rejected by online soulmate b/c of weight

MyChocolateDiet

wait....

there's more...


how.....


why...

click around there are like 3-4 half threads and rolls. It's crazy.

MyChocolateDiet

for the record! take back everything I said yesterday. ;P After getting so attacked, I thought I would try/attempt the approach laid out by msf74:

"It's quite simple. A man who has his *kitten* together doesn't have to play games. He has high status / value and is therefore naturally attractive. At that point game playing falls away. He calls the next day if he is free and acts with courtesy. A woman doesn't gamble if she has the winning ticket in her grasp... "



my conclusion is that games are retarded.

I even sent a txt after the date:

"Now I can finally say I had dinner with the most beautiful lady on the planet " - scottie
"owwww, you really are a gentleman!! Thank you for being so affection!! And was my pleasure to meet you, I really had a wonderful time tonight!"-M
"Good night Ms.M"-scottie
"Good night!!! "-M


-So I will admit, I was wrong Paige - sending a txt after first dates I guess is actually a gentlemanly thing to do, she specifically said it was lmao.

going over the date:

I was standing by the very expensive restaurant door, (garbed in: ralph lauren jacket, thomas pink tie, Hugo Boss dress shirt - french cuffs, mont blanc cuff links, coach belt, omega watch, armani dress pants, J&M shoes, Mont Blanc pen in dress shirt pocket, cologne: versace eros) and she came up talking on the phone and smiled and kissed me on the cheek... I winked - she was on the phone... -met online so this was the first time we saw eachother - seriously I was stunned, she was dressed up and had obviously taken a great deal of time looking incredible-like me ;P)

go into the restaurant - and she says as we walk to the table that she apologies for being on the phone but she was on the phone with her mother just to be safe, and because her family was worried about her meeting an American man, and she laughed and said she told her mother, father and brothers about me - and 99/100 times this would be my moment to run - instead I said I was flattered (courtesy approach and I felt she was just being so genuine with me it was catchy) and then said "so your accent is not spanish!" what language do you speak? .. "Portuguese" and she was impressed I noticed a difference - I told her actually I couldn't tell a difference, I had my brothers gf from Ecuador attempt to read her FB and she couldn't because it was all in a different language - she was flattered I tried to decipher her stuff.

- I say that meaning typically all of that would be coming on wayyy to strong ever before for me, but she wasn't playing games at all, and was so comfortable in her skin I got to be as well -.. and FYI after the meal, walked her to her car, kissed her on the cheek, she did the same.. smiled and planned out the time and day of our follow up date. - a very very very classy lady.


Whoever said you can't teach a jerk some life-lessons over a forum?!

Thanks for the advice on your parts - despite it being belittling.. if I were to actually finally get into a relationship with a dreamgirl from Brazil from taking it- and all from a random forum - well than FTW!! XD

From the last thread. I don't think it's on the current one.

MyChocolateDiet

for the record! take back everything I said yesterday. ;P After getting so attacked, I thought I would try/attempt the approach laid out by msf74:

"It's quite simple. A man who has his *kitten* together doesn't have to play games. He has high status / value and is therefore naturally attractive. At that point game playing falls away. He calls the next day if he is free and acts with courtesy. A woman doesn't gamble if she has the winning ticket in her grasp... "



my conclusion is that games are retarded.

I even sent a txt after the date:

"Now I can finally say I had dinner with the most beautiful lady on the planet " - scottie
"owwww, you really are a gentleman!! Thank you for being so affection!! And was my pleasure to meet you, I really had a wonderful time tonight!"-M
"Good night Ms.M"-scottie
"Good night!!! "-M


-So I will admit, I was wrong Paige - sending a txt after first dates I guess is actually a gentlemanly thing to do, she specifically said it was lmao.

going over the date:

I was standing by the very expensive restaurant door, (garbed in: ralph lauren jacket, thomas pink tie, Hugo Boss dress shirt - french cuffs, mont blanc cuff links, coach belt, omega watch, armani dress pants, J&M shoes, Mont Blanc pen in dress shirt pocket, cologne: versace eros) and she came up talking on the phone and smiled and kissed me on the cheek... I winked - she was on the phone... -met online so this was the first time we saw eachother - seriously I was stunned, she was dressed up and had obviously taken a great deal of time looking incredible-like me ;P)

go into the restaurant - and she says as we walk to the table that she apologies for being on the phone but she was on the phone with her mother just to be safe, and because her family was worried about her meeting an American man, and she laughed and said she told her mother, father and brothers about me - and 99/100 times this would be my moment to run - instead I said I was flattered (courtesy approach and I felt she was just being so genuine with me it was catchy) and then said "so your accent is not spanish!" what language do you speak? .. "Portuguese" and she was impressed I noticed a difference - I told her actually I couldn't tell a difference, I had my brothers gf from Ecuador attempt to read her FB and she couldn't because it was all in a different language - she was flattered I tried to decipher her stuff.

- I say that meaning typically all of that would be coming on wayyy to strong ever before for me, but she wasn't playing games at all, and was so comfortable in her skin I got to be as well -.. and FYI after the meal, walked her to her car, kissed her on the cheek, she did the same.. smiled and planned out the time and day of our follow up date. - a very very very classy lady.


Whoever said you can't teach a jerk some life-lessons over a forum?!

Thanks for the advice on your parts - despite it being belittling.. if I were to actually finally get into a relationship with a dreamgirl from Brazil from taking it- and all from a random forum - well than FTW!! XD

From the last thread. I don't think it's on the current one.

Still trying to take this to the latest thread, holy thread splits batman, what an ordeal. Scotty I hope this proves how much I love you and our online relationship can last 9 more months and a weight gain of 30 lbs before we meet and you reject me in a dark room to cry alone and for some strange reason not flick on the light switch.

MyChocolateDiet

I GIVE UP!!!!!!!!!!!!! I feel like I"M STUCK IN AN EPISODE OF STAR TREK HOW DO YOU PEOPLE PUT UP WITH THIS STUFF?

I'VE SEEN MODS FIX THIS KIND OF THING WHY ISN'T THAT ABLE TO HAPPEN HERE?

MyChocolateDiet

I tried really hard to bring scotty's apologies from the limbo that is the single page thread rolls in between but had a hard time getting thru all seven levels of hell with the luggage that was his post.

uconnwinsnc

I can has part in dis?

uconnwinsnc

But do you really give up?

MrTolerable

for the record! take back everything I said yesterday. ;P After getting so attacked, I thought I would try/attempt the approach laid out by msf74:

"It's quite simple. A man who has his *kitten* together doesn't have to play games. He has high status / value and is therefore naturally attractive. At that point game playing falls away. He calls the next day if he is free and acts with courtesy. A woman doesn't gamble if she has the winning ticket in her grasp... "



my conclusion is that games are retarded.

I even sent a txt after the date:

"Now I can finally say I had dinner with the most beautiful lady on the planet " - scottie
"owwww, you really are a gentleman!! Thank you for being so affection!! And was my pleasure to meet you, I really had a wonderful time tonight!"-M
"Good night Ms.M"-scottie
"Good night!!! "-M


-So I will admit, I was wrong Paige - sending a txt after first dates I guess is actually a gentlemanly thing to do, she specifically said it was lmao.

going over the date:

I was standing by the very expensive restaurant door, (garbed in: ralph lauren jacket, thomas pink tie, Hugo Boss dress shirt - french cuffs, mont blanc cuff links, coach belt, omega watch, armani dress pants, J&M shoes, Mont Blanc pen in dress shirt pocket, cologne: versace eros) and she came up talking on the phone and smiled and kissed me on the cheek... I winked - she was on the phone... -met online so this was the first time we saw eachother - seriously I was stunned, she was dressed up and had obviously taken a great deal of time looking incredible-like me ;P)

go into the restaurant - and she says as we walk to the table that she apologies for being on the phone but she was on the phone with her mother just to be safe, and because her family was worried about her meeting an American man, and she laughed and said she told her mother, father and brothers about me - and 99/100 times this would be my moment to run - instead I said I was flattered (courtesy approach and I felt she was just being so genuine with me it was catchy) and then said "so your accent is not spanish!" what language do you speak? .. "Portuguese" and she was impressed I noticed a difference - I told her actually I couldn't tell a difference, I had my brothers gf from Ecuador attempt to read her FB and she couldn't because it was all in a different language - she was flattered I tried to decipher her stuff.

- I say that meaning typically all of that would be coming on wayyy to strong ever before for me, but she wasn't playing games at all, and was so comfortable in her skin I got to be as well -.. and FYI after the meal, walked her to her car, kissed her on the cheek, she did the same.. smiled and planned out the time and day of our follow up date. - a very very very classy lady.


Whoever said you can't teach a jerk some life-lessons over a forum?!

Thanks for the advice on your parts - despite it being belittling.. if I were to actually finally get into a relationship with a dreamgirl from Brazil from taking it- and all from a random forum - well than FTW!! XD

From the last thread. I don't think it's on the current one.

Still trying to take this to the latest thread, holy thread splits batman, what an ordeal. Scotty I hope this proves how much I love you and our online relationship can last 9 more months and a weight gain of 30 lbs before we meet and you reject me in a dark room to cry alone and for some strange reason not flick on the light switch.

lmao!!! this was soo thoughtful! lol.

thanks! XD

TX_Rhon

In for round 2..........I mean, I feel I am already emotionally invested so why not........

Kadoober

Oh ye gods...

Thank you for spelling out which designers you wore, and the cologne...

:laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

MrTolerable

Oh ye gods...

Thank you for spelling out which designers you wore, and the cologne...

:laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

perhaps I read too much Brett Easton Ellis growing up? XD XD

"The better you look the more you see" -BEE

MrTolerable

I tried really hard to bring scotty's apologies from the limbo that is the single page thread rolls in between but had a hard time getting thru all seven levels of hell with the luggage that was his post.

LMOA!! XD

..and hear I thought you were being thoughtful!