Being hit on/flirted with?

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  • ew_david
    ew_david Posts: 3,473 Member
    Soldier_of_fortune, reveal thyself

    Or Ace_of_Spades
  • lisalsd1
    lisalsd1 Posts: 1,519 Member
    I don't directly get hit on...but I do catch men staring at my butt at the gym. They don't realize that I can see what is behind me by looking into the mirror in front of me.

    Personally, I like it, b/c when I catch them...I stare at them staring. It gets kinda awkward sometimes. That's the part I like.
  • HerkMeOff
    HerkMeOff Posts: 1,002 Member
    Soldier_of_fortune, reveal thyself

    Or Ace_of_Spades

    Where is I_Love_to_ride?
  • rayofsunshine2368
    rayofsunshine2368 Posts: 108 Member
    I generally don't mind and never get uncomfortable from it EXCEPT when it's like a super old/creepy/unattractive/dirty/wtfwereyouthinkingtoeventalktome type guy...
    Diddo. I am a people person so flirting is not bad. I am loyal to my husband so hands to self. :-)
  • missyjane824
    missyjane824 Posts: 1,199 Member
    I always assume people who hit on me are trying to sell me something, trying to rob me, or wants me to join their cult.

    me too!
  • pseudomuffin
    pseudomuffin Posts: 1,058 Member
    I like the attention IRL, though I don't lead people on and I always let them down gently.

    Online it creeps me out. At least IRL it takes guts for a guy to hit on you!
  • silencioesoro
    silencioesoro Posts: 318 Member
    I'm dense.

    But it's rather fun when I'm in on it.
  • Junken__Diraffe
    Junken__Diraffe Posts: 102
    Couldn't tell ya. Never happens.
    Lies. I flirty with you on the regular. :love: :flowerforyou: :wink:
  • _Terrapin_
    _Terrapin_ Posts: 4,301 Member
    This post is a sign of lowwwww self estem
    stars are aligned....
  • _Terrapin_
    _Terrapin_ Posts: 4,301 Member
    when they are around my parents age it makes me feel really uncomfortable and I do indeed hate it
    I think it's worse when they're around your kid's age... just sayin... :sick:

    hehehe....UR Purdy.......
  • I_love_to_ride
    I_love_to_ride Posts: 561
    I like getting flirty messages. :)
  • Guns_N_Buns
    Guns_N_Buns Posts: 1,899 Member
    Hey+there....+....You+got+a+Purdy+mouth_ba3960_3636025.jpg
  • HerkMeOff
    HerkMeOff Posts: 1,002 Member
    I like getting flirty messages. :)

    That happen often where you receive them?

    Or are you just the one sending them??

    How does your wife feel about this?
  • kendall916
    kendall916 Posts: 4,222 Member
    In real life: I usually don;t realize until after the moment
    Internet (MFP): I''m thrilled to receive flirty messages and I try to send flirty messages back! :wink:
  • sweetcurlz67
    sweetcurlz67 Posts: 1,168 Member
    What is this "flirt" you are referring to??? :huh:





    :wink: :laugh: :flowerforyou: :love: :heart: :smooched:
  • scout23646
    scout23646 Posts: 4
    I'm oblivious to it....
  • BlackDaisy85
    BlackDaisy85 Posts: 151 Member
    I find it flattering no matter who it comes from
  • VBnotbitter
    VBnotbitter Posts: 820 Member
    Noone ever flirts with me. I'm not sure if its my hair or my tusks that puts them off
  • Robyn7762
    Robyn7762 Posts: 159 Member
    I mean more the obvious like " I want in your pants" flirting...
    But yeah there are the other flirters who mean no harm and just can't help themselves

    But they don't bother me :)

    That is one reason I don't friend men on any of the sites I'm on! You can also if you care to report it to MFP as sexual harassment! This isn't a dating site! LOL! You don't have to put up with this and you shouldn't. I personally would report it!
  • laughingdani
    laughingdani Posts: 2,275 Member
    There is a tactful way to do it.

    Most people, especially around here don't know that way...

    It involves the combination of humor and intelligence.

    Which most people around here are lacking.
  • laughingdani
    laughingdani Posts: 2,275 Member
    I like getting flirty messages. :)

    WHY ARE YOU STILL HERE?!
  • SaintGiff
    SaintGiff Posts: 3,679 Member
    Normally when someone hits on me I hit them back. That's just how I was raised.
  • HerkMeOff
    HerkMeOff Posts: 1,002 Member
    There is a tactful way to do it.

    Most people, especially around here don't know that way...

    It involves the combination of humor and intelligence.

    Which most people around here are lacking.

    How YOU doin??
  • wozkaa
    wozkaa Posts: 224 Member
    When I was younger, I had no idea. A friend of mine had a code word/phrase we agreed on, so she could help me out if she saw someone who was digging me. It kinda helped when we were sober enough to remember it.

    Other times I have wrongly assumed nice guys who were in fact flirting with me, are gay and friendly.

    Bloody hopeless.
  • laughingdani
    laughingdani Posts: 2,275 Member
    There is a tactful way to do it.

    Most people, especially around here don't know that way...

    It involves the combination of humor and intelligence.

    Which most people around here are lacking.

    How YOU doin??

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  • 1990Vmax
    1990Vmax Posts: 3 Member
    I suppose it can get old, looking at you, very pretty, not to flirt. I am old, have been through some things like Gullain-Barre syndrome so I had a little paralysis on the left side my face. I work out, and watch what I eat so I am doing good considering. You have a high class problem. I understand what you are saying though. Gratitude may be practiced. I wish I had your problem. I can't think of the last time that has happened to me, ohhh, about 35 years ago. Just think of a smooth way but not mean, start talking about how your kids were funny today, implicating marriage or a boyfriend. It is a skill that can be developed. Sometimes over the top stuff is just plain rude, feel free to speak your mind in that case. Guys like that are probably too stupid to figure anything else out (sarcasms etc…). You’ll do fine, have a little light fun with it. I see it sometimes at the YMCA, and there is a nice classy way, and bad way. The bad way even turns me off just seeing it. So I do hear you. Take care, From an old fat ugly dog in the Y gym.
  • silver_arrow3
    silver_arrow3 Posts: 1,373 Member
    I mean more the obvious like " I want in your pants" flirting...
    But yeah there are the other flirters who mean no harm and just can't help themselves

    But they don't bother me :)

    That is one reason I don't friend men on any of the sites I'm on! You can also if you care to report it to MFP as sexual harassment! This isn't a dating site! LOL! You don't have to put up with this and you shouldn't. I personally would report it!

    I'd hate to be the dude unlucky enough to hit on you in a bar. "Yes, officer, he offered to buy me a DRINK! Arrest his skeezy, harassing behind!"
  • coretemp
    coretemp Posts: 1,796 Member
    ^ LOL

    when I first made comments in the forums I thought it was fun... until I realized 3/4's of the people on here are married or at least have a significant other! The single vs. married/ s/o perspectives are still amusing enough though to come in and have a look around, LOL
  • thatonegirlwiththestuff
    thatonegirlwiththestuff Posts: 1,171 Member
    Really depends. Creepy mfp message? Go F yourself. At the gym, which I consider my church, also, go f yourself. Harmless, charming flirting in a public place? Fine. Here's the grey area for me: getting hit on in bars or clubs. Usually the guy is much younger and I adore the flattery but then hate having to tell the dude I'm old. :(
  • raindawg
    raindawg Posts: 348 Member
    I mean more the obvious like " I want in your pants" flirting...
    But yeah there are the other flirters who mean no harm and just can't help themselves

    But they don't bother me :)

    That is one reason I don't friend men on any of the sites I'm on! You can also if you care to report it to MFP as sexual harassment! This isn't a dating site! LOL! You don't have to put up with this and you shouldn't. I personally would report it!

    Yes, don't friend us. We're all alike. In fact, if we friend request you should report us.......
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