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Do you get hit on?

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  • Pirate_chick
    Pirate_chick Posts: 1,216 Member
    150 to believe it or not 250lbs yes, all the time. 250+ very rarely.
  • LankyYankee
    LankyYankee Posts: 260 Member
    If I do, I don't know about it.

    But ummmm, you're married? Why would you want to get hit on?
  • NikiaSue
    NikiaSue Posts: 259 Member
    Does an old man telling me "My, you look mighty Savory today" count?
  • ninerbuff
    ninerbuff Posts: 49,024 Member
    Yeah from time to time. I don't wear my wedding ring IN the gym (bars and grips scratch it all up), so I think some believe I'm still single.

    A.C.E. Certified Personal and Group Fitness Trainer
    IDEA Fitness member
    Kickboxing Certified Instructor
    Been in fitness industry for 30 years and have studied kinesiology and nutrition
  • highervibes
    highervibes Posts: 2,219 Member
    I get hit on all the time but I'm pretty sure the same way dogs sense fear, men sense non-interest because the less I want them to the more they do. Sadly the only guy I'd WANT to hit on me was previously friend-zoned so it's on me lol
  • _lyndseybrooke_
    _lyndseybrooke_ Posts: 2,561 Member
    If I do, I don't know about it.

    But ummmm, you're married? Why would you want to get hit on?

    Did you read my post?

    I said I'm not heartbroken about it but it makes me wonder what keeps guys from approaching me. I have no interest in them, but it's off-putting to see every girl I'm with getting hit on but me, even the other married ladies. I don't cry myself to sleep thinking about it or anything...

    Plus, getting hit on is flattering, single or not.
  • redtreediary
    redtreediary Posts: 69 Member
    I think a lot of it has to do with your willingness to make eye contact.
  • wolfsbayne
    wolfsbayne Posts: 3,116 Member
    Only at the gym...doodz be mirin my lifts :bigsmile:

    j/k
  • MapleFlavouredMaiden
    MapleFlavouredMaiden Posts: 595 Member
    Where do you all live?!? I live in Canada where we are all supposed to be polite but I get hit on even when I'm with a guy. Mind you, they politely ask his permission to dance with me or whatever but it still happens. Maybe Canadian boys just want us girls to feel good about ourselves because they are so considerate and all. :)

    I have been told multiple times that I "drip sex" though.... so there's that. Perhaps I don't look "smart" or "high maintenance" enough.
  • ekz13
    ekz13 Posts: 725 Member
    nope
  • _lyndseybrooke_
    _lyndseybrooke_ Posts: 2,561 Member
    I think a lot of it has to do with your willingness to make eye contact.

    Hm, you could be right about that. Good call.
  • wolfsbayne
    wolfsbayne Posts: 3,116 Member
    Does an old man telling me "My, you look mighty Savory today" count?

    :laugh: :laugh:
  • Myhaloslipped
    Myhaloslipped Posts: 4,317 Member
    Yes.
  • trojan_bb
    trojan_bb Posts: 699 Member
    Online only. Except once in a blue moon.
  • segastler
    segastler Posts: 207 Member
    Only when wearing a low cut shirt. Which is rarely. And even then, most people only talk to my boobs.

    They suck suck SUCK! After I am done having kids, They are getting hacked off!!
  • establishingaplace
    establishingaplace Posts: 301 Member
    I think it has to do with how approachable you seem. I have been told that I come across as very approachable. I have had complete strangers break into their life story after a hello and how are you. I get hit on more as I lose more weight, but I'm hardly textbook attractive or have a great body.
  • Vicxie86
    Vicxie86 Posts: 181 Member
    I get stared at everyday like a permanent madam tussauds figurine BUT men are intimidated by my 6'2 height coupled with 1-3inch heels on. I've been told i come across as a "do not mess with me, i am serious" kind of girl and while some of that might be true but it would only apply in an argument, same as with anyone else. I have a rather laid back personality, very sarcastic and just enjoy laughing but do i get hit on? Nope!
  • generallyme2
    generallyme2 Posts: 403 Member
    Yes, I do. Even after being married almost 14 years ;) . One of my favorites was at 2 am in a pizza joint and I was feeling kind of meh and tired and this guy came up and he said, "I know you're married (he could see my ring I'm sure), but I just wanted to let you know that you're really beautiful." It was really nice and I thanked him and it really brightened up my night.

    I've noticed it's a lot about the vibe you put out. If you're acting stuck up or sullen or like you're trying to ignore guys, they probably won't hit on you, but if you are relaxed and smiling- even look over and smile at one (even if you're married, a smile is no harm done as long as you're not taking it farther or trying to hide that you're married!). Since some guy DID say something and you commented on here 'uh, is that supposed to be a compliment', I'm guessing you put off a 'leave me alone' vibe. Go have fun with your girls, smile, and don't worry about the other stuff!
  • TheStephil
    TheStephil Posts: 858 Member
    My boyfriend hits on me all the time. But seriously, nope. I'm usually either with my boyfriend or with a guy family member though and rarely out by myself or with other ladies. On the rare occasion I've been hit on in the past it blew right over my head and I had to be told I was being hit on afterwards by a friend.
  • salembambi
    salembambi Posts: 5,585 Member
    Does an old man telling me "My, you look mighty Savory today" count?

    purfect
  • irleshay
    irleshay Posts: 102 Member
    More when I was younger, not a lot anymore. When I was about 23 I got propositioned by a woman and man in a nightclub bathroom who said they were married. (I doubted that.)
    Nowadays if it happens I either find the person creepy or I'm caught off guard like a deer in headlights. lol I'm also not single.
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  • DemetraDawn
    DemetraDawn Posts: 60 Member
    I do, but I don't see myself as worthy of getting hit on, so its even more uncomfortable and awkward than it might otherwise be.
  • dcroberts3
    dcroberts3 Posts: 8 Member
    Nope. You're really cute. I rarely get hit on too anymore since right before I got married. A lot definitely has to do with how you dress and making eye-contact with people. I don't make eye-contact with people I think might hit on me and when they do I keep on walkin! LOL. I will say that I worked with one girl (we were the only two 'young' girls there and it was with the public). I'd say we were comparable pretty wise and people asked if we were sisters. She was shorter (I'm not tall--5'5) and she was getting pretty chubby. BUT, she wore cleavage shirts and 'flirted' or at least acted flirty with everyone. She got hit on ALL the time! And me, rarely. Also, I do realize some people like girls a little more thick, but I think it was because I didn't act flirty at all and didn't make much eye contact. So, don't feel like it has anything to do with how pretty/fit you are!
  • SpeSHul_SnoflEHk
    SpeSHul_SnoflEHk Posts: 6,256 Member
    Wow! I could have written this same thing about myself! Come on let's paddle this boat together! :)


    Hey! I've hit on you before. You just rebuff my advances.
  • chloeealicee
    chloeealicee Posts: 204 Member
    Never ever ever but i get more than enough attention from my boyfriend to let that bother me :laugh:
  • EEfromJersey
    EEfromJersey Posts: 219 Member
    No I need some help with this.
  • redtreediary
    redtreediary Posts: 69 Member
    Does an old man telling me "My, you look mighty Savory today" count?

    Awww. You lost a chance to be Grandpa's Little Sausage!


    *runs away screaming*
  • SpeSHul_SnoflEHk
    SpeSHul_SnoflEHk Posts: 6,256 Member
    Oh. And yes. yes I do.

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