Being hit on/flirted with?

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karmac0matic
karmac0matic Posts: 285
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How does anyone else feel about it?
I personally hate it.
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  • HerkMeOff
    HerkMeOff Posts: 1,002 Member
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    There is a tactful way to do it.

    Most people, especially around here don't know that way...
  • wheird
    wheird Posts: 7,963 Member
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    It makes me feel special as it rarely happens. It shocked me the first few times that someone found me attractive on here because I had never really heard that before.

    IMO it is nice to go from feeling average-to-not good looking and start feeling like you may be reasonably attractive.
  • Myhaloslipped
    Myhaloslipped Posts: 4,317 Member
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    There is a tactful way to do it.

    Most people, especially around here don't know that way...

    ^This. Depends on who it is and how they do it.
  • salladeve
    salladeve Posts: 1,053 Member
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    Depends on who is doing the flirting and if they are being obnoxious or not.
  • Cranquistador
    Cranquistador Posts: 39,744 Member
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    depends.
  • psych101
    psych101 Posts: 1,842 Member
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    There is a tactful way to do it.

    Most people, especially around here don't know that way...

    haha agree!
  • Madame_Goldbricker
    Madame_Goldbricker Posts: 1,625 Member
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    I'm pretty oblivious to it if it's happening. I just assume folk are being friendly.
  • spirit095
    spirit095 Posts: 1,017 Member
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    I's pretty non-existent in my life right now. I kind of wish it would happen more to me.
  • TheGreatBeyond
    TheGreatBeyond Posts: 125
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    Honestly, I am fairly blunt about things when it comes to that. Sometimes it rubs people the wrong way but I am not one for games and subtleties.
  • karmac0matic
    karmac0matic Posts: 285
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    I mean more the obvious like " I want in your pants" flirting...
    But yeah there are the other flirters who mean no harm and just can't help themselves

    But they don't bother me :)
  • YesIAm17
    YesIAm17 Posts: 817 Member
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    It never stops... I'm just trying to learn to live with the fact that I'm sexy and everyone wants me... it's a hard life.
  • Sinisterly
    Sinisterly Posts: 10,913 Member
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    I am choosing to ignore it and never put my pic up.
  • salembambi
    salembambi Posts: 5,592 Member
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    when they are around my parents age it makes me feel really uncomfortable and I do indeed hate it
  • George_Baileys_Ghost
    George_Baileys_Ghost Posts: 1,524 Member
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    I like it. I grew up with zero confidence. It's kind of nice to think that others see me as something "good" when I so often don't.
  • greeneyes0809
    greeneyes0809 Posts: 422 Member
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    Some guy looked at me today, tootttttallllyyyyy flirting amiright?! Skeeved me out, whatta creep!
  • wheird
    wheird Posts: 7,963 Member
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    I mean more the obvious like " I want in your pants" flirting...
    But yeah there are the other flirters who mean no harm and just can't help themselves

    But they don't bother me :)

    Ahh, well...it is still flattering, but can sometimes be a bit much. I think your reaction depends on how you feel about the other person or not. If it is someone I find attractive it bothers me less than if it is someone I am not attracted to.
  • wheird
    wheird Posts: 7,963 Member
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    I like it. I grew up with zero confidence. It's kind of nice to think that others see me as something "good" when I so often don't.

    So much this.

    P.S, I think you are cute. :flowerforyou:
  • salladeve
    salladeve Posts: 1,053 Member
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    I mean more the obvious like " I want in your pants" flirting...
    But yeah there are the other flirters who mean no harm and just can't help themselves

    But they don't bother me :)

    oh now I get it you're talking about the guys that honk and yell out the window at you when your running.... No to that!
  • craziedazie
    craziedazie Posts: 185 Member
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    I like it. I grew up with zero confidence. It's kind of nice to think that others see me as something "good" when I so often don't.

    Same here
  • George_Baileys_Ghost
    George_Baileys_Ghost Posts: 1,524 Member
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    I like it. I grew up with zero confidence. It's kind of nice to think that others see me as something "good" when I so often don't.

    So much this.

    P.S, I think you are cute. :flowerforyou:

    I want your scruff to be my scruff.

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