Being hit on/flirted with?

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  • ew_david
    ew_david Posts: 3,473 Member
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    Soldier_of_fortune, reveal thyself

    Or Ace_of_Spades
  • lisalsd1
    lisalsd1 Posts: 1,520 Member
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    I don't directly get hit on...but I do catch men staring at my butt at the gym. They don't realize that I can see what is behind me by looking into the mirror in front of me.

    Personally, I like it, b/c when I catch them...I stare at them staring. It gets kinda awkward sometimes. That's the part I like.
  • HerkMeOff
    HerkMeOff Posts: 1,002 Member
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    Soldier_of_fortune, reveal thyself

    Or Ace_of_Spades

    Where is I_Love_to_ride?
  • rayofsunshine2368
    rayofsunshine2368 Posts: 108 Member
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    I generally don't mind and never get uncomfortable from it EXCEPT when it's like a super old/creepy/unattractive/dirty/wtfwereyouthinkingtoeventalktome type guy...
    Diddo. I am a people person so flirting is not bad. I am loyal to my husband so hands to self. :-)
  • missyjane824
    missyjane824 Posts: 1,199 Member
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    I always assume people who hit on me are trying to sell me something, trying to rob me, or wants me to join their cult.

    me too!
  • pseudomuffin
    pseudomuffin Posts: 1,058 Member
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    I like the attention IRL, though I don't lead people on and I always let them down gently.

    Online it creeps me out. At least IRL it takes guts for a guy to hit on you!
  • silencioesoro
    silencioesoro Posts: 318 Member
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    I'm dense.

    But it's rather fun when I'm in on it.
  • Junken__Diraffe
    Junken__Diraffe Posts: 102
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    Couldn't tell ya. Never happens.
    Lies. I flirty with you on the regular. :love: :flowerforyou: :wink:
  • _Terrapin_
    _Terrapin_ Posts: 4,301 Member
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    This post is a sign of lowwwww self estem
    stars are aligned....
  • _Terrapin_
    _Terrapin_ Posts: 4,301 Member
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    when they are around my parents age it makes me feel really uncomfortable and I do indeed hate it
    I think it's worse when they're around your kid's age... just sayin... :sick:

    hehehe....UR Purdy.......
  • I_love_to_ride
    I_love_to_ride Posts: 561
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    I like getting flirty messages. :)
  • Guns_N_Buns
    Guns_N_Buns Posts: 1,899 Member
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    Hey+there....+....You+got+a+Purdy+mouth_ba3960_3636025.jpg
  • HerkMeOff
    HerkMeOff Posts: 1,002 Member
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    I like getting flirty messages. :)

    That happen often where you receive them?

    Or are you just the one sending them??

    How does your wife feel about this?
  • kendall916
    kendall916 Posts: 4,222 Member
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    In real life: I usually don;t realize until after the moment
    Internet (MFP): I''m thrilled to receive flirty messages and I try to send flirty messages back! :wink:
  • sweetcurlz67
    sweetcurlz67 Posts: 1,168 Member
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    What is this "flirt" you are referring to??? :huh:





    :wink: :laugh: :flowerforyou: :love: :heart: :smooched:
  • scout23646
    scout23646 Posts: 4
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    I'm oblivious to it....
  • BlackDaisy85
    BlackDaisy85 Posts: 151 Member
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    I find it flattering no matter who it comes from
  • VBnotbitter
    VBnotbitter Posts: 820 Member
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    Noone ever flirts with me. I'm not sure if its my hair or my tusks that puts them off
  • Robyn7762
    Robyn7762 Posts: 159 Member
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    I mean more the obvious like " I want in your pants" flirting...
    But yeah there are the other flirters who mean no harm and just can't help themselves

    But they don't bother me :)

    That is one reason I don't friend men on any of the sites I'm on! You can also if you care to report it to MFP as sexual harassment! This isn't a dating site! LOL! You don't have to put up with this and you shouldn't. I personally would report it!
  • laughingdani
    laughingdani Posts: 2,275 Member
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    There is a tactful way to do it.

    Most people, especially around here don't know that way...

    It involves the combination of humor and intelligence.

    Which most people around here are lacking.

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