigate certification as a therapy dog.
One of my father's dogs is a certified therapy dog so I can tell you from experience they have to be extremely calm in all situations, and capable of maintaining attention despite distractions. Part of the testing will involve startling your dog, including shoving it around a little bit (about as lightly as you'd shove a dog trying to get it into the car once s/he figures out you're going to the vet and not the park). Your dog will be handled abruptly by strangers, exposed to new situations and noises, and will have to maintain total calm throughout.
Whatever you decide to do I wish you the best.0 -
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^ Appropriate....
But yeah, like I said I have dogs and to be honest, I can't stand dog hair. I can totally empathize with people who either dislike dogs or have allergies because of this. Couldn't imagine it in a gym.0 -
You're right about some people are allergic to dogs
Thanks for the supportive comments
NoxDineen, I'm really really really sorry to hear that you were raped
How long is the feelings of fear and helplessness going to last? I want them to go away, IDK what to do, I have to deal with this ****e on my own and I don't know how to feel normal again, it's now 4 am in Taiwan and I'm not tired but I"m going to try to sleep....I blame myself, if I was thinner Kazimierz would not have stopped being my friend...I would have gone to London in December and he would have protected me because he is physically strong....it's all my fault...he would tell me all this stuff like he enjoys talking to me and when am I coming to London but at the end of the day he decided to cut off contact with me because of my weight...the day that the guy was at my house I called him over and over and he ignored me...he didn't know what had happened but he ignored me even though I never would call over and over like that...and he ignored me for 1.5 weeks and finally I called him from a UK number and he picked up right away and when I said why are you ignoring me, he hung up.....I feel so alone and scared all the time and the feeling is not going away and I don't even remember what the heck the therapist said and I just wish I had been good enough for Kazik, imagine how much safer I would feel right now if I had just been thinner and didn't disgust him0 -
You're right about some people are allergic to dogs
Thanks for the supportive comments
NoxDineen, I'm really really really sorry to hear that you were raped
How long is the feelings of fear and helplessness going to last? I want them to go away, IDK what to do, I have to deal with this ****e on my own and I don't know how to feel normal again, it's now 4 am in Taiwan and I'm not tired but I"m going to try to sleep....I blame myself, if I was thinner Kazimierz would not have stopped being my friend...I would have gone to London in December and he would have protected me because he is physically strong....it's all my fault...he would tell me all this stuff like he enjoys talking to me and when am I coming to London but at the end of the day he decided to cut off contact with me because of my weight...the day that the guy was at my house I called him over and over and he ignored me...he didn't know what had happened but he ignored me even though I never would call over and over like that...and he ignored me for 1.5 weeks and finally I called him from a UK number and he picked up right away and when I said why are you ignoring me, he hung up.....I feel so alone and scared all the time and the feeling is not going away and I don't even remember what the heck the therapist said and I just wish I had been good enough for Kazik, imagine how much safer I would feel right now if I had just been thinner and didn't disgust him
why are you carrying on and mooning over some guy ?0 -
he decided to cut off contact with me because he was a *kitten*..
fixed that for you
the feelings never really go away- they just change- the experience will always be with you unfortunately- I found the way you look at it- and process it is what changes.I want them to go away
you should never blame yourself for someone else's decision to harm you- physically or verbally.I blame myself
You need professional help- what you need and are looking for will not be found here my dear.
I'm deeply sorry for you-it's a difficult thing to deal with - but you really need to see someone professionally to help you with this- this is not the place.0 -
You're right about some people are allergic to dogs
Thanks for the supportive comments
NoxDineen, I'm really really really sorry to hear that you were raped
How long is the feelings of fear and helplessness going to last? I want them to go away, IDK what to do, I have to deal with this ****e on my own and I don't know how to feel normal again, it's now 4 am in Taiwan and I'm not tired but I"m going to try to sleep....I blame myself, if I was thinner Kazimierz would not have stopped being my friend...I would have gone to London in December and he would have protected me because he is physically strong....it's all my fault...he would tell me all this stuff like he enjoys talking to me and when am I coming to London but at the end of the day he decided to cut off contact with me because of my weight...the day that the guy was at my house I called him over and over and he ignored me...he didn't know what had happened but he ignored me even though I never would call over and over like that...and he ignored me for 1.5 weeks and finally I called him from a UK number and he picked up right away and when I said why are you ignoring me, he hung up.....I feel so alone and scared all the time and the feeling is not going away and I don't even remember what the heck the therapist said and I just wish I had been good enough for Kazik, imagine how much safer I would feel right now if I had just been thinner and didn't disgust him
why are you carrying on and mooning over some guy who is a d!ckhead?
Tell me you're kidding.....
While I agree that this guy was a d!ckhead to her, the reason she is "carrying on and mooning" is because she currently feels victimized and is trying to her hardest to find reason why. The reasoning is incorrect, yes, but that is still part of the process that she will go through to heal.0 -
You're right about some people are allergic to dogs
Thanks for the supportive comments
NoxDineen, I'm really really really sorry to hear that you were raped
How long is the feelings of fear and helplessness going to last? I want them to go away, IDK what to do, I have to deal with this ****e on my own and I don't know how to feel normal again, it's now 4 am in Taiwan and I'm not tired but I"m going to try to sleep....I blame myself, if I was thinner Kazimierz would not have stopped being my friend...I would have gone to London in December and he would have protected me because he is physically strong....it's all my fault...he would tell me all this stuff like he enjoys talking to me and when am I coming to London but at the end of the day he decided to cut off contact with me because of my weight...the day that the guy was at my house I called him over and over and he ignored me...he didn't know what had happened but he ignored me even though I never would call over and over like that...and he ignored me for 1.5 weeks and finally I called him from a UK number and he picked up right away and when I said why are you ignoring me, he hung up.....I feel so alone and scared all the time and the feeling is not going away and I don't even remember what the heck the therapist said and I just wish I had been good enough for Kazik, imagine how much safer I would feel right now if I had just been thinner and didn't disgust him
why are you carrying on and mooning over some guy who is a d!ckhead?
Tell me you're kidding.....
While I agree that this guy was a d!ckhead to her, the reason she is "carrying on and mooning" is because she currently feels victimized and is trying to her hardest to find reason why. The reasoning is incorrect, yes, but that is still part of the process that she will go through to heal.
No, I'm not kidding.
What happened IS NOT HER FAULT!!!
And the guy is a complete *kitten* to tell her he dropped her because of her weight. From her picture, it looks like she's normal sized.0 -
You're right about some people are allergic to dogs
Thanks for the supportive comments
NoxDineen, I'm really really really sorry to hear that you were raped
How long is the feelings of fear and helplessness going to last? I want them to go away, IDK what to do, I have to deal with this ****e on my own and I don't know how to feel normal again, it's now 4 am in Taiwan and I'm not tired but I"m going to try to sleep....I blame myself, if I was thinner Kazimierz would not have stopped being my friend...I would have gone to London in December and he would have protected me because he is physically strong....it's all my fault...he would tell me all this stuff like he enjoys talking to me and when am I coming to London but at the end of the day he decided to cut off contact with me because of my weight...the day that the guy was at my house I called him over and over and he ignored me...he didn't know what had happened but he ignored me even though I never would call over and over like that...and he ignored me for 1.5 weeks and finally I called him from a UK number and he picked up right away and when I said why are you ignoring me, he hung up.....I feel so alone and scared all the time and the feeling is not going away and I don't even remember what the heck the therapist said and I just wish I had been good enough for Kazik, imagine how much safer I would feel right now if I had just been thinner and didn't disgust him
why are you carrying on and mooning over some guy who is a d!ckhead?
Tell me you're kidding.....
While I agree that this guy was a d!ckhead to her, the reason she is "carrying on and mooning" is because she currently feels victimized and is trying to her hardest to find reason why. The reasoning is incorrect, yes, but that is still part of the process that she will go through to heal.
No, I'm not kidding.
What happened IS NOT HER FAULT!!!
And the guy is a complete *kitten* to tell her he dropped her because of her weight. From her picture, it looks like she's normal sized.
I'm not disagreeing with you on that. But basically telling her to stop feeling something that she needs to feel in order to move on isn't going to help. She needs to come to grips with these feelings and realize that she is not in the wrong and never was. That takes time, tears, patience, and in her case some therapy.0
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