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Do you get hit on?



  • Pirate_chickPirate_chick Posts: 1,228Member, Premium Member Posts: 1,228Member, Premium Member
    150 to believe it or not 250lbs yes, all the time. 250+ very rarely.
  • LankyYankeeLankyYankee Posts: 260Member Member Posts: 260Member Member
    If I do, I don't know about it.

    But ummmm, you're married? Why would you want to get hit on?
  • NikiaSueNikiaSue Posts: 287Member Member Posts: 287Member Member
    Does an old man telling me "My, you look mighty Savory today" count?
  • ninerbuffninerbuff Posts: 42,736Member, Greeter Member Posts: 42,736Member, Greeter Member
    Yeah from time to time. I don't wear my wedding ring IN the gym (bars and grips scratch it all up), so I think some believe I'm still single.

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  • highervibeshighervibes Posts: 2,219Member Member Posts: 2,219Member Member
    I get hit on all the time but I'm pretty sure the same way dogs sense fear, men sense non-interest because the less I want them to the more they do. Sadly the only guy I'd WANT to hit on me was previously friend-zoned so it's on me lol
  • _lyndseybrooke__lyndseybrooke_ Posts: 2,570Member Member Posts: 2,570Member Member
    If I do, I don't know about it.

    But ummmm, you're married? Why would you want to get hit on?

    Did you read my post?

    I said I'm not heartbroken about it but it makes me wonder what keeps guys from approaching me. I have no interest in them, but it's off-putting to see every girl I'm with getting hit on but me, even the other married ladies. I don't cry myself to sleep thinking about it or anything...

    Plus, getting hit on is flattering, single or not.
  • redtreediaryredtreediary Posts: 69Member Member Posts: 69Member Member
    I think a lot of it has to do with your willingness to make eye contact.
  • wolfsbaynewolfsbayne Posts: 3,139Member Member Posts: 3,139Member Member
    Only at the gym...doodz be mirin my lifts :bigsmile:

  • MapleFlavouredMaidenMapleFlavouredMaiden Posts: 595Member Member Posts: 595Member Member
    Where do you all live?!? I live in Canada where we are all supposed to be polite but I get hit on even when I'm with a guy. Mind you, they politely ask his permission to dance with me or whatever but it still happens. Maybe Canadian boys just want us girls to feel good about ourselves because they are so considerate and all. :)

    I have been told multiple times that I "drip sex" though.... so there's that. Perhaps I don't look "smart" or "high maintenance" enough.
  • BigRedgw2010BigRedgw2010 Posts: 127Member Member Posts: 127Member Member
    I got hit by a car once....does that count? :-)
  • ekz13ekz13 Posts: 725Member Member Posts: 725Member Member
  • _lyndseybrooke__lyndseybrooke_ Posts: 2,570Member Member Posts: 2,570Member Member
    I think a lot of it has to do with your willingness to make eye contact.

    Hm, you could be right about that. Good call.
  • wolfsbaynewolfsbayne Posts: 3,139Member Member Posts: 3,139Member Member
    Does an old man telling me "My, you look mighty Savory today" count?

    :laugh: :laugh:
  • MyhaloslippedMyhaloslipped Posts: 4,359Member Member Posts: 4,359Member Member
  • trojan_bbtrojan_bb Posts: 699Member Member Posts: 699Member Member
    Online only. Except once in a blue moon.
  • segastlersegastler Posts: 207Member, Premium Member Posts: 207Member, Premium Member
    Only when wearing a low cut shirt. Which is rarely. And even then, most people only talk to my boobs.

    They suck suck SUCK! After I am done having kids, They are getting hacked off!!
  • establishingaplaceestablishingaplace Posts: 301Member Member Posts: 301Member Member
    I think it has to do with how approachable you seem. I have been told that I come across as very approachable. I have had complete strangers break into their life story after a hello and how are you. I get hit on more as I lose more weight, but I'm hardly textbook attractive or have a great body.
  • Vicxie86Vicxie86 Posts: 181Member Member Posts: 181Member Member
    I get stared at everyday like a permanent madam tussauds figurine BUT men are intimidated by my 6'2 height coupled with 1-3inch heels on. I've been told i come across as a "do not mess with me, i am serious" kind of girl and while some of that might be true but it would only apply in an argument, same as with anyone else. I have a rather laid back personality, very sarcastic and just enjoy laughing but do i get hit on? Nope!
  • generallyme2generallyme2 Posts: 392Member Member Posts: 392Member Member
    Yes, I do. Even after being married almost 14 years ;) . One of my favorites was at 2 am in a pizza joint and I was feeling kind of meh and tired and this guy came up and he said, "I know you're married (he could see my ring I'm sure), but I just wanted to let you know that you're really beautiful." It was really nice and I thanked him and it really brightened up my night.

    I've noticed it's a lot about the vibe you put out. If you're acting stuck up or sullen or like you're trying to ignore guys, they probably won't hit on you, but if you are relaxed and smiling- even look over and smile at one (even if you're married, a smile is no harm done as long as you're not taking it farther or trying to hide that you're married!). Since some guy DID say something and you commented on here 'uh, is that supposed to be a compliment', I'm guessing you put off a 'leave me alone' vibe. Go have fun with your girls, smile, and don't worry about the other stuff!
  • TheStephilTheStephil Posts: 883Member Member Posts: 883Member Member
    My boyfriend hits on me all the time. But seriously, nope. I'm usually either with my boyfriend or with a guy family member though and rarely out by myself or with other ladies. On the rare occasion I've been hit on in the past it blew right over my head and I had to be told I was being hit on afterwards by a friend.
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