Do you get hit on?

subcounter

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Tigg_er

I'm always dreaming

PrincessTinyheart

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William4MVP

Nah but I got a gf I'm set in that department anyways

pandacutie372

All the freaking time

Xvapor

I got hit on last night ... I'm still hurting

my_name_is_erika

Almost go hit on today ... but I chickened out and left !!!

lorisisler

I never get hit on!

seepersaud

sometimes

Xvapor

Men are smart

kwph

As soon as I see someone about to hit on me I yell "stranger danger" .....So I don't think that's helping my stats

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MegaTunez11

no one likes me so no

Speziface

I'm...not really sure. Sometimes I think the ladies who sell me my iced tea in the morning are, but I certainly can't tell for sure.

ExileFromTheNorth

I wouldn't know what being hit on means - I can honestly say I've never been chatted up in a bar.

And I've never used a chat up line either.

Aclaire88

PrincessTinyheart wrote: »

ACHynson wrote: »

I get attention from men each time I go out socially (bars, social clubs & events). I'm happily married so it's not for trying.

My friends comment on it a lot, they find it funny but annoying and we've asked male friends about it and their answer is usually along the lines of 'cute & blonde' or having a 'girl next door' look. Not every guy goes for that type.

Things that might help girls (who want to) get hit on:

- Environment! "The club isn't the best place to find a lover so the bar is where I go!" E.S
- Being Blonde
- Having a baby face (genetics)
- Having a small - med build (also partially genetics)
- Don't overdo makeup
- Dress nice/cute but not "sexy" (massive heels and a mini dress might be intimidating?)
- Be cofident, happy and smile
- Don't try

Attraction is shallow but if you're friendly & polite you're more approachable. Whether these men are actually worth your time is another question!!

Any thoughts?

Well, some of this is things that we can't help... I'm tall and somewhat big-boned and definitely do NOT have a baby face, so that eliminates chicks like us, LOL. As for being blonde, I can tell you that most of the men I've been attracted to have favored brunettes and redheads so YMMV on that one.

That being said, when you consider the fact that I very rarely got hit on before I was married, your post is probably 100% right on the money

Awww @PrincessTinyheart no eliminations necessary! They are not the ONLY reasons girls get picked up, It's just a list based on MY experience. I agree, it is different for everyone, men & women.

There are so many amazing people out there in all different shapes, sizes and colours. No one can be put in a box and i don't think there's a simple 'pick up algorithm'

Anyway, that's my contribution to the discussion, we should just remember being hit on isn't a sign of beauty or value.

Aclaire88

acajunintexas wrote: »

JONZ64 wrote: »

PrincessTinyheart wrote: »

I haven't gotten hit on since I've gotten married... I do get strange, vaguely left-handed compliments/passive-aggressive insults from men once in awhile but I chalk that up to social awkwardness, LOL. Before meeting my husband, I was very rarely hit on. I think I exude a natural repellant or something.

Funny how that works, before I had a ring on my finger I was rarely hit on, once I had it I got hit on twice as much lol

I've heard of single men who wear a fake wedding band to go out to clubs because they get more attention from women when they wear one!

My husband has gotten more attention too since getting married! At work mostly, what vixens!

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kwph

No ,but I'm gonna try harder this week ...I swear

VanishingNachos

@synchkat hits on me all the time - kinda embarrassing really~

BeefyUk

Only by much younger women , which baffles me tbh

kwph

I did ,but I told them I'm on MFP & 2 leave me alone right now

maeld56

Not since I took out the restraining order.......... joking

Iron_Muscle_

Nope. Hmmm?

kwph

4 times 2day!!

projectsix

Not often enough .. Forever alone.

Iron_Muscle_

Bridge_marie wrote: »

ACHynson wrote: »

I get attention from men each time I go out socially (bars, social clubs & events). I'm happily married so it's not for trying.

My friends comment on it a lot, they find it funny but annoying and we've asked male friends about it and their answer is usually along the lines of 'cute & blonde' or having a 'girl next door' look. Not every guy goes for that type.

Things that might help girls (who want to) get hit on:

- Environment! "The club isn't the best place to find a lover so the bar is where I go!" E.S
- Being Blonde
- Having a baby face (genetics)
- Having a small - med build (also partially genetics)
- Don't overdo makeup
- Dress nice/cute but not "sexy" (massive heels and a mini dress might be intimidating?)
- Be cofident, happy and smile
- Don't try

Attraction is shallow but if you're friendly & polite you're more approachable. Whether these men are actually worth your time is another question!!

Any thoughts?

I might agree with the last two. I get hit on all the time and I'm not blonde.... Plus I have a resting B!tch face. I think it really just depends on the person. A pretty face and boobs help too. Also I don't think attraction is shallow... I think it's ok for people to be attracted to each other. If that's what you mean. Lol Btw I don't try to get hit on. It just happens, probably because I'm too friendly and make eye contact.

You probably get hit on all the time because men think your hot

I'd hit on you @Bridge_marie even if I do get shot down.

pudgy1977

I only get hit on by the ones I don't want to hit on me