are looks important to you?

Timshel_

Yes, but no. There is a lot of physical beauty in the world. You can see societies pretty people daily. Hell, i work on a college campus and there are ALWAY amazingly good looking people around. But when it comes to attraction - what really draws me to someone - it is something more and many times is not based on how they look.

laynerich15

Yep but looks without personality is just as bad as personality without looks.

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InspiredFitnessChick

Yes, but no. There is a lot of physical beauty in the world. You can see societies pretty people daily. Hell, i work on a college campus and there are ALWAY amazingly good looking people around. But when it comes to attraction - what really draws me to someone - it is something more and many times is not based on how they look.

I was actually going to say this same thing. As I get older, looks become less important to me. I would rather be with a 6 who will treat me like a queen and be honest, than I would a 10 who is a complete jerk and player.

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miss_jessiejane

Of course. I only date the hottest chicks I can find, I don't care how dumb they are.

eric_sg61

Looks are important, but can be deceiving

Escloflowne

Of course. I only date the hottest chicks I can find, I don't care how dumb they are.

dontdreamit

They're not the most important thing but I'd be lying if I I said they didn't play some role. Looks are what initially attracts me to someone, but at the end of the day what's the point of an attractive face if you don't connect with the person? I know so many people who I didn't think were that attractive initially but the more I got to know them, the more beautiful they became and vice versa.

soberlicious

yes, looks are important but it stands to be said that it all boils down to chemistry. chemistry, i'd say, is the catchall term for physical and mental/emotional attraction. you can be attracted to person A but not person B and person C could be attracted to person B and not person A. all having to do with chemistry..and what one person finds attractive in another vs. the other. just my $.02.

BrainyBurro

yes, looks are important but it stands to be said that it all boils down to chemistry. chemistry, i'd say, is the catchall term for physical and mental/emotional attraction. you can be attracted to person A but not person B and person C could be attracted to person B and not person A. all having to do with chemistry..and what one person finds attractive in another vs. the other. just my $.02.

Myhaloslipped

Yes, but my attraction to someone can grow if they have an awesome personality.

tlcarolinagirl

Of course. I only date the hottest chicks I can find, I don't care how dumb they are.

JENNA MARBLES!!!! :flowerforyou: :flowerforyou:

moya_rargh

Of course. I only date the hottest chicks I can find, I don't care how dumb they are.

Go go Jenna Marbles!!!

tlcarolinagirl

For me, looks are important, but only in that they get you in the door. They won't keep you there. If I can't have easy conversation with you, I don't care how hot you are, I just can't do it. With that said, I have to be physically attracted to you as well. So, there has to be a balance.

miss_jessiejane

Of course. I only date the hottest chicks I can find, I don't care how dumb they are.

EddieHaskell97

To a point...

yo_andi

Yes. I prefer my men to be visible, i.e. have a "look", as opposed to dating the invisible kind, e.g. those without a "look".

Vicxie86

I can become attracted to a person overtime because of their personality but if i don't know you and we're meeting for the first time, then looks do matter up to a certain point.

FoxBean

Attraction is important to me, usually the complete package; have to be physically and mentally attracted to that person. But, someone who has the great personality can be seen as physically attractive, but those who are just physically attractive - can't help much personality wise!

Sinisterly

Of course. I only date the hottest chicks I can find, I don't care how dumb they are.

Holy snaps, she's wearing like two pounds of makeup.

soberlicious

Attraction is important to me, usually the complete package; have to be physically and mentally attracted to that person. But, someone who has the great personality can be seen as physically attractive, but those who are just physically attractive - can't help much personality wise!

^pretty much exactly what i was trying to say but may have butchered

TheRoadDog

I am willing to sacrifice looks for a relaxed moral attitude.

Lil_Northern_Light

The uglier the better. I like a challenge when trying to get an erection.

holy! lol

SwashBlogger

I think being physically attracted to your partner is incredibly important, but I don't think traditional "good looks" are a necessity for physical attraction. There are many things that make someone physically attractive and what is attractive to me may not be attractive to you, and what I find attractive in one person, I would not necessarily find attractive in another person.

What makes someone physically attractive varies wildly from person to person, changes over time, changes with the way you think about that person and is basically impossible to really quantify.

Would someone have to be drop dead gorgeous before I'd date them? No (though luckily my husband is a total hottie) but would I need to be physically attracted to them? Yes. But it isn't necessarily their looks that makes them physically attractive.

Absolutely!